Hayden Donald Young

1930 - 2008

BORN

1930

DIED

2008

Hayden Young Obituary

Hayden Donald (Jim) Young, 78, of Mooresville, N.C., passed away on Saturday, November 22, 2008, at Lake Norman Regional Medical Center. Born in Franklin County, Va., on April 24, 1930, Jim was the oldest son of Edith Collins Young and the late Charles Nelson Young. He and his family lived in Roanoke, Va., until he transferred to Charlotte in 1961. He was a retired long distance truck driver with Mundy Motor Lines. In light of any situation, Jim always had a "story." His colorful recollections of his early days in Roanoke were a source of delight for his family and friends. Seasoned with his contagious sense of humor, Jim could make the most trying times more bearable, or at least more laughable. His unshakable positive attitude and determined spirit despite his illness was inspirational and admirable. He will be sorely missed by his family and many friends who dearly loved him. In addition to his father, he was predeceased by a son, Michael Edward Gwaltney. He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Jean Montgomery Young; daughter, Patricia Young Claiborne (Paul); son, Donald Nelson Young (Kathy); mother, Edith Collins Young; daughter-in-law, Cathy Gwaltney; three brothers, Carlton Young (Ina), Hylton Young (Frances), and Tony Young (Trudy); and sisterin-law, Hazel Johnson. He is also survived by seven grandchildren, Kimberly Connell, Michael Gwaltney Jr., Keri Stocks (Justin), Leslie Netta (Joe), Alex Claiborne, Joshua Young, and Jordan Young. Surviving greatgrandchildren are Kristin Lawson, Andrew Lawson, Ethan Gwaltney, Evan Gwaltney, and Samuel Netta. Also surviving are five nephews; and two nieces. Services will be held noon on Wednesday, November 26, 2008, at Cavin-Cook Funeral Home, 494 E. Plaza Drive in Mooresville, N.C., with the Rev. Oliver Helsabeck officiating. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service. Burial will follow at Glenwood Memorial Park. Cavin-Cook Funeral Home, Mooresville, N.C., is serving the Young family.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Hayden Young

5 Entries

Jennifer Greene

November 26, 2008

I had only met Jim once and that was Thanksgiving last year. He was a wonderful guy and I would have loved to have known him better. He will be missed. Jennifer and Richard Greene (Cathy Gwaltney's son and daughter in law)

Christopher Randall

November 25, 2008

Heaven is much better place today. "Big Jim" is there, drawing smiles with his stories of an extraordinary life. Luckily I have a lifetime of memories of the man, who put friends and strangers at ease, and found beauty and peace in places most often taken for granted. As a young boy and throughout my life, Big Jim made his home my home, putting me at ease, with a gentleness rarely seen in such a giant of a man. As I grew up, I treasured the rare times spent with him at the beach or family gatherings, knowing I could always slip out to a back deck, and find him there, willing and able to give me a laugh, and to show me the joy of a quiet moment with a sunset. Big Jim loved with his words, hugs were unnecessary. Every boisterous greeting of "Hippie", his nickname for me, brought a wave happiness to me. Even now, as I wipe away my tears, I can't help but smile, knowing Big Jim would want it that way.

To Mrs. Young, Trickie, my treasure of a friend, Don, and the entire Young family, I grieve for you and with you. I'm at a loss for words to say. I just loved Big Jim, loved the family he created and allowed me to be part of. My heart is with you.

Michael Gwaltney, Jr

November 24, 2008

My sincere sympathy to Nanny Young. (I LOVE YOU)
To My Papa: I will always be reminded of the stories you would tell around the table or just in conversation. He was kind, generous, and loving; especially to his beloved wife. He always kept the yard up if you wanted him that's where you would find him. Rest in peace and you know that all who knew you will make sure your beloved is cared for, that is something I will alway's think about, the love you had for her and expressed it. You are an example for all of us.

Deborah Blasky

November 24, 2008

This makes me so sad for the Young family. Pat and I have been best friends since the 60s, and when I think back to those days, I can still see Mr. Young in their kitchen, making his famous steaks, salads, and pecan pies. He was always so funny and easy to talk to. He was also crazy about his gorgeous wife Jean and was never too shy to say so. I stayed at the Youngs so much I started calling him 'Dad' and he always answered me when I did. Rest in peace you precious man. You were so loved by so many.

Patricia Gwaltney

November 24, 2008

My condolences to the Young Family. He will be surely missed. Especially his pecan pies "the best". He will never be forgotten. He had a good life and a remarkable wife and he expressed this so many times. I alway's love to hear any story he had to tell. I am so honored to have know him over many years.

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