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Michael Berry Obituary
Age 17 of Carmichael, CA, beloved son of Robert and Lisa Berry, unexpectedly died on September 16, 2008. He was surrounded in death as he was in life by his family and friends. Michael was born on September 15, 1991 in Redwood City, CA, and grew up in Carmichael, CA. Michael was a junior at Mira Loma High School, and spent his free time bowling, camping, playing video games, and just hanging out with family and friends at the beach. Michael is survived by his parents, Robert and Lisa Berry, along with his brother, Robert Berry; grandmothers, Dorothy Berry and Judith Ford; grand- father, Bert Berry; great-grandmother, Christine Patterson; Uncle Mike; aunts, Catherine, Elizabeth, Suzanne, and Jean; cousins, Andrew, Ashley, and Taryn Ford; and many other dear family and friends. A celebration of life service will be held at American River Community Church, 3300 Walnut Avenue, Carmichael, CA on September 23 at 3pm.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Berry
Robert Berry
September 15, 2024
Happy Birthday Michael,
As your nieces and nephew chow down on your birthday cheese cake, it still takes me back all these years later. One day they will understand the importance of it but for now they say happy birthday and thanks for the cheesecake.
As the years pass on and time fades by I still take time today to remember our time we once had.
And Once a year I get to say Happy Birthday my Brother and I miss you.
Carol Baron
September 15, 2024
Sending prayers, hugs, and love Lisa and Bob and all the family on this difficult day
Aunt Liz
September 16, 2023
Michael, dance among the angels in heaven until all of us that loved you can join you one day. You are so loved and missed by everyone.
Robert Berry
September 15, 2022
Happy Birthday Michael. As I side by the fire pit at mom and dad's house to reflect on the event of today. How I think back to that day all these years later. All the way up to our final goodbye where we went off to our classes. But never to meet up again kills me each year. But like alway I hold this day for you no matter where I am.
Happy birthday brother.
Robert Berry
September 15, 2021
Happy birthday Michael.
Although I am much older and slightly wiser, I haven´t forgotten about you.
Although you have been gone for years, Even in passing you help me though grandma´s passing by knowing she will be with you and grandpa.
With all of the deployments, field trainings with the navy I still hold this day in reserve for you.
You would have enjoyed getting to know your incredible sister in law. And your amazing nieces and nephew.
Mom and dad now live in mountains. And are enjoying the peace and quiet.
And although time still goes on by you are still my brother you are still missed.
Happy birthday Michael. I´ll have some fried chicken tonight with a slice of cheese cake for you.
Mary Ann Key
August 18, 2012
I have just recently read Michael's story and felt the need to learn more about him and his life. My heart is deeply saddened by your story and as a mother of three boys, I weep for you. I can't begin to imagine your thoughts or feelings. In researching your son, I stumbled upon this site. Thank you for sharing your son, his life, and this message. I will keep you and your son Michael in my heart and prayers.
Shannon McCarthy
September 8, 2011
This is really late, I know. I am so sorry, I knew Michael. He was so sweet and kind to everyone he came into contact with. I still think about him often, he truly was a great person. I will never forget him, or how he made me smile. Again I am so sorry.
Lori Anderson
July 22, 2011
I am sorry for your loss.
Melissa Votano
April 26, 2011
Prayers and hugs.
Kathy Thompson
February 21, 2011
Wonderful tribute. Kathy Thompson in Memory of my Daughter Melanie 5-11-79 ~ 2-15-99
January 10, 2011
May God grant your family peace...
friends
December 22, 2010
we miss you! you will always be in our hearts :)
Karren Fleet Daveys Mom
November 27, 2010
I light this candle for YOU MICHAEL :'(
You were one Special Son ;-)
Cyn, M.
