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Karen Calamia Obituary
CALAMIA, Karen E.
October 9, 1961 - July 6, 2009
Karen E. Calamia, 47, passed away suddenly on July 6, 2009, in Sacramento, California. She was a devoted follower of Christ, wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend to many. Karen lived in Sacramento most of her adult life. She was employed by the State of California for 26 years, holding the position of Accounting Manager at the time of her death. As a servant of Christ, she volunteered as a Sunday School teacher at Impact Community Church in Sacramento. Her husband of 25 years, Angelo Calamia, and her beloved daughters, Francesca Calamia and Juliana Calamia, survive Karen. She also leaves behind her parents, Robert and Joan Wright; her in-laws, Alberto and Anna Calamia; sister, Gayle Fisher and her husband, Richard, sister, Valerie Cabradilla and her husband, Steven; sister, Margaret Haney and her husband, James; sister-in-law, Nina Maltese, and her husband, Ross; brother-in-law, Gaspar Calamia, and his wife, Wendy; nephews, Jeffrey, Douglas, Christopher, Nicholas, Steven, Benjamin, Matthew and Joe; nieces, Kelly, Melissa, Jennifer, Vivian, Suzanne, Brittney, Allissa and Sarah; and many aunts, uncles and cousins. Services will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday, July 10, 2009, at Herberger's Elk Grove Funeral Chapel, located at 9101 Elk Grove Boulevard in Elk Grove. Burial will be at St. Mary's Cemetery located in Sacramento. Friends may call at the Herberger's Elk Grove Funeral Chapel from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m., Thursday, July 9, 2009.
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Memories and Condolences
for Karen Calamia
July 9, 2010
You were my mentor, and you gave people a chance . I wont be settle cause i know you would support me. you were the balance in cashering and much more for many people. who have goals and really want to work hard and raise thier families .I love and miss you very much karen.
Pam Hauschild
July 6, 2010
Today is the one-year anniversary when God gathered Karen in his arms and welcomed her into heaven. Although I am without Karen in the physical sense, I talk to her often, retelling her silly stories of things we've done together. That makes me laugh. I think about Angelo, Fran and Julie, Al and Anna, and how I can not imagine the pain they feel in their hearts because Karen is not here with them. I believe she is still right here, close to her family and friends, guiding us through each day. I love and miss you Karen. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Love, Pam
Cari Jones
July 24, 2009
Dear Karen - by boss, my friend:
Like so many others, your passing is still not real to me. I, too, keep thinking you are just late for work or on a short little vacation. I keep reliving past conversations we had both work related and personal. We always had so much to share. There were times we had our little disagreements, but we always made up. I remember so vividly those times when we would have to deal with a crisis in cashiering. As our manager, we would look to you for the answer. You'd put your hands up to each side of your head and say "Okay - this is what we're going to do - this is what we're going to do." I now wonder what it is we are all going to do without you. We are getting by each day slowly, minute by minute, hour by hour - but we talk about you and laugh about times we shared because we want so much to keep your spirit alive. None of our lives will ever be the same now that you are gone. It is truly an end of an era in cashiering but I can promise you that you will never be forgotten. I appreciate everything you did for me both personally and professionally. I know I wouldn't be where I am today without your love and support. I know you are looking down upon us and giving us the strength we need to carry on. You were certainly our angel on earth and will be everyone's angel from above. Thank you my friend for being such a wonderful and caring person. I will see you again one day and we will carry on where we left off. I love you! P.S. As you would say when you would leave for the day - Peace out!
Dear Angelo, Fran and Julie:
I just want you to know how much Karen meant to me. She was truly one of a kind and I will miss her every day for the rest of my life. My heart goes out to all three of you and I pray that the wonderful memories you all shared will be what helps you get through the many hard days ahead. I will always be there for you if you need me.
Lynn Walters
July 17, 2009
Although it has been several years since I worked for Karen at DCA, she has always been near and dear to my heart. She took me to the first Women of Faith Conference and I've gone to several since then. Karen's faith in God and the conference were an inspiration to me that I will keep with me always. She was a dear friend to me and my family. My son remembers his babysitter as 'his friend Fran'. Her Papered Chef parties were always fun and she made the office a much more fun place to be too!! She was always willing to do ANYTHING for her staff, to help them in any way for whatever the need may be. She was by far the most unique and caring 'supaviza' that I've ever had!! I know she's an angel in heaven now and will NEVER be forgotten by those of us who were blessed to call her friend.
