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Jared Washburn Obituary

Jared Mark Washburn, Sr., beloved husband, father, and friend, passed unexpectedly into heaven on September 12, 2013.

He was born in Rutland, Vermont on March 15, 1970, to Pamela Ann (Shmerder) Washburn and George Franklin (Jeff) Washburn, III. He attended Rutland schools and Wellspring of Life Bible College.

He loved his job at Alderman's Chevrolet, where he was Salesman of the Year for the last two years. He deeply cared for the people he worked with, and his customers, many of whom became very special friends.

Jared is survived by the love of his life, Tricia Craw-Washburn, as he was truly the love of hers; their two beautiful sons, Jared Mark Washburn, Jr., and Patrick Jared Washburn; his sister, Leigh Paige Truhan, her husband Ben Scott Truhan of Rutland, and his precious new baby niece, Hannah Scarlette Truhan; his father, George Franklin "Jeff" Washburn, III of N.H.; his mother and father in law, Justine and Terry Craw; his best friends, Drs. Thomas and Peggy Ann Kiley of Oklahoma and three rescue pugs, Bandit, Hannah, and Rocky, whom he loved and cared for faithfully because his wife couldn't stop bringing them home.

He was predeceased by his beautiful mother, Pamela Schmerder Washburn. Included in the long list of people he loved were many aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and his staff family at Alderman's Chevrolet.

Jared had two loves in his life. The first was the Lord Jesus Christ, who saved him from himself, and the second was his family. He needed little else to be content. His greatest joy was buying surprises for his sons, which was exactly what he was doing when he passed into the Arms of Jesus. He left the most wonderful memories for his wife and sons, and was truly the greatest role model as a husband and as a father. He was a gift from God, a man who brought joy and laughter to every situation.

Jared's great passion was preaching and sharing the Gospel, especially to those within the prison system. As a member of Wellspring of Life Christian Center, he ministered weekly for years in the Marble Valley Correctional Facility here in Vermont, diligently endeavouring to impart the miracle of Jesus to all that heard him.

A celebration of Jared's life will be held at 6 p.m. Tuesday, Sept. 17, 2013 at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, Hillside Rd., Rutland, Vt. 05701.

A reception will follow in the church hall.

Friends may call at the Clifford Funeral Home on Monday from 4 to 7 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Tricia Craw Washburn, for the future of Jared's sons, Jared Mark Washburn, Jr., and Patrick Jared Washburn, c/o Justine Craw, 186 Fox Glen Drive, Naples, Florida, 34104.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rutland Herald from Sep. 14 to Sep. 15, 2013.

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Margo Oakes

October 2, 2013

Jared was a great person and friend. I first came to know him through the place of worship that he attended. His love for life and his Lord always shined through in his actions as a Christian.
I know that he's up in heaven now and waiting for the rest of us that are worthy to join him in heaven.
Jared old friend I will always remember the times that we shared and the fun that we had.
To Jared' parents and Trish I pray that you will find peace in God through this cause that would be the thing that Jared would have wanted.

Jen Hirchak

September 27, 2013

Trish, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and the boys are in my thoughts and prayers.

Peggy Ann Kiley

September 23, 2013

Way to young to go, my friend my heart aches at the thought of not seeing your smiling face.this is a loss that I am at a loss for words. I thank God for our sperial friendship I will treasure it always.For my Darlin Tricia and boys there are no words to comfort them at the loss of a vsryspecial father and husband I will miss you laughter and jokes....but mostly you.Rest well and be sure and tell us all how cool it is in heaven!!!! Xxoox

Thomas and Peggy Ann Kiley

September 23, 2013

My beloved precious I will sadly miss our wonderful talks, and laughing like crezy loons. Your family will lack for nothing, we will be there at every turn of events. Rest my dear friend, and plesae be thereto greet us when our days are over.Tom and I love you with all our hearts noe, and the times coming.please tell Jesus not to let you drive. Hugs And love Foreverxxx

Nathan and Victoria Lang

September 20, 2013

We were shocked to hear of Jared's passing and extend our sincere condolences to his family and friends during this difficult time. I lived only two houses down from Jared and his family while growing up. We were in the same class throughout elementary school, and both me and my wife attended junior high and high school with him. It's hard to fathom that such a unique soul is gone so soon.
R.I.P. Jared.

Tracy Gioffi-Baker

September 20, 2013

Jared was the one person that we could all count on. His compassion and understanding was limitless. I enjoyed many conversations about not giving up on finding my true love because he felt so blessed and honored to have found his beautiful wife. The love that beamed from Jared when he spoke of his family was so real and refreshing. He will be missed by so many.

