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Matthew Pendleton Obituary

Matthew Brett Pendleton 1957 ~ 2007 Matthew Brett Pendleton, an incomparable skier and champion skydiver, returned to his Heavenly Father on Wednesday, January 24, 2007, following an accident while training for a ski race in Park City. He was born April 17, 1957, in Salt Lake City to Grant and Charlene Pendleton. Brett married Shawna Eva on September 21, 1978; later solemnized in the Salt Lake Temple. He worked at Utah Power and Light for 28 years. Brett excelled at what he smilingly called "play;" and no one played harder than Brett. For 10 years, he was a member of the U.S. Para-Ski Team. He accumulated more than 7,500 skydives. He was a master paraglider and hang glider, avid scuba diver, winning triathlete, airplane pilot and, always, an amazing skier. Brett lived life to the fullest. He was dedicated to his family. And through all the daring adventures and hard-won confidence, always by his side, was his loving wife, Shawna. He was the lightening, she was the thunder. He is survived by Shawna; two daughters, Sadie (Dixon) Dahlsrud and Britnie Pendleton; two brothers, Maury and Chris (Amy) Pendleton; one sister, Jane Pendleton; and his extraordinary dog, Hunny Bunny "Dolly." He is preceded in death by his parents. Funeral Services will be held Monday, Jan. 29th at 11:00 a.m. at the Mountain Point 8th Ward, 272 E. 14700 So., Draper. A Visitation will be held Sunday, Jan. 28th from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Larkin Sunset Gardens Mortuary, 1950 E. 10600 So., Sandy, and one hour prior to the funeral service on Monday. Condolences at www.larkinmortuary.com

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jan. 27 to Jan. 28, 2007.

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Steve Sirrine

February 14, 2007

Dear Shawna, I am so totally in shock, just now finding out about Brett from the Hang glide Utah forum. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Point rats- Steve, Anna & Jonathan
Sirrine

Joe Brown

February 14, 2007

Shawna,
I just want you to know how much of an impact you and Brett left on us in just the one week we got to know you on the cruise. It was evident that you two are great people and a ton of fun. You never let on how accomplished Brett is. Please know that our hearts are with you. I would imagine Brett is skiing the clouds now and flying as free as ever. Take solice in knowing that you will be together again. In just one week we felt like you were old friends. Our hearts are with you.

Love, Joe and Angela Brown
(Seth, Shem and Sarai too)

Sandy Harmer

February 12, 2007

Shawna,

We were so sorry to hear of Brett's passing. Wow! What a guy. We'll never forget his positive attitude and infectious smile. You had a wonderful marriage and companionship being able to do so many athletic sports together. We enjoyed having you in our ward for those years you were here. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. What wonderful memories you have to rely on.
Jerry & Sandy Harmer
(Butler 17th Ward)

Teri (tk) Krauss

February 3, 2007

Your tribute to Brett was amazing. I could see/feel Brett hanging from one of those lights above everyone swaying gently back and forth and beaming with love and pride on how all of his family conducted his service. Beautiful words and music. You are an amazing family and I am glad to have been able to share some of your adventures through Brett's stories.
Thanks for the added stories and memories at the 'celebration' of his life, and what a LIFE that was. Thank you for sharing him with us. Our continued prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Linda Miller

February 1, 2007

Shawna, it has been many, many years since I've seen you and Brett but I always counted both of you as my friends. I remember when I first met Brett at a paraski meet. He was a great young (very young) skier but couldn't hit the side of the mountain. The "old pros" (at accuracy) really razed him and he took it with a smile never leaving his face. It didn't take long for him to be not only the best racer but one of the best skydivers as well. He had such a passion for everything he did. I am thinking about you and your lovely family. Just the thought of him not being around makes me so sad.

Laurie Wall

February 1, 2007

Shawna, Our deepest sympathy is with your family. You and Brett have always been so loving and supportive to each other and a great example. I have always appreciated your kindness and pray you will be comforted by the knowledge of your eternal family. Our prayers are with you all. Love, Laurie

Adam Christensen

January 31, 2007

My deepest regards to the Pendleton family. Brett was more than just a man. He was a great example and leader to me.
I send you all my love!
Adam

jeffery terry

January 30, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dave & Rachel Griffiths

January 30, 2007

Shawna, We were shocked and saddened to hear the news about Brett. The two of you have always been in our eyes the perfect example of the type of loving, active couple we'd like to emulate and hope to be for years to come. He was always one of the friendliest people at the point. I know he lived life to the fullest and did more in his lifetime than most people dream of. We'll miss seeing him regularly in the air at the point of the mountain but are sure that he's now managed to set a new personal height record. Hopefully we'll still see plenty of you out and send our deepest condolences.

