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MaryJane "Pinky" McBrier

1950 - 2014

MaryJane "Pinky" McBrier obituary, 1950-2014, Salt Lake City, UT

BORN

1950

DIED

2014

MaryJane McBrier Obituary

June 25, 1950~August 13, 2014
Pinky was born to Martha (Quiquin) Hodgkinson of Santa Cruz, Bolivia and Harold Brady of Tulsa, Oklahoma on June 25, 1950 in Cochabamba, Bolivia. She died in an automobile accident in Blaine County, Idaho on August 13, 2014.
When Pinky was just a child, Pinky's parents divorced and her mother remarried Joaquin Aguirre Levayen of Cochabamba, Bolivia who we all consider to have been Pinky's father. During childhood schooldays, the family - which consisted of Walter, Bill, Pinky, Monina, Joaquin and Miguel, lived in Bogota and Barranquilla, Columbia where their father worked first in the supermarket industry and then invented a process to dehydrate bananas for baby foods. In furtherance of the banana business, the family moved to Guayaquil, Ecuador where Pinky spent her middle and high school years.
In 1969 Ric McBrier of Erie, Pennsylvania spotted Pinky walking across the quad at Tulane University in New Orleans, Louisiana. They both were freshman and fell directly in love. Pinky first studied architecture, then switched to sociology for a major. The two spent their college years traveling in the south and working as activists against the Vietnam War. In the fall of 1973 Pinky graduated and Pinky and Ric were married in Bogota, Columbia on December 29, 1973. They moved to Salt Lake City where Ric attended the University of Utah law school.
While Ric worked in various capacities, Pinky and Ric raised their two boys to be the fine men that they are today - Parker Nathaniel McBrier and Walter Hodgkinson McBrier. Parker, his wife Lauren and two-year old son Nathaniel, live in Park City, Utah. Walter, his wife Devin and their two-year old son Joaquin, live in Boise, Idaho.
Pinky had a playful love of young children and was well known with the children of the Salt Lake Yalecrest neighborhood as a source for certain fun. The family hiked and camped throughout the intermountain west and became regular skiers at Alta and Snowbird. There was a special love for Utah's red rock desert country. Many trips were made to South America to visit Pinky's extended family residing there.
In the 1990s, Pinky founded Salt Lake's successful Inlingua language center where she worked in the languages of the world. Ric and Pinky traveled the globe, with Pinky summiting Kenya's Mount Kilimanjaro in 2005. Most recently Ric and Pinky have spent much time at their home in beloved San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, whose people inspire them.
Pinky was a passionate artist, reflected throughout her life's contributions. The family home in Salt Lake's avenue district is replete with her special charm. Pinky held a great love for her animals. There were the cats Mishu, Moto and Suni and the dogs, - the Vizsals, Hagar and Singani and the German wirehair pointers, Chewbacca and Miss Money Penny. Miss Money Penny survived the accident and is with us here today.
Throughout the world, Pinky touched people with her smile, warmth, unending energy, and sense of adventure. A review of the outpouring of grief in the social media is heart rending. Our hearts are broken. Ric, Parker and Walter express our deep gratitude to all family and friends who now support us. We miss you Pinky.
On Monday, August 18, 2014 at 5:30 PM there will be a Celebration of Dear Pinky to be held at Memory Grove in Salt Lake's City Creek Park, a favorite walking venue for Pinky and her dogs. Everyone is welcome. Light refreshments to follow at the Memorial House in Memory Grove. A second celebration of Pinky's life will be held in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico in September 2014.
Gifts of support may be made to the Utah Humane Society in Pinky's name.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Aug. 17 to Aug. 18, 2014.

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September 4, 2014

Dear McBrier Family,

Pinky was a radiant presence who made us feel at home in the Privada de Baeza community in San Miguel. She was always laughing and full of joy, and she reached out to us in so many ways that gave us a true sense of home. San Miguel will not be the same without Pinky, nor will the world.

Our hearts are with you at this time of loss. And please let us know if we can join you for the celebration of Pinky's life in San Miguel.

Warmest regards,

Judith and Marc

August 22, 2014

Mary, I just heard today. I am so saddened. I was in France celebrating my son's wedding. How can this be? I am still in shock. I thank you for taking me into inlingua in 1997 after my own tragedy. I walked on fire thanks to you. You shouldn't be gone, but you would have given me a reason why. As always. You always had an answer. You know I would have been with you and Ric, Parker and Walter on Monday for the celebration of you but I was with Maeve in Paris. Oblivious. I'll meet you again some day. Love to you.... Paula

Franz Feierbach

August 21, 2014

Dear McBrier Family,
Very saddened by the news. I last briefly saw Pinky in Santa Cruz, Bolivia, when she attended her niece's high school graduation. However, I hold many fond memories from my college days when we frequented your home in Salt Lake City in the 80's. My heartfelt condolences to you all - for the loss of such a fine person.

