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1954
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2014
Gary Pyne Obituary
He was born in San Francisco to Greta & Frank Pyne. Gary married Linda 9/1/85 in Tahoe & worked at Eugene Commercial Property Mgmt. He is survived by his wife; daughters Laura Grow & Harla Cooper; sister Karen Olson (Todd); brother Craig Pyne (Lauren); granddaughters Kayla, Hailey, Christa, Juliana & Monae; great-granddaughter Kyani. Leaving behind his mother Greta "Nalani" Barber & step-father Gerald Barber.
Gary was dearly loved by his family. All who knew him loved him for his warm & caring personality, sense of humor, & high standard of principles. He will be remembered for the twinkle in his eyes, and missed by all! Aloha to a true Hawaiian local boy.
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Karen
August 17, 2023
Remembering Gary today on what would have been his 69th birthday. Forever in our hearts
Craig, Lauren, Jessica, and Theresa
February 7, 2023
Still think about you often after all these years. We still miss you just as much. Still missing all the good times we had together. Love Craig, Lauren, Jessica, and Theresa
Lauren Pyne
February 11, 2021
Gary was such a wonderful person with a kind spirit. We miss your smile & your caring personality.
Lauren, Craig, Jessi & Theresa.
Karen
February 9, 2021
It's been 7 years without your light in this world. You are so missed by so many. In our hearts forever!
Laura Grow
February 8, 2021
Words can’t even describe how much I miss you! And now you have Lin and Harla with you. Just know I love you Dad and your in my thoughts every day. XOXOXO
Tim Breen
February 7, 2021
Gary- what a personality you had! 7 years on, and I still think of you so fondly. :) The infectious smile, the laugh that came from inside, and the no nonsense attitude of what is right. Thank you for all the hearts you have touched, and how deeply you touched mine.
Peace
Tim
It was a beautiful Aloha send off for Gary
Karen
May 18, 2014
Harla and Mom
March 14, 2014
Gary with Mom, Karen & Craig
March 14, 2014
March 13, 2014
Just one of his hospital stays!
March 13, 2014
March 13, 2014
March 12, 2014
Gary & daughter Laura Anne
March 12, 2014
Young Gary with sister Karen and baby brother Craig
March 12, 2014
Gary's family a few years back
March 12, 2014
Gary with his dad
March 12, 2014
Surrounded by plumerias
March 9, 2014
Jeffery Brown
March 5, 2014
Gary was a great friend and a diligent and caring building manager. I loved living in the Lane Tower because Gary made it such a welcoming place. He knew everyone's name, which apartment they were in, what was going on in their lives, what they drove... He genuinely cared for each and every one of us. I'm so astonished and shocked at his passing that I'm scarcely able to find the words. He will be missed.
Mark & Susan Noah
March 3, 2014
We've lived next door for years and Gary was always smiling, always friendly, always had time for a few words. Aloha, Gary. It was good to know you.
Diane Gruber
March 3, 2014
Oh, Nalani! I am so sorry. Call me if you want to talk.
Diane
Harla Cooper
March 2, 2014
Gary was my dad, not because he had to be, but because he chose to be. He loved me, protected me, and was always there for me when I needed him... even when I didn't deserve it! He was the most thoughtful person ever, when my daughter ended up in the hospital he contacted a local MC to pay her a visit because he couldn't from Oregon. That's the kind of AWESOME guy my dad was. He taught me my work ethic, about honor, respect, and being responsible... mostly he taught me about unconditional love. You are gonna be missed so much pops, the world will be one star less bright, but there is comfort in knowing you are no longer suffering. I love you always and forever XOXOX
March 2, 2014
March 2, 2014
The meaning of Aloha
March 2, 2014
Young man of the hour
March 2, 2014
Gary and his family
March 2, 2014
Patti Bird
February 27, 2014
Everyone experiences some very weird things in their life that blows out your heart into many pieces and you just have to try to bring each piece back one at a time. I'm here if you need to talk.