Susan Stoutes

September 19, 2013

I am so saddened to hear about Jareds passing...i just purchased a car from him..he was so caring and professional..he will be missed..my prayers go out to his safe arrival in heaven and to his wife and sons..

Dave..Jeanne Beam

September 19, 2013

"Our Loving Thoughts and Prayers go out to ..Trish ..P.J. and :little : Jared at this very difficult time .....Jared was a "Wonderful Man .."Devoted Husband" and Marvelous Daddy !!" Jared had such an "Inviting smile" and "uplifting personality" and "Compassionate Manner!!" He will be dearly missed by all who knew him ! God Bless !! Sending Love to all of you!!

September 18, 2013

Trish and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mike Keith

Dan and Nancy Barker

September 17, 2013

We were stunned and saddened by the news of your loss, Tricia. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.

September 17, 2013

trish and sons
i am so sorry to hear about Jared. I know this is a very difficult time and my love and prayers are with you.

Rea and Mike Pratt

Cindy And Ted Fowler

September 17, 2013

We are deeply sorry for the loss of Jared on this earth and am sure he is in heaven. We have purchased a few vehicles from him and were currently working with him through the dealership and saw him a couple of days before his passing. Our prayers go out to all of his loved ones.

Kim Bean

September 17, 2013

Trish- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. We were shocked and deeply saddened by the news. If there is anything that we can do, please let us know.

Larry and CarolLee Allen

September 17, 2013

A quote from Maya Angelou so beautifully explains the memorial gathering Monday...
"A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us together again and again."
Jared's love of our Lord has been imparted into so many lives, all that knew him are the better for it and this is truly a love that never dies!
Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. John 14:1-3
Our love and prayers are with you,

Kandi Graham

September 17, 2013

Praying for your healing during this time. God Bless.

Maurice & Lindsey Baird

September 17, 2013

To the Washburn Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. He was a true professional Salesman at Aldermans Chevrolet. He will be truly missed. R.I.P Jared it was a pleasure to have known such a great man!

Sandi Reardon

September 17, 2013

Jeff, We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Sandi & Tim Reardon

Melissa Baird

September 17, 2013

We are shocked and deeply saddened to have just learned of the loss of Jared. We have purchased several cars from him in the past few years, my last one at the end of July. God Bless you all and may you rest in peace Jared, in God's loving arms.

September 16, 2013

I am sorry to hear about Jared. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Bonnie Senecal

Krista Young

September 16, 2013

Jeff, Leigh and the Washburn family, We are so sorry to learn of Jared's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Allyson

September 16, 2013

You sure will be missed, may God grant mercy and grace to your loved ones and hold them in the palm of his hands - i am sad to know you are not with us - and will pray for all family here - ally s

Angela Kelley

September 16, 2013

Thoughts and prayers to you all during this difficult time.
~Angela & Matthew Sanborn

Brett Beaudry

September 16, 2013

R.I.P. my friend. You were one hell of a friend and the only person i ever met that could get pizza delivery driver to stop and get you half gallon of ice cream on his way with your pizza!

Shannon Burrell

September 16, 2013

Peace be with you. This is very sad. My prayers go out to his whole family.

Carrie Fredette

September 16, 2013

My thoughts are with Jared's family and friends.

Paula Layden

September 16, 2013

I was shocked to hear of Jared's passing. God Bless you and your 2 little boys.

Amy & Max Crowley

September 16, 2013

My heart breaks for his family, lovely wife and two handsome boys. I don't know Jared personally but my middle boy is friends with him at school. Prayers sent to all....

Bob and Honie

September 16, 2013

We were very sorry to hear of Jared's passing. He was a fine young man and we know he is with The Lord now.

George Hopp

September 16, 2013

Trish, Jared Jr. & P.J.;
My thoughts and prayers are with you all throughout these difficult times. He made quite an impression on me in the short time we worked together. What a personality! It is too quite here. He will be missed. My deepest condolence to your family.

Rob

September 16, 2013

Rest in peace my old friend

Sean Altrui

September 16, 2013

To Jeff and Leigh and family, very sorry to hear about Jared's passing. Hope you're all doing alright. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cyndi,Bob & Kate Schlachter

September 16, 2013

What an unbeleivable shock. Our prayers and love go out to you all. I know Jared is with Jesus and will always be watching over his family.If there is anything you need Trish - ANYTHING - let us know.

