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Thomas Ainsley Obituary

AINSLEY, Thomas Passed away on July 22, 2014, at his home in Sacramento surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Chicago, IL and was preceded in death by his parents Charles and Dorothy Ainsley. After graduating from the University of Illinois he spent four years as an officer in the U.S. Army at the Presidio in San Francisco. Tom was employed for thirty years in sales and marketing with several major computer firms and retired in 1991. After retirement, Tom and Joan embarked on two ventures that changed and enhanced their lives. They bought a motor home and joined the Family Motor Coach Association in which they were active for 19 years, including Tom's term as President of the Western Area. Their second venture was to volunteer at the Visitor Center at Humboldt Redwoods State Park every summer. There they enjoyed greeting the many visitors and helping them learn about that beautiful redwood park. Tom is survived by his beloved wife Joan; sons Doug (Tammy), Matt (Kim), and Mark (Andrea), grandchildren Jadria, Shaysa, Joleah, Adam, Eli, Emily and Alyssa; brother Michael (Susan) their daughters Jennifer and Heather and their grandchildren Kaliska and Angenie. There will be a Celebration of Tom's Life on Sunday from 1:00pm to 3:00pm at the Sierra 2 Center, 2791 24th Street, Sacramento, CA 95818. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Save the Redwoods League.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Jul. 25, 2014.

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Bruce &Jan Watson

August 6, 2014

Dear Joan & family,
We are so sorry for your Loss! We were just talking about the good times we shared with you guys as we were driving past Sacramento last week. Please know you're in our thoughts and prayers. With our deepest sympathy.

Dick Hazeltine

August 6, 2014

His earthly serenity was admired and respected by many he never even knew.

August 5, 2014

We will miss you. - Bob & Carol Newby

August 3, 2014

A great man who will be missed. Our heartfelt sorrow for Joanne who is loved by many as wa Tom. Marie Alkema

Dick & Lei Lordge

July 29, 2014

We remember all the great times with you two at our local rallies and Family Motor Coach Association rallies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Derek Walker

July 28, 2014

May the God of all comfort be with your family in this great time of comfort.

Ken Marks

July 28, 2014

Doug. I saw the passing of your dad in the Bee today. That's a pretty tough one. Hope you and your family are coping as best you can.

July 27, 2014

I worked closely with Tom for several years. He was a great resource and was well respected in the computer community. A good man. My condolences and prayers to his family.

Martin Mortensen

July 25, 2014

Very sorry to read this news on the passing of Tom. I worked with Tom at RCA ISD and Sperry in Sacramento in the late 60's and 70's. He was a great person and he will be missed. My sincere sympathies to the entire family.

July 25, 2014

My deepest condolences to the family, may you find comfort and strength from the God of all comfort (John6:40)

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