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Carlos Torres Obituary
TORRES, Carlos Henry
Born July 5, 1967, passed away peacefully June 2, 2008 at the age of 40. He leaves behind to cherish his memories, his wife Nigisti Torres; his children Carlos, Camille, Solomon, Simera, and Sanite Torres; and a host of family and friends. Celebration of his life, Tuesday June 10th, public viewing 9-10am, service at 11am at Center of Praise, 1228 23rd Street, Sacramento, CA 95816. Interment Sylvan Cemetery. A memorial fund has been established at Sacramento Credit Union, P.O. Box 2351, Sacramento, CA 95812-2351 - Account #164464.
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Solomon
June 2, 2025
Got a new job pops thinking I can really make a career out of it I hope your proud miss you big dawg
Dr. Andrea´ Torres-Blue
June 1, 2025
Dear Uncle I miss you!
Jackie Voyles
June 3, 2024
Hello Gentle Giant,
We still talk about you, you will always be remembered. Hug my parents for me... We all love you.... you are missed everyday!
Dr. Andrea´ Torres-Blue
June 2, 2024
Dear uncle I miss you! Every year! Every Day!
Dr. Andrea Torres-Blue
May 19, 2022
Well Uncle I did it. This is for you for us! 3 kids later and I´m tired reaping all I sewed I love and miss you so much!
Solomon
May 6, 2022
I miss you pops
Andrea Torres-Blue
April 28, 2020
Hey Uncle I miss you!
Amari Gonzales
April 26, 2020
hello my name is Amari Gonzales.in when I was 3, i thought u were so tal. u found a home for me and my 2 little brothers patrick and george
Jackie Voyles
June 3, 2019
Miss you Gentle Giant!!! Say hello to my family in heaven for me!!
Always Jackie
Andrea Torres-Blue
May 5, 2017
Hank I miss you I hope you and the family are together. I love you. I had a son...He is handsome like you I love you! You'll be proud of me Uncle I didn't stop I am almost done with my PhD... This is for you!
June 19, 2011
Dear Torres Family,
Mr. Torres was one of the best professors I have had in my lifetime. Mr. Torres had inspired me to achieve what was in my heart, soul and mind. He was one of the most hard working men I had met and he had a heart of gold. He helped others when he could, and had an open mind and offered his help when possible. I am sad that he had passed away. I wish I could tell him that his inspiration took me as far to medical school. God had wanted Mr. Torres closer to him, and I believe that Carlos did his best in whatever he set his mind too. I am honored to have been one of his students, and words can not describe how hurt I am from his passing. His life story could have been a bestseller novel; his life intrigued me in no other way possible. May he rest in peace.
May God Bless You All,
Ali Haq
(Former Student of Mr. Torres)
Andrea Torres
January 3, 2010
Today I think of you uncle reading email sad you never got the chance to see my daughter...I miss you
Tammie Badger
August 25, 2009
I just can not belive that this great man is gone. I just found out today, when I went by his office to ask him to mentor for my daughter. He was so good at getting these kids to stay in school and make something of their young life. I am so very sorry for your lost. Mr. Torres is missed, he was so much fun to be around....Tammie Badger (Sacramento City College)
Jackie Voyles
February 2, 2009
Carlos,
You did it buddy... "Your Steelers WON the Super Bowl XLIII - 2009"
You called it in February 2008 "You said they will make it to the Super bowl and will take it all... Carlos you were there in the last few minutes of that game... You pulled it off... Buddy...Sleep tight OUR gentle giant...
We love you...
The girls at OB3
Gina Lewis Lopes
July 24, 2008
Still Cannot believe the loss of such a great person. I met Carlos, Burnis, Ronnie, Randy and the crew at CRC. No matter when I would run into any of them til this day, They still tease me about my hair! My memory of Carlos is his smile and always crackin' a joke usually on me saying "What Are Ya Jayne Kennedy!" some of you may not get the joke, ! I know he is laughing right now !
I am so sorry of the loss of your husband, father, and your friend. He will be truly missed! I know he is looking down at all of us with that beautiful smile! Luv Ya Carlos! 'What Are Ya!!"
Aneatra Harvey
June 17, 2008
To The Family,
Sorry is really not sufficient when describing a loss of this magnitude, but God will hold you during this difficult time. I know about God's comforting power and you will make it. Call out to Jesus when you feel like you just can't go on. God bless you.
