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Darrell Dalton Obituary

Darrell R. Dalton Sr., 70, formerly of Pulaski, passed away on Monday, October 24, 2011. He was a United States Navy Veteran having served on the USS Essex Aircraft Carrier from 1960 to 1966. He later retired from the Radford Army Ammunition Plant in 1999, after 33 years of faithful service. Darrell was a faithful, loving, and devoted husband, father, and grandfather who will surely be missed. Preceding him in death were his parents, Earnest and Elsie Dalton; brothers, Bernard Dalton, Billy Dalton, Jimmy Dalton, and Danny Dalton; and sister, Ruth Prince. His surviving family includes his wife, Joanne Dalton; sons, Darrell Dalton Jr. and wife, Karina, of Richmond, and Ricky Dalton and wife, Suzie, of Roanoke; daughters, Karen Tuggle and husband, Gerald, of Greensboro, N.C., Darlene West and husband, Steve, of Lake Anna, Va., and Tamie Handwerk and husband, Ron, of Baltimore, Md.; brothers, Roger Dalton and wife, Patty, and Randall Dalton and wife, Sandra, all of West Virginia; nine grandchildren, one great-grandson; and numerous nieces and nephews. A period of visitation will be held on Thursday, October 27, 2011, from 6 to 8 p.m. in the John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home in Salem. A funeral service will be held on Friday, October 28, 2011, at 2 p.m. in the funeral home's chapel. Entombment will follow at Sherwood Memorial Park. Pastor Brad Lewis will officiate. In lieu of flowers, please consider contributions in Darrell's name to the American Cancer Society at 2840 Electric Road Suite 106 in Roanoke, VA 24018. Online condolences to the family may be made at www.johnmoakey.com. The Dalton family is being served by

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Published by Roanoke Times on Oct. 27, 2011.

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Kathleen Moore

November 25, 2012

Joanne and Family,

Darrell was a very special person, friend, and neighbor to Nick and I. Whatever Darrell did was special and he did it very well. I know that is why GOD called him on. Nick and I brought our homes in Myrtle Beach at the same time and moved in the same time. We hit if off as if we had known each other for years. Nick and I were blessed to have Darrell and Joanne four years,for our neighhbors. It really seemed like 20 years. We had so much fun living together for a short time. When we met the children for the first time, it was love at first site. We bonded so well, that when Darrell and Joanne told Nick and I they were moving there was tears of sadness. I could go on and on, but I know that Darrell is in a better place and Nick and I will see him someday.

Love to Joanne and Family and my GOD continue to Bless each one of you always.

Nicholas and Kathleen
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

Stacey Wright

November 11, 2011

Darrell was a great man, a great husband to Joanne, a great father to his children and great friend to so many. I am thankful and grateful for the time I was able to spend with him over the years. I will miss the laughter and the fun that we always had anytime we were together. You will be missed greatly but never forgotten. Rest in peace. Stacey

Steve West

November 6, 2011

Darrell...I want to thank you for being a great Father In-law to me. Saying goodbye to you was like saying goodbye to my own dad. I will always remember our talks by your bedside, thanking you for Darlene and for loving Leann. I will forever remember what a kind and giving man you were, always putting your family first. I hope you know what an inspiration you were to your family...because of you, they have good morals, family values and most of all family love. I will always remember our family vacations and trips to the beach but most of all I will remember your smile and the way you loved to have fun! Rest in peace. Steve

November 6, 2011

Darrell, the love of my life...I know you are in a better place, with no more pain. I am so lost and empty without you. You are everywhere in the house...a constant reminder of life without you. I love you so much and miss you so much!! You were too young to leave us! I know we will meet up again one day...Rest in Peace. All My Love, Joanne

The Guilliams Gang

November 5, 2011

Keeping The Dalton Gang in our thoughts and prayers.

November 5, 2011

What I will remember the most is what a generous person you were. Thank you for all the help around the house, from building a deck, finishing off the basement, and installing the impossible lamp post. You always had time to explain something or give advice on how to do projects. You had a rare gift that allowed you to talk to others and make instant friends. Thank you for all you did. And thank you for the biggest gift of all which was when you said “yes” to whether or not I could have your daughter's hand in marriage. For that I am eternally grateful. Rest in peace. Love and miss you! Ron

charis hasson

November 5, 2011

darrell, ricie and i will miss you so very much.

