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Ellen Furgis Obituary

1926 ~ 2013
Ellen Vidalakis Furgis, 86, passed away on February 7, 2013 surrounded by her family and friends. She grew up in Bingham Canyon, Utah, where her parents, Spiros and Kyraki Vidalakis, had emigrated from Crete. In July 1953 she married George C. Furgis.
At the age of 8, Ellen lost her mother, and from then on she and cooking went hand-in-hand. She couldn't have realized that as she fed her younger brother and sisters, she was embarking on one of the great missions of her life. She went on to feed rich and poor, usually at the same table, and what a table it was! There was elegance and simplicity, thoughtful conversation and easy chatter. She became a celebrated cook and authored the cookbook Greek Cooking at Its American Best. Through her focus on food, she was able to introduce to newcomers and preserve for old-timers the beautiful aspects of the Greek culture. Her cooking classes and demonstrations became favorites throughout the valley and were fundamental in creating interest in ethnic cultures.
Ellen was known for her big parties and fundraisers, complete with "lamb on a spit." In 1986 and 1987, she co-chaired the Greek Festival, helping to take it to the large-scale production it is today. She was very active in other aspects of the community. She was instrumental in instituting kindergarten classes in the Jordan School District in 1972. She was appointed co-chair of the "White House Conference on Families" by Governor Scott Matheson. She was a member of the Board of Trustees at Westminster College where she received an honorary degree. Ellen enjoyed her association with the Gina Bauchauer International Piano Competition and her fundraising efforts for Odyssey House, the Utah Symphony, the American Cancer Society, and Camp Kostopolous.
Ellen had a powerful yet gentle presence and left a lasting impression on those who knew her. She found joy in living and she lived fully and heartily. Her generosity was unsurpassed. The dinner table was always filled with family and friends as well as people working on the house, students from East High, and random visitors who happened to stop by. Her family never let her open a restaurant because they knew she'd go broke feeding everyone for free.
Ellen was nothing if not egalitarian. She was well-versed in a wide variety of topics and could captivate an audience with her knowledge of ancient Greece, history, politics, and of course, the Utah Jazz. She rarely missed a game on television and would call family members and friends at halftime to rehash with vigor great plays and "bad calls." She enjoyed playing bridge and was a life master in duplicate. Despite her sophisticated palate, she never passed up a chance to dine on Kentucky Fried Chicken. She'd return to her richer tastes and end the meal with a few Cummings chocolates, always nearby.
Ellen died at home, her expansive bedroom windows bathing the room in light. She slipped gracefully and peacefully from this life surrounded by the people whom she had loved and supported and whose love now bore her up.
This remarkable woman will be dearly missed by her children, grandchildren, and many friends. She is survived by children, Karen Furgis; Jennifer Politakis; Christopher (Kynthia) Furgis and their children, her dear namesake, Ellen Grace, Peter, and Georgie; and George Furgis (Susanne Gustin) and their son Michael James; brother Dr. Nick Vidalakis (Nancy); sister Carrie Fugett and many beloved nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by husband George C. Furgis, sister Vida Riddle and niece Nada Riddle.
The family would like to thank Dr. Margaret Lunt, her doctor for many years; her brother Nick; sister-in-law Nancy; sister Carrie; and her friend and caretaker Lori Moger for their unfailing dedication, love, and support.
A viewing will be held Friday, February 15 from 5-8:00 p.m. at Deseret Mortuary, 36 E. 700 S., with a Trisagion at 7:30 p.m. Funeral services at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 300 S. 300 W., at 11:00 a.m. Saturday, February 16. Friends can pay respects 1 hour prior. Interment will be in the Mount Olivet Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please donate to Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Feb. 13 to Feb. 15, 2013.

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Linda and Louie Coletti

February 26, 2013

We were so sorry to hearing about you Ellen's passing. We will miss her and that smiling face. She was always a pleasure to be around. I have such good memories of her when I was in 5th and 6th grade Sunday school. She would keep me on the right track. May her memories be eternal. God bless you all.

