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for Christopher Widder
Connor Saxen
October 12, 2015
After 3 years It still doesn't feel the same without you around! Hope you livin it up in heaven!
Tamara & Wayne Moeller
February 26, 2014
Still in our thoughts...
Moellers
Michele Frisella
May 30, 2013
I grieve with you old friends.
Carol Lee Yates Prusinski
January 26, 2013
Scott, Karen, Alex ---
I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Through all these posts and photos, he reminds me of a young boy I knew at Mitchel Field base in. NY so long ago... That is you, Scott--- I remember your infectious smile and pleasant personality--- bounding those steps with your black lab, Abby, was it? It is an unbelievable heartbreak, your son, yours and Karen's and a brother to Alex. I am grateful you had him, loved him and he apparently touched so many lives in his short but meaningful life. And Scott, you will always love and remember him, and if he was anything like I remember you, what an awesome young man and full of light just like I remember his dad to be.... Best to you, your family, Art, Betty, John, Anna Banana and Sue. May he RIP and watch over you always, need anything do not hesitate even from this distance
The Akers Family
November 15, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with this family who lost their son at such a young age.
November 13, 2012
Deepest sympathy to the family at this time. May you all be able to rely on God for strength to make it through your difficult time. 2 Corinthians 4:7
M. Perez
November 5, 2012
I am sorry for your loss.
You can find comfort in God's word at Psalms 55:22 and in the loving memories of your dear love one.
Jones Family
November 5, 2012
Our sincere sympathy to the family. May your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you. Psalm 46:1
Ms
October 31, 2012
So sorry to read of the loss of young Christopher. May "the God of all comfort" be with you at this time (2 Cor. 1:3)
October 30, 2012
To the family: I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your dear loved one who has fallen asleep in death. May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time.
John Rasmussen
October 24, 2012
Karen, Scott, and Alex,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
John, Miriam, Miranda and Madison
Bill, Connie, Will and Ben Woehler
October 24, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex, we have been thinking about you constantly since hearing about Chris. We will keep you in our prayers and hope that if there is anything we can do to help during this time, you will let us know. God bless you.
Pat Harper
October 22, 2012
Scott, My deepest sympathy for you, your wife, and son. I pray that you and your family, find peace and comfort in knowing that God has count of every tear. Keep the Faith Always.
Patrick & Chris Northstar
October 21, 2012
Burgers at Awful Awful, Reno
October 21, 2012
Chris at Dylan's 16th @ Northstar
October 21, 2012
Dylan's 16th at Awful Awful, Reno, NV
October 21, 2012
Chris, ready to hit the slopes at Sierra
October 21, 2012
Chris & Dylan at Sierra
October 21, 2012
Chris & Robbie loading music 2007
October 21, 2012
Chris lounging at the Northstar cabin 2007
October 21, 2012
Chris at Northstar 2007
October 21, 2012
Chris and Rory at Northstar 2007
Kori MacDonnell
October 21, 2012
Chris & Robbie Northstar 2007
October 21, 2012
Northstar Cabin 2007
Chris Widder
October 21, 2012
Kori MacDonnell
October 21, 2012
Dear Karen, Alex and Scott,
Dylan and I love you all so very much. Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Chris was such a intricle part of Dylan's transition when we moved back to Folsom in 2007. Chris walked up to Dylan on the first day of high at Vista Del Lago and said, "Dylan, remember me, we used to go to he same daycare?" Chris introduced Dylan to Patrick, Robbie, Rory, Paul, and many others that day. In my opinion, the most extraordinary thing about our boys is that although they are all so very different, together they form a bond unlike any I have ever seen. Each with their own strengths, Chris was the glue, the nurturer, the one that made them lighten up and laugh, when things were difficult. Dylan's wardrobe was often filled with unfamiliar bright, neon sweatshirts and colorful blue or red sneakers which all of our boys shared via Chris. Chris was a bright light and will continue to live inside of all of us. know, that although I can not comprehend your loss, the people Chris touched along the way, lost a friend, a brother, a neighbor, a boyfriend, nephew, student and a young man that I personally loved as one of my sons, through proxy...
