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Carl Zingale Obituary
December 21, 1999 - February 16, 2023
Sacramento, California - Carl 'CJ' Joseph Zingale December 21, 1999 - February 16, 2023 Sacramento, California - Carl 'CJ' Zingale left his worldly cares behind in Los Angeles on February 16, 2023. Carl was 23.
Born in Nizhny Novgorod, Russia, on the shortest day of the year, Carl was determined to make every hour an adventure. In his brief life, he proved to be a fearless ocean junior life guard, frequent snow boarder, serious skate boarder, sketch artist and gifted writer. He attended LA Film School for two years, where his talent and potential for screenwriting was recognized. He lived with family in Sacramento, Santa Cruz, San Francisco, and Fiddletown, and independently in Green Bay, Chicago, San Juan, Puerto Rico and Los Angeles. He liked Vic's ice cream in the summer, Palm Springs and Lake Tahoe in winter, and 28th & B Street Skate Park all year round. He saw Oregon, Alaska, Hawaii, Belize, Mexico, Guatemala, The Dominican Republic, Havana and Moscow. He worked at Célestin's, Joe's Crabshack, CVS, a Burger King in San Juan, and Dodger Stadium. He attended Crocker Riverside Elementary, Camelia Waldorf and McClatchy High. Along the way, he fell in love.
Carl's friends have called him, "frenetic and spiritual," an "uncommon spirit," a "bright spark," "energetic to the point of exhausting," and "a powerful light, blinding at times." Another said, "23 years is a short time for an ordinary life, but for a non-stop performance art exhibit like Carl, it was a good run." Since the age of four, Carl described himself as "BIG ALIVE."
One friend felt this poem 'If I wanted a Boat' by Mary Oliver might capture Carl's approach to life:
I would want a boat... that bounded hard on the waves, that didn't know starboard from port and wouldn't learn... that leaped into the spray...Yes, by the heavens... I would want a boat I couldn't steer.
Carl is preceded by his beloved grandparents Anita Kelly Zingale & Carl Francisco Zingale, and survived, mourned and celebrated by family members Linck Zingale, Chuck Supple & Daniel Zingale, Shannon Hart, Dr. Charles Supple, Tom Zingale, Kate Hamilton & John May, Josephine & Wally Tice, John Supple & Carrie Spiegel, Angie, Joe, Carl & Dan Compton, Erin, Oscar, Donovan & Kevin Rivera, Emma Pauley, April Supple, Dominic Supple, Sally Hamilton, Tom, Shauna & Remy Hamilton, Charles Hamilton, Malia, Phil & Koa Knezevich, Lani Tice, David, April, Gabrielle, Abigail, Sophia & Amelia Bachman, Joseph Linck III, Kathy and Stephanie Baxter, the extended families of Anita Kelly Zingale & Carl Francisco Zingale and by Nancy Beall, Susan Stroud, Angela Barlow, Tim Hamilton, and Oscar Reyes.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carl Zingale
Pop
December 21, 2024
Photo by Carl Zingale
Valerie Lugo
December 7, 2024
Dear Daniel,
To experience parenthood is one of life's greatest virtues. You and Chuck were blessed to have this gift via your son.
Though your grief continues, know and lean on your faith that it was in God's plan. Life is about pain and pleasure and advocating for the helpless, the illerate, and voiceless among us.
May God bless you in your grief and sorrow in the loss of your son during this holy season.
Kathy & Steph
March 6, 2023
Fiddletown
Kathy & Steph
March 6, 2023
Carl working with some new pens he just got.
Kathy & Steph
March 6, 2023
Taking a break from drawing.
Tim Hamilton
March 3, 2023
I had the privilege of being the first in the family to meet Baby Carl. I was in Sacramento for work just after Chuck returned with that beautiful boy. I am heartbroken for everyone in his life. May his memory be a blessing.
Deirdre Mahon
March 2, 2023
Daniel, Chuck, Linck and all extended family and friends. I´m so very sorry for the loss of CJ, Carl (Baby) who left this mortal earth way too soon. Even though I only met Carl a few times, his bright spirit lingered and was always felt through dear Shannie´s stories and fond sharing over the years. Keep Carl´s beautiful spirit alive and continue to admire what a free soul he was. Sending hugs and big love to you all during this difficult time Deirdre, Leonard and Tiernan x
Jeanette Sauvageau
March 1, 2023
Hey D, I am so so so sorry to hear about Carl. My heart is breaking for you, Chuck and Linck. I can’t even imagine how you are dealing with this. I remember him coming into the TCE office and going around talking with all of the staff and making everyone laugh. He was a very kind soul. Rick and I our sending you, Chuck, and Linck our love, prayers, condolences and deepest sympathy. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Love ya D!