Joyce Young

January 30, 2007

Dear Shawna,

We were so sorry to hear the news. We can't begin to imagine what you & your girls are going through.

We just want you to know you are in our hearts. We do know how much he will be missed.

Love,

Joyce & Gary

Kristi Hanson

January 30, 2007

Shauna,
We have only known you and Brett for about a year and a half. We met when we purchased your house in Cottonwood Heights. Right away we know your two were people we wanted to be around. You and Brett were so thoughtful of us. We were your new friends. That first Christmas we spent in the house we recieved a Christmas card from your family. We couldn't believe that we were on your list. We felt very honored and soon enough Brett had Matt up in the air tandem.I would have been up there to but I was expecting our second child. I hope that I can live my life the way you and Brett have. Please keep in contact with us and feel free to stop by and see the house anytime you want. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters.

Kathy McKay

January 29, 2007

Dear Shawna,
My heart goes out to you and your girls. Words cannot express the sadness that I feel for each one of you. I remember the Chelan Paragliding competition when Brett deliberately flew into a dust devil just to learn what it was like! He amazed everyone! You can call any time. I'll be thinking of you all.

julie bagley

January 29, 2007

Shawna
We have thought of you over and over these past few days.
We felt fortunate that we had privelege of associating with Brett, if only for a little bit.
He made my one parachute jump so many years ago such a memorable experience. He radiated such a love for life and adventure...
It was so great to happen to run into you both in the temple a couple of years ago...
He lived in such positive and upbeat way.
Our prayers are with you and your girls. Words are inadequate.
Julie and Robert Bagley

warren stadler

January 29, 2007

Dear Shawna,
Brett will forever be in my heart and my thoughts. The ~ in April 17,1957~January 24,2007 is a tribute to the life of my friend, Matthew Brett Pendleton. I miss him.

Tyree Wilde

January 29, 2007

Shawna and Family,
Our thoughts are with you in this time of grief. I am still in shock after hearing about Brett's passing. I met Brett through skydiving and consider myself very fortunate to have him as friend and the opportunity to enjoy many weekends and jumps with him. I not only learned a great deal about skydiving from Brett, but how to live life. Brett didn't just live life--he immersed himself in it! Everything he set out to do, he did extremely well and with great passion. He quickly became an expert at anything he tried and a master of the skill. He was a truely gifted athlete and great person. His warm, friendly smile will always be in my mind and his spirit in my heart.

Jim and Ilona Holyoak

January 29, 2007

Dear Shawna, Please accept our deepest sympathy for this great loss in your life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love,
Jim(your old 4th ward Bishop) and Ilona Holyoak

Lance Murray

January 29, 2007

Shawna:

I don't know if you remember, but Brent had a talk with me last Fall after I went paragliding on the South side alone at evening when it was way to strong. That was the first time I had ever met him, but I sensed a very genuine and feeling person. I listened to him, and have been more conservative in my flying. I'm sure Brent is doing fine, and is right now probably flying higher than he ever has before. We'll all be joining him soon enough for even bigger and better adventures! All is well!

Julie & David Payne

January 29, 2007

Dearest Shawna: Our deepest sympathy and love to you and your family. You have meant so much to me over the years. May you find peace I pray. Alot of love is coming to you from Las Vegas. Love Julie and David Payne

Dorothy Johnston

January 29, 2007

Dear Shawna -- I was shocked and so saddened to hear of Brett's passing. Our wish for you and your children is that the wonderful life you shared as a family will carry you through this very difficult time. What an remarkable man he must have been; blessed with a beautiful family, countless friends, and the ability to enjoy a truly adventurous life to the fullest. Jim and I extend our sincerest condolences to you and your children.

Mike Johnston

January 29, 2007

Shawna,
I'm so sorry and offer my sympathies to you and your daughters. The dinner our families had together was the last time we've been to SLC. Please get in touch when you can.

Paul and Becky Simmons

January 29, 2007

Dear Shawna,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Brett's passing. We know how much you two meant to each other. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Kim Johnson

January 29, 2007

Shawna,
Each Sunday I have watched you and Brett from the back of the Gospel Doctrine class. From the comments made at church, it sounded like you had such a fun adventurous life!