Mary Vasilacopulos

February 22, 2013

My deepest sympathy. May her memory be Eternal!

Jennifer Politakis

February 21, 2013

Mom, you had such a tremendous impact on so many lives, to include my own. I will always remember your trips to Seattle and what wonderful experiences we shared. No one could ask for a more loving and caring mother. I know you are now cooking in heaven for family and friends. Love and miss you!! Jen

February 20, 2013

Dear Furgis Family,

You are in our prayers. Our family is blessed with the memory of Eleen's genorosity, great sense of humor and the glitter from her smile and shoes. We remember her as the ambassador of peace and goodwill. God Bless You Now and Forever. The Franck Family

Mike De La Mare

February 18, 2013

George and family, i am sorry to hear of the loss of your good mother. My favorite memories of her were the constant cheering for the East high basketball teams. She cheered as much as 15 other fans put together. It was always nice to know someone would always support and cheer you on. My best to your good family.

dione anderson

February 18, 2013

Karren, I only met your mother once, at Loren's birthday at your home, but the words about her were true.




she has a lasting memory of her.

Sylvia Metos

February 16, 2013

I'm so sorry to learn of the passing of your beloved Mother. No doubt, you will miss her terribly. Now she's at rest. May her memory be eternal.

Sylvia Metos

February 16, 2013

Dear Family of Remarkable Ellen Furgis: I just learned of her passing; and I want you to know Ellen had an impact on my life. I was honored to share some memorable moments in her presence; enjoying her kindness and wonderful spirit. I will treasure those moments dearly. May the Lord bless you all now and always.
Patricia McCauley

February 16, 2013

Dear Family of Ellen Furgis: I was so sorry to hear of Ellen's passing. I want you all to know that she had an impact on my life. I was so honored to be able to share memorable moments, enjoying her incredible kindness and amazing, unique spirt. I will treasure those times dearly. May the Lord Bless you all now and always.

Joe and Paula Sargetakis

February 16, 2013

To Karen, Jennifer, Chris, and George,
Your Mom was a remarkable person and dear to everyone she knew. We will all miss her wit and wisdom. May her memory be eternal.

Dick and Pam Hanrahan

February 16, 2013

We will miss such a lovely, gracious lady, a true supporter of the Bridge Community, as well as Education, in SLC.

February 16, 2013

Gus and I send you all our sincerest condolences. What a great lady we have lost! A true treasure!
- Barbara Billinis Colessides

February 16, 2013

Karen, Jennifer,Chris and George, So sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. She was such a fantastic woman. We lost Geno's mom just three weeks ago and know the sorrow you are all feeling at this time. Please know that you are in our prayers.

Geno and Marie Knickrehm

Laurie LaRue Johnson

February 16, 2013

Karen, Jennifer, Chris and George,
There are too many memories of your mother for me to list. What a wonderful person she was. I loved being at your house watching your mom cook, talking to her and experiencing the love your family had for each other. You are so lucky to have had her as your mother. Prayers for all of you.

February 15, 2013

Dear Furgis family:

It's been many years since I've seen any of you, but I have always had a special place in my heart for the Furgis family, and offer my heartfelt condolences for your loss.

My association with your family was in connection with the coin laundry business of many years ago, and Ellen was always a friend to me, as were your dad and Nick.

Again, I offer my sincere condolences.

Gordon Gatrell

Cyndia & Charley Cayias

February 15, 2013

Dear Furgis and Vidalakis Families,

Please accept our sincerest sympathies at the passing of your incredible mother. Your mother and our father (Papou Harry) passed from this world on the same day...our lives richer for having been loved by them.

Another amazing stalwart of our church family has left us, but her love, enthusiasm, dedication and contributions will forever bless our beloved Greek community, as well as the Greater Salt Lake area.

We pray that the warm memories will give you peace during these difficult times, and the arms of God comfort you.

