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Rosemary Quintella Obituary

Our beautiful "Rose" was born September 17, 1947. After fighting a courageous battle with breast cancer, she became an angel of the Lord on July 14, 2009. One of six beloved children born to her late parents Amos Gomes and Elsie Vincent Gomes. Born and raised in Sacramento, CA, Rose graduated from Sac High in 1965 and worked diligently as a California state employee for the next 42 years. She enjoyed the simple pleasures of spending enormous amounts of time with her grandchildren, as well as laughing, singing, and gathering with family.Rose was preceeded in death by her brothers, Joseph and Darryle Gomes; her nephews "Rusty" & Dean Vincent, and Bruce Gomes; and her uncles, Julio, Vernon, "Sonny", and Lewis Vincent. She is survived by her loving son, Jason Quintella; daughter-in-law, Carla Quintella; grandchildren, Elysa and "Baby J" Quintella; sisters, Darlene Gomes and twin Rosalind Jaurequi; brother Russell Vincent; nieces, Shikira Gomes, Carly Jaurequi, Robyn & Celeste Vincent, Diedre Gomes-Hagood, and Dominique Sciara; nephew, Cheyenne Jaurequi; aunts, Patricia Ilsohn, Ronnie LaFleur, and Tarey & Pamm Vincent. Rose was also surrounded by the love of numerous cousins and great friends who will miss her dearly.Services will be held at St. Rose Catholic Church, 5961 Franklin Blvd on Wed., July 29 at 11am; no interment. We warmly welcome all to a reception immediately following.

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Published by Sacramento Bee from Jul. 26 to Jul. 27, 2009.

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Andrew

August 25, 2023

You are Truly missed by so many people. Please rest in PEACE MY SPECIAL FRIEND.
YOU ARE LOVED

July 13, 2010

Rose,

It has been a year since you have left us and it is not any easier. I miss you so very much. I think of you each and every day. You were my best friend and truly our souls were one. I miss our nightly telephone calls and our shopping and eating out. My retirement is much more lonely without you and Mother. I hope that I am honoring your wish that I be there for your grandchildren. I try to see them regularly and Elysa and I text all the time. We will always be close and stay together. You left them and our entire family so many wonderful and funny memories. Cheyenne and Carly (and Amber and kids) miss you much. They talk about you daily. I thank God that I had such a beautiful relationship with you.

I love you and miss you terribly,

Your twin, Roz

Jason Quintella

May 10, 2010

Happy Mother's Day...to our beautiful Ma/Bama/Mila! Miss you like you wouldn't believe; but I never feel like you are "gone", your presence and words and laughter are all around us. It is hard--seems to get worse, not better. But we can go forward because you made me so strong...Thanks Ma! Love, Jas

Jason Quintella

September 17, 2009

Happy B-Day, Mama/Bama/Mila!!

Love you and miss you so much. Still can't believe you're gone, but I know you are right here watching over us.

A beautiful and graceful lady; 62 never looked so good!

We will take the kids and do a little something special in your memory--you and Nani are with the angels and all of our family members that left before you...party on!

Lavon Vincent

August 27, 2009

Beautiful Rosie……
This is long time in coming from our family to you. Our family has endured the recent losses of you and Nani together and it is so hard for all of us here. We learned so much from you; your beauty, your grace, and your love of life! You were such a wonderful Godmother to our child and I’m not sure if I ever hugged and thanked you. I’ll love you forever. Lexie and I talk to you everyday and tell you how much we miss you. We’ll tell Elizabeth Rose about the beautiful women in which she was named. Be happy and keep on dancing!!!
Kevin & Lavon

Amber Jaurequi

August 13, 2009

May May,

I'm sorry it took this long to get the words out. I kept trying... Calling you "my husbands aunt" just doesn't do our relationship justice. You were so much more to me. You treated me and I loved you as if you were my own Aunt from day one. You were a regular in my house and I loved it, I looked forward to it. I will miss so much about you. Our family did lose two key people that will always be missed but I know you and Nani would still want us to keep the music playing. We will do our best :) We Love you May May!!