November 19, 2010
Berry Family,
The pain of the loss of a loved one, especially this beautiful child, is not easy. Michael has been in my thoughts, and I want you to know that prayers are being said always for the healing of your family. God Bless You & Rest in Peace Michael. {hugs}
Jan777
November 15, 2010
Rest in peace Michael Berry, you will be missed...xxx
Donna Mom to Angie Robert
October 3, 2010
Michael, I didn't know you on earth, but through this wonderful Memorial site that was made in your honor, I got to know a little about a son, brother, grandson, etc from what was written by so many of your love ones! Michael stay close to all those who love and miss you until the day you are all together again! To Lisa and Robert, your Michael seemed to be a very wonderful person, I'm sorry for you loss. May God give you the strength you will always need and Michael R.I.P.
Joanne
September 25, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss.Be strong. Rest in Peace, Michael
Teri Kuna-D
September 16, 2010
My love & sympathy dearest Lisa, Robert & Robbie....your Michael Joseph was a doll and will always be missed....until we are with our Michael's again....God will continue collect our tears & I believe they will be released as beautiful butterflies of love in heaven when we are all together to show how much we missed them...but it will all be joy then. For now we miss, we yearn, we remember their beauty. Thank you Lisa for sharing stories, pics, etc. of your Michael...it is a learning to get to know him experience. Much love and prayers. Teri Kuna-D (Michael McIntosh D's mermail mommy)
Carol Baron
September 15, 2010
This candle is for Michael, who was a part of the light of the Berry household. God Bless Michael on this, his birthday, and all the family, with love and understanding. May God give all of you hugs tonight.
Bella Basuni
September 15, 2010
I miss you!
Bette Timmy's mom
September 15, 2010
Rest in peace sweet angel, fly high ???
Patty Jones
September 15, 2010
Michael Joseph - you are missed beyond belief.
Jill Farkas
September 15, 2010
Dear Lisa and family,
Remembering you all today on Michael's birthday.
Hoping that today brings some gentle moments that helps with the overwhelming pain of missing him.
Love to you
Beth
September 10, 2010
May you always be remembered another mother who lost her son.
September 9, 2010
I send you light & love
Mom of another angel taken too soon
Chris
Aida Dib
August 28, 2010
Michael may You Rest In Peace I light a candle of memorial of you
Teri Kuna Daly
August 28, 2010
Bless you sweet Michael...
Welcome Home Michael
Christina Whale
August 22, 2010
God, Your word says, 'You are a very present help in times of trouble...' Michael's Family & Friends need Your help right now, for this is a time of trouble for them. Please let Your Presence become very real to them. I ask that you would lift the heaviness of their hearts, and that You would bear their burden of sorrow and begin to exchange it for peace and hope. Father, shower them with unexpected tokens of Your love, so they would know how much You really do care. God, we do not understand suffering, but we are grateful that You have promised to be with us in the midst of it. Let Your words be a comfort to Robert & Lisa and the rest of Michael’s family & friends in this time of tears. 'Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me.' In Jesus’ mighty name. Amen
Mr. & Mrs. Berry, You do not know me, I saw your comment on the Compassionate Friends FaceBook page. I thought I would share that my husband & I lost our 18 year old son, Gregory Whale Jr, almost 17 weeks ago. No parent should ever out-live their children... And although your son is no longer physically here on Earth, he will be in your heart forever! I still cry everyday for my own son & I know a 79 year old Father who still cries everyday for his 18 year old son, who died 40 years ago... It hasn't been easy, I know... Losing a child never is... Keep thinking of Michael & know that he is with the Lord & the rest of your family who has gone on before him... For us, to get through each day, we put up a ton of photos of our son, in his old bedroom; hung up a couple of his favorite shirts; Post Letters, Notes, & Photos on his Legacy page; & well we just never stop thinking about him. However, You have to do what's best for YOU! We'll be praying for you & the rest of your family...