Maxine Davies
February 25, 2014
Oh Nalani, I am so very sorry to hear this.
It is the most difficult thing in the world to lose a child. I know! It is so easy to say standard things like, "time will heal: "God is with you". At the moment, your heart is breaking and nothing helps.
Grief comes in periods and it will guide you thru them. You will NEVER forget him, or totally get over this loss.
My heart goes out to you. Love, Max
Monica Barber
February 25, 2014
I'm so sorry. Is thhere anything I can do? My prayers are with you. I know this will be a difficult time for you so please let me help if I can. Much love. Monica
Cynthia Halstrom
February 25, 2014
Oh, I am so sorry, Nalani. The grief can be overwhelming, I know. Healing takes time--I will be praying for you.
Carol Story
February 25, 2014
Nalani, No words can express how I feel about your loss and no words can help you or your family at this tragic time. I only hope that God gives you the strength to get through this. Just know that you are in my prayers and I love you my dearest friend. I am so, so sorry
Fely Ordonez
February 25, 2014
I AM SO SORRY to HEAR. WHAT HAPPENED!
Jeanie Sewell
February 24, 2014
Nalani, Please feel free to call me if you need to talk, or let me know if there is anything I can do for you to ease your pain.
God Bless...
Your Step-father / Jerry Barber
February 24, 2014
Gary, you were a fine and honest young man when we met. When I came into the family as your step-father, I was always greeted with a big hug and treated with respect.
Ever since I have known you, as a son, there was never a time you didn't send flowers to your mom for her birthday, Christmas or Mother's Day. That was the thoughtful, loving son you were!
Your phone calls on YOUR birthday wishing your mom "Happy Birth Day" always made her smile.
We will all miss you but know you are at peace in God's loving care. Love from...
Alexander C
February 24, 2014
Gary frequently greeted me as 'little brother', and one time jokingly introduced me to a coworker as his son. Remembering this always puts a big smile on my face because Gary really did make me feel like family.
Gary's warm smile and genuine kindness will be fondly remembered, and he will always remain in our hearts.
Maueen Eldridge
February 24, 2014
I am so sorry. Any loss is so difficult but the loss of a child is so much more.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Debbie Adminson
February 24, 2014
Nalani, My heart breaks for you. I do not know why people have to get cancer and suffer. I am so very very sorry. No mother should have to lose a child. I am not going to tell you it gets easier because it does not. I just keep taking it one day at a time As bad as it is I have to remember that there are still beautiful things. I am not going to tell you it gets easier because it does not. I just keep taking it one day at a time As bad as it is I have to remember that there are still beautiful things. Wish I did not live so far away, I would be there in a minute. Just know that I am thinking of you and if I can help in any way, please let me know
Do not let people tell you what to do or how you should feel. Take it one minute at a time and do what feels right to you.
Sally Blanchard
February 24, 2014
Dear Nalani,
I am so sorry to hear this very sad news about your son, Gary. You have my deepest sympathy
Patricia and Michael Miragliotta
February 24, 2014
Please know that you are in our hearts. I wish there was something we could do to help. Our thoughts and prayers are and will continue to be with you.
Sketch by his talented mother-in-law
February 24, 2014
Gary's riding daya
February 24, 2014
Local boy Kanoa
February 24, 2014
Your loving mother Greta/Nalani Barber
February 22, 2014
Gary was not only my son but my friend. I thank you a thousand times for all the love, gratitude and sunshine which you brought into the lives you touched; especially mine from the day you were born. The sweet, kind and loving child who became the same thoughtful and caring man! The sadness I feel is not only for myself but for the family and friends Gary left behind.. I want t o thank all of you for expressing your love for my son Gary. Eventually, we will recover from the shock of losing him but his memory will live on like a bright star above.
You are now out of your suffering and unbearable pain my sweet son. Rest in Peace! You will always be close to my heart. A hui hou...me ke aloha pau`ole!!!