Amber,Cheyenne,Olivia,Bella and Brother

Roz

August 10, 2009

To my beautiful twin sister Rose,

What can I say that will really tell you how much I love you and will miss you so terribly? You and I have been so very, very close all of our lives. There is not a time that I can remember that we weren't together or not very far from each other. Our lives have been so parallel to each other's. My childhood memories of you and all the fun times playing together with our other siblings and family are priceless. As we became young women, our bond grew even stronger. You were always the prettier and more exotic twin! I will miss our dressing alike, even though we didn't plan it; our shopping trips and our favorite pastime..eating out. Did we not have the time of our lives going out and dancing every single weekend when we were in our younger days? We giggled like school girls, way into our older years about things. I could go on and on. Your grace and style were unmatched. Our family ties are so strong, and that is what kept us close during all these years. I am so grateful that you and I never had a harsh word or ill feeling between us. That is rare with siblings. I want to tell you how proud I was of the way you handled your illness. Never once did you really ever complain. You were so very brave during this terrible ordeal. Our family has been hit with such devastating losses, with you and Mother passing so close together. The family will never, never be the same without either of you. Know that I will love you and miss you all of my days. Although, I know I will see you again someday it is hard not to be able to call you and talk as we did each and every day of our lives. I will look after your beautiful grandchildren as you asked of me. Know that my heart is truly broken, but your spirit is all around me...I can feel it. You are at peace and not suffering. I love you with all my heart.

Your twin,

Roz

Jason Quintella

August 1, 2009

Well, Ma...what a week, 'eh? Sorry it took me so long to put something up here; just taking care of business the way you would want me to.

You had a beautiful day on Wednesday, and a huge turnout. I hope we did you proud...I know you were there checking everything out (you would have enjoyed the Mexican lunch from Emma's Tacos)!

We cannot truly say goodbye, because my faith and what I KNOW to be true tells me you will always be with us.

The hard part is not hearing you laugh as we watch something stupid on T.V., not seeing you smile when Baby J or Elysa comes into the house with a big hug or story about their day at school.

Not being able to say "thank you" one more time for all those challenging years as a single mom; no more hour-long chats on the phone about everything and nothing at all. Yes, I will miss you being right there within my reach--and that will be the hardest part.

You were simply the best mom, mother-in-law, and grandmother we could have ever asked for! Carla, myself, and the kids truly had an angel here on Earth in you; and now, Heaven gets you back.

Love you always,

Jason

Myrna Agbunag

July 31, 2009

My deepest symphathy to the Gomes/Quintella Family. I was very fortunate to meet Rose 20 years ago. As we spoke and became acquainted we learned that we knew many of the same people and partied at the same places back in the 70s. I am blessed that I became one of Rose’s best friends for she was a very private person. We used to talk about going to Hawaii and she wanted so much try to travel after her cancer treatment was over (she said even with her phobia). She loved to dance and she taught me how to do many of the steps and slides. She spoke fondly of her family and especially her son, daughter in law and granddaughter and Baby J. Family was the first and most important thing to her during her life. She loved hearing her granddaughter Alysa call her Bama . Rose never complained, there was always that smile and her walk was one that you will never forget. Everything on her was always perfect. Many people loved her.
We would go out often to listen to music, talk, laugh and share our thoughts. She always had words of wisdom and I will miss her, for when I needed a friend to talk to I was able to call Rose. It will take sometime for I still pickup the phone to call you and realize you are gone for now. One day I will see you again and it will be in Heavens Paradise and it will be like Hawaii. You will be forever in my heart .

Blythe LaFleur

July 30, 2009

TO Jason, and the whole Family ... It is sad to say goodbye to such amazing, beautiful people that grace this earth in such a short time...unfair has no real definition...I only hope light shines on you after this storm. My heart is with you always....(this is in memory of you Rosemary)...

If laughter were a Life lesson,
to study as we grow
Your family would be the scholars,
since you taught them all you know.
Like the Sun..you shower us in gold,
and keep us happy through the day
You are always with us like the moonlight,
at night when we've lost our way.
Our memories will be the candles,
that light the vigil of our Souls
You will always be the thread,
to mend our faith when filled with holes.
The dance done by your family,
may change by a few steps
But the music of your smile remains,
to light up the darkest depths.
You may not be where we can reach you,
since your soar in the brightest sky.
Yet we can feel you in the slightest breeze,
and see you in a butterfly passing by.

- luv
Blythe

Sandra Callori Fuentes

July 29, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gomes/Quintella family. I worked with Rose as her manager for a relatively short time in her long career with the State. She was a kind and lovely woman as well as a very conscientious employee. She was a fixture at Department of Rehabilitation - everyone knew the tall, slim woman in black, who glided elegantly down the hallways and was quick to share her beautiful smile. Rose cared about doing a good job for the people whose lives she touched as a Personnel Specialist. She kept a very positive and upbeat attitude, even on the most difficult of days. It was clear to me that Rose was devoted to her family, especially to her beloved son and grandchildren. I remember her talking excitedly about her vacation plans - so happy to be taking her grandkids to Disneyland. She was clearly a wonderful mother and an awesome grandma.

