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Valeri DeCastris and David Beccue
August 22, 2014
Hi Dad. How's Heaven? Heavenly, I am sure! I hope that you aren't mad that I used your photos from the 1940s in the newspapers. Reporters from throughout the Midwest - Quad Cities, Beloit and central Illinois are doing stories on you. I know that you would be embarrassed. Sorry, but I so admired your talent and ability to connect with your audiences and fans. Your story is a classic American immigrant's success story and should be celebrated. You made it on your own against all odds, with Mom nudging you along. How IS Mom and everyone? Blissful, I am sure. I bet it's good to see your father since you lost him at such an early age. I imagine he is happy with your career choice now and is glad that you didn't listen to his advice to become a government employee. He surely sees that you had the talent to succeed in an insecure profession. I hope Nona is happy with what Dave and I have done with her house. We treasure it and are going to stay here. I know that you never understood that, even at the end, but this house is so full of the family's spirit and we love it. I have such fond memories of all the friends and family that passed by here on Cunningham Street and stopped it to talk or for holidays. I felt like the world walked by here. Since you left, it's been so busy down here! Our cousins are your pallbearers, from both sides of the family. Our friends are singing for your Mass. All the guys are playing for your wake – for four hours! And a special meal is going to be served…Italian of course. Sound ok? I'm new to this so I hope that you are pleased with your send-off. There's been all kind of scheduling conflicts with everybody and I know that people were wondering if I was ever going to get you buried. Everyone is calling and I have no time to talk to anyone. People really loved you! The outpouring has been incredible. I have been trying to comfort the callers, apologizing for telling them this sad news. To be continued....
Val Eddy at Dave and Valeri's Wedding on Nov 7 1998
Valeri DeCastris and David Beccue
August 21, 2014
Part 2...You have so much history...I am killing myself trying to put it all together. I am doing the best I can and I hope that you are happy with the arrangements I am making for you. Dave is helping some too but I really needed to clone myself this week. I never told you, but I had some health scares and lots of medical tests this week, but they came out good, so don't worry. We have been cleaning out your apartment too. Everything is under control. No worries for you anymore! Enjoy eternity and God's presence…we'll be there too someday and it will be divine. Dave and I helped God keep you alive as long as we could and we hope that we did the best for you in all ways. We certainly worked hard at it and were so honored to do so. Those five months that you lived with us in your childhood home were sweet and I know that you liked your new apartment and the care that you received there. We all can't believe that you are gone. How thoughtful of you to wait until the day after Festa Italiana, knowing that Dave and I were responsible for so many volunteers that weekend. You used to stroll those grounds with your mandolin and play those romantic Italian songs. How we will miss that! But, I am so grateful that Mom chronicled your career so well, with souvenirs, match books, diaries, playbills, menus and photos. And we are left with these wonderful CDs and tapes. I have enough for a museum. I can't even easily choose the pictures for your funeral, you performed with so many people in so many places. You had a great run and you “did it your way” indeed. Well, until I see you again, where God's perfection will finally grant me some talent so that I actually learn to play my favorite instrument, the mandolin, at your side…keep the music playing. Tell God we love Him and tell Mom that life has never been the same since she left us in 1979 and that there hasn't been a day when I haven't thought of her and missed her. But don't let her get sad about that. I know that we'll all be together again someday. I hope that you liked the suit and casket and visitation and Mass. Two good friends sang at the Mass and it was just beautiful. Dave videotaped the wake - I got so many nice comments on it. We just found a video of you playing mandolin at my house in November 2013 that we hadn't seen yet. Love it! The food was great for your funeral too - lasagna, your favorite, plus more of course. I have a lot of work ahead of me and I hope that I handle it all for you properly. Rest in peace, Papa! Keep the music playing...
Charles Worboys
August 14, 2014
Please accept my condolences for the loss of Val. He was a great man and a great musician.
Greg and Mary Tuite
August 13, 2014
Val and family, Greg and I send our condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father. His life was very interesting and the RRStar stories about him were delightful.
We are sure you are going to miss him daily but be comforted by the joy and delight he gave, through his instruments, to people all over the world. God Bless you at this time.
Toni Guzzardo
August 12, 2014
So sorry for your loss, Val. I know it's been a long haul. Wish I could be there. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Tim Davis
August 11, 2014
Val,I'm so sorry.My memories of your dad and mom was of very sweet people,please know their both in my thoughts.Take care of yourself.Mom also sends her love.
Becky Lichty
August 11, 2014
Val, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jon Russell
August 11, 2014
Many people will let life's problems interfere with their happiness. The few years that I knew Val, I could tell he was never one to let that happen to him. My prayer is that his music and memories live on.
August 11, 2014
Val and Family…I know how proud you were of him and how much support your gave him as a performing artists.
MaryLouise Gaziano
August 10, 2014
Dear Valeri, David, Mary & Family,
Our Deepest Sympathy on the passing of our beloved family member, Valentino.
Sincere prayer intentions for the repose of his soul and peace to all of you.
We love you,
Cousins MaryLouise & Family
Doug Kamholz
August 10, 2014
His is a story any man would be proud to have lived and any daughter would be proud to tell.
Dennis & Phyllis Cook
August 10, 2014
Many wonderful memories dancing to Val's trio at the Manor. A good man and a great musician. We'll miss him.
Nancy Sparacino Williams
August 10, 2014
Val, so sorry for your loss, hope you are well.
Dale Sanders
August 10, 2014
Wow, Valerie, what a wonderful legacy your father left for Rockford and the entire music world. He will be missed by so many.
lynette wherley
August 10, 2014
Val, I'm so sorry to read of your dad's passing. What a great man with a great nurturing daughter. He has made such an indelible mark on the world of music. I remember seeing him perform many times at the Gun Club. My condolences to you and your family.
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