September 16, 2013

The Washburn family. I send my love to the family. I didn't know Jared that well, but I worked with his family at KFC. and He was nothing but kind to me. Trisha use to do do my hair way back when. I hope the family can find peace and love.in time. Im so sorry for the loss of a great man.

Garrett Charlton

September 16, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to all the family. I had spent most of my highschool years with Jared and into our early adult years. It just seems like yesterday we were at KFC eating when he was suppose to be working. I have the greatest respect for all his family. Jared had the greatest love for everyone. I will miss him very much.

Jodi Caggige

September 16, 2013

I'm heartbroken and will miss Jared terribly. He was one of the most unique people I've known. All our love and prayers to Trish and the boys. See you again Jared.

Mayerling & Greg Anderson

September 16, 2013

Dear Trish our deepest sympathy goes out to you,the boys and all your family we will keep you in our thougts in prayers...

Mayerling and family

September 16, 2013

To the Washburn family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this diffcult time.
Tracy O'Brien Coburn

Lori Bowen LaPenna

September 16, 2013

Trish ...I am so sorry for the loss of your soulmate....my heart aches for you and your boys. You have so many people that love you, we will help you get thru this sad time.
big hugs & love

Cindy Moyer

September 16, 2013

To Tricia and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Basile

September 16, 2013

I was so shocked and sad to hear of Jared's passing. I remember him so well when he would come in to Price Chopper where I worked for years. As I recall he was a big fan of the Red Sox and would love to boast of their accomplishments, he was always fun.
I am so sorry that he has left his wonderful family way to soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nancy&Skip Mulcahey

September 16, 2013

Tricia I don't know you but we have known Jared since he was very young. I wrote to him when he was away.Skip and I saw him everyday at Alderman's always with a smile and a mission. He loved you all dearly and was so proud of his pictures on his desk.I just want you to also know in high school when my son was being bullied everyday Jared stood up to the bully for him and it stopped. I will never forget him for doing that. He is at peace now. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Nancy and Skip Mulcahey

Jeanie Reed

September 16, 2013

Trish, I am so deeply saddened by this news. I had no idea. What a wonderful man. You and the boys are in my heart and prayers. May God receive Jared and grant him eternal Peace and rest. Please let me know if there is anything you need.

September 16, 2013

Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

John C. Stewart and Son, Inc
Your Family Owned Ford Store Since 1915

Susan Parker

September 16, 2013

To the Washburn Family - Wishing you peace and comfort at this difficult time.

Kyleen and LeRoy Martelle

September 16, 2013

To the Washburn Family,
We recently purchased a vehicle from Jared and found his professionalism refreshing. In conversations, it was apparent his love for his family and compassion for others.

Tom & Donna Santopolo

September 16, 2013

Tricia, we are so very sad to hear of Jared's passing. We know that you take comfort in knowing that he went straight into the arms of Jesus and is now watching over you and your boys from the balconies of heaven. We love you all very much and please know that you are in our hearts and in our prayers.

Vince Allo

September 16, 2013

I am so sorry to hear the sad news of Jared's passing. May god bless you all during this most difficult time.

Michael OBrien

September 16, 2013

My prayers and sympathys to you and youre family

Jon Gilbert

September 15, 2013

I always enjoyed the random times I would meet Jared in public. Used to work with him and always thought he was just a nice guy. Wishes to you and yours.

Krista Roberts

September 15, 2013

Tricia, I am truly sorry to hear about your loss, especially so suddenly. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers...Krista (Dopslaff) Roberts

Christine Keklak

September 15, 2013

My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. You are loved.

Michele Mack

September 15, 2013

May God bless you all during this very difficult time.Rest in peace my friend.

Darlene

September 15, 2013

You are all in my prayers
So sorry

Sheila and Mallory Bigelow

September 15, 2013

Tricia and family,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

September 15, 2013

my condolences to your family i use to work with jarod at dunkin dounuts ,he was awsome to work with had awsome time working with him.my condolences again ,much respect Jerome Robideau

Tori & Gary Tobin

September 15, 2013

Trish and family. Sending you love and prayers. Big hugs to you all.

The Pecor Family

September 15, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cheryl Stone

September 15, 2013

I did not know you well, but I worked at blockbuster and it was always a pleasure to see Jared and Trisha come Into the store. May he rest in peace and may God be with his beautiful wife and adoring sons in this dark time. Hold tight to one another and rest easy in God's light.

September 15, 2013

Tricia and family, although we do not know you, Jared was an important person to our family in his youth. His friendship with our son brings back many good memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family during this very difficult time. Bill and Donna Mayne

Grace Congregational Church

September 15, 2013

Profoundly stunned.... just hollow.... prayers for you all, and especially the boys... May God's tenderness hold you close and may you find the cracks of Light to illumine your hearts and minds in this difficult time...

