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Demetrius DAVIS Obituary
DAVIS, Demetrius
Jan. 3, 1967 - Dec. 15, 2012
Demetrius Davis, affectionately known as 'Truck and Meme,' passed away suddenly at age 45 on Saturday, Dec. 15, 2012, at Sutter Davis Hospital. Born in Vallejo, CA and a resident of Sacramento, Demetrius worked for Carl Warren and company in Rancho Cordova as an executive adjuster for worker's compensation, previously Sedwick Cambridge of Rancho Cordova. He graduated from Vallejo High School in 1985 and the University of Reno, NV in 1989. Demetrius was drafted in 1990 by the L.A. Raiders; he later went to Barcelona to play with the Barcelona Dragons in Spain.
Preceded in death by grandparents, Sam and Ethel Rufus, and Cartes and Ida Bell Davis. Demetrius is survived by a daughter, Shomari Davis, sons Damien Davis, Demetrius Davis Jr. and David Davis; a special stepson, Joshua Evans; his parents Gloria Rufus and Carl Lee Davis; a grandson O'Shay Hinton; and a special companion Rocko Bale.
Visitation will be held Friday, Dec. 21, from 3 to 8 p.m., at Wiggins-Knipp Funeral Home, 524 Capitol St., Vallejo, CA 94590. A funeral service will be held on Saturday, Dec. 22 at 1 p.m., at Good Samaritan Missionary Baptist Church, 407 Capitol St., Vallejo, CA with Rev. Darryl LeGuie officiating. Interment will be at Skyview Memorial Lawn in Vallejo. Arrangements entrusted to the direction and care of Wiggins-Knipp Funeral Home Vallejo, CA.
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for Demetrius DAVIS
December 15, 2013
Today marks one year since the passing of my dear friend. I can't believe it's been a year without talking to him and seeing that smiling face. My prayers go out to his mother, children and family as they reflect on his life today. I miss you dearly. Rest in eternal peace.
Love Lex
Charisse Jackson
December 2, 2013
I just learned of Demetrius passing, my heart goes out to him and his family. I can't put into words of how the news of his passing affected me. I understand that it has been a few years since his passing, and again I'm so sorry. I do believe that he is in a better place and that one day those who truly loved him will once again be with him. Rest In Peace D. Your Friend Charisse J.
Joan Rubio
August 25, 2013
Los Dragons nos hemos quedado definitivamente sin nuestro "corazón". Demetrius permanecerá en el nuestro. Gracias #88 por todo tu cariño. Desde Barcelona, con amor.
Joan Rubio
August 25, 2013
Los Dragons nos hemos quedado definitivamente sin nuestro "corazón". Demetrius permanecerá en el nuestro. Gracias #88 por todo tu cariño. Desde Barcelona, con amor.
Lex
August 11, 2013
Missing you much Demetrius. May God bless
June 13, 2013
Guya, I am sorry to here of Meme passing. Just learned about it yesterday with CC coming to town and I am in shock. Just wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Please feel free to call me at 2094232223. Love you always Doris Howard- Thurston
Lex
January 9, 2013
Thinking of my friend this morning. Went to an insurance training event yesterday and missed seeing his smiling face. Rest in peace. You are truly missed.
saundra Hines
January 7, 2013
Gloria: We pray that the Lord will wipe away your tears of loss, and replace them with tears of rememberance and laughter. We're not saying that it will be easy, we just know that the Lord will bring you through. Sincerely with love--Nettie Hines and family.
Velda Sorrentino
January 6, 2013
To the Family,
I really do not have the words to convey my deepest condolence for the passing of your beloved Demetrius. He brought a lot of joy and laughter to my life and that of others. I cannot pass a basketball or 'hoop' court without thinking about him with a smile. I will always remember him for his quiet nature and that deep baritone laugh. May God bless his family and may he rest in peace.
Wendell Claibourn
January 3, 2013
My condolences to the Davis family. I was truly shocked to hear of his passing. Demetrius was a great friend to all that knew him. You will be missed.
Elaine (Angel) Sanchez
January 1, 2013
I am so terribly sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I graduated with Demetrius in 1985, one of the wildest/outgoing classes Vallejo has seen. I only had wonderful memories of him, everyone recognized that brilliant smile coming down the hall and through his eyes you could see the huge heart of gold he carried. This world has lost an amazing individual. May God bless you and your family always.
Johnnie Armstrong
December 27, 2012
Gloria Rufus and family, On behalf of Aurtheral Diggs and family we would like to extend our condolences and to let you know we are praying for you and your family.