Catalina
March 1, 2023
Uncle Tom
March 1, 2023
Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Kate Hamilton
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Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Kate Hamilton
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Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Kate Hamilton
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Kate Hamilton
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Kate Hamilton
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Kate Hamilton
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Kate Hamilton
February 28, 2023
A force of nature, a shining light, bigger than life, a truly unique spirit who touched all who were fortunate enough to know him - that´s our Baby! His 23 years were far too short but he lived life bigger with more love and adventure than most will know in a lifetime. Our hearts our breaking and our family is sending Chuck, Dan and Linck our love, prayers, condolences and deepest sympathy. His beautiful spirit and energy will live on in all of his beloved family and all who knew him. RIP our beloved Baby.
Sally Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Sally Hamilton
February 28, 2023
Sally Hamilton
February 28, 2023
The brightest of lights
Josephine Tice
February 28, 2023
Carl was Big Alive from the moment he entered our lives. His energy, love of family and adventure will live on in all of us.
Aunt Jo
Baby Fans
February 28, 2023
Isla del Espiritu Santo
February 28, 2023
Ryan Wentworth
February 28, 2023
Daniel and Chuck, I'm so sorry to hear the tragic news and my condolences go out to both of you. I remember Carl coming into the office (always with his skateboard) and hanging out. He will be missed.
Pop
February 28, 2023
Judi Larsen
February 28, 2023
Sending prayers and warm thoughts for you all during this time. I did not know Carl but remember the many stories of love and pride Daniel shared (hugs to you my friend).
David Muraki
February 27, 2023
I havent seen Carl since he was probably three or so years old but I still clearly remember him. I´m sorry beyond words to learn that his life was cut short but it brings me joy to know that he lived the adventure. Chuck, Daniel and Linck, my condolences.
Terry S
February 27, 2023
Carl was loved by his family. I was sadden to hear of his passing. Chuck and David, you are in my thoughts.
Terry S.
Sue Ko
February 27, 2023
Daniel, we didn't know each other well, but in managing the TCE Sac conference center, I really felt your stamp of inclusiveness. Your son Carl must have been surrounded by that warmth in his adventurous life. Beautiful picture of his head in the clouds. My heart goes out to you.
Brian Mimura
February 27, 2023
Daniel, Chuck, and family: Though I did not know CJ myself, I am so terribly sorry to hear about his passing. What a full life he lived in his time here, anchored by your love for him. I can't imagine what you all are going through, but please know that my thoughts are with you, along with my hopes that you find some solace in the strength, love, and compassion of those surrounding you.
Karen Sack
February 26, 2023
The unexpected loss of a child is heart wrenching. Take comfort in knowing you gave Carl a better life than where his early destiny was directing him by providing him a loving home. Reflect upon all your good memories together to celebrate his life and lock Carl into your heart.
The three of you are in our thoughts.
With sincerest condolences,
Karen & Gary
ELIZABETH CALVIN
February 26, 2023
Chuck and Daniel -and your whole family- you are in my heart. I am so sorry. It´s clear that CJ was a big, beautiful light in the world, and his loss immeasurable. May his memory be a blessing.
Smoke Tree Ranch
February 26, 2023
Baby Fans
February 25, 2023
Sarah Reyes
February 25, 2023
I didn't know Carl, but I know Daniel and Chuck and if he was as bright a spirit, I know he was a bright light.
Daniel and Chuck, I send you my prayers and thoughts during this time. I know this loss is tough and the pain will never go away, but you know that Carl loved both of you and was proud to call you his Dads.
Robert Ross
February 25, 2023
It ain´t the years in your life, it´s the life in your years....rest in peace brother Carl, you lived it
Dad
February 25, 2023
"Oh what did you hear my darling young one?"
Dad
February 25, 2023
"Oh what did you see my blue eyed son?"
Bob Salladay
February 25, 2023
A rare spirit. I was glad to know you. Rest in peace.
Baby Fans
February 25, 2023
Beth Maurea Reis
February 25, 2023
I never had the opportunity to meet Carl, the brilliant writer, artist, free spirited, world traveler. My most sincere condolences to all his family. May Carl rest peacefully.
With Love, Beth
Linck Zingale
February 25, 2023
Linck Zingale
February 25, 2023
Linck Zingale
February 25, 2023
Emma M Pauley
February 25, 2023
Bill, Lynn and the Hartman Family
February 25, 2023
What a lovely tribute to a precious life lost much too soon. We're sending love and prayers of peace for all who knew and loved sweet Carl.
Timothy Zindel
February 25, 2023
I used to love the exuberance of Carl online, so many wise observations, real feelings, odd notices, and always full of life. He left a strong memory in me and in my kids, who grew up around him. Love to Chuck, Daniel, Linck, and the rest of the family.
Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Shannon Hart
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Shannon Hart
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Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Baby: a brilliant, radiant soul with its eternal incandescence. Our love transcends, Sissy
Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Shannon Hart
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Shannon Hart
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Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Shannon Hart
February 25, 2023
Baby: A brilliant, radiant soul with its eternal incandescence. Our love transcends, Sissy
Matt Huffman
February 25, 2023
I´m humbled and honored to know Carl. Amazing dude. I´ll pay a little more attention to someone on the street in Carl´s honor
Bruce B.
February 25, 2023
May you run free Carl!!
Havana
February 25, 2023
Havana
Love, Pop
February 24, 2023
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