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Michelle Beam Obituary

BEAM, Michelle Fong

Died Tuesday, January 2 at the Sacramento Kaiser Permanente Hospital following a sudden brain aneurysm. She was 38. Michelle was born and raised in Sacramento, CA. She participated in the Mandarins Drum and Bugle Corps, attended Kennedy High School serving as Senior Class President, and graduated from UC Davis in 1989. She worked as a researcher for the Legislative Intent Service in Woodland and later as a claims specialist for State Farm Insurance Co. Settling in the Greenhaven/Pocket area of Sacramento with her loving husband Todd, she enjoyed being a stay-at-home mother for their son, Ryan Connor, age 5. She had just given birth to their daughter, Lauren Elise, four weeks earlier. With no clear warning, she succumbed to a sudden, fatal brain aneurysm. As an employee, regardless of where she worked, she was always considered a manager's dream: sharp, hard-working, diligent, organized, and a true team player. Her strength as a person was demonstrated 5 years ago by her putting in a full day at work only to come home and deliver Ryan, without medication. After the birth, she decided to answer her true calling as a stay-at-home mother, using her natural ability as a warm and loving mother. She took so much joy in immersing herself in Ryan's life whether it was busily cutting photos for a scrapbook, taking trips to Disneyland or the train museum, setting up play dates at the park, or bedtime reading with her son. She daily radiated happiness and pride as a mother to her children. She also shined as a cook and loved being in the kitchen, her culinary gifts passed down from her mother, and enjoyed by friends and family. She had an eye for color, interior design, and decorating and took pleasure in repeatedly sending her husband to the paint store. She loved travel, books, and food, often simultaneously. Her keen intelligence was complimented perfectly by her sweet silliness and love of all things feline. If you were lucky enough to know her, you already know how special she was. Always loyal and true, she perfectly balanced her sharp wit with a childlike enthusiasm. She demonstrated her generosity in her final act in choosing to be an organ donor enabling her to positively affect many other lives. She is survived by her loving husband Todd; her son, Ryan Connor and daughter, Lauren Elise; also her devoted parents, Roger and Carolyn Fong; grandmothers, Martha Fong and Dorothy Chan; aunts and uncles, Pat Frew (Robert), Terrence Fong (Donna), Connie Chow (Weldon), Wally Chan, Jean Moore (Russ), Elaine Chan; and her cousins, Shari, Michael, Brian, Christopher, Courtney, Garret, and Casey; father in-law, Warren Beam; brothers in-law, Scott Scherer and Mark Beam and preceded in death by her mother-in-law, Markeen Beam; and her aunt, Sandra Terada. A memorial service will be held in her honor at the Harry A. Nauman & Son Land Park Funeral Chapel, 4041 Freeport Blvd., Sacramento, CA, on Saturday, January 14 at 11:00 AM.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jan. 11 to Jan. 13, 2006.

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Dave & Sarah Picton

March 28, 2006

Dave and I were saddend when we learned of Michelle's passing. Although we moved from moonlit last year, we still have fond memories of you both. I still have the receipe for "raindeer food" that Michelle dropped off for us one Christmas. My kids thought it was magic. She was truly special. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.



God Bless

Adam Flatt

March 14, 2006

To the Fongs and Beams,

Michelle was a friend from early childhood all the way through high school. I remember her remarkable smile (always there) and cheer. I am sorry for your loss.

Bob Berke

February 15, 2006

I was saddened to hear about the passing of Michelle. I sat next to her in claims years ago. As a testemant to her great caring spirit and kindness the news even reached me in here in Missouri.



She will never be replaced. I offer my prayers for her husband and their children. To her mom and dad who obviously did a great job of raising her!



"What earthly sweetness remains unmixed with grief?" St. John of Damascus.

Teri Alicaya

January 29, 2006

Having just heard of the tragic news of Michelles untimely passing, I am completely shocked and deeply saddened. Michelle was the most beautiful person I had ever known. I knew Michelle from preschool where we and our sons became friends. She will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies go out to all family and friends of Michelle. She will surely be missed. I am terriblly sorry Todd, Ryan, and Baby Lauren. The Alicaya Family

Davia Weiner

January 25, 2006

Todd and family:

I am so sorry for the loss. I worked with Michelle at State Farm and we enjoyed sneaking out for pedicures at lunch and giggling when we could. I even made Todd and Michelle dinner once where basically I peppersprayed us all and we had to crawl out of the house. She named my boy Ethan and in return I named my youngest Ryan. I only corresponded via holiday cards and party invitations but we had always planned on getting together. I will hold our memories close to my heart and will try to support Todd and the kids if called upon.