Wishing you endless amounts of love... Kori XO
Pauline McClean
October 20, 2012
Dear Karen and Scott, We used to live on Keller Circle and Chelsea just came home from school today and told me about your loss. I am so very, very sorry and saddened. Chelsea says he was always nice to her and said hi whenever they saw each other. I will pray for you and your family. I realize you will never be free of grief, but I will pray for it to ease. God bless you, turn to Him for comfort. It is the only place to go.
Cheri Burmester
October 20, 2012
Our hearts are full of sadness at the loss of your son. May you find comfort in each other and may prayers and love surround you all.
Jim, Cheri, Chris and Austin Burmester
Bev Freliche and Gary Davis
October 20, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex - we are so sorry for your loss and will keep you in our prayers. Only someone who has gone through such a tragedy knows what you are experiencing, but we can pray that you sense the presence of God in your lives today and in the days ahead.
Danielle Wagner
October 19, 2012
I can't even find the words to say, how sorry I am. I was so heart broken when I got the news about my "Widdy Widder". He was such a funny guy who always made me smile every day he walked in my classroom, I was so lucky to have had him be a part of my favorite class of all time.
Love, Danielle Wagner
October 19, 2012
Dear the Widder Family,
I am so sad and sorry that Chris (aka Widdy Widder) is gone. I was so lucky to have had him in my class so many years ago, he is truly one of my most special classes ever. I will miss his smile and laughter!
Love, Danielle Wagner
October 19, 2012
Our deepest condolences to each family member. Know you are being prayed for and Chris is deeply missed already.
The dePuglia, Huntington and Reeves Family's
The Fuller Family
October 19, 2012
Dear Scott, Karen and Alex,
Our hearts, hugs, and prayers go out to each of you in sympathy for your unimaginable loss. We have wonderful memories of days on the soccer sidelines. Christopher's infectious smile, sense of humor, and big heart will always be remembered. May you find comfort in friendship, hope in prayer, and peace in love! God Bless!
October 19, 2012
May God bless the Widder family. I am saddened to hear this news. Chris was in my advisory class and one guitar class at Vista. He was always easy to work with. He will be missed.
Mindi Merri
October 19, 2012
My deepest sympathy for your loss. ??
Dylan Robb's aunt.....Mindi Merri
Karoline Platt & Family
October 19, 2012
Dear Karen, Scott, and Alex,
There are no words to express the sorrow we feel for your family. We take comfort knowing he is in Gods hands now, and will watch over his family and friends with gusto!
I was lucky enough to meet Chris and his family when I ran the Folsom Lacrosse Program. Chris was vibrant, and loved to make me laugh! He was a true warrior in lacrosse.
Rest in peace Chris, you will be missed.
With love and condolences,
October 19, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex
I used to teach both Alex and Christopher at a pre-school here in Folsom. Christopher was such an amazing little guy. I can still see him with his blanket sucking his thumb. He always held a special place in my heat. I was heartbroken to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Stacy
Julie Garcia
October 18, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex. You are all in my prayers tonight. I am so sorry. I believe sometimes God calls on the best to come home and Christopher was an amazing young man! There are no answers but be assured you are a wonderful family. Be strong. I love you guys. My heart is with you!
Angela Kizziar
October 18, 2012
Karen,Scott and of course my Alex.. No words can describe the sadness I feel for you or myself.. Bear was just that special.. I know as do you that life will never be the same after meeting that guy.. What a gift he gave us all.. Live your life with a passion..what amazing parents .. And friends you both are.. And Alex you my love are a rock star.. Thank you all for allowing me to be a part of your lives for the last 17 years and many more to come.. I'm truly grateful for all the years I had with him.. You could just not smile when you were around him.. Anything you need.. I'm here.. I even have taquitos xo
The Dietz Family
October 18, 2012
Remembered in love.
