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Bennett Croy Obituary

Bennett James (Benny) Croy, 53, of Salem, Va., went to be with the Lord on Sunday, December 28, 2008, after a long and courageous battle with cancer. He was born on April 8, 1955, in Bluefield, W.Va., the son of the late Brady Junior Croy and Lillian Quesenberry Croy. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his wife of 28 years, Nina Carter Croy. His surviving family are his two brothers, Jimmie Croy, and George Croy and wife, Elaine, both of Salem; five sisters, Geri Croy Winston and husband, Jack, Mary Croy Meador, Carolyn Croy Underwood and husband, Donnie, Barbara Croy Williams and husband, Calvin, all of Salem, and Oveta Croy Gharaibeh, of Roanoke; brothers-in-law and wives, Tommy Carter and wife, Maxine, of Narrows and James Carter and wife, Della, of Roanoke; two sisters-in-law and husbands, Betty Ann Reece and husband, Bobby, of Salem, and Emma Williams and husband, Bryan, of Hampton; stepdaughter, Lashell Fink; granddaughters, Chelsie Fink and Jessica Fink Ransome and husband, Lee; greatgranddaughter, Kaydence Ransome; many nieces and nephews; and very special friends, Bob and Barbara Pollard. Benny was most recently a Ruan driver for 10 years, he drove for Moore's for three years and had his own truck for two years and was a senior driver for Roanoke Restaurant Service for 20 years. The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to all the staff of the sixth floor Lewis-Gale Medical Center, especially Lynn, hospice nurses, Linda and Dee Dee, and special thanks to Dr. Karri. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 p.m. and from 6 to 8 p.m. on Tuesday, December 30, 2008, at John M. Oakey and Son Funeral Home in Salem. Services will be held 1 p.m. on Wednesday, December 31, 2008, in the John M. Oakey Chapel with the Rev. Gary Butcher officiating. Interment will follow at Blue Ridge Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the American Cancer Society. Benny will be remembered by his family and friends as a kind and caring man with a heart of gold.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Dec. 29 to Dec. 30, 2008.

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Emily and Cindy (Collins)

January 8, 2009

I was very sorry to hear of Bennys passing. I was a nurse on the 6th floor at LGMC when Nina was sick. Also my mother Cindy knew the Croy family as well. I can honestly say that in my time on 6west I was truly blessed to get to see such a loving and devoted couple. Benny was amazing in the face of such hard times. My mother and I pray that you will all find peace and comfort in knowing that they are together again.

Dell & Jeanie Dickerson

January 3, 2009

We're sorry we couldn't be at the services. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time.

Butch Conner

January 1, 2009

We are so very sorry for your loss.
Butch and Barbars Conner

Kim (Nunley) Sweeney & Kevin Nunley

December 31, 2008

Our deepest sympathy for the Croy family who have been throught alot. We know your pain of losing a loved one and pray that God comforts you during this difficult time. Benny was a great guy and we had lots of fun growing up with him! He will be missed. He is now in heaven with our brother and we know that they are happy and at piece. Memories will keep you going and help heal the pain in your heart.

Sandra Bell

December 31, 2008

Our deepest sympathy is extended to the Croy family at this very difficult time. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with the family. It had been many years since I had spoken with anyone from the Croy family, when I started working with Danielle I learned "Black Jack" and "Lil" were Danielle's grandparents - which gave me the opportunity to share a few "stories" of her grandpa and my Dad, Ralph Thompson aka: RoHo.

Please know our condolences are with Bennie's entire family.

Ronnie and Sandra Thompson Bell

Martha Ferguson

December 31, 2008

Geri,
I was sorry to read about Bennie's death at such a young age. I sure miss seeing you and your family since I left SunTrust at Spartan Square but I am now at the Towers Mall Office!

Kimberly Croy

December 30, 2008

Dear Family,
I am sincerely sorry to hear about Uncle Benny. Unfortunately, I will not be able to make it home for the service, but my thoughts and prayers are with you all. He was always very kind to me and Elizabeth when we were kids and we have so many happy memories of growing up beside him and Aunt Nina...I'll never forget his laugh and always remember his smile! Please send my love to everyone...

Love,
Kimberly

ronda crawford hawks

December 30, 2008

Croy family i have know ya for a long time and i am so sorry about benny he was adear friend and GOD needed one more angel to help him out my prayers and thoughts are with ya.love ronda crawford hawks

Claudia (Sissy) (Oliver )Clingenpeel

December 30, 2008

Lashell I am so sorry to hear of you losing Benny. I met you & Nina & Benny back in 1976 when I moved to Roanoke. My name is "Sissy" I married an "Oliver".I remember Benny was such a kind man & always made you feel at home. He was that "cool grown up" kids liked to be around. It has been many years since I last saw or was able to speak to you since you grew up. Please know I have never forgotten you as being my first "Friend" in Roanoke. Praying for you & the family at this time. Be strong little "Shell".

Rosamary(Boley)Purpura and Butch Boley

December 29, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Pam & Bill Davis

December 29, 2008

Jeri,
We are so sorry to hear about Benny! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sherry Clemmons

December 29, 2008

You fought a good fight and now you are being rewarded in Heaven with Aunt Nina!! We will miss you! With love, your niece.
Sherry & Oron Clemmons

Charlene (Fagg) Walton

December 29, 2008

Our prayers are with all of Benny's family. We are so sorry for your loss.

Tammy Pilot

December 29, 2008

You are a peace and with Nina in heaven. We love you and will miss you very much.
Your niece and family,
Tammy and Jay Pilot

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