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Rita Rhodes Obituary

Rita H. Rhodes

April 7, 2021

Rita H. Rhodes, 79, of Buchanan, Va., passed away on Wednesday, April 7, 2021.

She is survived by her affectionate and faithful husband of 59 years, Kenneth Rhodes. She was the loving mother of three daughters, Sandra Jessee (Jerry Jessee), Donna Cox (Mike Cox), and Christy Barry. Rita also had four grandchildren that were the apple of her eyes, Matt Cox (Lauren Cox), Erin Nowak (Dawid Nowak), Emma Jessee (Michael Pelchat fiance), Ripley Barry; along with three great grandchildren whom she adored, Brody Cox, Eamon Nowak, and Berkley Cox. Although she had many many friends, Rita had three very special friends, Pat Fralin, Sherry Sink, and Cindy Finch. Pat and Rita enjoyed lots of lake time and special time spent with grandchildren while Sherry and Cindy were more like sisters and partners in shenanigans.

Rita's life was a testament to her courageous spirit. She came to this country from Austria when she was 14 years old surviving a horrible storm that she said should have wrecked the ship.. Determined to become an American she learned the language and settled into life in Buchanan. One of the proudest days of her life was when she became a US citizen. Her family was the most important thing to her and she protected them fiercely. Her spirit defined the last three years of her life as she proved all the odds wrong surviving year after year.

Rita attended Buchanan Baptist and she loved her church family. She was always ready to help in the kitchen any way she could, where she was always known as the best cook around.

We would like to say a special thank you to Dr Josh Morales and all the wonderful nurses at Blue Ridge Cancer Center who helped make the last three years of Rita's life the best it could be. We are truly thankful. Also a special thank you to Good Samaritan Hospice, who supported her and provided special care.

Anyone who knew Rita knows that she loved flowers and loved gardening. While flowers are appreciated, please consider planting a beautiful red geranium at home in her honor (one of her favorites).

A casual gathering and service for family and friends is scheduled for Saturday at 1 p.m. at the Barn at Back Creek Farm in Buchanan, Va. As Rita loved feeding everyone, we will have a meal for anyone that wishes to join us after the service and celebrate her life.

Arrangements are being provided by Botetourt Funeral Home.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Roanoke Times on Apr. 9, 2021.

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Janice and JD Cassell

April 10, 2021

Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers today.

Vida Basham

April 10, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss.

Blair Waite

April 9, 2021

I want you to know that I am thinking about you during this time of sorrow. Your mother was an amazing lady and she will truly be missed. Please know that loving thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Daniel Hayth

April 9, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rebecca Petty Hannah

April 9, 2021

My deepest sympathy to the family of Rita and also to her friends.

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