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Richard Charles Rick "Rick" Vari

1954 - 2022

Richard Charles Rick "Rick" Vari obituary, 1954-2022, Botetourt County, VA

Richard Vari Obituary

Richard Charles "Rick" Vari

April 9, 1954 - June 12, 2022

Richard Charles Vari, age 68 years, died at his home in Botetourt County, Virginia on Sunday, June 12, 2022, after being diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease) one year before.

Rick lived a large life and was generous with his love and talent. He was born in Lynch, Harlan County, Kentucky April 9, 1954, and then moved to Cumberland, Ky. a few years later. Born to Elizabeth "Lib" Vari Ball, he was then adopted and raised by his grandmother, Elizabeth Orres Vari. Mama Vari provided a home that fostered a love of learning, storytelling, gardening, canning, and cooking all things Hungarian. They lived among a close-knit community of coal mining families. He attended St. Stephen Catholic church and school before graduating from Cumberland High School in 1972. His religious upbringing helped create a foundation of faith that aided him in his intense year-long struggle with ALS. Rick first finished one year at Southeast Kentucky Community College, then attended the University of Kentucky in Lexington where he obtained a biology bachelor's degree, followed by a masters and PhD in Physiology. He later came back to Southeast CC to give the commencement address in 1995. He stuck to his Kentucky Appalachian roots, whether it be bourbon, bluegrass music, horse racing, or his beloved Wildcats. He embraced and was proud of his Hungarian coal mining heritage.

Rick was an example of a full life in all aspects. His family was his rock; his wife of 43 years, Patty Ryan Maloney Vari; daughter, Elizabeth Ryan (Liz) Vari Mutcheson and son-in-law, Brock Mutcheson; son, Richard Alexander (Alex) Vari and daughter-in-law, Jill Robideaux Vari; grandchildren, Sylvia Elizabeth Mutcheson, Ryan Irene Mutcheson, Gibson Charles Vari, and Eloise Victoria Vari. The grandchildren were at the center of his big heart and he, as their Pupo, loved sharing with them all the tricks of fishing and crabbing at the beach. He loved them immensely and was most sad to think he wouldn't be physically present in their lives as they grew up. His wife, daughter, and son were everything to him as he was to them.

Rick was passionate about living, which manifested itself in the many ways he succeeded in life. He had successes on the football field, on the debate team, and on the theatrical stage in his young adult years. He went on to train in kidney research at the University of Missouri Columbia, conduct cardio-renal research at Tulane University in New Orleans, and then found himself immersed in medical school curriculum development first at the University of North Dakota, followed by his recruitment to Roanoke to help start the (VTCSOM) Virginia Tech Carilion School of Medicine problem-based learning and interprofessional education curriculum, which were his hallmarks. As Senior Dean for Academic Affairs at VTCSOM he was responsible for the four-year curriculum. Of all his many publications in research and educational journals, he was most proud of authoring articles with his wife, Patty, and his son-in-law, Brock. His passion for medical education spurred his success. He was the recipient of many national awards, including the Alpha Omega Alpha Paul Glazer Distinguished Teacher Award from the American Association of Medical Colleges and the International Association of Medical Science Educators (IAMSE), Finnerty Lifetime Achievement Award. He was on the board of IAMSE before serving as president. He credits IAMSE for his development as a medical educator. Conferences around the globe afforded him and Patty world travel, which they so loved.

He was beloved by students, faculty, staff, family, friends, and anyone who was within his sphere, because he had the unique ability to make everyone around him feel seen. He was generous with his time, money, and talent, and always brought out the best in others. He was a coach and mentor to many, from the young soccer players he coached in Grand Forks, N.D. to the many graduate students, medical students, young faculty, and staff he nurtured. His extended family of mother-in-law, aunts-in-law, brothers and sisters-in-law, nephews and niece, first cousins, and a couple of 'brothers from another mother' were in the circle of mutual love and admiration. Gatherings of one or more were always memorable.

When he was around, life was just a little bit brighter and more fun. The food tasted better, the music was livelier, and the laughter was heartier. His cooking and hospitality were renowned among family and friends. Coming into their welcoming home, you knew the good smells from Rick's cooking were a precursor to something special to eat. Anything could bring a tear to his eye, as he loved deeply, whether it be his family, friends, a nice meal, or a glass of fine wine. His sense of humor was ever present and Patty knew early on that this man who made her laugh, was who she wanted to spend her life with.

He was self-taught, playing the guitar, growing mushrooms, and making his own sausage and jerky. He loved his dog, being in the garden and sharing the fruits of that labor, whether it was fresh, something canned, or even his popular fermented hot sauce. His home in Botetourt County was his refuge, whether gardening, mowing, or cutting wood for the fire burning brightly every winter night.