At our Youngest Son's Memorial Service, our Middle Son stood up & said: "... I came up with a good analogy on why my Mom called a thousand people that 1st day & why all of us here are gonna go home & tell someone else & why I'm standing here telling all of you... ---> My Brother, Greggy dying was like us, our family receiving a 50,000 Slice Pizza... It'll take a long time for us to eat that pizza, it's gonna give us a lot of heartburn, and a lot of stomach aches. But every time I talk about it, it's like giving you a slice. It doesn't mean that when we're done with that pizza it's gone, it just means that it'll be a lot easier to swallow. Right here, I'm giving away a lot of pizza. It doesn't make that 50,000 number any smaller, but it does in the long run... Every time I think about him, Every time I turn to my girlfriend & tell her that story that I just thought about, I'm giving her another piece, She's gonna have a little bit of Heart-burn in the process, but the point is, It's gonna go away..." - He shared with us a few memories, that was able to make us all laugh & then he said: - "... I'm glad I was able to give each one of you a piece of Pizza today... Thank You all for Being here"
I hope that helps others to understand a little more of what your family is going through... We'll be Praying for you all... God Bless, & If you ever wanna talk, contact me... John 16:20-24
Peace Be With You,
Pat Wentworth
August 20, 2010
Michael, you fill your Mother's heart and mind every single day!
Susan Coats
August 11, 2010
Rest in peace our son!! Prayers to all the family!
Claudia Ewers
August 5, 2010
Michael, your beloved son, will live on in your heart forever. He was a blessing while here and his spirit will continue to bless you always. Thanks for sharing your memorial site for him with me.
Sending my wishes for blessings, love, and peace always. (Mike Ewers' mom)
Cynthia Mondragon
July 29, 2010
Im so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you and your faimly. I know that words dont take the pain away but you are in my prayers. I also loss my daugher Kimberlee six years ago at the age of 13 so I do know the pain and heart ache that never seems to go away. May God Bless you and help you .
July 29, 2010
Please know that our family shares in the pain of losing a wonderful child suddenly. Michael, as our son Nick live on. We have found the love we have for Nick is equal to the pain of his loss and sometimes seems we will never know joy again. It has been 3 years and we see light, dimly, but the light of hope that all things serve a purpose under heaven. Again, we are so very very sorry, you are not alone!
May Love Surround You Each Day!
Love,
The Jeff Volk Family
Lisa H
July 24, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss... My heart and prayers go out to you and your family....
Jill Farkas
June 11, 2010
Lisa - Thinking of you, especially today.
Love Jill
Judith Ford
June 9, 2010
Dear Michael,
There are so many memories to sort through when I think of you. I guess the first is when your parents told grandpa and I that they were expecting you. We already had Robbie, and the idea that we would have another precious grandbaby was just a miracle. You and your brother were the delight of our lives. The joys that we received from helping with both of you boys were some of the happiest times in our lives. My beloved grandson when I think of you the song precious memories just rolls through my heart because my memories of you are just that precious. I remember your second birthday so clearly, when I asked you what you wanted for your birthday, and you told me, “Grandma, I want a baby Simba” I think of how you would tote Simba around, and when he needed his tail “doctored” how you would fling him up in my lap, and tell me “we need to do surgery, and fix him up’ Oh Michael, I can close my eyes, and just hear your deep little voice, it is as clear as if you were still here. Michael, you were my pride and joy, you always seem to know when I needed “ a little something” and would magically produce a snickers, or some type of candy bar. I don’t think I ever told you how much it meant to me that you always thought of me. The joy and love that I gave so freely to you, you gave so freely in return. I love you Michael, and will miss you for the rest of my days.
I love you Granny
Grandma and Michael
Judith Ford
June 3, 2010
Mom
June 1, 2010
Mar 15, 2009 2:22 PM
Dear Michael Joseph,
Six long months have come and gone, and not a moment goes by that your dad and I dont think of you. I long for your company in a way I have never longed for anything. This is a pain that no matter how hard I try to push it to the back of my mind it wont go - to say I miss you is such an understatement - you and your brother were the very reasons I worked as hard as I did, you both defined me in a way because I was so proud of you both, and I knew being your mother was my calling. I knew I was blessed to have been gifted you with and Robert.