Gary 's Mother
February 22, 2014
A mother never wants to outlive her own child.
Colleen Darroch & Family
February 21, 2014
As a homage to Gary Pyne, we praise his personal strength and love for eah of his loved ones. That was reflected daily in his seven (7) year battle against a terrible illness that took so much from a young man! No one knew how much he suffered with his continual brave front,
Gary was sweet as a child, sweet as a boy and sweet, loyal, brave and kind as a man.
Now it's your time dear Gary. to continue through eternity, to serve without pain as Guardian Angel to the ones you love so dearly!
Craig Pyne
February 21, 2014
I'll miss my big brother and role model,the Hawaiian Lion. I was supposed to become a rock star and buy him his Indian(and a knuckle head too). Well, I guess life turns out different than anything we can imagine. I can still hear his voice, saying "Peace". I hope he is experiencing the peace that he always wished for everyone else. Aloha Gary (goodbye and I love you)
lauren yne
February 21, 2014
I meet Gary 24 years ago when I married his brother Craig. I always remembered him as a very accepting, sweet, gentle man. He always listened & spoke honestly from the heart. We will miss him greatly for who he was & glad we got to spend time with him. May he rest in peace.
Pam
February 20, 2014
I haven't been in contact with Gary for many years but, based on the comments I've read, he never stopped being the awesome guy I remember. Rest in piece.
Guy Gregory
February 18, 2014
Gary, thank you for all you've done for us. I will miss your smily face and sunny optimism as you greeted me every morning. Because of you, I found a new home when I moved here to begin a new chapter in my life. I'm going to miss seeing you. The spirit of your optimism will always fill this home we call Lane Tower. Aloha, Gary!
February 18, 2014
May this promise at Isaiah 57:15 comfort your family.
Kayla Burke
February 17, 2014
My papa was an amazing person, he always had a huge smile on his face when I walked in the door. I remember a few years back me my mom and sisters surprised him on Father's Day . My Grammy made sure they were out that day so we could sneak in & surprise him. My papas smile was priceless ! I wish I could have came up more to visit <\3 you will always be in my heart and mind papa! I love you and miss you more everyday! I hope you are at peace in heaven watching over me and my daughter, your great granddaughter <3 I love you forever and always papa!
Laura (Pyne) Grow
February 17, 2014
You will forever be in my heart and i will think about you every day for the rest of my life. RIP dad!!!
Carol Stor
February 17, 2014
RIP Gary. Such a terrible loss to his friends and family. I have known Gary's mother for over 40 years as one of my dearest friends. My heart and prayers go out to his mother Nalani and the family.
June L
February 17, 2014
A true Warrior has left us.
Rest in peace dear heart,,,you will be missed.
Beryl Hopkins
February 16, 2014
I will always remember Gary, he will always be in my heart. Beryl
Todd Olson
February 16, 2014
I have the blessing and honor to have married his little sister, Karen. Gary was the first one to welcome me to the family with a big warm smile and a handshake. I think that was the only handshake I got from him, after that it was always a big warm hug.
We love you and will miss you deeply Bro!
Karen (Pyne) Olson
February 16, 2014
Gary was my big brother. He did normal big brother stuff, but if anyone else tried to mess with me, they better watch out! He was a good protector. I will miss him very much! His huge heart, his laugh, the twinkle in his eyes and just him. His Hawaiian name is Kanoa which means free spirit. He was, and is, a free spirit, and is also now free from his pain. I love you Bro! Aloha 'oe, A hui hou, malama pono oe, ko'u aloha pau 'ole!
Lane Tower Resident
February 16, 2014
I will never forget Gary. He has impacted my life in the two years I have had the privilege to be surrounded by his presence. Gary was always so thoughtful and kind, always looking out for others. Gary has inspired me with his kindness, and that will last a lifetime.