November 5, 2011

Dear Darrell,
I want to thank you for being my father for all these years having lost my dad to cancer. Having you in my life filled the void and the hole that was left in my heart. You were the most giving person I ever met and you made me and Amanda feel like a part of your family from the first day you met us, that always made me feel special. Thanks for all the help and guidance you provided, you will be missed and our family will not be the same without you. Say hello to my parents, I am sure they would love you too. I love you, Gerald

November 5, 2011

What I will remember the most is what a generous person you were. Thank you for all the help around the house, from building a deck, finishing off the basement, and installing the impossible lamp post. You always had time to explain something or give advice on how to do projects. You had a rare gift that allowed you to talk to others and make instant friends. Thank you for all you did. And thank you for the biggest gift of all which was when you said “yes” to whether or not I could have your daughter's hand in marriage. For that I am eternally grateful. Rest in peace.

JOANNE DALTON

November 5, 2011

Darrell, I Will never ever forget you, I don't know how I will go on without you. We were together for so long. We had many wonderful times together. I will never forget how much fun we had dancing. That I do miss already. Thank you for our children. Five wonderful kids. You always tryed to make me happy. I was always first in everything. I feel so empty without you. I hated so much to see you sick and how you hurt so much and for so long. I hope now you are at peace. You were loved by lots of people. You are missed and will be missed forever.
You are in a good place now. Rest in peace always. We will meet someday.
I will always love you.

Suzie Dalton

November 5, 2011

Dear Dad, I'll never forget the first time I met you. You followed us to the hotel we were staying at for a softball tournament, you got out of the car.... and mooned me! That was the beginning of a very special relationship. You and mom have always treated me like a daughter. I'm so blessed to be a part of this wonderful family. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you. All the yard sales we had together, the flea markets, and craft shows. It always made me laugh to hear you tell the story of you going to a yard sale the first time with my dad and he asked for grenades and dynamite. Hahaha.... Yall always had so much fun together. Know that you are always in our hearts. Every time we look in our childrens eyes, there is a piece of you there. They will carry on your kind caring ways and generosity towards others. And of course, they will carry on the tradition of the family poker games every time we are all together. I love you dearly and miss you so much! You will be forever in our hearts! Heaven got one VERY special Angel and we know you are watching over us! Love always!

Kaleigh Dalton

November 5, 2011

Pop Pop, You will always be in my heart. You were there for me every time we were together. Thank you for everything you did for me! I love you always and forever!

Emily Paige Dalton

November 5, 2011

I love you Pop Pop! You will always be in my heart! I will miss you forever! Love Always!

Stu Sirota

November 5, 2011

Darrell touched the lives of everyone around him, including mine. He was a remarkable man, father, and friend to all that new him. He always made me feel like a part of the family, and I feel so fortunate to have known him. His incredible generosity, caring, devotion to family, and many other wonderful qualities made him one of the most special people I have ever known. I will always keep his memory close to my heart and aspire to be the kind of person he was.

Darrell Dalton Jr.

November 4, 2011

Dad...Our lives will never be the same without you. You were the best father and will be missed forever. You were such a kind and generous person. You always put us first and wanted to make sure we had everything we needed. You did a great job leading our family and showing how important your family was to you. I will miss the fun times we had on holidays, playing cards, going to the horse track and talking football. I miss you so much and will think of you always. Rest in peace. Love you Jr.

Brady Dalton

November 4, 2011

I love you and miss you Papa. You were a great man and you cared about me and everyone you knew. Thanks for always being there for me and we will never forget you.

Karina Dalton

November 4, 2011

Darrell, you have always been such a great father to me. I will never forget your love and kindness and will miss you terribly. A day does not go by that I don't think about you. I love you!

Steve, Kim, Cookie Johnston

November 4, 2011

Darrell was a special man. So many funny stories have been shared within our family about Richard and Darrell and Cookie and Joanne. Darrell was a strong man whose memory will live on through the strength of character and courage he has shown throughout his battle of cancer and his lifetime. I can still see Darrell and Joanne dancing at Karen's birthday party. What a beautiful sight! It seems like only yesterday. He will be missed- forever and ever.

