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Doug Bodkin

1946 - 2016

Doug Bodkin obituary, 1946-2016, Salt Lake City, UT

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Doug Bodkin Obituary

Doug Bodkin
1946 ~ 2016
Cpt. Lee Douglas Bodkin (Doug) was a kind, brilliant, and thoughtful man.
He was born in Fresno, California, January 23rd, 1946, to Dora and Lee Bodkin. In 1950 the family moved to Los Angeles, where they lived in Westwood, Palos Verdes, and Bel Air before relocating to the East Bay Area in 1960. Doug, a dedicated individual who pursued his endeavors steadily and without trepidation, joined the Junior ROTC at age 13. He graduated from high school at age 16, and enrolled at UC Berkeley that same year.
At Berkeley he continued with the NROTC, with a Marine option. The Navy recognized Doug's talent, and paid for his participation in the Flight Indoctrination Program (FLIP), which granted him a private pilot's license while in school. He graduated with a degree in Physics at age 19, commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant in the Marines. He then completed Naval flight training in Pensacola, basic and advanced flight training, US Army Airborne School, and finally deployed to Vietnam with the US Marines. He served there as a Captain, flying EA6Bs in electronic warfare suppression missions. He also rotated into ground combat as a Forward Air Controller alongside Korean Marine Corps.
It was during his time in Vietnam that he was lucky enough to meet his dearest companion and wife, Maria, who was serving with the American Red Cross at the Clark Air Force Base, Philippines. They spent the next year corresponding with 3" reel-to-reel tapes sent back and forth, saw each other for 15 total days, and became engaged at the famous Gaddi's Restaurant during an R&R visit to Hong Kong. They were married after their return to the United States on December 12, 1970. It was their 21st day in each other's presence. They celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary this past year.
After marrying, the couple moved to Camp Lejeune, where Doug finished his service, and then to Leeds, England, where Doug obtained a Master's Degree in Environmental Control with the Fuel and Combustion Science department at the University of Leeds. Soon thereafter, they found themselves in Salt Lake City, Utah, which has been their shared home ever since.
In Utah, he worked in the field of air quality control for Cramer Company and then at Mountain Fuel. He joined the Utah National Guard, flying Cobra and Apache helicopters. In 1985 he redirected his career back toward his love of flying, returning full time to the cockpit as a Pilot for Continental Airlines. He retired as a Captain at the age of 60.
His flying allowed him to provide his family with the unique experience of travel, and he would devote his free time to exploring with his wife, and children as they grew up. Upon retirement, he continued to travel with Maria and his family, enjoying various fly-fishing destinations, and pursuing his passion for genealogy, often travelling throughout the USA, Switzerland, Ireland, Italy, and other countries to research family history, even bringing some of his discoveries back to the Family History Library. He was a lifelong learner. He was an accomplished piano player as a young child, which budded a sustained love for music. Doug was also an avid reader in the fields of history, religion, science fiction, and science.
His seemingly endless patience, gentle demeanor, and capacity for kindness made Doug an incredible husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He died in his home on Monday, April 18th, surrounded by loved ones. He is survived by Maria; his son Nicolaas (Gabriel); his daughter Caroline (David); his brother Rob; and his grandchildren Calliope, Sappho, Fenric, Aria, and a baby girl who will arrive this summer. He also leaves behind extended family, friends, and former colleagues who admired and respected him. He will be greatly missed by the many who knew and loved him.
A celebration of life will be held on Friday, April 29th from 6:00 to 8:00 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City. Guests are invited to use complimentary valet parking provided on the north side of the building. He will be laid to rest with military honors at Utah Veteran's Memorial Park, Bluffdale, at a later date. Online condolences may be offered to the family and a memorial tribute video may be viewed at www.starksfuneral.com.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to support early detection research for pancreatic cancer at the Huntsman Cancer Institute (http://www.skewright.org/donate/).

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Apr. 24, 2016.

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Elecia Kaufman

April 20, 2021

I will always remember Doug Bodkin.
I wish I could have known him loner.

LTC Matthew MacGregor

April 27, 2016

Well Done thou Good and Faithful Son.

Doug was always the teacher. He helped this new 2nd Lieutenant learn the real meaning of command. Thank you.

First Apaches in Utah

LTC Matthew MacGregor

April 27, 2016

Judith Hall

April 27, 2016

We met doing the Bodkin/Botkin DNA research. His presence will be missed. I am very sorry for your loss.

Lynnette Bean

April 26, 2016

Doug and I met because of a DNA match. We are related, distantly, through both of my parents. We really connected on our Swiss lines. He taught me a lot about doing Swiss research and about using the Family History Library. He went out of his way to help me learn about my family, further back than I ever dreamed of going.

I will forever be grateful to Doug for being a kind, clever, patient mentor. The message he gave me is etched in my brain and guides my actions - "Stay Focused". He wisely saw my inclination to wander around family lines rather than stay on one direct path. :-)

I will miss Doug. My condolences to all his loved ones.

Elecia Kaufman

April 24, 2016

I wish that I could have had more opportuniies to spend with Doug. He leaves behind a loving family and an abundance of friends. He was the true definition of a gentleman.

April 24, 2016

Bob Mabey

April 24, 2016

Doug was as good as they come, both in the cockpit and in friendly conversation. My Guard memories of him, going back to the old 396th Aviation Company (Attack Helicopter), through the Cobra days in the Attack Helicopter Troop and then on in to the Apache will always bring a smile to my face. Doug was definitely "Above the Best".
Semper Fidelis my friend.
COL Bob Mabey

Todd Carter

April 24, 2016

Mrs Bodkin, Its been many many years..I wanted to write you a little note to express my sympathy, I didn't know Doug, but I knew you, and your awesomeness. Thanks for 5th and 6th grade. There is no other like you and I am sorry for your loss....Todd Carter

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