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Margaret Dreyfous Obituary

Margaret Ann Chase Dreyfous

1925 - 2021

Salt Lake City, Utah—Margaret Ann Chase Dreyfous left us on September 8th surrounded by 96 years of memories spanning four generations of family. She was enveloped by the love she nurtured, cultivated and radiates and was able to say goodbye to her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren who will miss her dearly. Margaret and her sister Mary Chase were born and raised in Utah by two loving parents, Dr Phillips Chase and Elizabeth Young Chase. She was married to Jules S Dreyfous on December 30 ,1953.

Affectionately known as Peg, Grandpeg, Geeps and ultimately "GP" by generations of relatives, neighbors and friends. She was full of good humor, sage advice and a longing to be remembered as a friend and someone who always cared for others more than herself.

She was a matriarch of the highest order. An amazing mother, astonishing grandmother and magical great-grandmother. She always greeted each of us with a" well well well" or "hello hello" and a warm embrace. She always bid you farewell with a "love love"

We will remember her in flowers; particularly roses and peonies. In birds; most notably by hummingbirds and Lazuli buntings. And in rituals and holidays most especially at Christmas, Birthdays, and Thanksgiving. Peg embodied the promise of spring and the twinkling of tinsel. Her Christmas tree was carefully curated by color and the stories behind each meticulously hung ornament, she set a memorable table, and made the best Eggs Benedict and variations of birthday MaryAnne cakes that always were polished off with a resounding round of her signature family " It Is Somebody's Birthday" Song.

Peg left behind her best friend and beloved daughter, Susan Farbman and son, roommate and confidant James Dreyfous and her devoted dapper French bulldog Oliver. Her son John Dreyfous, who disappeared in the mid 1980s, was with her in spirit every step of the way, every day.

Her great joys were six grandchildren Allison Kulmer , Alec Farbman, Chase Dreyfous, Brooke Dreyfous Peel, McKarah Dreyfous and John "Jake" Dreyfous. They will miss their conversations about her love of life, commitment to knowledge and special care for nature and wild things. She was always interested in learning and discussing politics.

She adored and was often astonished by her four great grandchildren Isabella Kulmer, Ava Kulmer, her namesake Margaret "Maggie "Chase Peel and her youngest William Peel, but also often lamented the world they have inherited.

Peg was a lover of the Utah Symphony, Ballet and Opera, a ferocious defender of the First Amendment and our constitution, Greenpeace, Earthjustice, Sierra Club, Common Cause and reproductive freedoms. An avid reader she frequently recommended books and articles from Harpers and The New Yorker. She graduated from the University of Utah in 1946 with a degree in history having pursued a chemistry major but was advised by her Dean that she, as a woman, would only be washing Petri dishes and test tubes. She was president of her sorority, Pi Phi.

She loved our country and the Great State of Utah. Moonlit mountains, desert spring, fresh snowfall and Albion Basin wildflowers always delighted her.

She never took the blessings of her home and gardens for granted and shared them with book clubs, study clubs, the Town Club, The Cottonwood Garden Club and friends.

As her health declined, Celeste di Figueiredo became her caregiver and soon became a member of our family and always will be. We also wish to thank Huntsman at Home especially Danielle and Preston.

Our family welcomes your stories and pictures and wishes to remember her well.

We will miss her "more than tongues can tell."

A service will be held at St. James Episcopal Church at 10 am on Thursday Sept 16th.

Arrangements entrusted to Starks Funeral Parlor. Share your photos and memories with her family at www.starksfuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Sep. 10 to Sep. 19, 2021.

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Steven Sims

November 7, 2021

Jim and Susan, I wanted to reach out and offer my condolences. With the recent passing of my own mom I felt the need to reconnect and was just googling your mom's name to see if I could find a phone number. I would have so loved to stop bye and revisit old times. The passing of our parents for me represents the end of a long forgotten era. I loved my childhood and the big part that your mom and dad played in that. So long Mrs. Dreyfous, and I'll get those peonies weeded right away, just as soon as I get the horses fed. RIP great lady.

Steven Sims

November 7, 2021

Jim and Susan, I am so sorry to hear that your mom has passed. I was just googling her wondering if I could find her phone number. After all these years and with the passing of my own mom, I wanted to come and see her. Just to say hello and maybe reminisce a little. I am so sorry I am a few weeks too late. I loved your mom and her passing represents for me a closing of an era. Rest in peace Mrs. Dreyfous. I wish I would have called you sooner.

Jameel Shaheen Andrabi

September 18, 2021

A wonderful Lady, full of life and a fountain head of positive energy. Such people should never die and will not die as Peg will continue to live through her good deeds, her children and in our memories as long as we live.
Ever since I visited her in the fall of 2016, we used to talk on phone and like an affectionate mother she would listen and offer her wisdom.
Heart-felt condolences and sharing grief with her family and friends.
May we meet again with our loved ones in the Heavens (Ameen).
Jameel
From Srinagar (Kashmir) India

Ann Blackner

September 16, 2021

I mourn the loss of one of our "greats". I will miss her spirit, her intelligence, her laugh. So sad.

Pam Davis Allen

September 16, 2021

My deepest sympathy

Janie B.

September 15, 2021

With you all in spirit. I loved this photo from Peggy's birthday gathering in California. Hugs.

John Vickrey

September 15, 2021

A bright light has passed.
Vaya con Dios mi amiga.

Katia Moritz ( Jack's mom)

September 14, 2021

Dear family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Peg was a force of nature and she will be missed by all. Sending you tons of love,

Rubenstein Family

Llyena Boylan

September 14, 2021

We love and will always love Peggy... she will be in our hearts forever.
Dubie Farbman Boylan and Don Spieth

Matthew Wallace

September 13, 2021

One of many fond memories I have of Peggy is that of the Lazuli Buntings carpeting the ground beneath her and our bird feeders many years ago when they would visit in abundance. My mother (Connie Wallace) and Peggy were dear friends and relished the birds that would visit our respective feeders. We would call her to share the excitement that the Buntings would bring. While I and we will miss her, I rejoice in the pleasure, joy and honor of having known Peggy. She is a dear soul. May she rest in peace.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Llyena F Boylan

Planted Trees

Bob Hitchcock

September 13, 2021

I remember Peggy very well - she was always a bright light at St. James Episcopal church. The world needs more people like her. Cherish your memories and move forward with her spirit in your heart.
May Peggy rest in peace and may God bless her family.

Penny & Sands Brooke

September 13, 2021

We will miss Peg. We'll remember her at Bear Lake with the ladies, her warm greetings, her interesting perspectives on important topics and her interest in our family. She is among the last of a great generation. Say hi to Jules for us Peg.

Judy Maack

September 13, 2021

To All The Dreyfous Family:
I am so sad to learn of Peggy's passing as it is so hard to say goodbye. I met her when we were both recovering from surgeries and staying at Aspen Ridge. We just happened to sit at the same table one night and learned that we had a lot in common. First and foremost, we had the same doctor and most importantly, I knew her daughter Susan and Son-in-Law, Max. I just did not know that Peggy was Susan's mother until that day. What a delightful person she was and so kind to me during that recovery period. She was amazing then, especially for her age, and to think she made it to 96 is remarkable. She will be fondly remembered always.
With deepest condolences,
Judy Maack

Pudge and family

September 12, 2021

Peggy was so important to all of us. Custard rules!

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Jingo and Jill

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Steve Uzelac

September 11, 2021

Sorry for your lose - it's never easy.

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