He was valiant and dignified in the face of such a cruel disease that tried to take it all away. But, even at the very end, it could not take away his essence; his character, his integrity, and his passion.

The care, compassion, and support shown by his Virginia Tech Carilion School of Medicine family helped sustain him through this intense year of illness. The love extended to him and his family by those who provided medical and nursing care, therapies, pastoral visits, food, companionship, correspondences, and especially daily caregiving will be forever appreciated and are a testament to the presence of human kindness. There are no adequate words to thank the family and friends who rotated every month for a week at a time to provide the help needed to meet Rick's increasing care needs.

A memorial service will be held on Thursday, July 14, 2022 at 10 a.m. in the Fincastle Presbyterian Church, 108 East Back Street, Fincastle, Va.

Rick was a man of faith, so to him we say, 'Well done, thou good and faithful servant'.

The family acknowledges and supports the Richard Vari, PhD, Endowed Lectureship fund at VTCSOM, Office of Gift Accounting, University Gateway Center (0336), 902 Prices Fork Road, Blacksburg, VA 24061 (https://medicine.vtc.vt.edu/giving/vari), and the ALS Association, DC/MD/VA Chapter, 30 West Gude Drive, Ste. 150, Rockville, MD 20850 (https://www.als.org).

Online condolences may be made to Rick's family at

www.rader-funeralhome.com/tributes/Richard-Vari.

Rader Funeral Home, Daleville

540-992-1212

To plant trees in memory, please visit theĀ Sympathy Store.

Published by Roanoke Times on Jun. 19, 2022.

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Cindy Lord

June 30, 2022

Rick was a great friend, mentor and colleague. He was one of the first people at IAMSE to welcome me to the organization and the board of directors. He had great balance of his warm, welcoming personality with the strength and wisdom of an experienced educator and leader. I am blessed to have been able to work with Rick on the IAMSE BOD and for several years as a member of the IAMSE Membership Committee. Rick's gifts to people and to organizations like IAMSE were those of a giant. We are all better because of Rick. May his memory be a blessing.

Tracey Taylor

June 28, 2022

My deepest condolences for your loss. This is a truly wonderful tribute; I am one of the many that met Rick only a handful of times (also through IAMSE) but he made a lasting impression. He will be greatly missed.

Emine Ercikan Abali

June 28, 2022

Dear Vari Family,
Please accept my most sincere condolences. I got to know Rick through IAMSE and worked with him. He was a great leader and one of the kindest people I met. We will miss him dearly.

Amy Wilson-Delfosse

June 27, 2022

Dear Vari Family,
Rick was a special IAMSE friend and colleague. I was blessed to know him! Thanks for sharing him with so many of us.

Mark Hernandez

June 27, 2022

Our sincere condolences for your loss. Had the opportunity of meeting Rick and working with him indirectly, due to his dedication to medical education. He will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

David Musick

June 27, 2022

My most sincere condolences to all of you. Rick was a giant of a man who has left an incredible legacy. He will be sorely missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort.

Kashif Ahmad, MD, PhD

June 25, 2022

Deepest respect for Dr. Vari, for his work and dedication in medical education. Huge loss for the community!

PKV

June 22, 2022

Dr. Vari was a blessing to the medical community. His influence will continue to be shown through our lives. May God give you His supernatural comfort and peace during this time. God bless you.

Eileen Arnold

June 21, 2022

Dear Patty (and all who loved Rick),
I was so sad to hear a year ago that Rick was ill and now, even more, that he has passed from this life. I know you miss him and the great life he brought to all he touched.
Just know you are in my heart and prayers right now.
Eileen

Ava Porter

June 20, 2022

Sending prayers for your peace and comfort, Patty. Rick was an amazing man and working with him was an honor. He will forever be sorely missed.

David & Diane Hakey

June 19, 2022

Sending our deepest condolences. We enjoyed his homemade hot sauce.
May he rest in peace
Dave is the Sprinkle Road walker.

Elizabeth Burns

June 19, 2022

Dear Patty, Sincere condolences on Rick“s passing. His life was a blessing to many and may his memory be a blessing to you and the family. Prayers for you all.

Mary Catherine Yeakel

June 19, 2022

Thank you Mr. Vari for instilling your kindness and sense of fun in your daughter. Liz is one of my favorite people - she and the girls will carry on your legacy with grace. Hugs to the Vari and Mutcheson families - my heart breaks for you!

Patty French Milowsky

June 19, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful tribute! Heartfelt condolences to you and your family!

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