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Debbie
May 17, 2025
It has now been 10 years since I last saw you but when I look at pictures of you, it doesn´t seem possible. There are days that are just as hard as the first day that you passed. There is so much that you´ve missed out on. Not being able to see how incredible your two boys have become. Both very happily married to incredible women. You didn´t get to see any of that. How unfair. My favorite time is when I´m with them because part of you, your personality, your mannerisms, and your heart grows in them. Still doesn´t seem real. I will miss you and love you till the day I die.
Debbie
May 16, 2024
I miss you as much today as the day you left. You have missed so much with the boys both getting married. I know you would be so happy with their choices they´ve made. But that´s because you taught them about love, integrity, confidence, and how to treat their partner with respect. I think my heart breaks the most because the boys and I miss you so much. I will love you and miss you forever!
Sherree
May 16, 2024
It´s been 9 years and you are so missed everyday. I miss your jokes. I miss your stories. You did such a great job with your boys before you left. You helped to make them the men they are today. You would love their wives. I can hear you joking with them. It makes me laugh. Miss you every day Bestie. Love, Your sister-in-law and lifetime friend and partner in crime, love, Sherree
Sherree
May 17, 2022
Miss my buddy every day. Still so hard without you. I still can´t believe u are not here. It doesn´t seem real. Love you forever
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July 31, 2015
Dear Boatwright Family,
Please accept our deepest condolences. Although I did not know Gary well, I do remember his great laugh and smile at the endless events at GRDC. He was definitely a valued neighbor for the last 25+ years and will be missed.
The Downton Family
Sherree
June 14, 2015
Think of you everyday, buddy. The tears can't stop flowing. I try to hold them in as much as I can, but they just build up until it feels like a tsunami is going to explode. Just miss you sooo very much. It just doesn't seem real. I look so very forward to hopefully seeing you again one day. Thank you for taking such good care of my baby sister and giving me two of the finest young men ever that I am so very proud to call my nephews. Thank you for all the wonderful memories and laughs. Words can't come the least bit close to describe what an impact you have had on my life and everyone else's lives you have touched. Wow!! I thought I knew what a character you were, but am finding out from all your friends that have reached out to Deb and the boys that there are so many stories of your jokester personality out there that I hadn't heard about. Love the stories as they make me feel like you are in the room which I know in some way you are. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE YOU!!! To Deb, Brad and Bryson: I think it was you, Brad, that said "You don't know happiest until you have felt sadness" -- or something like that. I guess that explains why I miss your dad so much and the depth of the pain and sadness because of how great it was to have him and know him. I still wouldn't change the sadness I feel today if it meant I had to give up all the wonderful fun years I had with Gary. He is such a huge part of my life and always will be. One day at a time. XOXOXOXO
May 29, 2015
Debbie, Brad & Bricen. We are so deeply sorry for your loss. We will always remember Gary as a great husband, father, son, son in law and friend! His positive attitude and wonderful smile were inspiring and so fun! Our hearts go out to you and your family more than we can express. May God bless you with comfort and peace. Gary will be truly missed and we will always remember him. Love The Kish family
Chuck Dooly
May 29, 2015
Everyone will always remember the huge smile, Debbie next to him, driving his VW and giving a "honking wave hello!" The entire Dooly family respectfully expresses our sincere condolences to the entire family....all good folks! Gary was always "THE BEST!" We will miss him.
Josie Manica
May 28, 2015
We miss you, Gar bear! I keep expecting to come to work and find another news paper clipping about the latest news on my desk. Or, for you to stand behind my cube wall and throw something at me. You were a great boss, and an even better man and friend. You loved your wife deeply, and you were SO incredibly proud of your boys. Everyone that knew you is better for it. Thank you for just being you. We will miss you terribly, but I am SO thankful for the time we had with you. I know for sure you are up in Heaven doing two things- golfing up a storm, and making everyone laugh by cracking the dumbest, but the best jokes ever! Hit one out of the park for us! Miss you, boss!
Love,
Jos
Terri Phillips
May 27, 2015
What a blessing to have known Gary. He provided so many laughs with a positive attitude that I will always admire and treasure. I still keep expecting him to walk through the door at work with a smile and share a funny story or a weekend trip. What a great husband, father and all around great guy that would do anything for you, and a person you could count on. I miss you "GB." There are so many memories around the office that will forever keep you in our hearts.