David Fisher

January 24, 2006

Todd & Family: Michelle worked with me a State Farm almost 9 years ago - we had adjoining workstations. For months I overheard her handle lawyers and policyholders, interact with co-workers and toil during troublesome and difficult downsizing. Michelle give the best, brightest and most wholesome advice, direction and even commiseration. Her wisdom and keen sense of humor was a blessing to all of us. Although I haven't seen Michelle in almost 9 years, when I learned today from a former co-worker about her untimely parting, I knew the world was a lesser place. But, I took some comfort knowing her children will bless another generation with a portion of her loving, kind, and sweet spirit. I was lucky to know Michelle, if only briefly. My heart goes out to you, and my prayers are with you and your family.

Tom Stallard`

January 23, 2006

Dear Todd & Family,

Please accept heartfelt regret at your loss. Michelle worked for us several years ago at Legislative Intent Service and I can only echo all the nice things that others have said about her. She was a joy to be around, and she always worked very hard. We still have her picture on the wall in our offices from her time with us. May you all be able to find a sense of peace and move on, difficult as that may be. Kindest regards,

David Land

January 17, 2006

Dear Todd and Mr & Mrs. Fong.

I am truly sorry to learn that Michelle passed away. I worked with Michelle several years ago at Legislative Intent Service. My condolences to you all.

Elda Spackman

January 17, 2006

Dear Todd and the Fong and Beam Families,



I am stunned and profoundly saddened to hear of Michelle's sudden passing. Michelle was a friend to both my husband and I when we worked at State Farm together. I first met her when she was still Michelle Fong, excitedly planning her wedding, back in the mid-90's. We resumed our friendship when we worked at the Roseville office together. I was proud and flattered by Michelle's friendship. She had this glow about her that made us all look a little bit better. The thing I remember most about her is that she was always happy. I never saw her angry, never heard her utter an unkind word to, or about anyone. She was truly a beautiful person, inside and out. Even though in recent years we hadn't been in contact, there are certain people who come into your life and touch you in a way that you never forget. I never forgot Michelle, and her passing has affected me deeply. Her beautiful legacy will live on through her children who should know that their mother was a very, very special person to many, many people. I can't even find the right words to express to you how terribly sorry I am for your loss. She was an angel on earth, and now she's an angel in heaven.

Carol Hallett

January 16, 2006

To Todd, the Wong and Beam families, To say I am stunned, shocked and deeply saddened by what has happened is an understatement. Student assistant life in the Archives bill room changed when Todd & Michelle met. They flirted and talked about one another when the other was not there and finally I said to him, ask her out she thinks you're cute, and that was that. I can only imagine the loss you are all feeling. Take comfort in one another, your friends, family and the kids. And remember, those of us who are part of your past, are also with you to support and comfort you in this terrible time. Your friend always Carol.

Robert Lew

January 15, 2006

To the Fong and Beam Family:



Since marching with Michelle in the Mandarins, I have my fondest memories of a person so positive and golden. My deepest sympathy to you all and especially to your children, Ryan and Lauren.

Scott Jow

January 14, 2006

Dear Roger & Carolyn,



My condolences to you, about Michelle's untimely passing. Roger, it was only last month that I was walking with my son down your street, looking at all the Christmas lights, and you shared with me your happy news about Michelle's newborn. It seems so long ago that Michelle was in Mandarins, yet she has passed so young. My thoughts are with you.

Merlin, Staci, Katherine, & Thomas Lai

January 14, 2006

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Fong and the Beam Family,



Although I had only met Michelle once and know Mrs. Fong from Matsuyama Elementary, my heart goes out to all of you. The shock has not worn off & probably never will. My deepest sympathies to the Fong and Beam Families.

Henrietta Fujihara

January 13, 2006

My sincere sympathy goes to the wonderful family of Michelle. I knew Michelle as a friend of my daughter Michelle Rouse. Sincerely,

Sarah Davis Higganbotham

January 13, 2006

Dear Todd and Family,

I am so sorry about Michelle's passing. It was a terrible shock. Many of my fondest memories of my college days at UC Davis include Michelle. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sarah Davis Higganbotham and Family

Sherry Nelson

January 13, 2006

Dear Michelle,



I was so looking forward to getting to know you better. From what I did learn about you from our few dinners (and our Christmas tree outing), I was very impressed. You were a wonderful, attentive mother, your favorite color was blue, and you loved a special ice cream topping from See's. Since this special topping is no longer made, I had decided to make it my personal mission to find some for you on Ebay! I will always wonder what I might have learned from you as a woman and as a human being. Your families loved you dearly and you most definitely have left a huge void in this world. You will be missed. Have fun with Granny B and Crystal!



To the Beam and Fong Families: What can I possibly say? Michelle was a very special woman in so many ways. She left this world much too soon but will live on in her beautiful children.

Kellie Kirkpatrick

January 12, 2006

Dear Todd and family,

I was so very sorry to hear of Michelle's passing. I had the pleasure of working with Michelle at State Farm. My best memory of her is the day Ryan was born. I remember talking with her for a while that day at work and was so excited (and not surprised) she delivered your son that night. She was a beautiful soul and I am lucky to have known her. Your family and children are in my heart.