Stephen "steve kerr" Gunderson
December 25, 2012
I was shocked to hear about Trucks passing my prayers to his family, our deal was we were gonna retire from balling at 50 I will keep up my end big fella even though it will be with a heavy heart look down on us my friend peace be with you. New York to Sacramento ballin
anita roberts
December 24, 2012
To the parents you should be proud of your son i went to school with him and he was a very smart person may god rest your soul and know he is with the lord and in a better place my condolence to you.
Rex Ransom
December 23, 2012
To Gloria Rufus and family may god be with your during this time of sorrow. May god continue to bless each and everyone of you.
Eric Goodman
December 23, 2012
Well, big homie, you were laid to rest yesterday. You woulda loved the service. You looked peaceful and good in your suit. Selfishly, I wish you were still here. I know God called you home but its still really difficult to grasp that you're gone. Im going to miss our talks, meeting for lunch everyday, going to the gym to ball, drinking beers, bagging on each other and so, so much more. Im thankful that I still have tons of pictures and memories of all our trips. We went a lot of places and won a lot of tounaments. You, me and Rich are linked together forever and for that Im very appreciative. I promise to do my part in staying connected to Damien, Bear and David just like you would've wanted. You're gone, but never forgotten.
Tracy Powell
December 23, 2012
You meant so much to all of us
You were special and that's no lie
You brightened up the darkest day
And the cloudiest sky
Your smile alone warmed hearts
Your laugh was like music to hear
I would give absolutely anything
To have you well and standing near
Not a second passes
When you're not on our minds
Your love we will never forget
The hurt will ease in time
Many tears I have seen and cried
They have all poured out like rain
I know that you are happy now
And no longer in any pain. Miss u me me last time I talk you was Dec 15 2011 at the boys and girls club when you were picking up 1 of you kids in sac Rip we are going to miss u Dearly ! my condolences to the family .
Danita Thomas
December 22, 2012
MeMe you were a nice and sweet person, you were always smiling and helping out the family where ever help was
needed. The RuFus family will not be the same without. You
will be missed dearly.
SAMANTHA N JAMES CARTER
December 22, 2012
SO,SO, SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. GOD BLESS THE FAMILY, AND MAY U ALL HAVE GREAT STRENGTH THROUGH OUT UR TIME OF NEED. WE LOVE U.
Cheauvon Brown
December 22, 2012
My condolences to the family, Truck was a great guy and will truely be missed. May the Lord wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you. God Bless.
December 22, 2012
My condolences and prayers to the family in your time of sorrow.God will see you all through this.God Bless you
Leroy Patrick Jr.&Family (Los Angeles)
Johnnie and Gina Caston
December 22, 2012
We are so sad to hear about our friends lose. We know he is in a better place right now. Johnnie is so glad to be one of those people who was able to see and talk to him everyday. we will truely miss you. You will never be forgotten.
Traci Wease
December 22, 2012
Truck,
You will truly be missed but never forgotten. I want to extend my deepest and sincere condolences to the entire Davis family. MeMe was a great guy and everyone loved him. May God Bless you and your family.
Traci Shelley-Wease
Diara Landers
December 21, 2012
God's throne is always accessible to his children. Ask God for directions because he knows the way.But God's help is only a prayer away. May God Bless your family
Debbie Carter
December 21, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you Glo, I can't even imagine your pain in the loss of your wonderful and kind son, MeMe . May The Lord give you the strength to get thru this! Love, Debbie
Steve Young
December 21, 2012
I am very sorry to hear of his passing. Demetrius was a charming man with a laugh that was "bigger" than he was. He always brightened up a room with his "bigger than life" smile and of course his large stature. He was a special friend, but even more importantly, he strived to be an awesome father. The love he had for his children was always present. We have lost a truely remarkable person. May God shine upon Demetrius in heaven and bless his family during this difficult time.
Forrest & Lisa Bess
December 21, 2012
My condolences to the family. Meme you will be missed.....
Lerecia Davis Evans
December 21, 2012
I'm so sorry for your lost. God knows all and heals all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Billy Hardy and Family
December 21, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Karen Tanel
December 21, 2012
Demetrius... just thinking of you makes me smile. You will be missed by many. You touched our hearts and souls. You made us all laugh, and find the joy in every day. I picture you laughing, playing jokes on your friends, and playing the best basketball. Prayers for your family...
Barbara Simmons-Lahori
December 21, 2012
Gloria, Carl Lee & Families,
My prayers go out to all of you at this very difficult time. Demetrius will be greatly missed and never forgotten. God Bless all of you.
donna kemp
December 21, 2012
I knew you at Cambridge/sedgwick and we shared some good times. I will miss you my friend. May you rest in peace.