You are at peace now, Rose. May God bless you.

Johnny McEachren

July 29, 2009

Very sweet lady and friend my prays are with her
Johnny Mceachren

Carly Jaurequi

July 29, 2009

Nina/May-May,

I never thought I'd be writing this to you, and so soon after Nani passed away, but you're no longer suffering and that's the most important thing. I was blessed to have you in my life, not only as a cherished Aunt but as a loving Godmother. You were always there in my life, as far back as I can remember, and you were truly a second mom to me. There have been so many good times -- from trips to Monterey, to our weekly lunches at Chili's, to shopping on the weekends with me and Mom, to 'approach 'em with confidence' and the countless other hilarious things we got you to do over the years -- and I'm eternally grateful for every single one. I hope you know how much it meant to me when you told me I was like a daughter to you. It's hard to sum up a lifetime of love and memories in just a few words, but if I let myself, I'll fill pages upon pages so I'll leave it at this: you will be missed and you'll always be loved.

<3

Rocky Perry

July 28, 2009

My deepest condolences to your family Rose. It has taken me a few days to leave a message in your guest book because I did not know what to so. There was so many things I wanted to say, but the one thing I have to say is that we will all miss seeing and talking with you so very much.

People come in and out of our lives all the time, Rose is one that you will never forget for she was a kind and tender person who gave so much of her self to her family and friends. When Rose and I would take walks at work she would always talk about her mom, her son, daughter in-law, grandkids, other family members and then herself. Family was always first in her life, her friends were next and then it was Rose.

Rose you have friends that will truly miss you very much.

~Your Friend

July 28, 2009

My prayers go out to her family. I knew Rosie back in the day and it was such a joy to have spent the time we did together. I remember her love for music and more important the unconditional love for her family. In particuar her twin Roz and her son Jason.Lori Posas Santos (Sacramento)

Eva Des Boine

July 27, 2009

My deepest condolences to the family. Rose was the sweetest person any one could ever had the pleasure knowing. She was a soft spoken lady and always dressed very elegant and she glided and flowed when she walked. It was amazing since she always had at least four inch high heel stilettos shoes on. I loved her shoes.

Rose will fondly be remembered on break in the bathroom, combing her hair or touching up her makeup and lipstick. Rose never knew how beautiful she was, inside and out, she had the most tender caring soul. When she had problems, you wouldn’t know it, since she never wanted anyone to worry. She was never judgmental and when she offered any advice it was genuine and straight from the heart. She was the best person and friend anyone could have ever had.

Rose was so much fun to be around. We enjoyed many years together at work and hanging out afterwards, dancing and partying, especially at the Double Tree and Savannahs, to name a couple. We loved to sit around the table, have a few drinks, share in each others lives, people watch and just let loose and be crazy. She tried to teach me the electric slide, I could never quite grasp that. We had a good laugh about that.

I am so blessed to have had the privilege and opportunity to have met Rose. Rose, you will always be with us forever (in our hearts). I know when I see you again, we both will have our stilettos on and be ready to party again. I Love you and will miss you deeply girlfriend.

Eva Des Boine

July 27, 2009

My deepest condolences to the family. Rose was the sweetest person any one could ever had the pleasure knowing. She was a soft spoken lady and always dressed very elegant and she glided and flowed when she walked. It was amazing since she always had at least four inch high heel stilettos shoes on. I loved her shoes.

Rose will fondly be remembered on break in the bathroom, combing her hair or touching up her makeup and lipstick. Rose never knew how beautiful she was, inside and out, she had the most tender caring soul. When she had problems, you wouldn’t know it, since she never wanted anyone to worry. She was never judgmental and when she offered any advice it was genuine and straight from the heart. She was the best person and friend anyone could have ever had.

Rose was so much fun to be around. We enjoyed many years together at work and hanging out afterwards, dancing and partying, especially at the Double Tree and Savannahs, to name a couple. We loved to sit around the table, have a few drinks, share in each others lives, people watch and just let loose and be crazy. She tried to teach me the electric slide, I could never quite grasp that. We had a good laugh about that.

I am so blessed to have had the privilege and opportunity to have met Rose. Rose, you will always be with us forever (in our hearts). I know when I see you again, we both will have our stilettos on and be ready to party again. I Love you and will miss you deeply my girlfriend.

