Gayle Evelyn Bacon

Gayle Bacon Obituary

BACON, Gayle Evelyn
Made her transition on Nov. 8, 2004. Born on June 11, 1950 to Dorothy and Oscar Bacon, she is survived by her devoted partner, Claudia McEnerney; father, Oscar and Barbara Bacon; cherished sister, Bonnie and Stephen Krisiak; her beloved niece, Stephanie Krisiak, and many dear friends. Her mother, Dorothy; sister, Beverly; and grandmother, Ann Flagg preceded Gayle in death. A memorial service will be Sunday, Nov. 21 at 2pm at Sierra Health Foundation, 1321 Garden Hwy. Please make donations to the Ovarian Cancer National Alliance, 910 17th Street, NW, Suite 413, Washington, DC 20006.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Nov. 11 to Nov. 12, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Gayle Bacon

12 Entries

Don Tyson

November 5, 2023

Gayle, you brought such happiness to Claudia.

Love,
Don and for Sydnee

Elaine

July 4, 2023

My dog Bella & I had lunch at Gayle's bench today near the pond at Land Park. It was lovely & peaceful as we watched the ducks, while Bella rolled in the grass. Gayle seems to have been a wonderful person & well liked. I hope she is at peace & that her memories now bring more smiles than tears. Elaine

Robin Primavera

November 19, 2004

Dear Claudia and family, I have known Gayle since the women soccer team days. We played on the same team as the '30s and over' for quite a few years. We had so much fun, along with our training as 'athletes'. She was an excellent half back, always a beautiful athlete. She remained a good athlete as long as I knew her. We came back into closer contact in later years as we now were on different type of a team, the team of 'survivors' of cancer. She helped me during my five surgeries and a depression that followed, and always had that grin that displayed her genuine, beautiful spirit. I was so glad we came back in touch with each other, even if it was due to our new 'team'. She is a blessing to us all. Thank you Gayle! Peace, Robin

Gladys Amorocho Nott

November 15, 2004

Gayle and I were school mates in West Davis Elementary School, and through Junior and Senior High School. After we left high school we didn't see each other for many years. But relatively recently I learned that Gayle was working in the UCD Anthropology Dept. -- the department were I studied as an undergraduate. I was very pleased to re-establish contact with Gayle, and I enjoyed the lunch reunions we had with other school friends on a number of occasions when I was visiting my mother in Davis. I felt that Gayle had developed into a quietly thoughtful and considerate person with a great deal of inner strength. I am very glad to have been able to re-establish a connection with her, and I am very sorry not to be seeing her again. I send my sincere sympathy to Claudia and to Gayle's family.

Joyce Bahati

November 14, 2004

I shall always think of Gayle as embodying loving kindness, peace, courage and compassion. What a joy to have been in her sweet presents in our church family. We are truly blessed to have her touch our hearts and are forever transformed. I send Claudia and other family members supportive prayers during this time. I know it is never easy to totally release our loved ones even when we have prepared ourselves. An anceint tradition of daily prayers for the first forty days as a soul in transition is what I am singing for Gayle and all who love her. " Those who love, loving pour forth radiance. These are the sons and daughters of God. In my lifetime, Love in every heart.

In my lifetime, Peace, peace on earth." She is with us every moment that we remember her love, harmony and beauty.

sharon liberatore

November 12, 2004

I am so sad to hear of Gayle's passing to the "next place". I want Claudia and Gayle's family to know how much her life mattered and how many of us she touched. She taught me how important it was to live life "out loud". She certainly was a testiment to that philosphy. I saw Gayle at the hospital last Sunday, we were on our way to Hawaii...she asked me if there was room for her. I told her she could sit on my lap...I just want you know that she is with us here in this beautiful place...her spirit sends her love and is enjoying the peaceful island paradise. MAHALO Gayle for the pleasure to know you. You will be missed!! Sharon Liberatore

Linda Kingsley

November 12, 2004

Gayle and I had become close over the past 2 years, since I retired. I looked forward to our walks in Land Park with her side kick Cody, going to the movies and being creative in our Art Therapy group together. She was always there for me, whether it was for a ride to the car mechanic or to lend an ear to a fellow cancer survivor. We talked frankly about life and I admired the way she lived hers to the fullest and best of her ability. Life is not for sissies and Gayle certainly proved she was anything BUT that.

My heart aches for the loss of a good friend, but I am a far better person for knowing her.

With Love, Linda Kingsley

Sydnee Tyson

November 12, 2004

I met Gayle through my sister Claudia. Anyone important to Claudia would naturally matter to me, too, but Gayle was somebody I am glad to have known in her own right. She was a loving and supportive person to Claudia, and I will always admire her for her positive and determined spirit throughout the many years she struggled with the cancer that afflicted her. She was remarkably well-organized and practical, a problem-solver at heart. She stepped forward many times to give me a helping hand, never asked by me, just willing to help. I wish peace for Gayle--and for Claudia, too.

Rev. Cheri Jensen

November 11, 2004

I send Love to Gayle as she moves into her next beginning. I send love to Claudia and the entire family in this sweet/sad time of letting go. May your hearts be filled with love, your minds overflowing with beautiful memories and your hands and arms able to touch and embrace one another.

In Light & Love,

Rev. Cheri Jensen

Lori Hemmingsen-Souzz

November 11, 2004

To Gayle's beloved partner & family,

I met Gayle a little over a year ago when she attended a National Ovarian Cancer Coalition general monthly meeting here in Sacramento. She and I were able to work together on some local health fairs and NOCC booths promoting education and awareness of the early symptoms of ovarian cancer. She jumped in whenever possible and such a joy to be around. She and my husband had some great conversations sharing information about digital photography at one of the events and my husband thought she was just the neatest gal.

I had missed her attendance at our general meetings over the last couple of months and suspected she may have been back in treatment. I knew something was just "not right" and now feel badly for not making the phone call. I hope you all find some comfort in knowing that through Gayle's community outreach to other women, she may have saved the life of several women who sought medical attention having been better educated with symptom knowledge.

I will remember Gayle with the calm and warm grace she exuded and her great smile.

May she rest in the warm light of peace, free from pain and worry.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Lori Hemmingsen-Souza, NOCC Member

Cindi Lacey

November 11, 2004

I was saddened to hear of Gayle's transition. I attended church with Gayle at the Sacramento Church of Religious Science (now the Center for Spiritual Awareness). My husband, Lynn Lacey, served on the Church Board with her. Whenever I was in Gayle's presence, I always felt a calm, peaceful serenity. I don't know how she kept that aura around her as she struggled with this dis-ease. Her kindness and willingness to constantly think of others rather than herself was always so impressive to me. Claudia, my heart goes out to you at this time. Gayle's spirit is alive and well in your heart and always will be. The oneness you feel will never depart as she is completely in God and God is in you. My thoughts and prayers are with Gayle's family and friends. May you find peace in knowing that she was loved by many. Love, Cindi Lacey

JoAnne Smith

November 11, 2004

This morning, as I was thinking about how to honor my father who passed away one year ago today, I learn of the passing of one of the kindest and bravest women I've ever met. Although we weren't close friends, perhaps even more like acquaintances, I could not be in her presence without feeling her gentle grace and deep will to live.

My heart goes out to Gayle's family and especially to Claudia. Although gone in life, her spirit will always be with us.

"The sad part is that much is left undone and many gems have faded from my mind. But I reap some happiness in what I've done and hope to leave the best of me behind." Joe Smith '85

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