May God bring comfort and peace to her family and friends who mourn her passing.
Richard Wenger-Davis
July 17, 2009
Someone said to me " I am sorry to hear your boss passed away". I told them I may have lost my boss but more importantly I lost my FRIEND!!!!! I can not stop thinking about her. She was taken so soon from us. Lately I notice I miss her even more. I miss my friend more than anything. It did not hit me like others as I was used to her being away for a couple of day's, but now I am not looking for my boss for questions or to sign off on a deposit. I am looking for my friend to talk to. She is no longer there for advice, comfort or direction and never will be in this lifetime again anyway. I will miss her terribly! I did not realize just what an impact she had on me. I am searching for her and expect her to be back at anytime. Knowing she will never return. It is hard to say goodbye to someone who meant so much. All I can do is try. Karen, you will never be forgotten! You were SPECIAL!!!!! I have met many people over the years but not many made the impact you did. You literally changed my life for the better. That is a gift that not many are able to give. You were a giving person. I miss you everyday my friend! You will live in my thoughts and prayers forever. You are an angel now. I always new you were but now you are a REAL angel!!!!!! I LOVE you Karen Calamia!
July 16, 2009
Angelo and Family,
Please accept my sincere sympathies for your loss. I only met Karen once 26 years ago...... and I still remember her smile. You were such a great family when I knew you and I wanted you to know that even people from long ago are thinking of you and your daughters and sending prayers your way.
Lynne Fugina-Bailey
Christina Mohaddess
July 15, 2009
I met Karen while working at DCA and will always remember her as a happy, fun, cheerful person. I know she will be missed greatly. My deepest sympathies and condolences to her family and friends at this time.
Karen Moore
July 14, 2009
Karen rode the same vanpool as me and although she usually was the absent rider, we all loved her spunk and laughter and we kidded her all the time about always "promising" to see us the next morning for the van. I will miss her and her stories. She always had a good one to tell to keep us awake riding home.
Tracy
July 14, 2009
Angelo and family ~
I will alway remember that great smile Karen. She always made you feel special. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sunie Daubeneck
July 13, 2009
Angelo, Fran and Julie,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Karen had such a wonderful way about her. She just made you feel good. Always that big bright smile. I am happy that I met her through Lynn at DCA so many years ago and that our son was able to spend some time with your family. She will be missed.
Sunie D.
Kelly Davis
July 11, 2009
Angelo, Fran and Julie:
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Life is simply too short. Although we did not know Karen really well, we know that she raised two beautiful daughters. Fran and Julie- you are so sweet and genuine...take care of your Daddy. We love u lots! Kelly and Malcolm and kids
July 10, 2009
I met Angelo in 1976 when I first started work. I grew up with him and his family for the few years that we worked together. I also met his wife to be, Karen, during those years. There use to be bumper stickers that said "Where the Hell is Rescue". We all found out where it was because Angelo was up there all the time. At Some point in our lives we lost touch (something I will always regret). We forever lived in the same community, and I remember seeing Karen at the grocery store every so often (the one where his brother worked) she would always give me a hug and ask about my family and friends we had in common. Ang, not everyone receives a gift from God, you most certainly did in Karen.
With our Love
Terry and Kimberly McHale
Rocha Family
July 10, 2009
Karen was always such a positive person. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this very difficult time.
Jennifer Edmond
July 10, 2009
I first met Karen in 1990 when I began my state service with DCA. Karen was always so helpful, so polite, so kind. She will be missed. May God give her family strenghth and keep them safe in his dwelling.
Honey Taylor
July 10, 2009
I will always remember Karen as a friend and fellow scrapbooker. She had a great laugh and would always brighten a room. She taught my son in children's ministry and he was always so happy to see Karen in the room when he went. My fellow Libra friend you will be missed and my prayer so out to your family.
Noreene DeKoning
July 10, 2009
To Karen's Family,
I have known Karen since the Department moved to 4th and R Street in 1992. Her pleasant personality and beautiful smile will always be remembered by those who knew her. Karen was always very helpful to me and she was especially kind to me when I lost my daughter and then my husband. Karen was a very special lady and will be terribly missed by all. I know she will be watching over you from heaven. May God Bless you and be with you in this time of sorrow.
