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Paulita Dillon Ayers Bixler

(Polly Ayers)

October 24, 2021

Polly Bixler of Roanoke, Virginia went to her forever home on Sunday, October 24, 2021 after a brief illness.

Polly was a Roanoke native and graduated from Roanoke Catholic High School. She attended Richmond Professional Institute (now VCU).

Polly was a multi-talented singer, actor, and artist. Many will remember her for the television show "Panarama" which she hosted for many years. She was also seen on the stages of Mill Mountain Theatre in numerous roles including the starring role in the musical "Irene". She met her future husband Larry "over the footlights" as he was the musical director for the show. A year later they became a married couple and remained so for the next 42 years.

She began creating artwork from collected memorabilia and in 2009 won the top prize in the mixed media category at the Taubman Museum's 51st Annual Sidewalk Art Show. She also shared her talents with elementary school students in Roanoke City Schools as she served as an instructional assistant for several years prior to retirement. After retirement, Polly and Larry traveled to many of the major cities of Europe. The trips always included fine food and architecture, museums, and a concert or opera. Polly loved every moment of those adventures.

She is survived by her husband and her sister/cousin, Susan Garland.

Polly will be remembered as a loving, giving, and strong-willed Irish descendent with a passion for animals. A private memorial gathering will be held at a later date.

Please consider making a memorial gift to Angels of Assisi 415 Campbell Ave. S.W. Roanoke, VA 24179.
Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 27 to Nov. 4, 2021.

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Sherrye Lantz

October 31, 2021

Polly, thank you for being a friend. You were one of kind and will be deeply missed.
Dear Larry, I´m thinking of you, my deepest heartfelt condolences

Denise Greenlaw

October 28, 2021

My condolences. in 1979, she shared the stage with the PH Players for "You Can't Take It With You". She was wonderful!

Nadège Alexis-Evans

October 28, 2021

So sorry to hear about the passing of your wife, Dr. Bixler. May GOD give you peace, strength & comfort during this difficult time. GOD bless you!

DONALD MUSE

October 28, 2021

Polly you will be miss by all who knew you. My prayers go out to the family. Your neighbor and friend.

David Green

October 28, 2021

Dear Larry, I am indeed sorry for your loss. May Jesus keep you in His peace. David Green
WBHS 1977
Thanks for the music

Sara Bemiller

October 27, 2021

I loved Polly´s advocacy for animals, her marvelous sense of style, her boundless talents, and most of all, her sweet spirit.

Dennis S Hendrix

October 27, 2021

Polly and Larry were our across the street neighbors for 20 years. Couldn't ask for better neighbors. Sincere, caring condolences to Larry. She was a great lady who will be greatly missed.

Shirley Spangler

October 27, 2021

Very sorry to learn of Polly´s passing. Am keeping Larry and family in prayer.

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