Joseph Haskins
June 16, 2008
To the Torres Family,
I don't know where to start, 'Los you have always been the silver lining, the bright star, a man that excelled in ways that most of us never knew you would and you stayed humble and consistent throughout the years that I've know you. My memories go all the way back to us playing ball at Cosumnes River and doing all of things that young men do. And now my memories are of you as a grown man raising a family and being a great dad and husband, a man of God and a brother in Christ. I know I speak for all of us who have been blessed to know you, we are blessed for knowing you and our lives have been affected by you until the end of time. I will never forget the friend that you have been to me. My prayers go out to your family, because the only thing that you could do better than be a friend is to be a son, brother, father and husband.
God Bless
Adrienne VanQuill
June 16, 2008
What can a person say? "So Sorry" is insufficient..."I'm sorry for your loss"?...You cannot say anything to express to the family your personal grief because their greiving is so much more. It even sounds selfish to say "I'll miss him". Of course we'll miss him, but his family will forever have an empty space in their souls. He was here in our office for such a short time, and yet he touched EVERYONE in our department. It's very unusual for a person to become so well-known, well-liked, and well-respected in a year's time around here. Everyone is so busy that sometimes you don't even see your co-workers, whether they're out in the field, or standing right next to you. Carlos was a light. Although it sounds corny, whenever the death of such a good spirit happens, and there seems no reason or answer as to "why", my way of understanding it is this: God needed an Angel, and he chose Carlos. Now Carlos will forever be young. He will look down on those he loved, and guide us all with our memories of him.
Darlene Edadiz
June 16, 2008
To The Torres Family -
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sorrowful time.
We met Carlos when he was assigned as our social worker in the adoption of our 4 year old granddaughter. He was so wonderful to us. Through his guidance and help we were able to navigate through a system that can be very difficult if you are not familiar with the County. He became someone I found myself turning to time and time again. Through his help we were able to adopt 3 of our grandchildren. He made time for us and our endless questions. He even jumped in and suggested things to make our lives easier. He was always helping someone. He gave a 100% in everything he did. He was always laughing and seemed to enjoy his life.
The first time I met Carlos was when he came over for a visit with my 4 year old granddaughter. He was so tall, but he got down on the floor, at her level, and immediately engaged her in a conversation that made her comfortable. She even let him hold her favorite doll. My oldest granddaughter was in his class at Sac City. He gave her a ride home after class and would use that time to talk her about things he felt she needed to hear. He would pop his head in the door and speak to everyone even if only for a few minutes. He was a wonderful person who touched many lifes and made them better. He was a very caring person and made our family feel like we were his only caseload.
He was a positive force and one that will be missed always. He spoke lovingly about his wife and children with a sparkle brighter than any star in the sky.
He will be forever missed. For all the things everybody will miss about him, he too will miss those things about everybody.
I hope his family is able to find comfort in all the love and prayers that are being sent their way.
God Bless You
Tonie Hilligoss
June 13, 2008
To Carlos’ family,
Carlos was a wonderful colleague who made a huge difference in the lives of his students at Sacramento City College. He taught young people how to reassess their lives and discover their potential, and that opened doors they didn’t previously know existed. It was a privilege to have been able to work with him, and I know I speak for many when I tell you his loss will be deeply felt at the college. I wish you the best during this difficult time.
Rodney Hausey
June 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Big "Hank" was a pure joy to be around he was the true spirit of what happiness is.When i heard of his passing i felt sad to know we have lost a very genuine person but as i and many others know Carlos brought Joy to many people and that will be with us until we meet again .
Mauricio Gonzalez
June 12, 2008
Carlos,
You will be missed! You had a tremendous influence on our students here at Sac City College. RIP.
mg
Brenda Mitchell
June 11, 2008
Everyday is such a gift. Your beautiful, loving, family is a testament to how life should be lived. Our hearts are with you all, Carlos will be so missed, but his impact on this earth is forever felt. All my love to you Nigisti and children.
May West
June 11, 2008
To Carlos's family,
I am a part of Carlos's work family. He related to each of us so lovingly that we all thought we were special to him. He made us laugh all the time. I didn't know he had such a wonderful singing voice. He was so compassionate with the children he worked with. He had a fabulous working relationship with his supervisor. He had a natural gift for bringing out the best in others. He joked and shared love with everyone he met. I miss you Carlos.
April Learson
June 11, 2008
To the Torres family, my sympathy goes out to you and your family. Carlos was a good person and fun to work with. Carlos you will surely be missed.
