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Camden, New York

John O'Brien Obituary

In Loving Memory

May 8, 1964 - August 20, 2025

John J. O'Brien, 61, of Camden, NY, passed away, unexpectedly, on Wednesday, August 20, 2025, at his home.

He was born on May 8, 1964, at Fort Sill, OK, to William and Katherine Lortie O'Brien. John was a 1982 graduate of Immaculate Heart Central Schools. Upon graduation, he would attend Buffalo State, where he would play football. He would go on to work for the New York State Department of Corrections from 1987 - 2016, retiring as a Lieutenant.

John was a member of the Executive Board for many years at Council #82, where he also served as Vice President. He was also a member of the Executive Board of Local #2951 and served on the Negotiations Committee for many contracts.

John would then serve the Camden community as a Special Patrol Officer for the Camden Central Schools through the Oneida County Sheriff's Department, where he adored working with the students, teachers and staff every day. John worked Security for Paragon Systems as well.

John was a passionate sports fan. He played semi-professional football for the Watertown Red and Black. He was an avid golfer, playing many rounds at the golf courses at Turning Stone where he worked nearly every weekend over the summer since his retirement from New York State. His favorite course was the beautiful Kaluhyat.

On June 29, 1991, he married the love of his life, Colleen Bennett.

John is survived by his loving family, including his wife, Colleen; two sons, Patrick M. O'Brien and Sean W. O'Brien; father, William O'Brien; siblings, Mary O'Brien, Dennis O'Brien and Joe O'Brien; sister-in-law, Paige O'Brien; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins; his faithful pup, Mario; sisters-in-law, Yvonne (Robert) Rowan and Nancy Kirchner; and many in his Corrections and Golf family.

He was predeceased by his mother, Katherine; and his brother, Terry O'Brien.

Per John's request, there will be no formal services at this time. A Celebration of his life will be at a time to be announced.

He was known to be larger than life and will be missed by many.

Memorial gifts may be directed to the Terry O'Brien Memorial Scholarship Fund at the Northern New York Community Foundation, 131 Washington St., Watertown, NY 13601. Gifts may also be made online at nnycf.org.

Arrangements are in care of LaRobardiere Funeral Home, 109 Main St., Camden. Please share memories and condolences at larobardierefuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Sentinel from Aug. 28 to Sep. 6, 2025.

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STEPHANIE D SCHELL

August 28, 2025

Served the students and staff of the Camden School District.

John Ryan

August 26, 2025

Just wanted to say how sorry to hear about John , it was always a pleasure to work with OB at Turning Stone, our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire O´Brien family

Ron & Karen Reina

August 26, 2025

Colleen & Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will always treasure the fond memories we have of John. His smile and kind spirit will remain forever in our hearts, and he will be dearly missed.

Sue Butler Merritt Gaiter

August 25, 2025

Condolences goes out to the O´Brien family, especially my friend Mary. Now I know why I didn´t see you at our Class of `80 reunion. I am so sorry for your loss.

Chuck Tracy

August 25, 2025

Collen & Family , I´m so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed our conversations at PK after your rounds of golf. Chuck

Pete Cucci

August 24, 2025

Colleen and Family so very sorry for your loss deepest sympathy and condolences. Enjoyed working with John at Turning Stone golf and having him for a friend.God Bless
Pete Cucci

Tara Healey

August 24, 2025

Colleen and family... I am so very sorry for this incredible loss. I hope you find comfort in each other as you struggle to move forward. Love to you all.

Aaron Avard

August 24, 2025

Very sorry to hear that he has passed away! Big hugs to Colleen, Pat and Sean. May God's love bring comfort and peace to your hearts

Cindy Martin

August 23, 2025

Colleen and Family, I'm so very sorry to hear about John's passing. Sending heartfelt thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Steve Harmon

August 23, 2025

My sincere condolences. John was great to work with and will be missed.

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