Rose De La Paz
July 10, 2009
Angelo and family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Karen was such a great person. Funny and always smiling. It was fun to have her out there when you (Angelo) played softball with some of us DCA employee's. It was a pleasure meeting and knowing your wife.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Linda Ward
July 10, 2009
I wish the family my heartfelt sympathy. I will always remember Karen's lively spirit and bright smile. Loved her Rachel Ray impression at the Pampered Chef parties I attended.
Jeanne Wright
July 9, 2009
I first met Karen some 25 years ago when she first started with DCA, and I handed her the new employee paperwork to complete. We immediately hit if off when she found out my last name was Wright. We were real pals in the early days. Even though it's been several years since we spoke, I have fond memories. I was most excited to hear of Karen's deep faith. To the family, I'm am very sorry for your loss. To Karen, my sister in Christ, I'll see you again. Bless you!!
Christina Herrman
July 9, 2009
Karen, my love is with you and your family! I hope peace finds all during this extremely hard time and I pray for your eternal happiness. You will never be forgotten.
Love,
Christina (Saevke) Herrman and the Herrman Clan (Jim, Alyssa, Marshall and Cassandra)
Alex Vigil
July 9, 2009
Karen,
You were one of the best friends I've ever had. I am thankful that I was able to have known your generosity, sense of humor, and your friendship. It was a privelage to have had the chance to work with you on a daily basis. I am very sad you had to go, but I know GOD only takes the best. I will miss you very much.
Angelo, Fran, & Julie,
I am truly sorry for your loss. I loved Karen like she was my own family but I couldn't begin to try to understand your sorrow. My prayers and deepest sympathy are with you and your family.
Kenny Sanders
July 9, 2009
I met Karen 8 years ago and I can truly say she is a wonderful person. I had the pleasure of interacting with her was a real blessing. She always made me feel welcome whenever I came into her department. I'll never forget that smile. May the lord give you peace and strength during this time.
Tammi Gualano
July 9, 2009
If I was ever having a bad day and Karen walked through cashiering and I
heard her voice it always brightened up my day. She always put a smile on
my face with her laughter. She had that quality about her that not alot of people have. She was a beautiful and caring person and she will always have a place in my heart. She will truly be missed....Rest in Peace Karen
Leslie Chavez
July 9, 2009
My prayers are with you and your family. I remember the many times I came to see you at your office and how much we laughed. I always left laughing or smiling. I will miss you.
Donna West
July 9, 2009
I know Karen is at peace now, and I know I will see her again one day...
She was a wonderful caring person....
Frenchie
July 9, 2009
Angelo and family,
Karen was a special person who cared deeply about everyone and everything. I was honored to have met Karen and to call her my friend. Karen and I spoke in length on June 30th and we had the opportunity say "I love you" to each other. Karen was to call me on Monday to schedule lunch while she was on her three week vacation, instead I received the call to inform me of her passing. I can't express the saddness I felt. I will keep Karen alive with all my memories of her. I will think of her and smile for all the good and bad times (more good) and I will even laugh at some.
You and your family will forever be in my prayers.
MADELLA/HELEN LOPEZ-WATTS
July 9, 2009
KAREN YOU WILL BE MISSED, YOUR LAUGHTER AND SINCERE HEART WE WILL MISS VERY MUCH, YOU WILL LIVE IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR PRAYERS.
NAM-MYOHO-RENGE-KYO
MDELLA/HELEN
Pam Ligon
July 9, 2009
I was saddened to hear that Karen passed away and I known here for at least 15 years at Consumer Affairs and she knew how to make me smile when I was stressed out. She will be missed.
Stacey Luna
July 9, 2009
I knew Karen during my 8 years at DCA and saw her practically everyday. She was always such a thoughtful and happy person. I only have good memories of her including some times while we were on the DCA softball team!
I know everyone that knew her will feel a deep loss.
Pamela Ligon
July 9, 2009
I was saddened to hear the passing of Karen, I knew her for close to 15 years at Consumer Affairs and she was a nice person and she could make me laugh when I was stressed. She will be missed.
Apol Cruz
July 9, 2009
Karen was my boss when I worked at DCA. She had a great sense of humor which still makes me smile to this day. She was a caring and a very spiritual person. I will forever be grateful to have known her. My heartfelt condolonces goes out to her loved ones. Rest in peace Karen.
Robyn Kriewald
July 9, 2009
I will miss her so much. I feel blessed to have had her in my life, not only as my boss, but as my friend. To her family I wish peace and love.
Life Eternal...
Love Everlasting....