Thomas and Peggy Ann Kiley

September 15, 2013

May God be a present help to you in this time of trouble and may the peace and strength of Holy Spirit comfort you in this time of loss. 1 Thes. 4:13-18 gives us the hope that one day soon we will all be reunited together with Jesus for all eternity. Until then we will miss you Jared, as a friend, a brother and as an example of Christ's love in the earth. All of our love to Tricia, Jared Jr., and P.J. We love you so much! OOXXOO

Bill Shappy

September 15, 2013

I met Jared when he worked for me a few years ago. He was a good man, husband and father. May he rest in peace!

Tom & Carrie Shambo

September 15, 2013

To the Washburn family & friends we are so sorry for your loss. May Jared rest in peace.

September 15, 2013

Trish, words can not express how sorry we are for your loss. Lean on The Lord for strength. We love you, Traci & James Madison

brian and lisa granger

September 15, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Joe & Katie Felicetti

September 15, 2013

Tricia, and family we were shocked and saddend to learn about Jareds passing.We are forever Grateful to Jared for all he had done to help us in many situations and was a true inspiration of what God can do to turn your life around..we are VERY proud to call him our friend and we know we shall see him again in Heaven.. our deepest sympathy and condolences to you....

Maryjean & Steven Hochberg

September 15, 2013

Out thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God comfort you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tom and Margaret Bathrick Young

September 15, 2013

We are very sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.

Maryann and Jon Porter

September 15, 2013

Tricia....Many thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Don and Patti Page

September 15, 2013

Dear Mrs. Washburn and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Jared's sudden passing. We met Jared in April of this year at Alderman's when we purchased our new vehicle from him. We were so impressed with his natural courtesies and respect for others. He spoke of his family with such profound love that it was evident what a fine young man he was. May you find comfort from the memories you shared together and the love that made you a family. God Bless you.

September 15, 2013

Trish: Our thoughts are with you and the Lord will be with you each moment of the day. Love, Steff and Chuck Whitehead

Maryann & Jon Porter

September 15, 2013

Tricia...There are no words to express how very sorry I am. You could tell you had a special love just from reading your regular posts. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Maryann (Sweikert) Porter

Kimberly Mayo

September 15, 2013

You will be missed. Too young to die.
Condolences to your whole family.

Brian&Jennifer Rogers

September 14, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

holly

September 14, 2013

So sorry for your loss....you are forever in our hearts and mind.
Love Terry, Holly, Cody, and Chase Morton

Brian & Kandace Kenny

September 14, 2013

We are so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy DiPietro

September 14, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss , my husband has known Jared for a long time. I met Jared when we purchased our vehicle in 2005 at Aldermans . He was our salesperson . He was always so polite when i stopped in for service . He asked how my children were doing & talked about his . ~ Nancy & Chris

Heidi Webster

September 14, 2013

I am so terribly sorry for your loss, Tricia. Jared was a really great guy and loved you all so much. With sympathy and prayers to you all.

LA Rollins

September 14, 2013

Tricia, So very sorry to hear of your loss. Your are in my thoughts and Prayers. God must have needed him more. I know he was your soul mate, and he will continue to look after you, and the boys.

Donna Perugini

September 14, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

tom pemrick

September 14, 2013

please accept my condolences to you and your boys in the loss of your husband and Dad to your boys. i had the pleasure of working with Jared at Aldermans and he was always a great guy to talk with . May He rest in peace and may God comfort you at this time .

Scott MacEslin

September 14, 2013

We share your sorrow and wish we were closer during this trying time. Our family is so small to begin with, and truly wish we could be closer.

Deb Feldman

September 14, 2013

Tricia....I'm so incredibly sorry.
With Deepest Sympathy, Deb Cassavechia Feldman

September 14, 2013

Trisha and family,
May Gods divine love guide you through this very difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Carol & Bert Morton

Margo Martin

September 14, 2013

Trish,

Please accept this as an expression of my sympathy in the passing of Jared. It was a pleasure to know him. You and the boys are in my thoughts and prayers. Cherish your memories.

Brenda Bonilla

September 14, 2013

Words can not express how I feel. Life is so short. My sympathy goes out to the entire Washburn family. Jared was a great father. He will be missed by many.

Brian Ward

September 14, 2013

I was a bystander at the time of the incident and a relief for CPR if needed. I just wish the family the best in this difficult time and my prayers go out to you! <3

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