Dee Anthony
May 27, 2015
My heart aches at Gary's passing, but I know that the loss Deb, Brad & Bryson feel is indescribable. Gary was such a great husband, father, brother and friend; and the hole he has left in everyone's hearts and lives will remain forever. Gary was there for me with advice and help, and got me through many tough times - I knew I could always count on him. Gary always made everyone feel comfortable, and special; and his thoughtfulness is unforgettable. I have so many memories from the 38 years we have known each other that my head is spinning with them all.
Deb, Brad & Bryson You have so many wonderful memories to hold him close to you. Know that he will always be with you in your hearts, will still guide you with his advice and will still share life's special moments with each of you.
Gary - I love you and will greatly miss you. Please know that I will always be there for Deb and the boys just like you were always there for me.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Dennis & Patti Passalaqua
May 26, 2015
Debbie, Sons and Family, We want you to know that we share in your grief. Gary was a great guy and he will be missed at our "family" reunions. Sending love, hugs and condolences to you all.
Raul Baeza
May 24, 2015
Gary, I was shocked to hear of you passing on. You were a great coworker and manager. My Prayers are with you and your family.
Susan Taylor
May 22, 2015
I was so very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. It seems like just a few years ago that Gary, Debbie, John and I got together for the first time, but it is nearly 35 years! All those songs that talk about the passage of time never seem as relevant as when we lose someone. I remember that night so well. Debbie and I decided to meet just before Christmas at a Japanese restaurant with our significant others so they could meet. Actually there was a third couple, but for the life of me I can't remember their names. Gary came directly from his Christmas party and was so drunk because he was doing Tequila shots. He bravely waited and actually sat down at the teppan table. However, the prospect of sitting through an entire meal with the server juggling those knives was too much, and they had to leave. Debbie was beside herself as it took a lot of planning to get a night when we could all meet. Going home she took every turn at high speed that night and Gary slept next to the toilet bowl. But we all did get together. We attended each other's weddings. John and Gary became good friends, and we all spent some wonderful time together, golfing and fishing. Time I wouldn't trade. Now John and Gary are both gone. But we have the memories. I keep this picture on my bed's nightstand. And Debbie, no one will ever take that away from you, and after the pain subsides, they will comfort you. He will always be with you.
Betty Olson
May 22, 2015
I think how sad I feel on Gary's passing. How I wish we as a family and Deb and my wonderful grandsons could have had him much longer. Then I stop and think how lucky we were to have had him in our lives as we did. He left us all with his good humor and love in his short time then most people leave in a lifetime.
I will miss all the funny things he pulled on me and there were many through the years.
I was a lucky mother-in-law the day Deb brought him into our lives. I will surely miss him.
Betty Olson
Betty Olson
May 22, 2015
I think how sad I feel on Garys passing. How I wish we as a family and Deb and my wonderful grandsons could have had him much longer Then I think how lucky we were to have had him in our lives as we did. He accomplished much more with all of us and left his humor and love in our hearts in such a way that most people don't do in a much longer lifetime.
I will miss all the funny things he pulled on me and there were many through all the years.
I was a lucky mother-in-law the day Deb brought him into our lives. I will surely miss him.
Betty Olson
Debbie Richardson
May 22, 2015
Gary-we are so very blessed to have you a one of those true friends. Even after you all moved to Northern Calif, we still remained in touch and when we did see one another, it was like you still lived across the street. Thanks for being the husband, father & friend that you were. Even when times got tough and you were so sick, your attitude reminded us of how very strong you were. We love you and promise to keep your memory alive here on Joshua Drive......
Cheryl Cresteno Nott
May 22, 2015
It is with great sadness that I am leaving this message, I am however smiling at all of the great memories that seen not so long ago, but we'll leave that one alone for now. A great guy, extremely proud of his family. Debbie I hope that this will help carry you during the days ahead. I am thankful that you have a great family and are happy. A lot of people never get that. Love ya lots ~Banana~
Debbie Boatwright
May 22, 2015
Babe:
I wanted to go on to be the first to sign your Guest Book. You would be so proud at the outpouring of friends and family to help us through this most devastating process. Never in my wildest dreams, could I imagine the support and unconditional love coming to us from every direction. I want to thank you for 42 amazing years filled with love, travel, and most importantly the gift of two incredible boys who overnight have become men due to your mentoring them and being involved in every aspect of their lives. Every time I see them and talk to them, I see you, which helps me get through. I will always love the wonderful husband and father you have been to us. Our lives have been so blessed by you in every aspect and although life right now seems very unfair, I hold onto the great memories we have shared and I know deep in my heart that you will always be with me in spirit. 143 Forever.
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