After reading all of the comments made about Brett from around the country, I wish I would have gotten to know him. What an amazing and inspiring person he was to so many. It's made me begin to ponder, "What do I want my Guest Book book to say about me? What do I need to change in my life?" What an inspirational husband, even after his death!

God's blessings,
Kim Johnson

Todd Nelson

January 29, 2007

I knew Brett briefly but he was a great guy. Always willing to give and help. I am a better person having known him.

Cindey Turner Page

January 29, 2007

I met Brett a couple of times while working with Chris at Wolfes. I remember his smile and excitement for the snow to arrive and the love you could see Chris & Brett had for each other. I hope your memories of Brett help you at this time.

Phil Beck

January 29, 2007

To All Bretts friends and family,
I have not seen Brett since I was at Solitude in 1973. We were jumping the glande and skiing together. He was a magnificent skier and always smiling. He will be missed by all.

Danile and Sandra Rose

January 29, 2007

Shawna,
Dan and I was so shocked we couldn't belive the news we were watching. Brett loved you and the girls so much. We were so proud to get to known Brett and the family when you lived in the Hillcrest 7th ward. Dan loved being your home teacher. We will all miss Brett, our thought our with you.

Ryan Taylor

January 29, 2007

What an inspiring gentleman and shining star! I'll miss seeing Brett cruizen around at the point.
my condolences to his family

Amelia Haidenthaller

January 29, 2007

Sadie and Britnie,
I was deeply saddened when I heard about your dad. I am so sorry.I have so many memories of our families hanging out together at the skydiving place and at dance competitions. I hope that you will think of all the great times you had with him and I hope that it brings you comfort. I'm sorry that my mother and I were not able to stay longer at the viewing. I love you both and will miss your dad very much. Keep in touch.

RYAN STEVENS

January 28, 2007

MORE THEN ONE TIME IN MY LIFE & NOWING BRETT WE DID SOME JOKING A ROUND ABOUT HOW HE WOULD MAY BE GO I WOULD ALL WAS JOKE THAT IT WOULD PROBALE BY BE BEING SHOCKED ON THE JOB OR FALLING OFF THE HOUSE BUT HE WOULD ALL WAYS SAY NA I WOULD PROBLE RATHER GO DOING SOME THING I IN JOY DOING IN STED MAN WHO NEW THAT HE WOULD BE THE RIGHT ONE SAD TO SAY BUT TRUE ((ANY ONE THAT NEW HIM WOULD SAY THAT HE WAS VERY HONEST & BLUNT & VERY ON TIME PERSON & WAS A VERY MAN OF HIS WORD HE SAID SOME THING YOU NEVER HAD TO DOUGHT IT OR SCEOND GUESS IT NO MATTER WHAT IT WAS OR WHEAR IT WAS ))Shawna & THE GIRLS ARE VERY ONE OF A KIND BUT THEY HAD ONE HELL OF A EXCAMPLE TO LIVE UP TO & HAD THE HONER TO LIVE WITH & REALLY NOW HE WILL BE ONE VERY MISSED MAN THAT IS SO FOR SHORE, I CAN THANK HIM IN SO MEANY WAYS TO HELP ME IN SO MEANY WAYS TO BECOME THE PERSON THAT I AM & HAVE ONE HELL OF A LEVEL OF EXCAMPLE TO TRY & LIVE UP TO IN SO MEANY WAY & WE ALL GOT ONE LARGE CHANGE A HEAD OF US TO TRY & DO THAT OR EVEN COME CLOSE TO IT

Julie Hayes

January 28, 2007

Oh Shawna......my heart aches for you and your sweet daughters. Brett was so, well, Brett! Pure, genuine, real; I smile just thinking about him. Life has been better for so many of us, just knowing him in our world. We are all here for you, whatever it is you may need. Don't hesitate to call on us, your friends and loved ones. A piece of Brett will live in all of us forever! God bless you. Love Julie

aaron olsen

January 28, 2007

Shawna,
Brett has had a profound and positive impact on the course of my life. His attitude and passion are inspirational. I will remember and miss him everytime I cross a finish line, or touch down after an epic flight. My thoughts are with you and the girls.

Verna Askwig

January 28, 2007

Shawna, Sadie & Brittany,

Brett will be dearly missed. We wish you all the best. We are always there for you. We will treasure your 2006 Christmas family picture.

Love Always,
Jeff, Verna, JJ & Ashley Askwig

Jane LaFrance

January 28, 2007

Shawna and Daughters,

I am very sorry about Brett. I loved that one time I went parasailing with him. He was so nice to me and I will never froget his kindness. Shawna and Daughters, I hope to see you again in the future.