Me agape,

Cyndia, Charley, Dimitri and Yanni Cayias

(If the deer haven't eaten them by the time you arrive at the cemetery tomorrow, please know that the flowers lying on top of your parents' headstone are from us. We visited Mt. Olivet this afternoon to check on our father's 2-day old grave, and wanted to visit the Furgis gravesite, as we will be unable to attend the funeral.)

AIONIA H MNHMH -
May Her Memory Be Eternal

Cyndia Cayias

February 15, 2013

Dear Furgis and Vidalakis Families,

Please accept our sincerest sympathies at the passing of your incredible mother. Your mother and our father (Papou Harry) passed from this world on the same day...their incredible lives having touched so many for the better. Another amazing stalwart of our church family has left us, but will always be remembered for her love, enthusiasm, contribution and dedication to our beloved Greek community, as well as the Greater Salt Lake area. May the warm memories carry you through these difficult times, and the arms of God comfort you.

Me agape,

Cyndia, Charley, Dimitri and Yanni Cayias

(If the deer haven't eaten them by the time you reach the cemetery tomorrow, please know that the flowers lying on top of your parents' headstone are from us. We visited Mt. Olivet this afternoon to check on my father's 2-day old grave - we thank God he is resting next to my mom now - and stopped at the Furgis grave because we will be unable to attend the funeral. Our hearts are with you.)

AIONIA H MNHMH - May Her Memory Be Eternal

Andrea Papa-Dakis King

February 15, 2013

Dear Furgis Family,
There will always be a warm place in my heart for your wonderful mom and you darling kids!
I have such wonderful memories of your mom and you guys and all teasing and laughter.
She will be greatly missing and cherished always.
My love to you all. God Bless, she is playing with my Dad and all the others.
Andrea Papa-Dakis King

Kosta Katsohirakis

February 15, 2013

Dear Karen, Jennifer, Chris and George,
Your mom was such an amazing woman! We will truly miss her. She meant so much to Georgia and I. She was always willing to listen, to help, to offer advice, to love. The Furgis family has been a pillar of our Salt Lake City community, and of our Greek Orthodox Church for so many years. Our deepest sympathy, may her memory be eternal.
Kosta and Georgia Katsohirakis

Tom Peterson

February 15, 2013

Karen, Jenifer, George and Chris, and Aunt Carrie, I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. She was such a wonderful soul. I don't think I every saw her without a smile on her face. Too many of the greatest generation are passing, but we were so lucky to have known them. May her memory be eternal. God be wtih you, Tom Peterson

Lisa Adams

February 15, 2013

Dear Furgis Family, Your mom was such a delight. She was one of the moms I always loved to see in the halls of East because she would say hello and ask how I was and how my parents were. She and my dad, Uppy, had such an epic culinary friendship. How he loved her! My mom, Rhoda, has always valued her as a dear friend. I know they have enjoyed laughing over the years about who had the worst hair-- as Ric was the stylist for both of them. (I think he said they were in a tie.) Rhoda sends her love to you all from Palm Springs, and the rest of the Ramseys join with her in sending our sympathies and love for the loss of a marvelous woman. Fondly, Lisa Ramsey Adams

Wendi Wirthlin Parker

February 14, 2013

Karen, Jennifer, George and Chris,
Your mother was an amazing and talented woman. I loved watching her cook. I have many fond memories of being at your home. May your sweet memories of her help you through this difficult time.

Carolyn Snell

February 14, 2013

Deepest sympathy Nancy and Nick.
Love, Carolyn Snell

February 14, 2013

Dear Karen, Jennifer, George and Chris,

We loved your mother very much. We will never forget her loving and generous spirit. She will be greatly,i issued by all who knew her.

Love,
Patricia, Diane, and Robert Robison

February 14, 2013

We loved Ellen very much. She will be greatly missed. Her cooking and generous spirit are inspirational, and will be remembered forever.

