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Dorothy Abashian Obituary

Dorothy VanDeMar Abashian, 78, of Blacksburg, Va., died on Wednesday, October 28, 2009, at Kroontje Health Care Center. She was born in Rochester, N.Y., on February 8, 1931, to the late Ralph J. and Mabel Hastings VanDeMar. She was also preceded in death by a daughter, Lisa Kathryn Abashian. She was educated at the University of Rochester and received her masters at Cornell University. She was a member of the Blacksburg United Methodist Church and she was also involved with the YMCA leading hikes and with the bird club. She is survived by her husband, Alexander Abashian, of Ruckersville, Va.; two daughters, Rebecca Cornell, of Glenwood, Md., and Kimberly Sanders, of Dublin; a son, Philip Abashian, of Round Hill, Va.; six grandchildren; a brother, Charles VanDeMar, of Honeoye Falls, N.Y.; and numerous nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be conducted 11 a.m. on Saturday, October 31, 2009, in the Blacksburg United Methodist Church with the Rev. Reggie Tuck officiating. Interment will follow in Westview Cemetery, Blacksburg. The family will receive friends at the church following the interment. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Humane Society of Montgomery County, P.O. Box 287, Blacksburg, Va. 24063-0287 or to The Nature Conservancy, 490 Westfield Road, Charlottesville, Va. 22901. Arrangements by McCoy Funeral Home, Blacksburg, Va.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 29 to Oct. 30, 2009.

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Jennifer Martin

November 5, 2009

Dear Al, I am saddened to hear of Dottie's passing. She was always such a lovely, kind lady. You, your children, and all your family have my deepest sympathy for your loss and I hope all your good memories of her will comfort you. I miss seeing you and hope you are doing well.

Sincerely,
Jennifer Martin
Newport, Va. and Big Pine Key, Fl.

November 4, 2009

Dear Al,

Dru and I would like to offer our deep condolences at your loss. We both have fond memories of Dottie in so many different occasions: many days in Tsukuba, Dru and Dottie's solo trip to the Japan Alps area, many parties where Dottie was a glaciouse hostess... We will keep memories of her healthy days as long as we live and feel we are lucky to have known her. It is our great regret that because of our travel away from Blacksburg we could not personally pay the last respect to her and could not greet you and your family. Al. we are here in Blacksburg, please feel free to drop by when you have a chance.
With our deepest sympathies,

Kazuo and Dru Gotow

Blacksburg

November 4, 2009

We have fond memories of Mrs Abashian from the time we arrived in Blacksburg in the early 80's. She always had a warm smile and helpful hints for newcomers.
In celebration of her life, we send our warmest sympathy to all her family.
Tetsuro and Francoise Mizutani

Chris Thomas

October 31, 2009

Dear Al,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I just found out tonight.

I know Dottie will be missed by many of us who have fond memories of her.

With warm wishes,
Chris

Luke W. Mo

October 31, 2009

Dear Al:

May your heart soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Our prayers are with you,

Luke and Doris Mo

Peter Abashian

October 30, 2009

My deepest and most sincere sympathy on the loss of your Mother.

My generation is now slowly but surely reaching the end of our time here.

God be with you during this time of saddness.

UNCLE PETER

Violet Breckenridge

October 30, 2009

To all of you,

I want you to know that I am thinking of all of you at this sad time in life. I have many happy memories of the family get-togethers over the years.

Love to all of you,

Aunt Violet

Cathy Abashian Williams

October 30, 2009

Uncle Alec, Rebecca, Kim, Philip and families,

I want to express our deepest sympathies at your loss. We are sorry for you all and are relieved that Aunt Dorothy's suffering is finally over.
All our love,
Cousin Cathy Rose, Aleksey & Nathan

Lay Nam Chang

October 29, 2009

Dear Al,


Jeannie and I offer you our deep condolences on your loss. We very much cherish memories of our many interactions, and will greatly miss her cheerfulness, her spirit, and her warmth toward the community.


Best regards,


Lay Nam & Jeannie

Beate Schmittmann

October 29, 2009

Al,

on behalf of the Department of Physics, please accept my warmest sympathies and sincere condolences. Our thoughts go out to you and your family.

Yours,
Beate Schmittmann.

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