Polly Bellotti Garvey
October 18, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex,
Focusing on the good times and happy memories will hopefully comfort you during this challenging time. You are in my thoughts.
October 18, 2012
Scott, Karen, and Alex, You are all in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of Christopher.I will keep you in my prayers in the days and months to come. Susan Dusseau
Chris Chace
October 18, 2012
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy to your family along with the hope that you are able to find comfort in the memories of Christopher.
Bunny & Chip Cass
October 18, 2012
Scott and Karen and Alex, we are so saddened by the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Be there for each other. Bunny & Chip Cass
October 18, 2012
May God be with you and your family during this time.
Jack & Rosetta
Goodmanson Family
October 18, 2012
God Bless!
Charlie Powell
October 18, 2012
Scott, Heli and I were so saddened to hear of Christopher's passing. May you and your family be comforted by your memories.
October 18, 2012
Scott, Heli and I were so saddened to hear of Christopher's passing. May you and your family be comforted by your memories.
October 18, 2012
Scott and Family
I am shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. Losing a child is so incomprehensible. Words cannot express my sympathies but my prayers are for love and comfort for you and your family.
Sandi Banta
Chris Padilla
October 18, 2012
Karen, Scott and Alex- I am so very sorry to hear about Chris' passing. I remember him as a little tow head with his blankie and him sucking his thumb. We have many great memories of him here at La Petite. Love and Prayers to all of you.... Ms. Chris
Yvonne Ho
October 18, 2012
Scott, Karen, and Alex,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my deepest sympathies to you and all your family and friends.
Rich Steward
October 18, 2012
Scott, Karen, and Alex, I am so very sorry, and saddened, for your loss of Christopher. I cannot image the emotions you are going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lee Heiden-Schock
October 18, 2012
There Really Are No Words To Express My Heart Felt Feelings To Your Family and All Who Knew Christopher... You Are All In My Thoughts and Prayers.... May Healing Start When You Are Ready. My Love To Karen, Scott and Alex... Hold On To One Another and Be Gentle With Each Other. It Will Never Make Mortal Sense - Blind Faith Is All We Have and I Know Christopher Wouldn't Want Any Of You To Stop Living... He's Living In Our Hearts and Prayers Right Now and Is With Our Higher Power. All My Love and Prayers... Hugs All Around.
The Coffman Family
October 17, 2012
The Memories just keep coming…..Keller Circle block parties, family excursions to the Pumpkin farm and the tree farm, New Year's Eve celebrations, 4th of July fireworks and pool parties and every day for 18 years in between.
You were the cool Keller kid; the boy that all the other younger kids wanted to be and you always had time for them. We will miss your “live life to the fullest” attitude, your infectious smile, and your kind heart.
Our hearts are breaking and Keller Circle will never be the same.
Alex, Chris and cousin Steven
October 17, 2012
Alex, Chris and cousin Steven - The Three Musketeers
October 17, 2012
Chris and his beloved brother Alex
October 17, 2012
Betty Jo and Family Heiden
October 17, 2012
We are thinking of you, and really liked the picture you chose.. Hugs Aunt Betty Jo and Uncle Jack
A Friend
October 17, 2012
Let us all acknowledge the deep loving relationship - and friendship - between Chris and his equally precious brother Alex. Alex, we keep you in our prayers for this unfathomable loss. Take comfort knowing that you and Chris became great friends, more than brothers. Love is all that counts. Scott and Karen, you raised wonderful boys.
Harmon Carmen & David Ellis
October 17, 2012
Dear Widder Family
Our hearts and prayers go out to you in this very difficult time,may the Lord keep you and comfort you in your time of need. Chris won't be forgotten.
Carla Hass and Robbie Agar
October 17, 2012
Dear Karen, Scott and Alex,
No words can possibly fill the hole in your hearts, but maybe you can have a moment's reprieve from sadness in knowing that the son you raised had such a positive, lasting impact on everyone whose life he touched. Chris will be forever remembered and forever missed. God bless you all.