God bless your family to keep them safe.
Ruby Mendiola Mendoza
December 21, 2012
I've known you since either the 4th or 5th grade. I was sadden to hear that you had passed. You will be missed. My sincere condolences to the family. My prayers are with you.
Donnie Royal
December 21, 2012
Gonna miss you Truck. I appreciate your friendship down thru the years and very grateful to have known you. Rest in Peace my Brother...
S SHABAZZ
December 21, 2012
RIP Big homey!...We had many many battles i=on the hoop court....Nuff respect due!
December 21, 2012
To Gloria, please stay strong only the lord know best. Carl Lee you stay strong too. And to the frmily of Gloria and Carl Lee they need you now so don't let them down. I will pray for the family.
From the Kelley and Horne family.
Debbie Robbins
December 21, 2012
Demetrius, you touched me and everyone around you in such away we became better people. I will miss you forever. I know you are in paradise now. See you later. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Troy Foster
December 21, 2012
I know you will be Playing Basketball up there running your mouth like old times you will be missed.My prayers go out to your family much love
December 21, 2012
My deepest heart felt sympathy to the family and all of those who loved "Truck". He was like family to me and my children, they've only known him as "Uncle Truck ". My sincere prayers are with the family. (Jesus said:) "Peace I leave with you, My peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." (John 14.27. God Bless everyone. Tabrina Fields
Ron & Nevey Wells
December 21, 2012
Davis family,
Please accept our heart felt condolences. Demetrius will definitely missed. If it were not for his ex wife Collette Davis(my best friend)..we wouldn't have ever met. He was such a fun person to be around. He always kept us all laughing. I will miss giving "Truck" a hard time.. he always joked around with me when we would see each other. I'm still in disbelieve of the news of his death. But now your with the lord and I won't say good bye, but I will say keep a spot open for me bro.
Nevey Wells & Family
Noelia Campos
December 21, 2012
Siempre te recordare con cariño, mi más sentido pesame a sus hijos/as y familia. Un beso
Krista Sutton
December 21, 2012
D, Too bad we never got to get that business going…we would have won! Gonna miss you. You have always been a great friend. Over the last 11 years we both went through a lot of changes & I thank God that you are my friend. May he now hold you and love you. I know you are looking down on us all smiling & laughing at all the silly things we do. Until we meet again in heaven, know that you are always in my heart my friend. May God send peace & blessings to your family and the beautiful children you helped create, as well as your grand baby. Mr. Perfect, we always knew who signed that slip. RIP!
Teresa Holbrook
December 20, 2012
My heart is heavy and broken for his family. I love you Gloria and my prayers are with you. I am so sorry for this tragic event. I pray for peace and comfort for you and your entire family. God Bless!!
Kevin Thomas
December 20, 2012
You will be missed by many!! Rest in Peace my brother!
SARA RIOLO
December 20, 2012
LORD, SEND BLESSINGS TO COMFORT HIS FAMILIES LOVED ONES
AT REST IN HIS CARE
IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS
SARA.P. RIOLO
Debbie Hernandez Garon
December 20, 2012
Condolences, may you rest in peace. You are in my prayers.
Karena Belcher-Payden
December 20, 2012
My fondest memory of MeMe is us as young kids listening to our moms reminisce about how they ran Vallejo back in the days....pretending we weren't listening!
Auntie Gloria I'm praying for your strength. I struggle with death and often don't know what to say or do to comfort those who are grieving. I'm glad God has brought me closer to those I care about so dearly as my purpose is more clearer than ever. Love you Auntie and your son is in good hands!
liz bursey
December 20, 2012
There is no words can express how you feel now, his memories will catch you in moments, his smile, his gestures, that's his spirit, and that will always be with you, he left behind his children, which will have his smile, his gestures, and his personality. you will always see meme in his children, carbon copy.
Karen Burney
December 20, 2012
Demetrius, I first met you in Oakland when I was a Marketing Rep and you were working for one of my clients. You made a lasting impression on me because of your kind and gentle nature. I was very pleased when our paths crossed again in Sacramento. You were not only a very hard-working and conscientious worker but the life of the party at our industry functions. Although I teased you about it, whenever you made your entrance in your often tailored suits, the party had truly arrived because your very presence breathed life into the party! People just like being around you because they knew you were genuine and it always showed! Plus, you always tolerated my other passion, Genealogy and our shared Louisiana roots. I am sorry I never got to pick your brain more on it. I still think we were cousins =) We will miss you sooo much. Life just won't be the same without you. The inhabitants of heaven are in for a treat! Keep them laughing, Demetrius. Your sister in Comp..
phocion nelson
December 20, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dawn McGee
December 20, 2012
My condolences to you and your family. I cannot begin to imagine the depth of your pain. I pray you find comfort in the words of the Lord. God Bless! The McGee Family
Gennal Reese-Martin
December 20, 2012
Thank you Demetrius for being my child hood friend when I was growing up in the crest. May the Lord continue to shine down his loving blessing on the Davis Family in this time of sorrow.