Chrisanie Suegest

August 20, 2014

Dear McBrier Familia,
Como Estas? Even though we did never done meet Pinky, we read her obit and were amazed at the outpouring of emotion and information. We only hope that our family writes such a moving and detailed tribute to our illustrious lives. You have made Pinky's legacy and inspiration to do well and serve others. May this serve to promote her love of children.

MacArthur McCloud

August 20, 2014

RIP

August 19, 2014

Dear McBrier family, We are so sorry to hear of Pinky's passing. We did not know her for a long time, but we came to admire, respect and love her. She was such a fun and friendly person. I saw her last in May for Matias' birthday party in the park. You could see how much she loved those young kids. I just can not believe that she is gone.
Our hearts go out to you.
Gissa and Dick Clayton

August 19, 2014

Ric - I am very sorry to learn of your wife's death. I send my condolences and best wishes at this challenging time. - Scott Hirschi

Jim Bonney

August 18, 2014

To cousin Ric and all of the Mcbriers, My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you deal with this loss. What can I say except that my heart is saddened by the passing of one who was loved so much by so many.

Idelis Sotomayor

August 18, 2014

Pinky and I attended the same school, Colegio Americano de Guayaquil Ecuador. We had so many adventurous together - we were wild but good girls with such zest for life... We wanted to change the world... WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY - “Those who gave our lives beauty live forever in our hearts.”

Pinky will always be with you, with us – in the lessons she gave, the life she shared, and the love she showed.
May all our beautiful memories of her
comfort us and bring us peace. Idelis Sotomayor

Maggie Johnson

August 18, 2014

I felt that Pinky was vibrant, inspirational, loveable and nurturing. A
remarkable woman who was multi-cultural and yet had a quiet humility
about her. She will live on in my memories. It has been my great fortune
to have known her. I am sad for her family. She will be greatly missed.
Maggie Johnson

Whitney Evans

August 18, 2014

I am among those kids of the Yalecrest neighborhood who reveled in Pinky's kindness and hospitality. The fort for those of us who looked up toward those who dared climb that monster pine tree housed many of us for hours. I am sure the McBrier's were always joyful to see us walk home in one piece. Your loss is enormous. May you find comfort in each other and the love the world had for your wife, for your mother, for your friend. Kindly, Whitney

Jeff Hendrich

August 18, 2014

We are deeply sorry to hear of Pinky's passing. She was beautiful and very kind. This is such a tragedy. Sharon and I will always remember how much fun we had together when Pinky and her family visited us in Zambia so many years ago. She made everyone she met feel special. My heart goes out to her family.

Lauren Osornio

August 18, 2014

I first met Pinky at the San Miguel knitting/crocheting group at Starbucks. I will always remember how much fun we had knitting/crocheting hats and scarves for the kids in the campo. Pinky said she would decorate her hats with flowers so the kids would feel really special. I will miss that kind of love she had for others. God bless her and all of us who knew and loved her.
Sincerely,
Lauren Osornio

August 17, 2014

Dear McBrier family: I know that at this time that life is all very hard and your hearts are heavy. Because when a tragedy happens the one thing I can tell you from experience is that you need to lean on each other and the ones that love you. Because sometimes it just helps to have them around to just listen to you or for then to just sit there with you. Just remember that there is always someone who will listen to you God can handle it. I know that what you are going though is not easy, but from my heart I hope that you will find the peace that God can give you and that I know that Pinky would want for all of you. She was amazing always smiling and for the time that I have had gotten to know her I never heard anything but the love of her family that she cherished the most. She loved all of you deeply. May God be with you in this time of need and know that you are all Loved. I will miss Pinky. Love Sue Kremer

Leslie Mann

August 17, 2014

Pinky was a friend and neighbor in San Miguel. Ric was a neighbor to me growing up in Girard, Pa. I have spent time eating, shopping and chatting with Pinky. There was always so much to discuss. She was such a happy, involved and caring person. She contributed much to our community. She will be missed.

Bernice Nelson

August 17, 2014

Pinky sounds like a wonderful woman. I didn't know her but really enjoyed reading her obituary. There are great people in the world and it sounds like Pinky was one of them. May her family find the peace the need.

August 17, 2014

Pinky could sparkle with life and love. she was a unique person and a dear friend of many years. She had a wonderful laugh and always spoke directly. we all loved Pinky who in turn loved all of life. There is a profound sadness. Steven and Brenda Lowe

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