Carl Hooper

July 27, 2009

I knew Rose for a short time,but during that time I came to know her as caring and loving person. She opened her arms wide and accepted me as one of her family members. I will always cherish the memories and time we shared.I will miss her cheerful smile and enduring attitude. I know she is with our Father in Heaven as one of his trusted Angels. My prayers and thoughts are with the Quintella Family during this time of bereavement.Earth's lost is Heaven's gain.

Auntie Green Eyes

July 27, 2009

Rosie, I'm going to miss your laugh and your sense of humor so much. You always seemed to be laughing at an inside joke. I remember all the times we went out and cruised J and K Street and the mishaps - chrome flapping on the side of the car, etc. We laughed so hard and left so fast. We can go on and on about the memories in our hearts. I will miss you very much.

Ike Hollomon, Jr.

July 27, 2009

Rose was a good friend and co-worker. She will be greatly missed by all. Ike Hollomon, Jr. (Sacramento/Fresno, CA)

Crystal Brown

July 27, 2009

Dear Rose,
When I first meet with you you were one of the most beautiful lovely warm hearted person Ive ever met before. Your sunshine will truely be missed.

Joanne Santana-Montez

July 27, 2009

To the sweetest Rose...
Such a remarkable woman with tremendous class and gentleness. We will truly miss your presence here. We know that you rest easily now. The memory of you will linger on with us like the fragrance of the lovely flower reminiscent of your name. Our lives were so enriched just by knowing you.
Our deepest sympathy and love to your family members.
Joanne & Cisco

Pat Robinson

July 27, 2009

My condolences to your family. May you seek comfort from the Lord, and remind yourselves she is in a better place.

Robert and Chanda Henry

July 27, 2009

Our condolences go out to your family. You got to experience having an angel in your life, but God needed her by His side. She will be missed by all who knew her.

July 26, 2009

Rosemary, you will truly be missed by us. We will surely miss seeing you, Rosalin and Elsie around town all the time. We will see you later in the land above. Our symphanty and all our love go out to the family. Luv ya always - Marsha & Karen Washington

July 26, 2009

Mila,

I was tremendously blessed to have the opportunity to experience the joys of having a terrific Mother-in-Law. She raised an extraordinary son that admires and would do anything for her. The saying is often true, "The way a man treats his mom--is an indicator of the way he will treat you." It was meant for these two people to enter my life at such a young age. They have created a loving foundation for me, which Jason and I will continue with our children. We will continue the lunch dates that she had with her grandson, Baby J after picking him up from school--making those random trips to Target, Chipotle or Red Robin with her Grandaughter, Elysa. Or just spending the weekend "hanging out." This was truly the love of a Grandma--being there when you are needed.

We were so fortunate to spend the last few months caring for our Ma, Bama, Baba...Mila. When you are special--you tend to adopt many names. God allowed us to show her how much we appreciate her and support her emotionally while on a difficult journey. Although, she would often say that we didn't have to do it. It just came naturally. She would give us her last dime--made sure that her grandchildren had what wanted--even if we thought it was too costly. I have to chuckle every time I think about many occasions where she would attempt to give us 40 or 80 bucks--if we refused the money from her, she would toss it out the window and drive off. Of course, by doing this she knew that we were not going to leave it on the street.

I will miss your stylish ways--belts and necklaces, and black shades--never, ever looking your age. I love you and will never forget how special you are.

Love Your Daughter-in-Law,
Carla

July 26, 2009

Bama,

Come down. I love you. Thank you for all the nice rides and Panda Express and McDonalds. Thank you for picking me up from school. Thank you for taking me in your car, the Altima. I love you. Thank you.

Your Grandson,
Baby J

July 26, 2009

Bama,

You were a great (and cool!) grandma and I will miss staying over your house and our long weekend shopping trips. Thanks for everything you have done for me. I love you.

Your Granddaughter

Karen Silva

July 26, 2009

Dear Sweet Rose,

This is not goodbye! We'll meet again and we will sing, cha cha and talk about our times together at the Crow's Nest like we did back in the day. Thanks for your wisdom when I needed you. Love, Karen Silva

Annette Morones

July 26, 2009

My condolences to the family. I have known Rose for several years working with her at the Dept of Rehab. Rose at work was a private person but she was rare. She was a person I could turn and talk to and truly trust. She was a great pleasure to work with. She was fun to hang out with and just an all around great person. The joy of her life was her family. May she now rest in peace. May God be with her family and friends to comfort you all for this great loss.

Annette M.

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