Eric Goodman
June 11, 2008
To the Torres family,
My deepest condolences go out to you for your loss. Carlos was a friend to many and always had a way of making people laugh. We played basketball together at CRC and those bus rides to and from our games were some comical times. No one ever gave me more confidence on the basketball court than Big 'Los. He was definitely a gentle giant. May you all find comfort in the fact that he is in a better place looking down with that familiar smile on his face.
Jeannine Lopez
June 10, 2008
To Nigisti and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your husband was a good man and a great father. You are lucky to have had him in your life and he was lucky to have you and the children to complete his life. My heart goes out to you during this time. You are strong and will survive this because that is what he would want you and the children to do. Much love and sympathy goes out to you right now.
Sheri Barnes
June 10, 2008
To The Torres Family,
My heart truly goes out to your family during this difficult time. My sister Jackie worked with Carlos and always spoke about what a kind person he was and what a devoted and loving husband and father he was. I met Carlos and his beautiful family in church when they provided comfort and kind words for me and my family after the lost of my husband in October and my brother in July. Just from this brief meeting, I truly felt the loving and beautiful spirit that Carlos had and the love that he had for his beautiful wife and children. My prayers go out to you because I truly know what you are experiencing at this time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and that we are here if you need anything.
Sincerely,
Sheri Barnes
Lorna Brazelton
June 10, 2008
I will miss Carlos way of making me laugh when problems come my way at work. He put a mark on my heart with his words of wisdom that only came from his true love of God. I could tell the way he talk about God he was very serious about his spirtual life. I am said that he is gone but knowing he is with our heavenly Father brings joy to my sadness.
Shawn & Michelle Mitchell
June 10, 2008
Mrs. Torres & Family, our hearts & prayers are with you all. May the Lord continue to bring you strength, peace & comfort during these times.
Sabrina Wilkes
June 10, 2008
All of us at the office are feeling Carlos's loss very much and will miss Carlos more than we can say. Carlos was a wonderful person, talented and with a loving spirit, and I know that you and your family have suffered a great loss. I feel privileged to have counted Carlos as a friend. I hope that the family can find some comfort in your many special memories and in the thought of the happy years you shared.
Julie Escoto-Munoz
June 10, 2008
Nigisti and kids-
I know you must be hurting so badly right now. There are just no words to express the loss. I know that it is of comfort knowing that he is with the Father....it is just so hard for those of us that miss him. It takes a lot of time and a lot of prayer. Don't be afraid to ask for help, you have a lot of people who love and care about you all. Nigistina, you are an incredible woman and I know that you will thrive. I love you!
Sarah Duncan
June 10, 2008
Nigisti and family,
I am heartbroken at your loss, but I know that you are one of the strongest people I know and you will get through this. Carlos was such a kind and loving person and was not shy about telling everyone how much he loved his wife and children.
Nigisti, I know you and your family are cherishing him in your hearts. He really is someone that will never be forgotten. Selicia and I both send you our love and thoughts.
London Donson
June 9, 2008
Mr. T, I'll remember you as the coolest Sociolgy Teacher ever. Not only was your class fun. But it changed my life. And it also introduced me to some amazing people. You made it happen, and I'll always a appreciate you and what you did for not only me, but for everyone you helped and guided.
Renee Edadiz
June 9, 2008
Carlos was such a great person...
He always knew how to brighten up a room...He was always cracking jokes and laughing.
When he first became my social worker I began to wonder if he was real. The first thing I noticed was his intimidating height. He proved to be a great social worker.
Soon after he convinced me to take his Sociology class. I was really nervous to set foot in his class. I wasn't sure what kind of teacher he would be. He proved to be a great teacher. Funny most of the time, but strict when needed.
He was really a good friend of my family and a good friend to me. He was part of our family. He didn't need to be blood related to be a part of our family. He was always there taking care of us when we needed help. It didn't matter if it was something on our case or if it was someone to talk to about life, school, friends, etc. He was always there.
Carlos is one of those people that you meet and you never forget. I still can't believe he is gone. He really left his mark on my heart and in my life. Of all the social workers I had ever met.... none have changed my life for the better like Carlos has. He is really an unforgettable person. I will never forget him. Not as a social worker, teacher, person, or friend....
I only met his children one time, but they were beautiful kids. He loved them so much. His wife. Oh, did he love his wife. He called her these silly pet names that made me laugh on our car rides home from Sac City. I remember when he bought her the new Sequoia. He was so excited that he got it for her. It was her car because he had his little jolopy as I called is car. He was the funniest man I had ever met. And he loved his family so very much. I'm so sorry for your loss. As much as it hurts me to know he is gone.....I can't ever imagine the ache in your hearts or the emptiness you are feeling. You all are in my prayers and thoughts. He loved you all with all his heart and soul.