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Kayla Lewis

November 3, 2011

Thank you for being a GREAT Papaw. We love and miss you very much.
Christopher, Amanda, Eli, Kayla, Amanda

Karen Tuggle

November 3, 2011

Dad you were a wonderful Father, always so happy and joking. Our family won't be the same without you.
You loved all of us with such joy and pride that it lit up your face every time we were together.
Some of you may not have known my Dad the way that I did, but for those who did not get to see this side of him
missed out on knowing a great man.
A man that made sure that his family was taken care of even if it meant he had to make sacrifices and very generous.
You will be missed so much every day and you will always be in my heart. I hope your in the beautiful place you told us about.
Love you, Karen

Love you Dad!

Karen Tuggle

November 3, 2011

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We love you Pop-Pop - and miss you alot. We will take care of Nana.
Love, Natalie and Nathan

Frank Samples

November 1, 2011

I am sad to relate that Darrell's brother Randall died on Saturday in Beckley, WVa. I knew all of them inPemberton. I grew up with all of them. To see the obituary go to: wwww.rose and quesenberry.net or to the Register-Herald newspaper.

Charlie & Joyce Lyon

October 31, 2011

,We were saddened to learn of Darrells death. Charlie has fond memories of working with him at RAAP. Of course you & I will never forget the days we worked together at AT&T. We miss having your daughter as our insurance agent - we would always ask about you after you had moved to SC. I know you all will find comfort in knowing that he is free of pain and reunited with his loved ones that have gone before. Please know that our prayers are with all of you.

Alfred & Pat Smith

October 30, 2011

Dear Joanne, We are so sorry Darrell had to leave you now. He is now at peace and walking with the Lord. It will be difficult for you now, but know that each day God will give you strength to carry on. We hope to see you some time soon in Myrtle Beach when we visit with Kat & Nick. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.

Paul Porter

October 28, 2011

Joanne and family, I was shocked and saddened to learn of Darrell's passing. Darrell and I worked together at RAAP for many years. He was always dedicated to his work and those whom he worked with. He spoke often of you and the children with great pride. I know that you all will miss him greatly but remember that earth has no sorrow that Heaven can't heal. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord bring you the peace that passes all understanding.
Mr. & Mrs. Paul A. Porter

Darlene West

October 28, 2011

To my wonderful Dad...my heart is broken. I cant begin to tell you how much you are missed. Our lives will never be the same. You were the best father in the world and I am glad you were mine. Thanks for always showing us how important family is. We are who we are today because of you and mom and the love you had for one another. There will never be a day that goes by that I wont think of you...I will forever miss your smiling face, talking on the phone, sharing holidays, playing poker, family time and just hearing your laughter and voice. I miss you already. I hope heaven is as beautiful as you described it. Rest in peace...you so deserve it. I love you always, Darlene

BromaJean Dalton

October 28, 2011

Joanne and Family.... so sorry to hear of Darrell's passing. I will never forget how kind you all were to me. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. God Bless you and keep you all safe.

BromaJean,Jason,Holly,Briauna&Azavior Dalton

Ruth Rimmer

October 27, 2011

For the Family of Darrell Dalton

Ruth Rimmer

October 27, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ginny Foster

October 27, 2011

Tamie told me that I could fix it.....Red Kool Aid. Okay, I feel better. Love you all!
Ginny

Angie (Gray) Akers

October 27, 2011

Joanne and Family.....so sorry to hear of Darrell's passing. Know that you now have a Guardian Angel watching over your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
May God bless you all.

Steve Jr. & Michelle West

October 27, 2011

Very sorry to hear of Darrell's Passing although we did not get to spend much time with him he is in our thoughts and will continue to be, he was very kind and caring and will missed deeply by friends and family .
our thoughts are with his family in this time of sarrow.