Caryn - CEO of CW
December 20, 2012
While Demetrius only worked for Carl Warren & Company for 3 months, he was part of our family and made an impact on those of us who got to work with him! He was a gentle giant and always made us smile.
PASTOR TOBIAS HAWKINS, JR.& FAMILY
December 20, 2012
MAY THE PEACE OF GOD AND PRECIOUS MEMORIES COMFORT YOUR HEARTS AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. LOVE AND PRAYERS TO ALL OF YOU.
Brigit(Annie's daughter) Hendrix
December 20, 2012
To Glo and family I know there are no words that one can say when we have lost someone we love so much but rest assured that God does not leave us without a "Comforter" call upon him and he will bring you an unspeakable peace. Meme will be missed but forever in our hearts. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers. May god strengthen you all in this time of sorrow. This message is sent with much love and compassion as we too have been down this same path .
Rich Blizzeard
December 20, 2012
We had some GREAT battles on the basketball court!!! Always fun and comedy to be around. Myself and a ton of SacTown athletes are going to miss "Truck." My sincere condolences to the entire family!! Sincerely...Rich aka "Slick"
RICKY NELSON
December 20, 2012
MY HEART GOES OUT TO MEME MAY HE REST IN PEACE TO HIS FAMILY WE KNOW IT WAS SOON BUT SUDDEN BUT HAVE TO BELIEVE HES GONE TO A BETTER PLACE WE CANT FORGET WE ARE NOT GONNA BE HERE FOREVER WE ARE JUST HERE PASSING THROUGH
Genia Sabathia
December 20, 2012
May God Bless and keep you close during this difficult time. Your son was such a blessing to all of us. Love you always Edwin, Genia, EJ, Brian and Sierra.
Charlotte Greer & Family
December 20, 2012
Truck!! I can't express how much we miss you here on earth. Your memories will last a lifetime watch over us as we pray for healing n strength for family n friends that are struggling with you departure!!! RIP my friend..God Bless the Families
Angela Sabathia-Brown
December 20, 2012
Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.
Brenda Calhoun
December 20, 2012
There are no words that can truly express my heartfelt sympathy at this second, this minute, this hour, this day for the Rufus and Davis family. I have known most of you so long. My fondest memory with Demetrius was seeing him at a Raider game and when I asked about his Mom he replied 'she's upstairs do you want to come with me and see her?'. He took me up to a suite at the Raider Game!! I thought I would faint. He was always courteous and friendly when he'd see me at the games. My heart is heavy. Please know that you are all in my prayers and everytime I go to a game of think of that wonderful moment when I got to enjoy a game in a Raider Suite with your family & friends. May God comfort you all. Rest in Peace my young brother.
Rena Smith
December 20, 2012
My prayers and condolences to the family. He will be missed R.I.P.
The Smith Family
Deborah Dickson
December 20, 2012
Our family is in Prayer for your family Gloria and Carl, words simply fail me. God be with you during this time.
Ed Williams
December 20, 2012
Prayers and condolences to the Davis, and Rufus family. Rest in peace MEME. I will always remember you for the great friend and teammate that you were. Forever in all of our hearts, you will never be forgotten my brother!
Frank Pickett
December 20, 2012
R.I.P Big Truck you been a real brother even the few years I've known you. To know you is to love you big bro. Much love frank
Louise Jenkins
December 20, 2012
My heart and prayers goes out to the Rufus and Davis family God bless you. Louise Jenkins
Curtis and Kimberly Craig
December 20, 2012
Gloria and Family, Curtis and I are in continued prayer for you.
Pauline Jefferson
December 20, 2012
To Gloria and Carl Lee, Family and Friends; I want to offer my condolences to you all in this sad sad time. I pray that God will give you the strength to continue on without too much more pain. God Bless You All.
Juanito Abston
December 20, 2012
RIP MEME! May God Comfort your family during this difficult time.
Darcel Abston
December 20, 2012
My prayers and condolences goes out to the family. I will always cherish all of the great memories of MeMe. Rest in peace my friend!!!