I love you and always will
Love Mom
Alicia
June 1, 2010
Mar 15, 2009 8:50 AM
well, its been six months since ive seen your face.
six months since we joked about your robot.
six months since we joked about our marriage.
six months since we made fun of celebrities.
six months since we talked about life.
six long and painful months.
there are so many people that miss you besides me, and their faces show it everyday.
we love you so much; you were our light on a dark day, umbrella on a rainy day, and our sunscreen on a hotsy totsy day.
and you still are.
youre here whenever we need you, to help us through it all.
i know youve helped your brother with track and me with my grandmothers ailment.
you help us all, and i wouldnt want it any other way.
i love you michael.
we all do.
Robert Berry
June 1, 2010
Mar 10, 2009 9:07 AM
Hey my brother I never thanked you for your help on Saturday. I was really nerves and then the next thing I knew I was ready to run Thank you. I want you to know that this track season is for you. Just like 8th grade year was for grandpa. Only you me and mom and dad know what this track year will be like if i ran like i did in 8th grade. Every win is for YOU so I hope you enjoy the show up there because I plan to make this track year, One hell of a year that no one will ever forget. i love you so much say hi to grandpa for me.
Alicia Nicholas
June 1, 2010
hello there hubbie, remember that poem i wrote for my friend to give to his gf?
well, i found it, and i didnt see it then, but it applies to us.
you probably dont remember it, but here it is:
i love you more then you'll ever know,
and sometimes it may not always show,
but i'll always be there for you,
and i know you'll be too.
:DDD
i know youre here with me whenever im down on my luck, or im celebrating life.
or even when im just laying around.
i miss you, so much.
Alicia[[?MB.?]]
Feb 15, 2009 7:18 AM
hey there.
i guess im the only one who really writes anymore.
i miss you, i miss you quite a lot.
how was valentines day up there?
or does jesus not do commercial holidays?
haha, he probably wouldnt.
oh, and im wearing my bandanna, it gives me a feeling of calmness even though im so scared right now.
and thats because i love you.
and ill never stop saying that.
ever.
alicia.
Alicia Nicholas
June 1, 2010
hey there hun.
so, im watching president bush's farewell address, and i cant stop thinking of you.
you made me realize what a wonderful man he was with that blog that you posted about him.
i wish you were here to see it, he can speak so beautifully when he tries.
you are wonderful too, today i was quite a wreck, haha.
i miss you so much, i need your terrible humor so badly right now, my goodness.
mmm, but you know what, youre better off in heaven, i know its much better for you there.
really.
so, i just want you to know i love you, but you should already know that.
your wife,
alicia.
Robert Berry
June 1, 2010
merry Christmas bro. christmas is not the same now that you are gone. you have no ideal how much i miss you. as always i love you. say hi to grandpa for me.
Andrew Ford
May 30, 2010
wow two mounths i get bord when your not around to hang with with robbey working so much i hardly see him on the weekdays miss ya so much btw look me in tux
Lisa Berry
May 30, 2010
"There's a vase on the table over there
Full of flowers and full of care
Of love and splendour and good things too
May your dreams always come to true
And when the sunset fades away
When there is a break of day,
Sorrows and emotions wash, taken
By the golden tide and all those feelings
You tried to hide, let them disappear
Whilst we will shed a happy tear
And whilst you're in spirit, the battle is done
The war is over and you have won
For the truth is that violets and Love will never fade
May you be at peace for the rest of your days
And still there's a bridge between your world and mine
But let us all meet half way, to share the joys
And let us embrace the sunrise together
Even though it seems a bit under the weather
Just remember the violets of love will never fade
For the beauty is never swept away"
Love Mom
Robert Berry
May 30, 2010
8 months.... well today should have been a happy day but its not cause your not here. even tho iam 19 its just another number to me cause i know have my birthdays with out you. i had to wright a porm in english they are the last membies i have the of you... i wish there could have been more. as always i love you
Grief
I saw grief clearly today.