Kelly Gonzales (Tokuno)

January 12, 2006

Dear Fong & Beam Family, I am so sorry to hear about Michelle. I was in complete shock when my husband asked me if I knew her. I haven't seen Michelle in years but I've known her from pre-school all the way through Kennedy. I have wonderful memories growing up with her. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Joyce Hirano

January 12, 2006

I was stunned and saddened to hear that Michelle had passed away. I will miss her cheerful personality, her warm smile and our conversations as we both puttered in our front yards. During the short time when our paths crossed, I learned what an amazing person she was. A light has gone out too soon on our street but a beautiful angel now smiles from above. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Larry and Judy Zimmerman

January 12, 2006

To the Fong/Beam families. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Sandy and Bill Shubb

January 12, 2006

I will always have fond memories of Michelle.

Sarah Barker

January 12, 2006

Dear Todd and Family-

I cannot imagine how it feels to lose someone so special. Being a mother myself, my heart broke. My mom (Sherry) told me about how wonderful your family is and will continue to be. You can keep her alive in the eyes of your sweet, innocent young children.

Sincerely, Sarah and Jackson

Paul Freeman

January 12, 2006

I knew of Michelle during my time at JFK, but did not know her personally until meeting her and Ryan at a park a couple of years ago with my son, Alex. Since then, Ryan and Alex enjoyed each others company at preschool and beyond. Jennifer and I were extremely saddened to learn of Michelle's passing. We rarely saw her without a pleasant accomodating smile, and her eternal soul is one of the kindest I have come across. Jennifer and I both enjoyed those times as parents with her when we fretted over how to be a good parent and how life would change with a second child coming. Michelle, your passing weighs heavily on us, and our thoughts and prayers go out to Todd, Ryan, and Lauren, as well as to the rest of your family.

Jackie & Les Rossi

January 12, 2006

To the Fong & Beam Family. We are so very sorry about your loss of Michelle. There are never enough words to say about losing someone that was obviously a wonderful mother and person and can only express our deepest sympathy for all of you and for her very young family. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Kurt Wong

January 12, 2006

I was shocked and saddened when I heard the news that Michelle had passed away. I have many fond memories of Michelle from elementary school through JFK. My deepest sympathy to her family.

Meena Jain

January 12, 2006

To Todd and the Family: we are deeply sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

From,

Aarti,Ram & Meena

Charissa (Mitchell) Scott

January 11, 2006

To the Fong/Beam Family,

I went to high school with Michelle. I think I served in student council with her when she was class president. My mother, Marthella Mitchell, is a friend of her grandmother, Dottie. She told me Michelle had passed. I am sad to hear the news. I remember Michelle being bright, smart, cheery and friendly. From reading the notice of her passing in the paper she was an amazing wife, mother and person. I know you will miss her. I am praying for your family especially her two little ones. God Bless you with comfort.

Sincerely,

Alan Chan

January 11, 2006

Dear Fong and Beam Family:



I was sad to hear the tragic news that Michelle had passed away. During my years at JFK High School, I remember Michelle's very positive attitude, friendly demeanor, and gracious smile. With deepest sympathy and condolences.

Llori McCullough

January 11, 2006

You and your family are in my fathers and my prayers.

Mitchi Rosales-Jang

January 11, 2006

I am truly saddened by the passing of Michelle, my thoughts and prayers to her family. Michelle was a wonderful person, she was always positive about everything. May God Bless you all!

Leslie Thompson

January 11, 2006

We love you and keep you and your family in our hearts

Carol Waterbury

January 11, 2006

To ALL of Michelle's family I am deeply sorry for your loss . I am a pre-school mom. Ryan and my daughter went to pre-school and Michelle and I had the same work day. We had a lot of laughs watching all the kids interact. It was always nice to see her smile every Wensday morning. As you know she was a GREAT mother and friend. you are in my thoughts and my prayers and michelle is forever in my heart

Carol Waterbury

Alice Anderson Summers

January 11, 2006

Dear Fong and Beam Family -- I heard of Michelle's passing from my mother, who works for the church where Ryan attends preschool. I was saddened to hear that her life was cut short, but I know she lived it fully and left a legacy of love behind. I too went through school with Michelle, and she was always a "star" in everything she did. My sincere condolences.

wally chan

January 11, 2006

We will forever miss your love, sweetness and sense of family.

Rest in peace and grace.



Love



Uncle Wally, Aunt Elaine and Grandma Dottie

Ann Rascher-Aira

January 11, 2006

Mr. Mrs. Fong, I am so sorry to hear of the news of Michelle passing. I don't know if you recognized my name but I grew up in the neighborhood over on Pocket Road and went to elementary school thru high school with Michelle. I always knew she would do something great with her life. She was always so pretty, smart and kind. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family and to her husband Todd and her children. Sincerely, Ann Rascher-Aira

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