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Mary Kostakis Dufour

1925 - 2018

Mary Kostakis Dufour obituary, 1925-2018, Sacramento, CA

BORN

1925

DIED

2018

Mary Dufour Obituary

Mary Piches Kostakis Dufour, a career educator and lifelong Roseville resident, passed away recently. Her professional and academic achievements made her a role model in her home-town, and the impact she made as a teacher, a school administrator, and as a mentor will continue to be felt for generations. Born in 1925, Mary attended Rose- ville schools and went on to graduate from the University of California, Berkeley, where she studied mathematics, history and Spanish. She began her teaching career at Clarksburg High School and later joined the Roseville faculty in the 1950's. In 1965 she was named vice principal of Oakmont High School. After retirement Mary took her life in a new direction. She married Glenn Dufour in 1982, a former Cal classmate and retired teacher and administrator. They both shared a passion for travel, reading, meeting new people and playing golf. In addition, she and her brothers and sister bought and operated the Broken Tee Inn Restaurant in Rocklin. She was a longtime member of the Sigma Phi Gamma professional educators' sorority. Mary was preceded in death by her first husband, Deno Kostakis, and her second husband, Glenn Dufour, who both passed away in 2000. Survivors include her daughter Patti Kostakis; her stepson Duffy Dufour (wife Bev) and four grandchildren; nieces Cynthia Williams Suverkrop and Donna Piches Estridge; and nephews David Piches, George Piches and Mark Williams. In the last few years she was lovingly cared for by Gina Massey and the staff at Kenmare House. The family will hold a private memorial in keeping with Mary's wishes.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Mar. 4, 2018.

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Beth & Don Gould

March 18, 2018

We were sorry to learn of Mary's passing. She was a class advisor to Roseville HS Class of '59, my class. Over the years we ran across each other and even in HI with Patti. We live near Spanger School and thought of her and Patti often and may the family find comfort in knowing Mary was well known and loved in Roseville.

L. W.

March 10, 2018

I am very sorry to read about your loss. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this difficult time and help you to endure. Please know that He sees the painful effects of death and will soon eliminate it forever.

March 6, 2018

My deepest condolences to the family. May God comfort your hearts and strengthen you all during this most difficult time. -2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

March 2, 2018

I will miss Mary very much. She was always kind and gracious. She was a comfort to me at my stepfather Andy Chiulos funeral. God Bless You Mary Larry McClain / Oklahoma City

Diane Tackley

March 2, 2018

Patti and family,
What a beautiful legacy your Mother left. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the memories of your Mother and her life well lived.
Diane Tackley

Dee Dee Anderson

March 2, 2018

My memory will be the time Dream and I met Mary. Mary wanted to meet Dream probably more then me but those were the paths Dream took me down. I did not mind as Dream had a way with people. Mary was so sweet and excited to meet Dream that day. I can still see Mary sitting in her chair petting and loving Dream.

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