Danielle Davis
October 17, 2012
The night is bright, with a starlit sky, I sit and think, as time passes by. Oh starry night, with a moonlit sky, take me away, and tell me why. Give me a reason, for love's end, give me a reason, for why I lost a friend. I sit and think, all night. "Author Unknown"
Melissa Staley
October 17, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Widder family during this unbearable time.
Rob and Katherine Rickert
October 17, 2012
Dear Scott and Family, Rob and I will remember the fun times Chris enjoyed riding his dirt bike at the OHV park. Sending you our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry for your loss.
October 17, 2012
Scott, My heart goes out to you, your wife and son Alex and your extented family.
I did not know your son but remember him coming into our office in Folsom when he was a young kid. I am deeply saddend and know that God's grace and mercy will hold you in His arms and carry you throught this most difficult time. May the love of your friends and family keep you strong.
Lilia Ortega
Staci Walker
October 17, 2012
"Sometimes when someone is absent, the whole world seems depopulated."
Chris, you are gone but you will never be forgotten. Ever.
Karen, Scott and Alex...you are in our thoughts daily, praying for a healing peace for your hearts. I am grateful to have known Chris to have had my family touched by his spark.
October 17, 2012
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Paul and Jill Petrarca
Brandon Ofiana
October 17, 2012
I never met Chris or anyone in the Widder family. But our really good friends are their neighbors and we have two boys of our own. I can't even fathom going through what the Widders are going through and Chris seemed nothing short of an amazing young man. I am so sorry for this tragic loss
October 17, 2012
It was a pleasure to have finally met Christopher last year. I am sure the Lord has a reason for taking him home so soon.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Judy Orchard.
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Jim, Jill and Michael Heiden
October 17, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful young man and we will miss him. We are praying for peace and comfort for your family.
Moeller Family
October 17, 2012
"I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love." Leo Buscaglia
Richard & Erin Heiden
October 17, 2012
Although we've never met, please know our prayers are with you today for comfort, peace & understanding. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Lisa Ratajczak
October 16, 2012
Dearest Widder family, our hearts and prayers are with you. Our fondest memory of " our little Widder" was when they played together. Please know that if you need anything at all, we are just a phone call away! All our love, the Ratajczak family.
Sara Wentz
October 16, 2012
Christopher, i'll never forget your smile you always had on your face or your incredible one of a kind personality. Im so lucky and thankful that i got to spend so much of my life with you. You truly are an amazing person, but now you are an amazing angel. I miss you so much already. Make everyone laugh up there. See you soon. Love you <3
Lynette and Kevin Greco
October 16, 2012
We are so very sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family. For peace, comfort and healing.
October 16, 2012
Karen, Scott, and Alex...words cannot express how very sorry we are for the loss of Chris. He was a huge part of the Keller Circle family and will never be forgotten. We are here for you all as you need....please don't hesitate to reach out to us. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers and we firmly believe that Chris is watching down on all of us and will guide us through these difficult times!
Love to you all...Leann, Daren, Matthew, and Brady Huddlestun
Jackie & Henry Loret de Mola
October 16, 2012
Scott, Karen, and Alex,
Henry and I are so very sorry. I know years have gone by, but my memories of all of you, our wonderful neighbors, are precious and full of loving memories. May our God hold you in the palm of His hands.
Kay Wilson
October 16, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your son and brother. I want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have great memories of all of us outside on those evenings on Keller Circle with the kids playing and adults chatting away. God bless you all.
Vetsy (Yvette)
October 16, 2012
Chris honey, you were like a Nephew to me. You were always so sweet & respectful. Gavin loved you as well. We will miss you everyday. You will never be forgotten. Rest in Paradise my sweet boy...