Love,

Patricia, Diane, and Robert Robison

George Chapman

February 14, 2013

Ellen Furgis flew with me to Arizona in the 90's. She regaled me with stories of how she and her comrades in arms wined and dined the Olympic Executives to convince them to hold the Olympics in Utah. Wow - Who can say no to her hospitality.
A few years ago she and I talked about her personal zoo (Hogle Zoo to the rest of us.). She loved her home that was next to the zoo and she loved seeing the animals next to her house.
Ellen Furgis made a big mark on Utah. Instead of saying that she will be missed, I'd rather say that she will be remembered by her friends, her family, her community and her State.

Karen Carter

February 14, 2013

Many years ago, possibly in the '70's, I came to Ellen's beautiful home for a cooking class. Wow, what a treat! I also had an autographed copy of Ellen's cookbook. I recently gave the book to a young Greek friend who is just learning to cook. Whenever I attended the Greek Festival, I would think of Ellen. Or if someone asked me about Baklava...I would offer them a copy of Ellen's recipe. Ellen has left all of us with a marvelous legacy, in so many varied ways. Thoughts and prayers for Ellen's family.

Craig Buchi

February 14, 2013

I have enjoyed the relationship with the Furgis clan thorugh the years. What a joy it has been for me to deliver cars and enjoy her warmth and wanting to give a treat or two while I was there. When young I loved her christmas villages and think of her each year when I put up my own display each year.I loved her invites to the festival. I enjoyed taking care of the family cars and talking when she would get fuel. Her spirit and love for entertaining reminded me of my mom.

Sherman Smoot

February 14, 2013

Karen, Jennifer, George and Chris

You have such a great family and your mom was such a great lady. I loved having you in the neighborhood in the day. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for being great neighbors. It as been a lot of years but I have great memories hanging out at your house and enjoying your mom's cooking, playing basketball in the circle, and just a lot of fun conversations.
All my love
Sherman Smoot

Holly Hill

February 14, 2013

Dear Furgis Family, We are so sorry to learn of Ellen's passing. We had the pleasure of knowing her for the past 25 years. She was always kind and made everyone feel that they were the only person in the room to her. She was a delight to visit with. What a tresure, she will be missed. Our thoughts are with your family at this time. Holly Hill & Sam Bryan

February 14, 2013

I don't wish to give my name by signing this guest book, because I went to east High with George and had a slight crush on him. He was an upstanding young man. Children are a reflection on their parents. I also saw Mrs. Furgis on one occasion. She was either working or volunteering for an occasion at school. In that brief encounter, the two words I would have to describe her are practical and jovial. Salt Lake has lost a beacon in society, and if only more people could be like her, many evils in society would be done away. I have a son who is a die-hard Lakers fan. I once asked him if the Lakers weren't his favorite team, which team would be? His answer, the Jazz! I pray God will send His angels to keep the Furgis family safely in the shadow of their wings at this time.

Chris Furgis

February 14, 2013

Mom, We will miss you....You gave me such an incredible life, wisdom and above all unconditional love. You have left a great legacy with your Grandchildren, Ellen, Peter, George and Michael James. I will be forever be telling them stories about their great Yia Yia. God Bless.....May your Memory be Eternal.

Bill Rekouniotis

February 13, 2013

Dear Furgis family, your mom along with your dad were pillars of the Church. A kind person, she will truly be missed. May her memory be eternal.

Scott Watanabe

February 13, 2013

Jennifer, Karen and family
Even though its been many years I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you.

February 13, 2013

Karen, Jennifer, George and Chris:
May God rest your moms soul. She will truly be missed. Your mother would pick me up in West Jordan to babysit you kids. I watched you grow up and will always have those fond memories. She was such a special person.
May her memory be eternal.
Stella Brokalakis and family

February 13, 2013

Mama you have touch so many with your love and the respect you have given people.
I feel like the luckiest for I was the one whose was able to spend the most time with you.
My great mother, mentor and best friend.
I will miss you.
Love ,
Karen

You were not only a fabulous mother, mentor but my best friend. I will truly miss you. Love you mom , Karen

February 13, 2013

Dear Karen, Jennifer and family:

Your mother was a wonderful kind, gracious, and considerate lady. It has been a pleasure to know her and feel her influence for good on all she knew. She always had a kind word, smile, and good advice for all. We will miss her influence.