Bobby and Bob Jones
February 15, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Irma Solis
February 15, 2014
Gary was such an amazing person. One of the first people my husband and I met in Eugene, he was a great apartment manager and made our time in Eugene very pleasant. I'm deeply saddened to hear of his passing and am sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers to his family through this difficult time. He is gone but definitely not forgotten. May you rest in peace Gary.
Love,
The Solis Family
Eric, Irma and Tlalli
Dave and Betsy Martin
February 15, 2014
We will always remember Gary, our brother-in-law, as a strong, kind, warrior and protector
Adi Hernandez
February 15, 2014
I knew Gary since I was 13 years old, I am now 27. He gave me my first job cleaning at river town apt. He was uncle Gary to me. He was at my college graduation. Gary was a great and kind person, who always had a smile and a hug for me. I will miss you, see you on the other side, love always-Adi
celia hernandez
February 15, 2014
I worked with Gary for over 10 years, he was a wonderful, friendly person who me and my family enjoyed spending time with as well. We would all get together and watch boxing matches, he especially liked it when I would cook some carne asada! We will always remember him for the awesome person he was.
February 15, 2014
Gary was my cousin. I knew him briefly when I was much younger. He was family regardless of how well I knew him. I'm sure he will be missed and my condolences go out to his family.
Jack & Carol Pyne
February 14, 2014
We will treasure the memory of our lunch with Gary,Karen,and Greta a few years ago & our email communications with the family since that time. All our love to you all.
Don Henry
February 14, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about Gary, he was my cousin and I haven't seen him for about 40 years. My condolences go out to his Family and friends. Rest in lease Gary.
You will be missed Gary!!!
Gary Carter
February 14, 2014
I also work for Eugene Commercial Property Management, I didn't work with him but Manage another property and would run in to him now and then i always enjoyed his company! he always seemed happy. It was always great to see him at manager meetings.
Debra Both
February 14, 2014
Nalani & Jerry, I am so sorry for you loss. As we say in Israel, "Hamakom yenachem etchem b'toch she'ar aveilei tzion v'yerushalayim" -- "May G-d comfort you, together with all mourners of Zion and Jerusalem."
Evelyn Davis
February 14, 2014
Looking at this picture of Gary makes me remember the day in the 1970's when we spent a day at the park in Oakland. He was such a warm, loving, sweet child. We all had fun feeding the ducks. He is still alive in my heart. He is now at Peace with our Heavenly Father. Rest in Peace Gary.
Evelyn Davis
Gerri Martin
February 13, 2014
Rest in peace!
Gerri Martin
February 13, 2014
I have known Gary from the age of eight years old until now. Because of my love and sisterhood with his mom,he was my 2nd son. I will miss his warm smile and his loving heart and soul. Like the warm waves of Hawaii, and a kiss from my lips...Aloha oe, A hui hou, Me ke aloha pau`ole sweet Gary!
Monique Paladeni
February 13, 2014
Gary was the epitome of pure. His kindness, warmth and love permeated whatever space he was occupying. His grace and demeanor elevated the expectation of mankind. Anyone that was fortunate enough to have crossed his path in this life will never forget him. He is loved and missed beyond words.
Carol Petersen
February 13, 2014
I worked with Gary for a few years. He was the very best in integrity, heart and soul. Always helpful. He is Dear to both my husband and my hearts.
February 13, 2014
Our hearts go out to Gary's family. He was an extraordinary, kind and wonderful man with an outlook and spirit we will always try to emulate. We will treasure the memory of his friendship forever.
~ The Birr Clan
John Zuber
February 13, 2014
I've only known Gary 6 months or so through our mutual work at ECPM. I always looked forward to stopping by Lane Towers and having a cup of coffee with him; he always brighten up my day and he will be greatly missed.
Mark Winstead
February 13, 2014
My condolences to the friends and family of Gary. He helped me grow my business and I have never again encountered a person with his honesty, integrity and work ethic. I think of him often.
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