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Todd Wilson Vandeveer

1964 - 2023

Todd Wilson Vandeveer obituary, 1964-2023, Rome, NY

BORN

1964

DIED

2023

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Nunn and Harper Funeral Home, Inc. - Rome

418 N. George Street

Rome, New York

Todd Vandeveer Obituary

Todd Wilson Vandeveer passed away on January 9, 2023 after a battle with a chronic illness. Todd was born in Louisville, KY on June 6, 1964 to Lauren and Sheila Vandeveer. Todd graduated from the Hotchkiss School in 1982; Union College in 1986; and Emory University Law School in 1989. He practiced law in a number of states throughout his career. He and his family were fortunate to live in England for a period of time and experienced the culture and traveled throughout Europe.

Todd is survived by his mother Sheila O'Shea Vandeveer; his sister Tracey Vandeveer Noble; his former wife Lynne Widdis Vandeveer and their daughters Olivia Lauren and Camille Caroline Vandeveer; and his dear friend Dan Zanon. As well as 3 nephews and a niece.

Memorial donations may be made to The Muscular Dystrophy Association.

A private family memorial service will be held at a later date and funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Nunn and Harper Funeral Home, Inc. 418 N. George St., Rome NY 13440.

You may light a candle, send a message of sympathy, and read the obituary at www.nunnandharper.com.

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Published by Daily Sentinel from Jan. 12 to Jan. 13, 2023.

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Jeff T

February 22, 2023

Todd and I were classmates at Hotchkiss. We had adjacent rooms during my first year at Hotchkiss (1979-80) which meant that Todd was one of the first friends I made as a "Lower Mid." I remember Todd back then as a tall, good looking, upbeat student with an easy smile and a quick wit. I also recall him being a gifted athlete. I was impressed that Todd played on both the varsity soccer and hockey teams. What impressed me most about Todd, though, was that he was "all that" yet never arrogant or snobbish. In fact, Todd was quite the opposite: in the spring of our Lower Mid year, Todd and I tried out for the JV baseball squad; I was cut while Todd easily made the team (of course!) There was no teasing afterward (even though Todd and I often did rib one another.) As disappointed as I was at the time, Todd encouraged me not to take the setback too seriously, and our friendship was unaffected. I often wondered what Todd pursued after graduation. From what I've read, Todd found love, happiness and professional success - exactly what I expected he'd achieve. Sadly, I never expected that Todd would leave this world so soon. I'm heartbroken to learn of his passing. My deepest sympathies to his family, friends and loved ones.

Lionel J. Castro

February 5, 2023

Ms. Vandeveer - I worked with Todd many years ago at the Kings County DA in Brooklyn. I just learned of his passing from my friend David Garcia. I am so sorry for your loss, and the loss shared by Todd's other family members and friends. He was a friend, colleague, and good man - always ready with a smile or words of encouragement during those tough days learning how to try cases. I'm not sure that many of our former colleagues know of his passing, but I am certain that they all remember him, and think of him fondly and well. May your family find comfort in the many loving memories of Todd's presence in your lives.

Tony & Jeanette Agnone

February 1, 2023

Sheila & family, we extend our deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved son Todd. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. May our good Lord comfort you in this difficult time. God Bless you....Sincerely Tony & Jeanette Agnone

Suzanne Skogland McKenney

January 17, 2023

Tracey and Sheila, May God bless you and all of your family as you endure the loss of your beloved Todd. Love always and sincerely, Suzanne

Alex Zanon

January 17, 2023

Sheila,
I am so sorry for your loss. Memories of Todd and Dan together as childhood friends through adulthood to the very end are beyond precious. I feel grateful for having shared time with Todd over the recent past.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Tracy.

Don Lewis

January 16, 2023

We were classmates at Ridge Mills. Our fathers both worked at Revere, and his mother, Sheila, we knew from her being a counselor at Strough. Todd was so smart, and a great hockey teammate. Sheila and Tracy, mom, Lisa and I offer our condolences and kind thoughts. Godspeed, Todd.

Chris Bart

January 13, 2023

Sheila,
I was sorry to read about Todd´s passing. I know how difficult it is to lose a child. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Bart

Stephanie Schell

January 12, 2023

Lived life to the fullest despite his challenges.

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