Dean and Pam Hodson

Adrienne Fugett

February 13, 2013

Aunt Ellen, thank you for always loving me just the way I was. Your loving acceptance and wonderful presence enriched every second of my life. Your loving niece, Adrienne

O.K. and Karen Johnson

February 13, 2013

We were so saddened to see this obituary. Ellen made the world a much better place and will be missed by so many. Wish we were in town to pay our respects; but, we send our deepest sympathy and love to you all.

February 13, 2013

Dear George, Chris, Karen and Jennifer:
I know words are'nt much comfort at a time like this. But I'd llike you to know I'm thinking of you. It was a privilege to have known your mother; and her loss will be felt by many, for a long time to come.
Please accept my deepest sympathy,
Eleanor Goshgarian-Muth

George & Eleni Karahalios

February 13, 2013

To the woman who exemplified love, lifted spirits and created strength in me and everyone who crossed your path, we will miss you. Your were a rare Gem Ms. Furgis and I hope your journey now is as good as the one you gave to us.

February 13, 2013

So sorry to hear of Ellen's passing! I love all of you! May her memory be eternal.
Elaine Peterson Schwanebeck

Gene Tabish

February 13, 2013

I met Ellen through my father, James Berling, and was always treated as one of the family. My condolences to the Furgis family on her passing.

Melissa Talcott

February 13, 2013

Ellen was such a big part of my life growing up and into adulthood. She always praised my accomplishments, and opened her heart and home to us. I will always remember sitting around the table, drinking coffee and eating cookies while talking about whatever came to mind. I will never forget that smile. Sending my deepest condolences to the Furgis family.

Gary and Madeline Pappas Coleman

February 13, 2013

Dear Family,
This was a lady of so many many talents, and she always had time for you no matter what the subject was. She was the the lady that had advise that always turned out to be the truth and what would happen if her advise was not taken. Dorothy Cayias ( my God Mother ), Mary Ramos, and her were really the Three Musketeer's, always having more fun than three teenagers dragging the Boulvard. So, to you the family, you have lost a real treasure. But, now you can all remember everything and always be able to say, we had the best mother and friend anyone could have.

Scott Matheson, Jr.

February 13, 2013

Ellen Furgis is one of the all-time greats in my book. Dedicated to her family, loyal to her friends, and committed to her community, she was truly one of a kind. And what a kind person she was, what a great neighbor, and what an amazing sense of humor. I can picture her now, giving a cooking lesson at the Greek Festival! Robyn joins me in sending our deepest condolences to the Furgis family.

February 13, 2013

I will miss her at the bridge table

February 13, 2013

Nouna,

Every time I make a batch of dolmathes or spanikopita, I think of you and my Yia-Yia; both of which have been great cooking influences in my life. Like you, I love to entertain with family and friends. As a young girl, I always looked forward to seeing your cooking demonstrations at the Greek Festival (and Nouno used to slip me a few dollars too). As my Godparents you both hold a special place in my heart. I will miss you dearly.
May your memory be eternal +

With love,
Kari Lynn

Mary Kontgis

February 13, 2013

Dear Furgis Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I'm sure your mom is soaring above feeding the Gods and Angels with all her wondeful culinary treats.
May her memory be eternal.
xoxo

George Furgis

February 13, 2013

Mom,
Your absence has left an empty space inside. Your love and guidance throughout my life will help me finish my journey. You did some amazing things while you were here. Yet, to me you will always be just Mom. I love you. Georgie

Barbara

February 13, 2013

R.I.P. Ellen, I will always cherish my signed copy of Greek Cooking at it's American Best.

George Furgis

February 13, 2013

Mom,
Your passing will leave an empty space in my life. Yet your unwavering love and constant wisdom will guide me the rest of the journey. Feel free to come visit if you can. In case you missed it, the Jazz beat the Thunder tonight. Love, Georgie

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