Stephanie
June 9, 2008
Nigisti and family,
God Bless you all. My daughter was in class with Simera this year. We are praying for you.
Michael Houston
June 9, 2008
I will always remember that smile and the energy Carlos brought with him. He is my friend and brother in Christ. I will miss him dearly. Mrs. Torres, my heart goes out to you and the kids. I cannot bring my to say I understand what you feel. I will miss him too and his ball playing years with COP. In any case, please be comforted knowing that Carlos is with the Father and he is watching over you and the kids. He loves you and the kids dearly. He is very much a part of our life with you now, so whenever you see us, you will see some of him. God bless you always and especially during these times.
Bobby & Velma Barefield
June 9, 2008
Sorry to hear of your loss. We pray that God will comfort you in your time of sorrow and give you peace in the days ahead.
Mary Richardson
June 9, 2008
May the God of all comfort, comfort you and your family. Know that God He is able to fill every space in our lives and mend the broken hearts.
Gina Foreman (Formally Carter)
June 9, 2008
No comfort is quite enough to replace the loss. But at the very least I want you to know that I am here and wanting to support you and your family. May God's presence comfort you and minister to your every need.
jen f
June 9, 2008
I REMEBER TWO AND HALF YEARS AGO WHEN I FIRST MEET YOU, MY FIRST DAY ON THE JOB AND I TURNED AROUND AND LOOKED UP I WAS LIKE WOW YOU ARE TALL, you were always cutting jokes and making life funny when you were around, and when your wife came to work here too it was even funnier in this department, I wont forget that you were a wonderful human bean and had a wonderful heart till next time (squeeze me with baking powder) My heart will be with your lovely wife and beautiful children, may god watch over them and you.
Ms. Jackson
June 9, 2008
To the Torres Family:
My sympathy goes out to all of you, and I will keep you in my prayers.
The desire to reach for the stars is ambitious.
The desire to reach hearts is wise.
And that is what Carlos did.
Natalie DeMartin-Cavalli
June 9, 2008
Carlos...my office next-door neighbor. You brought so much laughter to my life. I loved working with you everyday. I would always be sad when you were not at work because I knew it would be a dull and drab day. I looked forward to seeing your smiling face. I miss singing Jodeci songs with you. Our songs were always followed by you asking me, "Were you singing or was that your stomach growling?"
I loved singing old 80's and 90's rap songs to see if you knew them. Of course, you always did. I'll never forget you joining in on "The Cars that Go Boom".
My thoughts and prayers are with your wife and children, who I know you loved dearly. Much Love Always.
Josepf Ware
June 9, 2008
To the Torres family,
What a Mighty man of God! God has call home one of His true soldiers. May the Lord comfort his beautiful family during this transition. I will pray daily as I did with Carlos. Will, Rob(Bosco) and myself used to meet on Sat. mornings to be accountable to God, family and each other. We will leave his chair open each meeting because he will be there in Sprit!
God Bless and comfort you Torres family!
Tina Foster
June 9, 2008
Carolos will be missed by so many people for so many reasons. He had a great laugh and warm smile, he cared about others and Carlos expressed daily how much he loved his family. He was a role model to so many others, especially young males who were blessed to have met him. Carlos, you are such a sweet man and we will all miss you until we are able to meet again.
sheila johnson
June 9, 2008
Carlos, You are the man and missing yah daily.The office is not the same without you here!!!
Rest in Peace, we will take care of the family.
In our hearts 4 life!!
Brian Stamps
June 9, 2008
I did not know Carlos very well but every time we saw each other we talked about family, social issues, etc. I always left our talks feeling more informed and enlightened then before our last talk.
He was both a gentleman and a gentle man.
Shaun and Stephanie Hopkins
June 9, 2008
Carlos will be missed greatly. Nigisti you will be well taken care of by our church family (COP'ians) and friends. We love your family and we continue to pray for comfort through this time. God Bless...
Nicole Ward
June 9, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are will the Torres family. You will be missed "Hank".
Jackie Voyles
June 9, 2008
To the Torres Family...
May god hold you tight in his arms in this time of sorrow... Godspeed Carlos... You are all in our prayers...
Here is a poem I wrote for "Our Beloved Co-worker and Friend"...