December 20, 2012
Condolences to the Davis Family who are special in our heart.
Rev. Dr. Hugh K. Wesley & Family
Ms. Cookie & Family
December 20, 2012
A very special person a one of a kind that will never be replaced ........Love U Infinity Me~Me
Loretta Stewart Turner
December 20, 2012
May the peace of God be with you as you remember the joyful times. God Bless you all.
Liz Sabathia
December 20, 2012
My Prayers are with you Glo, May God comfort you and the family.
Patricia Garner
December 20, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
December 20, 2012
My heart and prayers go out to GLORIA...an Family...Gloria i know there was nothing that u wouldnt do for ur baby...u gave him the world...u guys were always there for one another...he loved u...u loved him...but God loved him more...God Bless U....Jackie Blue...Sacramento,CA...
Nelly Lewis and Family
December 20, 2012
R.I.P Me Me
Carolynne Hill Walker
December 20, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Rufus and Davis family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May God surround you all in His loving arms and bring comfort to all. Much love
December 20, 2012
There is no death. Only a change of worlds.” - Chief Seattle
I remember Demetrius from high school as a great athlete and a friendly face. See you in the next world
Carolyn (Ramos) O'Keefe; Class of ‘84
December 20, 2012
Rest in peace Truck...you are already missed by many. You will live forever in the hearts and minds of all who know you. God needed an angel whose laughter and kindness brought joy to everyone who had the pleasure to be in your presence. I'll be watching out for your bright star. Love you Demetrius.
December 20, 2012
MAY YOU ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS THE GREAT GUY YOU ARE RIP TRUCK YOU'LL BE MISSED
Carol Stewart-Leggett
December 20, 2012
Gloria, I was saddened to hear of the passing of your son. May God Bless and keep you always. Carol Stewart-Leggett, Vallejo, Ca.
JAMES` UPCHURCH SR.
December 20, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tomoria Dixon
December 20, 2012
My Sympathies and Condolences goes out the family and friends..Thinking on how he would walk into a room and bless it with his grace, Leaving people laughing with smiles on their face, And now I'm thinking there isn't a second to lose, no time to waste, I'm not saying I'm not happy that he's in a better place, It's just hard to know that another life has been lost of the human race. May God bless you The Davis Family
Renee Shaw
December 20, 2012
Rest on Big Guy...I enjoyed knowing you. You are truly loved and will be deeply missed...Heaven is now a little brighter...
December 20, 2012
To Gloria & Family, please know that you have our deepest condolences and that you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Dorothy Dunn & Family
Becky Wells
December 20, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Demetrius was kind, funny and caring. Demetrius and I worked together at 2 different companies he was such a joy to work with. I am lucky to have known him.
Sharon Gray Matthews
December 20, 2012
Glo and Family....I truly still can't believe MeMe has gone on to a better place, but I find comfort in knowing that he is resting in love. Just know that in this time of sorrow, we must continue to look to the hills from where our help comes from....
Danier Conner
December 20, 2012
My deepest condolences go out to the family!!
Truck, you will forever be missed by many!
May you rest in Paradise!!
ERIC BROUSSARD
December 20, 2012
God Bless you and your Family..Rest In Paradise Demetrius "TRUCK" Davis AKA MEME..You will be missed!
ERIC BROUSSARD
December 20, 2012
You always been a good brother growing up together in Vallejo..We went to junior high and high school together and played sports together..I will cherish all the good memories we had my brother..You are a great Friend and Father..you will be missed..Rest In Paradise!!VALLEJO FOREVER!!!
December 20, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Carmen Vance
December 20, 2012
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Davis family. You are in our prayers.
Carmen Vance and the Vance and Anderson Family.
Sharon Gray Matthews
December 20, 2012
Glo and Family.....Lord knows, I still don't want to believe it, but I find some peace in knowing MeMe is resting in a better place. And always remember the following...God is ever near to those who have a broken heart
through the loss of someone dear, that tears your world apart. It seems so overwhelming, The grief, too much to bear. But know that God is with you, He loves you and He cares.
Rest in love MeMe.....
Michelle Veale
December 20, 2012
I am so deeply sorry for your loss, Me Me was a truly special person too many. His time was so brief and it was our fortune to be so blessed with him. Class of 85
Yolanda James
December 20, 2012
MeMe, I thought we had more time to catch up. I guess God wanted you on his team. I'll see you when I get there. Rest in peace. God's comfort to your family. Amen. - Yogi
Wiggins-Knipp Funeral Home
December 19, 2012
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