He was tall and thin with big brown eyes.
He turned out the door smiled and then said goodbye.
I saw his big brown eyes close for the last time.
And heard his last breath as he slipped throw my fingers.
And I felt alone
By: Robert Berry
Alicia Nicholas
May 30, 2010
So, I promised I would no longer bottle my emotions.
I'm working on it, but I'd like to tell you I dreamt about you a few days ago.
You were crying in my bed, and I laid down with you and I just held you.
Then it flashed to us at the mall, you grabbed my hand and we walked and talked.
You bought me ice cream, and people stared.
Then I woke up, and I cried as soon as I got home.
My mom says I had that dream because we talked so much at this time last year that my mind is making up for it.
But I don't want it to, I just want you.
We all do.
We miss you.
I love you.
Alexandria Ward
May 30, 2010
Happy Birthday Michael, Miss you <3
Garret Knight
May 30, 2010
Happy Birthday!
Nick RIP MB
May 30, 2010
Hey, Michael. Happy birthday man, we all miss you. There was a walkout today at school in your honor.
The principal and vp's threatened to suspend us if we were caught walking out, but we all did anyways, and no one got suspended. We sat around, people talked about how you brightened up their lives, and we payed our respects.
So once again, happy birthday.
Sahannon McCarthy
May 30, 2010
Hi Michael. Happy 18th birthday. Today at school at 10:30 we had a walkout. It went great many people walked out to remember you we all talked about what a great guy you were. We all miss you and we all love you. You will always be in all of our hearts. Love you and happy birthday.
?Shannon McCarthy
Allesandra Brandenburg
May 30, 2010
happy birthday!
I still think about you every single day!
Tia Borgen
May 30, 2010
Happy holidays Michael! I miss you! I know I don't talk to you as much as I used to this past year but you are still always on my mind baby boy. Every single day. <3 take care of yourself up there! xoxo
Linney Pearson
May 30, 2010
Jan 18 2010 3:55 PM
Sorry I didn't come say hello on your birthday.. but i'm here now. and I just wanted to let you know, that I think about you often. and I will always remember you. Every time I go by your old school, or even hear it mentioned I take a moment to think of you. and as time goes by, my thoughts get happier and happier. I've come to know with all my heart, that you're in heaven watching over everyone right now. especially your brother and momma.
I cant wait this enough, but i'm so sorry. sorry I wasn't there for you when I was given the opportunity to be.. but you made me realize so much. and I am forever changed.
Rest in peace Michael. <3
Rhonda Bachner
May 28, 2010
RIP Michael ... My son David joined you on 8/11/09 ... He was 18. I know that you both had lots in common ... especially those video games ... I am sure your playing right now. I bet David has also told you bowling stories of his dad ... Please help out mom and the family and keep smiling down on everyone ... You are loved by many ... (((Hugs)))
Dawn Elkins
May 28, 2010
I am so sorry for loss. My heart has cried for you.
x
Diane Langham
May 23, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son last year. I came across your sons page as i was leaving my sons. God be with you and your family. We will see our sons again.
Robbie Berry
May 18, 2010
Here I sit thinking about what memories I like more. They are like a slide show for me, but there is not one that I like more than the last. I remember when we camped for the first time without mom and dad and had so much fun, even the very last trip we did together was fun. Watching TV with dad even though we could record it and watch it another night. Or doing yard work with mom so we could go see a movie or go out and do something later on that night. The late nights playing rock band over at Aunt Shirley’s House singing loud. Making 7-11 runs to get slurpee and then playing halo 3 together. I miss you Michael and will always love you.
Alicia Sandifer
May 14, 2010
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Son, Mr. Mrs. Berry. I created a Memorial Page for my GrandMother and came across your son's page. The words were so touching that it filled my eyes with tears and the pictures remind me of the good times I used to have with my Grand Ma. It's true that God has a plan for us all to do, but He needed them right now. I offer my condolences to you and your family.