I wanted to share with all who knew Carlos "Our Gentle Giant"
Our Gentle Giant
You are our gentle giant…
You passed through our lives like a whirled wind, leaving us all with a warm heart…
Your gentle ways of making us laugh, with each and every smile you laid upon us…
You walked in with the power to change us all, leaning on you made it so we would not fall…
You left us too early for CPS in heaven…
I guess God needed you to help keep the children in line…
You Carlos will forever be in our hearts and our memories of you we will hold dear.
You left your mark in our hearts forever…
Our gentle giant…
You will be missed by all who knew YOU!
Godspeed our friend…
Chanice Hogan
June 9, 2008
Carlos was one of the best dictators at the job. He was an awesome social worker. When I met him, he appeared as a gentle giant and he always had a smile and wanted people to laugh. A true "Steeler" fan, as I am a "Cowboy" fan, we rivaled, but shared a love for football. He will be missed for his humor on the tapes at work, for his "coming by my cubicle to bother me" episodes and for his banana pudding he so marveled about. Most importantly, my prayers and thoughts go out to his wife and children who I've never been able to meet personally, but knew through Carlos. As I close, at least your pain and suffering was peaceful and I know that God loves you so much more than we could have here on earth. May He comfort your family during this very hard time.
I will miss you very much friend.
ms. clh :)
Ericka Bradley
June 9, 2008
To the Fam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I haven't seen Hank in forever, but man, I remember the good old days, back at Denny's after partying at the 2nd level!! He was the one that hipped me to dipping my fries in ranch dressing!!! I'm blessed to know that he was in the Army of the Lord and as the Word says, to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. May God continue to keep and bless you all, and may we aspire to be where he is now.
Precious Mathews
June 8, 2008
My cousin Hank, I still can't believe you are gone. We were raised together as children but as adults had grown apart. I think about you everyday. My heart and love goes out to your wife Nigisti and children. I know you are at peace and in a better place. I love you always!
Rob Carter
June 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Torres Family. 'los was my boy from WAY back. I remember all the bball games at COP and all the talks we used to have.Take comfort in the fact that He is resting in Peace awaiting his ressurection body. May God continue to provide comfort to the family.
Teresa Lopez
June 8, 2008
Nigisti and family I love you, My thoughts and prayers are with you, I have many charished memories of Carlos and the family and will always hold them dear. I will miss the laughter and joy that he brought to all those he met. I am available to you Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time and in the weeks to came.
May God restore you,
The Lopez Family
Sandra Gomez
June 8, 2008
Nigisti and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Carlos was a great father, husband, and human being. He left an enormously wonderful legacy on this earth! You are in my thoughts and prayers always. May god give you strength and encouragement during this very difficult time.
Marcos Lopez
June 7, 2008
Carlos, as you used to say, my brother in Christos, I will really miss you. Your words helped me through one of the most difficult times in my life when you shared with me about the "Armor of God". I pray that your family is comforted during this difficult time. Until we meet again,
Ronni Walker
June 7, 2008
Hank you will forever be loved and missed. May your memories bring comfort to family and friends in their time of grief. You will always be in my prayers.
Le'Mone Green
June 7, 2008
It truly saddens me to here of this news. Carlos will be very missed by all. I remember meeting him when I first arrived at Johnson in my junior year and he was a senior the big man on campus introducing me to every one he knew. He had me laughing in know time and I had just met him. I remember playing alot ball in the gym with him and Burnis Chambers, Ronny Cubb and Benji Garnet and hearing him come up with these jokes It made playing basketball very hard because I was laughing so hard.
I'll miss him There will never be another HANK. God Bless you and your family.
Keianna Commons
June 7, 2008
Uncle Hank I LOVE you so much but you pastaway so fast that i didnt get to say goodbye but i bet u know how much love i got for you so I love so much and *rest in peace*
keianna commons
June 7, 2008
uncle hank I LOVED u so much and u left so soon that I didnt get to say goodbye but now I can.. I love u so much and R.I.P *we all love u*
Lisa
June 7, 2008
Carlos,
You will be missed more than you know. You. You touched so many lives! To your loving family...my heart and thoughts are with you.
Kayla Commons
June 7, 2008
To my Uncle Hank, I love you very much and I did not want to let you go so soon. Now you are in a better place, In Heaven ~ In GOD'S hands.
Basketball Allstars?
The Pronovosts
June 7, 2008
You will always live in our hearts and prayers. We will miss the laughter you brought into our lives. It was a pleasure to have had you as a neighbor and as a friend.
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