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Kimberly Menke Obituary
Kimberly Renee Menke, 51, of Roscoe IL, died peacefully in her home on August 20, 2020 after a courageous three year battle with cancer. Kim was held in the loving embrace of her family when she passed. Kim was born February 8, 1969 to Tommy and Nancy (Steinberg) Kauffman. She was a 1987 graduate of Dakota High School, and obtained her bachelor's degree from Northern IL University.
Kim was an active member of her church community, and one of her greatest joys was her many years singing with the church choir and the Mendelssohn Chorale. Kim also volunteered her time to the YMCA through Camp Winnebago as a board member. She was very physically active and enjoyed playing in a women's competitive volleyball league with her beloved team, "The Court Jesters". Kim grew up at Lake Summerset in Davis Illinois, and loved spending time at the beach with her extended "Lake Family". Besides her loving family, Kim leaves behind so many dear friends who she always made time for, and she was a wonderful example for how to nurture those relationships. Some of the most common words people are sharing about Kim are: caring, warm, positive, strong and faithful.
Surviving are Kim's children Ellyn and Carson Menke; boyfriend Brad Kluesner of Rockford; 2 siblings, Britton (Katie) Kauffman of Davis IL, and Kalli (Doug) Loversky of Oxnard CA; ex-husband and close friend Mike Menke of Roscoe IL; Nieces Hannah Kauffman of Davis IL and Dani (Adam) Burns of Laguna Niguel CA; Nephews Tyler Kauffman of Davis IL and Christian Loversky of Laguna Niguel CA.
Preceding Kim in death were her parents Tommy and Nancy Kauffman. Cremation rites have been accorded. Stateline Cremations is assisting the family, 712 Windsor Road, Loves Park, IL 61111.
A memorial service and celebration of life will be held at 12:00 noon at Mitchell Park in Lake Summerset IL on Saturday Sept 12, 2020. This is an outdoor service, please bring your own seating.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kimberly Menke
Larry Meier
August 22, 2023
Kim, you bring back so many good memories when you were in your early years. Your life was too short. RIP
Carrie Buckett
October 12, 2020
One of the most kind Business women I know. I did not know you too well but well enough to call you my friend. Peace to you and prayers for your family.
Megan P.
September 15, 2020
I knew Kim through volleyball. Such a bright and sunny disposition! And what a great person she was, was evident in how much she meant to her friends. Condolences to all her loved ones.
The Graceffa Family
September 8, 2020
Ellen and Carson, we are so saddened to learn of the loss of your mom. We have warm memories of her from our days at St. Mark. She was always so friendly and beautiful inside and out. God’s peace to your family.
Jennifer Kyriazopoulos
September 7, 2020
Kim had such an amazing spirit. She lit up the room. She still does!
She shines through you, Carson and Ellen. My deepest sympathies and love to you and your family. I miss her and think of you all often. Hugs❤
Josh Ryan
September 2, 2020
Kim was an absolutely amazing person. She was a friend to everyone from the first moment they met. She will be missed every day.
The Marshall’s, Matt, Susan, Sara & Alex
September 1, 2020
Kim was a breath of fresh air and will be missed greatly. Her strength and courage is to be admired. To Ellyn & Carson, so sorry for the loss of your Mom, God bless. The Marshall’s
Larry Meier
September 1, 2020
Kim, you will be missed! I was blessed to be present when you took your first steps. You have grown into a beautiful women. You are now at peace.
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Glenna Halley Hill
August 30, 2020
Kim's smile would light up a room. Some of my favorite memories with her involve playing volleyball together. Prayers to her family and Mike during this time of grief.
Gail Farr
August 29, 2020
Kim was an inspiration to everyone who knew her. She faced adversity with Grace strength and dignity and many people loved and admired her.
Jim Waddell
August 29, 2020
She was a wonderful young lady with a radiant smile that filled any room she was in.
Jen Keller
August 29, 2020
Carson- there are not enough words to express how so very sad I am for you and your family. Your mama was a beautiful human being. The wonderful young man you have become is a testament to that. Keeping you all close to my heart. The sun will shine again, but never as brightly. Big hugs!
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