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Gerry Jovanovich
February 8, 2026
So very sad to here that cousin Tom "Buddy to me" has passed. He will be missed by all who knew him. My memories at grandma and grandpa Wirtz's home during Christmas with him and family, oh so many years ago but still embedded deeply in my mind, will be with me forever. My deepest condolences to Cheryl and the rest of the family. I will always remember him and smile.
Liz Friend
February 4, 2026
I met Tom in the late 70s/early 80s when I began working with his wife Cheryl. I remember his calm friendly demeanor and ready smile. Cheryl shared with me stories of his escapades and many talents. I was especially impressed with his love of bicycling. My heart goes out to his family and friends who must miss him terribly.
Paul Neal
February 2, 2026
I met Tom around 1981 when I worked as an Assessment Center SPA at CRC. Tom was patient, extremely helpful and always kind. I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to work with and to get to know Tom. His warm spirit and beauty personality will be truly missed.
Deana Wirtz Banovich
February 1, 2026
My cousin Tom (Buddy, as he was known to the Wirtz Family) was a 10-year-old living in Tehama at the I was born. He stayed in one of the hotel rooms owned by my parents. He was like a big brother to me. As a toddler, my 3 favorite things were black licorice, any dog, and Buddy ... not necessarily in that order. That poor little boy was shuffled between various relatives throughout his childhood, but came back to live with Grandma Tillie in the Sacramento area when I was about 9, when my own father passed.
One would think the cruelty and rejection he experienced as a child would have made him bitter. But I never once saw him lose his temper or exhibit meanness. In fact, for the rest of his life, he remained devoted to his extensive family. For some 55 years, Cheryl had to spend the majority of their vacations visiting aunts, uncles, cousins, and various in-laws, many of whom were strong-willed and opinionated. He truly choose the love of his life well.
Buddy taught me so much, but even as a young child he cut me no slack at Monopoly, Chess or other games - often pestering and teasing, as siblings do. We spent hours plunking on the piano together. I still see him pulling up to my school in his beautifully refurbished Model T, to take a cluster of giddy girls for a spin. There were many magical nights sitting around a campfire, smoke in our eyes, strumming a guitar and singing. Buddy had a rich, beautiful voice, but when we sang together, neither one of us could hold a tune. Nonetheless, there was laughter. Always that joyful, good-natured laughter. You could count on him to see the humor and levity of any situation.
Though we lived in different states most of our adult lives, we were often together at holidays, funerals, campouts, reunions, and various visits. Even from a distance he remained an important part of my life. He was the spokesman of the Wirtz family, waxing eloquent or leaving us in stitches with his good-natured wit and unassuming charm. Privately, he was someone to share confidences with and always the kind listener with a gentle heart.
Buddy, my dear cousin, my precious friend, my surrogate brother ... How you will be missed.
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Dick Rasor
February 1, 2026
Tom and I used to debate each other regarding methods of research. Yet I always found him to be joyful and understanding like a true friend. He will be missed by faculty who interacted with him.
Valon Bishop
January 31, 2026
Tom-Buddy to his family-was my cousin, 14 years my senior, and one of the most remarkable people in my life.
I´ve always loved his curiosity, gentle heart, and the many ways he amazed us with his talents.
I remember him joyfully manning his sailboat on Folsom Lake, serenading us with his guitar at our annual Stampede Campouts, and playing his harmonica, just like our Grandpa Bill. My favorite song, "The Bear Went Over the Mountain" now passed down through the generations is still sung with a smile by the family.
Buddy taught us the Piano Duet "Heart and Soul" which we still play every time there a piano around.
Back when Bud was in college, he would show up armed with psychological tests, ready to tackle my typical teenage troubles. I suppose that made me his first patient-he was already very good at what he would become.
Bud´s gifts live on in the lives he touched and I am forever grateful to have been one of them.
In the spirit of the piano duet you taught us: I love you with my heart and soul, Buddy
Always, Valon

Bruce Patt
January 31, 2026
I´ll miss you forever, Tom, on the trail and off.
ellen and Arnie WIldfeuer
January 29, 2026
Tom and his wife Cheryl have been our friends for more than 50 years. Through life and death, joy and sorrow we have shared much. In deepest sympathy to his family for this enormous loss. Ellen and Arnie Wildfeuer
Celia Esposito-Noy
January 28, 2026
Tom was a joy to work with at ARC. Such a kind and brilliant man. I will always remember him with fondness.



Gillian Medeiros (ARC Counseling Clerk)
January 28, 2026
I have had the absolute honor of doing a counseling history project and going through the archives to find every counselor that has worked at ARC. I unfortunately never got the opportunity to meet Mr. Powell but I have talked to current and retired staff about him and they have nothing but positive things to say about him. I have a few photos of Mr. Powell, the last picture of him from the side profile was the only photo I was able to find of him for sometime. Luckily I came across the photo in the middle with all the staff and I was so happy to see a front facing photo! While doing my scavenging through the archives once more I found this headshot of him from the early 1990s.
It´s so wonderful to hear about his life, his hobbies, and the other things he has done at ARC. I´m so glad that I got to learn about him.
My love goes out to his family and friends, I hope seeing these photos of him makes them smile. :)
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