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Fred DeSmith Obituary

Fred DeSmith was an extraordinary man: open-minded, selfless, loyal, loving, and kind. He was born Frederick William DeSmith on September 5, 1947, in Loveland, Colorado. He was a proud member of the Loveland High School Class of 65. He was a great adventurer: an Eagle Scout, a Peace Corps Volunteer from 1970 to 1973 in Ecuador, a hard-rock miner for two years in Leadville, Colorado, and a world traveler. He was a professional drummer, a fisherman, tennis player, hiker, biker, and an avid motorcycle enthusiast. Fred had a master's degree from the LSU School of Social Welfare and worked as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in services to children and their families. We lost Fred to heart failure on Saturday, January 13, 2024. He was a resident of Mandeville, Louisiana since 1982. Fred is survived by his loving family: his wife of 37 years, Elaine Wiltse DeSmith; his children, Cal and Nina DeSmith, and his foster daughter Tiffany Barton (Michelle Hall) and grandson Riley Barton; his sisters, Gerry Gentry and Julie DeSmith (Jackie Parker). He was preceded in death by his parents William and Geraldine DeSmith and his sisters Mary Decker (Darryl) and Kathy DeSmith (Kate Hendren).

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Published by Loveland Reporter-Herald on Feb. 4, 2024.

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Jerry Lewis

January 26, 2025

Sorry to hear that we have lost another mate but on for a short time, we are on this journey for a short period of time then we will all be back together for eternity, Fred is now enjoying his reward

Henri,Kevin and Lionel

February 14, 2024

Oh dear Fred,we loved you.You were Lionel's drumming mentor.The perfect,calm,ever patient match for Lionel.You gave up your Sanger matinee ticket to be sure Lionel would be able to drum in the Push Mow Parade.I cried such tears of joy to see and hear Lionel rounding the corner but when I saw Fred at Lionel's side ,knowing that he had plans elsewhere, I could barely contain myself.Thank you Fred for being there for all of us.

David Bickmeier

February 13, 2024

I'm sorry to hear of Fred's passing. I enjoyed his company a few years back on a motorcycle tour of the Ecuadorian Andes.

Thomas W. Catchpole

February 10, 2024

So sorry to hear this sad news. Fred was in our 1970 training for the US Peace Corps in Melville, Montana before we served in the Peace Corps in Ecuador. Fred did some amazing things and will be missed.

Kate Hendren

February 6, 2024

What a loving pair!

Jerry Lewis

February 3, 2024

Elaine sounds like you had a gem of a husband not everyone can be like that or talk about like that, a rare person to find and an absolute pleasure to keep even though I´ve never met him I can see him in your words what a wonderful person he was and a joy to be around.
Jerry P. Lewis

Yvette

February 3, 2024

One of the most beautiful obituaries I have ever read. He was surely a special man.
Yvette

Dawn

February 1, 2024

As I am sure many others do, I cry each time of think of Fred no longer being of this world. I had the privilege of knowing his man for many, many years, as he was the husband of my very oldest friend. I loved him not just because of the man he was but because he made Elaine so very happy ... he completed her in ways that are so rarely encountered. His obituary is not an exaggeration, if anything, it is a bit understated (as he would prefer). I loved him and will miss him with all my heart. The world is just a little darker without his light shining, although I know it is shining on all of from above now.

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