Barbie Layman (Dalton)

October 27, 2011

Aunt Joanne and Family....so sorry to hear of Uncle Darrell's passing. He was truly a wonderful man and will never be forgotten. So excited when ya'll moved to Myrtle Beach and my family got to spend time with you. We didn't do it enough, but I will cherish that time forever! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love you all!
The Layman Family
Bob, Barbie, Trey, Kaylie and Ashlie

Ginny Luttrell (Foster)

October 27, 2011

To Mrs. Dalton and Family...the tribute to Mr. Dalton is absolutely beautiful. Your Dad was a wonderful man, I will always cherish the memories from the Dalton house. I can't eat a bologna, mayonnaise and lettuce sandwich(with Doritos and Red Cool Aid) without thinking of the days spent on Matthews Ct.. The many times of spending the night, Darlene ironing her clothes for 2 hours before she would leave the house and most of all, your dad always with a smile on his face. May God bless you all during this difficult time.
Love,
Ginny

Sally and Ken West

October 27, 2011

So sorry to hear of Darrell's passing. What a wonderful man, husband and father. I know how much he was loved, and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of those who loved him.

Jason Lambert

October 27, 2011

I have known Darrell all of my life. Our families spent many great times together. He will always be my 2nd Father and I loved him so very much and will miss him. Heaven gets a great man.

Lenney Arnold

October 27, 2011

Joanne, sorry to hear of Darrell's passing. God bless you and your family during this difficult time. I worked with Darrell at RAAP and Marvin worked with him in Maintainance. Lenney (Marvin) Arnold

October 27, 2011

Dad...thank you just doesn't seem like enough to say to you for all the wonderful things you have done for me. Working hard to raise us...spending time together as often as possible. Thank you for the family values you have instilled in us...we know staying together as a family was very important to you. I will miss our many phone calls..sharing laughter. Poker will never be the same without you,but there will always be a place at the table and a hand dealt for you. I love you so much and will miss you so much! The ache in my heart will last forever,as you will be in my thoughts for eternity. Rest in peace..you are a great man and the BEST father! We will see each other again...ILY! Tamie

Frank Samples

October 27, 2011

I have known Darrell and all of his brothers and sister,and parents, as long as they have lived in Pemberton.I grew up with all of them. I was in the same class with Billy and saw him in 2010. We all went to the same church. I was able to leave Pemberton and became a lawyer. The Dalton family were fine people and I really loved each of them. The Samples family (out of 12, only Jim, Jane and I survive. We send our condolences.Frank Samples

Emily Meador

October 27, 2011

Darrell, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Cherish the memories you had with your Dad.

Jimmie & Michelle Craft

October 26, 2011

Our hearts and prayers go out to the Dalton Family during this time of loss. May God's grace and love comfort you.

Ricky Dalton

October 26, 2011

I miss you dad. You have lead this family through thick and thin. Now it is time to lead us home. I yearn for the day when I get to see you again. Love you

October 26, 2011

Joanne and family,

We are thinking of you during this terribly difficult time. Darrell was an amazing person and we were so blessed to have known him. Wishing you God's peace and comfort.
Love, Mark and Amy Hess
Myrtle Beach, SC

Jennifer Swartz

October 26, 2011

My thoughts and Prayers go out to the entire family. Thinking of all of you at this difficult time.

The Gentiluomo Family

October 26, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Leann West

October 26, 2011

To my PaPa.....I will never forget all the fun times we had together...like fishing, walks on the beach, riding the tractor, going for ice cream, playing putt putt and riding in the red truck...you were alot of fun. Thanks for loving me and never forget how much I love you...I miss you already...Leann

James & Karen Butterworth

October 26, 2011

The Dalton Family, we are so sorry for your loss. Our family is praying for comfort during this difficult time. Mr. Darrell will be missed. Love to all.

Colleen Kelly

October 26, 2011

Thoughts and prayers to such a wonderful family. Darrell was one witty man and will NEVER be forgotten. I hope you all find comfort in the days to come.
Love,
Colleen

Teresa Cecil

October 26, 2011

Joanne and family, may God bless you during this time of sorrow. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the entire family and the days to come. Cherish the memories you have had with such a loving husband, father and truly wonderful person. Love you all of you.

October 26, 2011

Thoughts and prayers to my second family. So sorry for your loss. Mr. Dalton you will be missed! Love, Helen (Luttrell) Alderman

Ann Hall

October 26, 2011

Joanne and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Darrell's passing. Please accept my condolences and prayers for your loss. May God comfort you during this diffcult time.
Thinking of you.

Debbie Stokes

October 26, 2011

Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family in the year ahead. God Bless you. Love, Debbie & John Stokes

Ricky Dalton

October 26, 2011

I miss you dad. You have been the leader of our family and now you can lead us home. I yearn for the day I gay to see you again. Love you

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