Austin Widdershoven
May 10, 2010
One of the many memories I have with one of my greatest friends/family member is a short visit to Round Table Pizza.
It was Michael, Robbie and I and we decided to have lunch at Round Table. So we sit down and eat our lunch, talk and laugh and just have a good time. When we finish we surprisingly have the cleanest table so we must look like good children, but little did the other people know that behind the scenes something else was going on. Michael decided that the tops on the parmasean and chili flake bottles were to tight so he decided to loosen them....just enough to where if it was tipped all the way down the contents would come spilling out.
This is one of the best memories I've had with Michael and i wish there could have been many more after but I know more will come and I will have to wait until i see hime again. I will miss you cousin, friend and sometimes it felt like we could be brothers.
P.S. Thanls for introducing me to Monster :)
Brent Romines
May 10, 2010
I sit here trying to think of one fond memory I had with Michael, but I can't seem to choose just one. Whether it be from riding bikes, trying our luck at golf, camping, freezing our butts off snowboarding or just sitting around talking about nothing. Michael was an amazing friend to have and I am so blessed to have had him in my life. I think about him all the time and miss him so much.
Justin Widdershoven
May 9, 2010
Mike. The name I still use for him this day. I remember the times i was pulled over and you always happened to be sitting in the same seat whenever it had happened and you thought that it was your fault. it was never your fault dude. there are all sorts of memories that i have with you. another is that last night i saw you at my house when we were playing rock band. thats how i will always remeber you. happy and funny and witty as always. there was also the time that we were folding papers for consolidated fart systems and you called your mom to ask if we could the company credit card to eat dinner. you tried to cover the company credit card part up by saying it really fast. always a classic mike. i miss you dude. i will never forget you. you have touched my life in such a positive way that no one could ever imagine. i know you are up there watching as i laugh at austin running and wondering why. i know you are there with me laughing too. i hope to see you again one day mike. always keep those laughs coming.
Patty Jones
May 8, 2010
Lisa & Bob - what a beautiful tribute to a beautiful young man. Love you greatly.
Jill
May 8, 2010
((Lisa))
Remembering you on this Mothers Day weekend. Knowing the bittersweet memories it will invoke, I wish you some peace, some healing and some happiness too.
Love Jill
Cherri Miele
May 8, 2010
Michael, shine your light over your family's lives, show them you are there, leave them no doubt to question your loving presence. Your guidance can be the light that guides them through until you all meet again. p.s. please give Chris a hug for me. I bet he'll even share some of his tricks with you :0)
Cherri Miele
May 8, 2010
(((((((Lisa))))))) You've created a beautiful memorial in honor of Michael. Through you I have gotten to know your precious son and I know his Spirit lives on, he is the wind beneath your wings that will carry you through the pain to more peace filled days. I love you dear friend.
Mom
May 6, 2010
I miss you so much - This Sunday is Mother's Day, and it is the second one since I last saw you, and how I yearn for you my dear and beloved son. Love Mom
alex
November 15, 2008
hey michael you were a great friend to me and i will miss you dearly. my thoughts and prayers go out to the berry family. rest in peace michael.
Chris Harder
October 27, 2008
To Michael’s dear family...My heart goes out to you for your loss. Michael sounds like a wonderful young man. Two years ago, our 22 year old son died in an accidental drowning, so we know the pain you are dealing with. We have an amazing support network for grieving families in our area, especially for moms. We’ve come to realize that we just can’t make it alone and we are so very thankful for the support. If you would like to have more information, or if you would just like to talk to a mom who understands, I hope you will contact me.
Elizabeth Stowell
October 20, 2008
The loss of a child is the most difficult of all. I lost my own son, also named Michael, a few years ago. My heart still aches as I now grieve for the loss of my nephew, Michael Berry with family and friends. May God give us strength and courage to go on living life fully, and bring joy, love and laughter to all those who are important in our lives.
