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WHITING, Stanley Eugene
Returned to the loving arms of his heavenly father on November 23, 2006 after enduring a long illness. Stan was born December 8, 1956 in Salinas CA. He grew up in the Santa Clara valley and moved to the Sacramento area in the early 90's. Stan proudly served his country in the United States Air Force from 1975 to 1979. Stan will be dearly missed by his son, Stan Jr, sister, Dennette Nobles of West Jordan, Utah, brothers: Richard, Steve, Stuart and Scott Whiting. He was preceded in death by his loving parents: Gordon Stanley and Patty Lueva Whiting of Sacramento. A private memorial service was held at No. Highland 1st. Ward. A military memorial service will be held on June 29, 2007.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Nov. 29, 2006.

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Emily Davis

May 4, 2007

IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO WRITE THIS. I'M SORRY IT DID. STAN, I NEVER GOT TO MEET YOU IN PERSON BUT WE TALKED FOR HOURS ON END FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS. YOU ARE AN AWESOME DAD! YOUR SON TALKED ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. HE CONSIDERED YOU HIS BEST FRIEND. HE HUNG ONTO EVERY WORD YOU SAID AND TRUSTED YOU COMPLETELY. I WISH I COULD HAVE MET YOU, BUT KNOW THAT I WILL SOMEDAY SOON. I WROTE A SONG FOR YOU ON THE PIANO. I KNOW HOW YOU LIKED TO LISTEN TO ME PLAY THE PIANO AND SING ON THE PHONE. YOU ALWAYS KNEW WHAT TO SAY TO ME. I KNEW I COULD CALL YOU WITH ANY PROBLEM. AND DON'T WORRY STAN, I WILL BE THERE FOR ANYTHING YOUR SON NEEDS. YOU AND DENISE RAISED HIM INTO A VERY CONSIDERATE, CARING, AND LOVING MAN. STAN JR, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE LOVED BY SO MANY. I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU CAN COUNT ON ME TO BE THERE FOR YOU FOR WHATEVER YOU MAY NEED. SO UNTIL WE MEET STAN...

Denise Gregory

December 18, 2006

Aah, Stan,
There is the man I fell in love with! Your charm, your ready smile, your gentle caring for others. the BEST square dance partner I ever had! I will never forget the magical night we met in Monterey. You and a friend went out of your way to make two "out of town" girls feel special.
Ours was a whirlwind long-distance romance and soon we knew we were meant for each other.
I know you love our son with all of your heart and you will still do all you can- through the very thin veil that seperates us- to influence him for good for a long time to come.
So many things are left unsaid, but I know that you now can now see what's in my heart.
You are greatly missed!

Stanley Eugene Whiting Jr

December 16, 2006

Ok wow this took me a long time befor i could write this, I think doing this makes what happend real and i could not deal with that yet. My dad was the best dad anyone could ask for, he always knew my grades and what days i would not go to class even though he was two states away. Some times that didn't make me happy but i thank him for it now. The past two years when i was living in utah we talked every night and that was my best memory of him, we would talk for hours and plan the new house we would be making. Dad i miss you so much and always will love you with all my heart but im glad your not hurting anymore, I will not stop tell i finnish all the dreams you had! I hope that when your looking down i make you proud of the things i will become and what i do. And dont worry someday soon you will have your own grandkids, maybe now you can pick me out the best ones! And to my how family i love you and thank you so much for being there for me!

Stacey Spencer

December 15, 2006

I well never forget Stan Whiting, he gave me a place to stay when i needed it the most and thats where i changed my life. He told me when it was time to go because i was ready and since then my life has continually became better and i thank him for the experience of looking though my past. And this has been my future for the past 6 years and every day i would come by and tell him about my new found future and how good it was going. He always had a smile on his face and reencouraging words to lift me on my way and help my day. He always knew the answer to every thing. Thats what i miss the most! And his smile

Stan and cousin Rosanne 1968

December 10, 2006

Glenn Ryburn

December 6, 2006

Stan, I have such great memories of us as children playing together with your brothers and sister. It seemed like we could play forever. It's unfortunate that we grow up, lose our sense of childhood, and lose contact with those we love. I'm glad I got to see you one last time Cus.

Muriel Ryburn

December 6, 2006

As his aunt, I knew Stanley more during his childhood. Stan was born early December facing the cold winter months. His dad was very protective of him, hovering near him constantly, discouraging us from getting to close to him in case we may have the virus. He was very proud of his baby son with soft brown button-like eyes. I remember the week Stanley spent with my four children and me. I think he was about 9 years old, between the ages of his cousins Brady and Rosanne. I never received so much help and consideration (I’m in the wheelchair from polio) from a child. Stanley almost anticipated my moves. His four cousins, used to me and never thought of me needing help, thought he was crazy. I appreciated his help and thoughtfulness although there were times I felt like I saying, “Thank you, Stanley, I can do it myself!” When I think of Stanley, I think of his quick cheerful smile, his eagerness to offer me a push to wherever I wanted to go and his sharing the latest of what’s going on in his life. During our phone conversation last spring, he shared with me his dream of he and his son possibly moving to Las Vegas. Through the best and worse of times, Stanley had his dreams.

Joe Cuneo

December 1, 2006

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory will always remain in our hearts. Our thoughts go out to the Whiting family during these most difficult times.

Cuneo Family

Don Ballard

November 30, 2006

Stan,

Wish I could have gotten to know you better through the years. You were a great guy from a wonderful family that I love very much. Rest in peace my man and we will see you again some day.

Don Ballard

Richard Whiting

November 30, 2006

Stan, you will always be my little brother. I will miss you, but I look forward to seeing you again in God's due time.

Dennette Nobles

November 29, 2006

A special thanks to my brother and brothers in honoring our brother Stan. I am sorry that we did not have more time together; I will always hold Stan in my heart and memories. Our love will always be with your Son, in anything that we can do. I will miss you NaNa!

Steve Whiting

November 29, 2006

Brother Stan,
Although you were taken from us much too early, Your memory and fun loving spirit will live on in us forever. I will miss you big brother and I pray that you are now at peace and healthy once more.

Peter Brixie

November 29, 2006

Stan:
You were the most dedicated father ever.

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