Rey Godina
July 9, 2009
Angelo and girls, I have worked with your mom for the last 3 1/2 yrs . She was a good friend and a great boss, and mentor . I miss her very much. I think she was here only a short 47 yrs because a good person like her can only do so much good and kindness here on earth God needs her help in heaven now . I love you mama karen !
Teri Flores
July 9, 2009
Angelo and Girls,
OMG, I just can not believe she is gone. I worked with Karen for a Couple of years and I had enjoyed her Spunky Personality! She was a Great Lady maybe a little stressed out most of the time due to her Work Load. She did handle it the best she could.
God Bless her Family and may my Prayers be with you at this time of Great Pain.
Sally Dominguez
July 9, 2009
I have known Karen for 17 years. We became friends while she was my supervisor for 7 years at DCA. I am so saddened by her loss. I have many things around my office that she gave me over the years, reminding me what a caring giving person she was. My heart aches for her family. This is a great loss felt by many. I miss her dearly, but her laughter will forever be in my heart.
Erlinda Suarez
July 9, 2009
Our deepest condolences and prayers to Karen’s family. My husband, Ruben, and I both had the pleasure of working with her. I still recall the Reno bus trip we all took about 20 years ago from Consumer Affairs (N Street) and the fun we all had.
May the Lord bring peace to all of you during these trying times.
Erlinda Suarez
July 9, 2009
I've never met a more generous and loving person as Karen. Upon the news my heart sank knowing that she will never make me laugh and cry all at the sametime. I will miss her deeply. Please know my thoughts and prayers go out to everyone that knew Karen and loved her the way I did. Debbie Sullivan (Sacramento, CA)
Ernie Cabrera
July 9, 2009
Karen will be greatly missed at Impact Community church! She was a great servant of God and she ministered to so many in our community. Our prayers are with Angelo, Francesca, Juliana, and the entire family! May God give you all strength, faith, hope, and love!
Steve & Glenda Tampa
July 9, 2009
Angelo & Girls,
May God be with you during this time of need. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
KC Campbell
July 9, 2009
To Karen's family and friends,
I knew Karen for over 15 years. She was always happy and touched everyone's heart with nothing but kindness. She will be truly missed. God bless all of you.
Onika Pittman
July 9, 2009
May God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Karen was my supervisor when I worked in cashiering. I have so many fond memories of her and I will miss her. My prayers are with all of you.
Josh Gualano
July 9, 2009
My wife Tammi worked with Karen, and she always had nice things to say about her. She really seemed like a great person. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May your memories bring you comfort in a time that is so very difficult.
Gean Aguilar
July 9, 2009
I am saddened by the sudden passing of a friend. Karen was my strenght when I was in the lowest point of my life. She was always there when you needed her. I was blessed to have worked with her at Consumer Affairs and at US Bank and blessed to have known her. She will always stay in my heart. I will never forget the smile in her face. God Bless you, Karen. My deepest sympathy goes out to her parents, her husband and her two wonderful daughters. May they find peace and comfort in knowing that Karen is now with Jesus, our Lord and Savior.
Rest In Peace, Karen. I will never forget you as with the countless friends you have.
Jennifer Juarez
July 9, 2009
Angelo, Fran & Juli-
Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. KC was a great boss and friend. I will always remember the camping memories and the endless happy memories we all shared together. Don't ever forget Sonny and I will always be just a phone call away. God Bless and may he give you strength during this difficult time.
Love, Jennifer Juarez (aka JJ)
July 9, 2009
Thoughts and prayers go to the family.
Karen Sorenson
July 9, 2009
Angelo and the girls:
I am so sorry to hear about Karen. My sincere sympathies. This really hits home. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Pam Hauschild
July 9, 2009
In my heart and mind are a thousand memories of Karen, her friends and family, co-workers and those just lucky enough to have met her. She touched and changed us all in so many ways...I miss her and wish her peace.
Elsa Grant
July 9, 2009
Angelo and Girls,
My deepest sympathies to you at this time of your loss. Karen will be missed and remembered always for her kindness. I pray that the strength of the Lord and your loving families you find peace knowing how much she was loved by her many friends. Karen was someone I respected and cared about very much.I will miss her and our long talks always. Karen is a friend I personally will never forget nor her beautiful smile.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
George Adelsperger
July 9, 2009
I recently met Karen briefly in a class given by our employer. After being in contact by phone and email for a number of years, it was nice to put a face together with the name. Her light shone through in person just as it had before electronically.
It is a blessing to know that she is with our Lord.
God Bless her family and friends.
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