In peace, harmony and love, Elizabeth Berry Bolyard Stowell
Robert Berry
October 12, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
July 2008 / 105 Degrees and mom wants to take pictures
September 27, 2008
2005 Big Sur The Berry Family camping
September 27, 2008
Flat Stanley was visiting and we went to the state capitol
September 27, 2008
Lisa Berry
September 27, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Christmas time at grandma and grandpa's Mom Robbie and Michael
September 27, 2008
Michael's first birthday 1992
September 27, 2008
Point Arena at Sunset over Thanksgiving 2007
September 27, 2008
Thanksgiving 2007 in San Francisco, CA
September 27, 2008
sharon marie deuter
September 24, 2008
As a former Mira Loma family, Lisa ,2006 and Ryan, 2007, our family wishes you strength in Gods love to help you through these sad times. My heart breaks for your sorrow and try to have hope and preserve the memory of your beloved son. We will keep your family in our prayers.
Ernst and Sharon Marie,
Lisa Marie and Ryan Michael Deuter
University of Winchester, Hampshire,
England, United Kingdom
Teri Riesinger
September 24, 2008
My sympathies on the loss of your son and brother. I can't even imagine what you are going through, just know that you and your family are in our prayers.
Linda Holaday
September 24, 2008
Dear Family, I am so saddened Michael is no longer with you. Troy would say "I miss that smile, when he thought of him." Our thoughts and prayers are with you daily. The love you share and the grace of GOD will get you through this very tough time. Linda, Steve, Troy and Leslie Holaday
Erica Markwith
September 23, 2008
I am so very sad about the loss of Michael. I have been praying for peace and comfort that surpasses all understanding for his family and friends. I encourage others to pray for this family too. My daughter is his age, I can't even imagine going through this. May God carry all of you at this time of sorrow. Another Mother.
Lynda Wofford (another mom)
September 23, 2008
Our family is so sorry for your loss. My son Micah is a Senior at Mira Loma and has been friends with Robert and Michael since they started there. Michael will be greatly missed by all at Mira Loma. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. May the love of your family and friends and the strength from God get you through this time of sorrow. God Bless!
A Mira Loma Parent
September 23, 2008
May you find the strength and comfort through family and friends to help you through this most difficult time in your life. May the wonderful memories and joyful times of Michael, comfort you and your family everyday. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
TJ & Cori Lucero
September 22, 2008
Our family is so sorry for your loss. Your son was the first person to welcome our son, Barton, to Mira Loma on the first day of school. Michael put Barton's nerves at ease and made him feel welcome. Barton misses him greatly. It's sad to loose someone with such a good heart so young. People such as your son are found few and far between. Again, our family's condolences.
Kelly Dunn-Goligowski
September 22, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss.
Your family is in our prayers.
God bless all of you.
Mira Loma Cafeteria staff
Regina Savage (LeFebre)
September 22, 2008
Hi Lisa,
I'm not sure if you remember be but you were my boss at Interim Personnel on Fulton. I am so sorry to hear about your loss and I just want to cry just thinking about it. I can't even imagine the pain you must be going through right now. Always keep in your heart all the memories you have of Michael because those will never fade away. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
PeggyAnn Colclasure
September 21, 2008
Dear Lisa, Robert, & Robert Jr.
I am so sorry about Michael. I can remember him and Robbie sitting in the office at Pasadena waiting for mom to come and pick them up. I know that there is a lot of love in your family and you all care about each other. This love for each other will get you through this. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God Be With You!
Cheryl S
September 21, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. May his memory live in your hearts forever and may God bring you confort.
Patti Eldridge
September 21, 2008
Dear Aunt Judy, Lisa and Robert, and Robert Jr. My heart goes out to you at the loss of Michael. Our prayers and love are with you in this time of sorrow. We greive with you and pray the Lord strengthen you as you cope with this horrible loss to our family. All my love, Patti Ford Eldridge
Another mom
September 21, 2008
So sorry to hear of you sons passing. We are praying for you and your family.
Jill
September 21, 2008
I am so, so very sorry.
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