Robin, Todd, Nick and Sarah
October 16, 2012
The sweet, funny, "big kid" to my little kids... always up for a game of touch football in the street, always included anyone who would join in the fun. Our hearts and love go out to Karen, Scott, and Alex during this time of sadness. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Chris and his beloved brother Alex
Anne Widder Whiteley
October 16, 2012
Robert & Lisa Dietz
October 16, 2012
We will always remember Chris for the way he dove into life and did everything at 110%. We knew Chris when he was younger - we left Keller Circle for Wisconsin 9 years ago - and have many, many fond memories of all the Widders and the way they opened their lives to us. Chris was a bright light in our lives then, always dashing to play sports, see friends, and enjoy family times. Our hearts ache for Chris' family and friends. He is lost too young, too soon. We hold those who suffer so from his passing in our prayers.
Heidi Saxen
October 16, 2012
I am at a loss for words. Watching Chris grow up since he was five, it is hard to comprehend that he is not here anymore. My boys thought he was the absolute coolest guy ever...they loved his shoes, his hats, and his skinny jeans. On more than one occasion we had to go to Zumies to get shoes like Chris had!
We will forever cherish all the touch football games, swim time in the backyards, and all of our block parties. Chris was so great with all the "little" kids. His smile. Something we will never forget. I know Chris is up in Heaven to watch over us, and to help guide the "little" kids. We will never forget you Chris.
Cheryl and Ryan Johnson
October 16, 2012
Scott, Karen and Alex,
There are no words to express how deeply sorry we are for the loss of a wonderful young man that we have had the privilege of watching grow up on Keller Circle. We will miss Chris deeply and remember him for his infectious smile, his ability to love all without passing judgement, his amazing positive spirit and his RED shorts. God Bless you all.
Brigitte Button
October 16, 2012
To the entire Widder family, please except my deepest condolences. As Danielle Davis' grandmother I spent lots of time with Chris. What a great kid! He could always make me laugh. I will miss him terribly.
vertis thomas
October 16, 2012
Scott and Family, please know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family as you mourn the tremendous loss of Christopher. I do not know if my words are adequate for a time like this, but I do know how to pray for you and your family. I will pray for strength and courage along with your faith to lessen the burden as time passes. Scott, you called me to offer your support recently and I continue to be grateful for all you have done. Be strong and keep the faith.
vertis thomas
October 16, 2012
Scott and family, please know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family as you mourn the tremendous loss of Christopher. I do not know if my words are adequate for a time like this, but I do know how to pray for you and your family. I will pray for strength and courage along with your faith to lessen the burden.Scott, you called me to offer your support recently and I continue to be grateful for all you have done. Be strong and keep the faith.
Danielle & Chris
Tara Davis
October 16, 2012
Scott, Karen & Alex,
The Davis Family would like to express our deepest sympathy to your family. Chris was an amazing kid and it was an honor to have had him walk into our lives. Him and Danielle shared a lot of great times together and we spent many times with him over the years, 4th of July, Halloween, dances and many more. We will truly miss him and his infectious smile and sense of humor. You raised an amazing son. Our hearts go out to you and only hope that some day you will find peace in your hearts.
Becky Doerr
October 16, 2012
My biggest memory of Chris was his riding a two-wheeler bike at just two years old! Simply amazing. He was a rough and tumble kid with a BIG heart. Words cannot express my sadness. I lift Scott, Karen & Alex up in prayer that the Lord will touch their hearts with peace and comfort.
October 16, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Widder family and friends.
Steve and Sylvia Lopez
Teresa Wolfe
October 16, 2012
Scott, Karen, Alex and family,
Words are so inadequate at a time of loss. Our hearts and thoughts reach out to each of you. Prayers are being lifted up for peace, comfort for each of you.
Koren Benoit
October 16, 2012
Dear, dear Widders - I have tried to write something several times now and just can't seem to find the words. I can't wrap my head around this heartbreaking loss. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we first heard - Tucker and Matt will not be the same after this.
October 16, 2012
Chris will be remembered for his great smile, competitive spirit and love for his friends and teammates. I had the pleasure of being one his coaches and seeing him grow from an active little boy to a handsome & well liked young man. My heart goes out to Scott, Karen, Alex and the entire Widder family!
Joe Sabolboro
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