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Frederick "Rick" Tanner

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Frederick "Rick" Tanner obituary, 1944-2013

Frederick Tanner Obituary

Frederick "Rick" Tanner

March 2, 1944

January 14, 2013

Our world is a lesser place with the loss of Frederick "Rick" Tanner, who died peacefully at his home on January 14, 2013. He was born March 2, 1944 in Altadena, California.

Rick was a most unusual sort of a guy, attending Flintridge Prep School, graduating from the University of California, Sant Barbara with a degree in History and attaining his Master of Business Administration in International Business from the University of California, Los Angeles. And what was his line of work? Furniture Restoration.

Rick had to be the most educated, professional furniture restorer in the State of Nevada, but he liked working with his hands, he enjoyed the artistic challenge of restoring furniture, and he really enjoyed meeting the flow of new people who frequented his shop-which was his garage.

For years Rick hosted a group of eight to ten men. Various professionals made up the group-a pair of judges, a medical doctor and a sprinkling of psychologists. It was the kind of group where "How are you?" was a serious greeting and question, not a platitude. It was a well-read group, and books were a favorite topic. The best-read man in the group-by far-was Rick Tanner. His television fare seemed to be book shows, political discussions and various documentaries. He wasn't the kind of intellectual that intimidated, though, he was the kind you liked to be around, because he knew so darn much. (I so wish he were reading this.) Curiously (and arguably), Rick proved to be the Alpha member of this distinguished group.

The group met monthly for dinner at Rick's house, and Rick's talent in the kitchen encouraged attendance. Rick was a very capable epicure, creating his own dishes, as often as not. Barbequed Chicken al Carbon, served in his tumbled and tree- limbed back yard, was a Summer favorite.

There is a difference between speaking honestly and speaking bluntly, but Rick managed to combine the two to a remarkable degree. If you were advancing some kind of opinion in Rick's presence you would get back an answer or observation that either questioned or affirmed your position to a degree that you had not thought possible. He was so articulate.

Rick was totally devoted to his dogs. He was a total animal lover and particularly cared for an irascible Jack Russell terrier named Daisy. Employees of the Regional Animal Control picked up Daisy, one day, and kept her locked up. Seems as though Daisy, over the while, had bitten six people and, according to the law, was due to be euthanized. Rick and his friends organized a public protest, attracting both a pro bono private investigator and lawyer-and television cameras. Daisy was ultimately released.

"Oh man she's the greatest, she's my pal," said Rick. "She was just being a Jack Russell."

Rick is survived by his children, Patrick Tanner and Carolyn "Lina" Tanner, the mother of his children, Karen Boeger, grand daughter Ruby Tanner, twin sister, Teresa Bettencourt, younger sister Mary Tanner and brother-in-law Duncan Reed. He was predeceased by his father, Frederick Tanner, Jr., Mother, Bette Burrows Tanner and grandson Tanner Thomas Jensen.

A service of remembrance will be held at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader on Jan. 27, 2013.

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Jon McCreary

February 2, 2013

To Patrick and all the family, I am sorry that Rick has passed.

Caryl Hurd Larva

January 30, 2013

I was blessed to have Rick in my life. He made it richer, happier, funny, memorable and special. He was always in my heart of hearts. To Patrick, Caroline, Karen and family members, I send my sincerest condolences and offer of help in any way possible. Please take care of each of you always. Love, Caryl Hurd Larva

Steve Bloomfield

January 29, 2013

I met Rick in 1979, one of my first and longest friends in. Reno. We met at a Men's Group and over the next 33 years skied, biked, hiked , ate ate ate, drank and talked and argued about books, movies, we saw a lot of movies together, and POLITICS. He was bright, well read and a man of DEFINITE opinions. I'm already missing those coffees at Bibo. I' m richer for having him in my life and getting to know and Love Karen and Lina and Patrick and Tanner and Ruby and Mary who he brought into my life. Not a man I will ever forget.

Delcina King Cunico

January 28, 2013

I was very saddened to read about your brother's passing, Mary. I remember meeting him at your house and he was so full of life and full of big smiles. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

High School Photo

January 28, 2013

January 28, 2013

We weren't always friends. I must have been 10 & he 16 when, after being locked in the family station wagon for 24 hrs on a vacation to Colorado, We started making faces at each other and laughing for hours. After this intellectual awakening we be came fast friends to the end. Freddy is and will remain my dearest and oldest friend.

Mary Tanner

Marla Painter

January 28, 2013

I will never forget the day Rick came to rescue me at the Reno airport parking lot. Dead battery, everyone else at work. Here comes Rick in an old banged up truck and a smile on his face. My favorite memory of him.

Jon Deisher

January 27, 2013

I knew Rick during my University years at UNR in the early to mid '70s. We spent hours of conversation and backpacked in the Sierra Nevadas ... my condolences to his son Patrick and daughter Caroline, whom I remember well as children. Rick was the kind of man for whom distance and time did not diminish friendship. The world is lesser for his having left us ... the problem is, most of the world doesn't know of their loss. This is sad news. Be at peace, brother ...

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