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Virginia Cooke Obituary

Surrounded by her sons, Virginia Wertz "Ginny" Cooke, 83, of Roanoke, Va., passed away Thursday, May 21, 2009. Born in Roanoke, Va., on September 24, 1925, daughter of the late Enos and Myrtle Wertz. She was known for her generosity, gift of compassion for friends and loved ones, and unconditional love for her family. In addition to her parents, Virginia was preceded in death by her first husband, Kermit E. Hale; her second husband, Randolph F. Cooke; her sisters, Alma Lynch and Evelyn Caldwell; her brother, Melvin Wertz; and stepson, Randolph Cooke Jr. Survivors include her sons, Joseph P. "Joe" Hale II, and Kermit E. "Kit" Hale Jr. and wife, Betsy; her sister, Bebe Wertz; stepsons, Michael Cooke and wife, Mary, and Charles Cooke and wife, Teresa; and stepdaughter, Pamela Johnson. Also surviving are her grandchildren, Heather and Zachary Hale, Sam and Libby Hale, Samantha and John Cooke, Missy Bowe, and Judy Mitchell; numerous nieces and nephews; and other family members and friends.
She was a 1943 graduate of Jefferson High School, attended Grandin Court Baptist Church, and was a member of Theta Kappa Sorority. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, playing cards, and watching birds in her Southwest Roanoke backyard. A special thanks to Lewis Gale Hospital, its dedicated team of doctors and staff, the Intensive Care Unit, and especially the amazing nurses and caretakers of 5 East for their compassion and care.
A funeral service will be held 11 a.m. on Monday, May 25, 2009, at Blue Ridge Memorial Gardens, Mausoleum Chapel with the Rev. Kevin Meadows officiating. The family will receive friends from 6 to 9 p.m. on Sunday, May 24, 2009, at Oakey's Roanoke Chapel, 540-982-2100.
Published by Roanoke Times from May 23 to May 25, 2009.

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Frances Deyerle

May 31, 2009

Dear Joe & Kit.

My sympathy to all the family & friends in the loss of our beloved "Ginny". My memories of her go back 55-60 years ago when she was married to handsome Kermit Hale.

May her wonderful memories & sweet smile sustain all of you -- forever.

During this sad time, you will be in my thoughts & prayers.

Juliet Brown

May 25, 2009

Dear Kit and Joe,
I know it's been many years since we were neighbors, but they were some of the best of my life. Ginny and my mother (Mary Lee Ward) were best friends and chaperoned my senior high school trip to our beach house. She was more of a friend than a chaperone. Ginny said something that I will never forget, and I tell it to folks all the time. It was about 11 AM and she asked mom if she wanted a Bloody Mary. Mom's reply was "Ginny, it's not anywhere close to 5 o'clock!" and Ginny said, "Mary Lee, relax and have some fun, it's 5 o'clock somewhere!!".
Well, to me that was Ginny. She loved life.
After my mother died, I visited her several times and each time, I felt such a connection with her. She really helped me through some rough spots, especially with her memories of my mother. She was an amazing person, full of warmth, wit and wisdom.
Our whole family will miss her so much.
All our love,

Kathy Banks

May 24, 2009

To Mr. Kit Hale. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during the loss of your mother. I will never forget your kindness towards my mother and our family home. May God continue to give you peace and joy.

Debbie (Hale) Scott

May 24, 2009

When I think of Aunt Ginny, I always remember her wonderful sense of humor and genuine laughter. It's been many years since I've seen Ginny, but she will always live on in my heart.

Julie Griffith

May 23, 2009

We have been very blessed to have Ginny as an adored and cherished member of our family. She was generous, fearless and loved her family immeasurably with the same enthusiasm in which she lived every day. Ginny set a wonderful example to each of us by living her life with pure gusto. What an extraordinary gift to those of us who love her!

Cheers to "my Ginny": your home in my heart is for now and for always.

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