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Norman Gilman Obituary

Norman Lee Gilman, 73, died peacefully on May 3, 2016, surrounded by his children, their spouses and his extended family.
Norm was born and raised in Rutland, VT.
He was predeceased by his father Donald Gilman and his mother Grace Fairbanks Gilman.
He is survived by his brother, Donald Gilman and his wife Sharon; his daughter Coni Gilman-Solomon and her spouse Kayla; his son Michael Gilman and his partner Kevin Gallagher; his son Mark Gilman and his wife Christina; his ex-wife Donna Bernal Gilman; and his brother-in-law Joe Bernal. He is also survived by his three grandchildren that he loved and adored, Wyatt Gilman, Grace Gilman and Talya Gilman-Solomon.
He was known as the fun-loving Uncle to Brian and Scott Gilman, Jody Belfore, Joey and Matt Bernal, Jude and Tim Bernal, Jim and Jessica Ley, and Matthew Potter.
It was early in his life that he met his greatest friend, Norman Potter. Potter and his wife Sandy were steadfast supports throughout his life along with their childhood sidekicks Larry Carrara and John Miles.
Norm graduated from Rutland High School in 1961 where he developed his mechanical abilities. Norm was a natural athlete in baseball, basketball and football where his ability and leadership on the field contributed to him becoming a Captain.
Norm lived most of his life in Clarendon Springs, VT, where he raised his family, built his business and established a strong Little League program that continues today as the home of the Blue Jays.
As a father or as a coach, Norm was committed to being active and focused on having fun while providing guidance and direction. He was a naturally gifted teacher who was able to relate to kids whether that was through sports, 4-H or as a snowmobile safety instructor with the Vermont State Police. He also served as President of the Green Mountain Snow Flyers club for many years.
Some of Norm's favorite memories were horseback riding, snowmobiling, riding his Goldwing across the country, entertaining at his camp in Shrewsbury, and camping with his family.
Norm started washing cars at Stowell's Chevrolet before getting into mechanical/body repairs. Throughout most of his life you could find him in his garage fixing something, usually with his son Mark by his side. After starting his family, Norm worked briefly at GE before becoming a manager at Merriam Graves.
From there he began selling farm supplies leading him to start his own successful business, Norm's Dairy Supply. He loved traveling to farms throughout Vermont and the surrounding states. Norm credits the Dale Carnegie course in helping him further develop his leadership in his family, business and community.
His children are eternally grateful to his extended family, Robin and Jason Cooney, Lauryn Cronin, Gail Sylvester and Vanessa Cooney, for their amazing love, support and guidance during his final days.
The family would like to thank the staff at St. Joseph's Kervak and Interage in Rutland, VT, for the comfort and care they provided Norm over the years.
The family will host a celebration of his life on June 25, 2016, from 2-5 p.m. at the Shrewsbury Community Meeting House on 88 Lottery Road in Shrewsbury, VT.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in the memory of Norman Gilman to St. Joseph's Kervick Residence, 131 Convent Avenue, Rutland, VT 05701.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rutland Herald on May 7, 2016.

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May 12, 2016

Sorry to learn of Norm's passing. He will be missed by all who knew him. He always had that twinkle in his eyes when years ago we would run into each other. Take strength in the knowledge that he is at peace now. Sandy Charlton LaSante

May 10, 2016

He was a great man... He will definitely be missed. He was a great man to work with.

Laurie Korza

May 10, 2016

Coni and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Coni, your dad seemed like a very spirited guy. You must have inherited that. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Sharon and Ross LaFond

May 10, 2016

Dear Connie,Mark, Mike and loving families members, our thoughts and prayers are with you as you all remember and celebrate loving memories of your father/grandfather

Lucy Cerrone

May 9, 2016

Coni, Kayla and Talya,

We are very sorry about the loss of your Dad/Grandfather.

Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

With love, Lucy and Nick

Chuck and Donna Moulton

May 9, 2016

Rest in Peace, Norm. You leave a wonderful legacy.

Norm and Sandi Potter

May 9, 2016

Coni, Kayla, Mark, Chris, Mike and Kevin
Thank you for the wonderful obit for your Dad. It made us realize how fast..without thinking these 60 years had gone by.
We could not have ever asked for a better friend than Gil...and only hope that when the time comes and Potter joins him..they do not get into interesting ..but legal problems in heaven.
Diamond Jim..we loved you then and always will.

Ginger Bendig

May 9, 2016

Dear Mike, Mark, Connie and families,

I can see where the three of you got your smiles, personalities, and friendly ways! Your dad was very proud of all of you, I'm sure! What a well-written obituary! And those who have sent condolences speak highly of a man you can truly be proud of! Your dad was a well-loved, greatly appreciated and respected man. I hope knowing that he is at Peace will comfort you and help you all cope in this sad time. ~ Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you

Sincerely, Ginger, Shawn, Trevor and Zackary Bendig

allan crossman

May 8, 2016

Rest in peace norm.

donna gilman

May 8, 2016

rest in pease

Geri & Win Adams

May 8, 2016

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Tim Bernal

May 8, 2016

Rest in Peace, Uncle Norm

Tim Bernal

May 8, 2016

Uncle Norm, Thank you for all of the wonderful memories of Horses, Snowmobiles, Motorcycles, Camping, going on Farm Supply runs, our family Trip to Old Orchard Beach and for being a great Mentor, Friend and Uncle when I needed it most. All my thoughts and love to the family.

May 8, 2016

We will miss Norm very much. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Loryn, the staff and all of the participants at InterAge

May 7, 2016

Dear Michael, Kevin and Family,
What a great tribute this obituary is to Norm's life. Thinking of you all at this time of loss. May the memories of all your good times together bring you comfort as you honor who Norm was to each of you.
Love, Kelley & Alison

Mike & Connie Stevens

May 7, 2016

Our condolences Don, to you and all members of your family. Norm was just to young for his passing. At least he will be in Heaven with THE FATHER, SON,AND HOLY SPIRIT where eternal peace will be with him.

Barbara Pechenik Greenberg

May 7, 2016

RHS 61 Class sends its sympathies to the entire Gilman Family. Norm was always a caring, funny, loving classmate. He will forever be in our hearts.

Karen Barone-Melen

May 7, 2016

I have fond memories of Norm & Donna and being friends with the Coni, when I was very young. I'd run into Norm from time to time by the snowmobiles at the fairgrounds, and he always seemed like he was enjoying life. My condolences to all of you at this time. RIP Norm!

mark & shella

May 7, 2016

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Jack & Phyllis Shortsleeve

May 7, 2016

Dear Mark, Michael & Connie and families.
We are sorry to read of Norm's passing. The Obit described him very well. He was a friend to all whenever or where-ever. We had some fun times with him especially at the Shrewsbury camp. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May your fond memories of him help you through this most difficult time.

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