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Gary Murray Obituary

Gary "Bud" Murray
1937 ~ 2019
Gary "Bud" Murray passed on Tuesday, August 13th, surrounded by the family he loved so dearly. Bud was born on May 16th, 1937 in San Leandro, California, to John and Melba Murray. He attended San Leandro High School, where he was a standout athlete in both baseball and football, earning himself a football scholarship to Westminster College where he is an inductee into the Athletic Hall of Fame. While attending Westminster, he met the love of his life, Berna Roark. Wed in September of 1959, the happy couple welcomed a son, Dan, soon followed by a daughter, Melanie. Bud also earned a Masters Degree in Education.
Bud began a teaching and coaching career that would span nearly four decades and touched countless lives along the way. In addition to being a teacher and a football coach, Bud was a world-class flyfisherman and fished throughout the world where he was known for his expertise, good company and generosity with his ample supply of flies. Whether on the sidelines of a football field or the rocky shores of a riverbank, Bud built relationships and created memories that will long outlast his passing.
Bud had a way of building genuine connections with people that endeared him to so many. He absolutely loved people and people loved him back. The home (and bar) that he and Berna built together became a place where acquaintances became friends and friends became family. The family and crew of friends also spent many memorable days and nights vacationing together. Bud and Berna traveled the world with friends and family.
Perhaps Bud's defining characteristic was a boundless love for his family. He and Berna were more than husband and wife, they were a part of one another. He was a loving and very proud father. He was a devout and jedi-level grandfather to his three grandchildren: Aaron, Ryan, and Taylor. And he was developing into one helluva great-grandfather to little Lily when he was taken from us.
Bud is survived by his brother, Ron, his sister, Joy, his wife, Berna, and his dear dog, Zoey. He is preceded in death by his three beloved dogs: Sparty, Brutus, and Spitzy.
A "big party for Bud" will be held on the evening of September 7th, with details to come. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to The Nature Conservancy.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Aug. 18 to Aug. 19, 2019.

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Shane castillo

November 16, 2020

Coach murray,ill mever forget the day i walked in your office and asked if I could play football,he would tease me all the time tell me he heard i was crying and wasnt getin after it,wow what a great motivator he was ,he pushed me to be a great ball player,he was a strong influence on me and so many OTHERS...
....See u again one day so glad to have known you,RIP COACH MURRAY.

Bartski Larsen

October 3, 2020

He was a great man who let me be the football manager at south high school 81-83 THANKYOU COACH Murray

Steve Lefler

August 27, 2019

Coach Murray was such a great guy. He coached me at West High School and taught his teams all about life. He was always on you to perform and always be the best you could be. RIP COACH MURRAY ( Uncle Bud)

Dennis

August 25, 2019

A tough son-of-a-gun and a terrific teacher.
You lived a good life, Coach.
Dennis
Las Vegas

August 23, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Bud's passing, or "Mr. Murray" as I called him. I will always remember Bud fondly for having the patience to teach me how to waterski on Utah lake.
My thoughts are with you guys during this time.

janice Dow-Mendelson

August 23, 2019

Dear Berna, Dan, Melanie, and the rest of Bud's family, I was so sorry to hear from Kristy and Joe, about Bud's passing. I remember him so well from my Miramar Way days. He was so accomplished, and I remember him as being such a nice guy. You are all in my thoughts.

August 21, 2019

Dr. Philip Archuleta

August 19, 2019

Coach Murray was both a friend and mentor & made sure that his players had their butts in class. He always stressed education & I took it to heart. My thoughts and prayers are with the Murray Family

Keeko Georgelas

August 19, 2019

Bud thank you for being my first mentor in my coaching career. I will always remember how you and Berna treated Bonnie and I. Your love and support shaped who we are today. God bless and may your memory be everlasting. Ready! Ready!

Gil Rodriguez

August 19, 2019

Bud, I will miss you and I will forever be grateful for the opportunity to coach with you and share the best of times with fellow coaches, players and students, these memories will be forever with me and anyone who crossed your path. Berna, our deepest condolences, thank you for sharing Bud and your family. Go Cubbies!

August 19, 2019

Oh sweet Murray family we are so sorry to hear this news about Coach.
Heaven is celebrating our loss. May his memory be eternal.

Keeko and Bonnie Georgelas

Judd Werner

August 19, 2019

Bud believed in me and drove me to the point I believed him. His influence on me was substantial, has lasted a lifetime and extended far beyond football. He has never left my consciousness.
I am sorry for your loss but thankful you had so many good years with this special man and that I had him for two very special seasons in my life.

West High School Class of 1974
(1973 4A State Champions)

David Seals

August 19, 2019

I'm gonna miss you Bud

Mike Renteria

August 18, 2019

Coach I'm heart broken to hear of your passing,But the grass is greener that side. And only the special chosen get the ticket. But you keep us in mind and exspecaily your familia for they have to finish life with out you and life just got harder that you left us all. God bless you and your familia thank you for letting me have you in my life. Love you miss you until we see you

Darryl Kresser

August 18, 2019

Thanks Coach for the life's lessons.
Class of 1980

Sam Milner

August 18, 2019

To many of us, Coach Murray will forever be an icon as a passionate football coach at South High School. His influence in my life is significant beyond the gridiron. He taught me to rise above the challenges that face all of us, and that with grit and will...we can battle through anything and come out on top. He told me one time "Milner, I yell at those I care about because I want them to improve. Be concerned if I stop yelling at ya."Thanks for the life lessons coach.

August 18, 2019

Bud was a former teacher, coach and after in life a umpire in fast pitch softball. I was pitching one time in Coralville and he summoned me over, opened his shirt and showed me his chest, heart area, and he had a big round bruise, and he said " Rose, you are what you did", he was jumping behind the plate a few days prior and took a could ball. It was funny then but not when it happened. Bud was a good guy. Had fun with him from high school and into the 70's.

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