Lance Baxter

January 28, 2007

Shawna,
I just learned of Brett's passing. Since you and Brett taught me how to skydive I have been in awe of you and him. He was a man that I wanted to be like in many ways. He was a man that truely lived life to it's fullest. I admired how he particpated in so many activites that I like and he never neglected his fatherhood responsabilites. Though I never told Brett he had a big infuence in my life. I always said to myself, "I want to live my life like Brett and Shawna Pendelton". God bless you durring this hard time.

Alyssa Ryan

January 28, 2007

Shawna-
I am so sorry to hear the news. There is nothing that anyone could say that could make this any easier. I wanted to let you know that when you are your family moved into the 9th ward, you changed my life in ways that you will never know. The story that you told about you and your family made such an impact on me and having you in my life helped me so much! You had a great loving home and I always felt so welcome when we had activities there. I had someone to listen to all my silly stories. Your husband was a great man! He will always be with you and your family. My heart goes out to you, Sadie and Britnie, and your entire family. I know it has been so long since we have talked, but I would love to talk!! Please call me sometime.
Alyssa Ryan (Petronella)

Vickie Eva Matheson

January 28, 2007

Dear Shawna and family,
I'm so shocked to hear about your loss, our prayers are with you at this difficult time. It makes me sad that our families haven't been closer, and I want you to know how much we love and appreciate you and your family. I'll never forget the family Christmas parties we had while we were growing up. I know that Heavenly Father will be there for you and your girls, as well as many of your friends and family. Our love and prayers are with you at this time and always.
Sincerely, Vickie Eva Matheson and family

Tom Zimmermann

January 28, 2007

Shawna and Girls- We were deeply saddened to hear about Brett. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family!
Dr. Tom Zimmermann, Jane & Jayne

Becky and Justin Brim

January 28, 2007

From an always kind hello to pulling Becky off the hill when it was super windy-it was always great to have Brett out at the point. Brett and Shawna were the kind of couple that young ones like us could look to and only hope we have the love and friendship that they showed after 28 years, and the fact that they seemed to do everything together. Shawna, we better see you out there charging this summer! You now have an angel to fly with, and so do we.

James and Lisa Louder

January 28, 2007

GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THIS HARD TIME. Please know that you are in out Thoughts and Prayers. Brent was Amazing!! We will never forget the times you and Brent made the jumps at the Lineman Rodeos to add to the excitement and honoring his Skill as a Journeyman Lineman. You husband is highly respected. We are here for you. BLESS YOU.

Leslie Wignall-DeBry

January 28, 2007

Shawna,

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Brett's passing. The Lord must need help on the other side because he took a good man. I remember skydiving years ago with the you and Brett, and how much fun it was. I'm glad I was able to see the two of you again when I was in your Ward in Draper. My prayers are with you and your girls.

DeAnn Barnson

January 28, 2007

Sadie, My heart is saddened for you and your family. May you remember all the special times you shared with your Dad. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you. Ms. B

Jeff Silk

January 28, 2007

Brett was not only the honorary 4th Bolero Brother, but he will always be known as Mr. Anti Gravity. I'm glad we went to Las Vegas together for a flying trip, and I'll never forget his story about "swimming through the wing" when he had a maneuver go bad. He loved Olympus and never liked Inspo. Who can forget his stories about naked skydiving, and flying his skydiving plane with so many G's he could get the sick passengers to pass out so they wouldn't throw up in his plane? He will be so missed, but him memory will live on.

Leslie (Wignall) DeBry

January 28, 2007

Shawna,

I was shocked when I heard the news about Brett. The Lord must have needed some help on the other side because he called home a great man. I remember skydiving with the two of you about 30 years ago, and was glad I was able to see the two of you again this last year. My prayers are with you and your girls at this time.

Tina Willmore

January 28, 2007

Shawna, I only met Brett this year as I was a Tuesday Safety Patroller with him. I made him help me take down the King Kong signs on Tuesday and of course he was more than willing with a smile on his face.. I followed behind him mimicking his beautiful deep GS turns. I am still in shock about the whole thing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters during this most difficult time..

God Bless you and your family.....

Bob (Robert) Malheiro

January 28, 2007

Shawna, Sadie, Britnie, Maury, Jane and Chris;
Brett must live on through all of us who were lucky enough to be part of his life. Although we all feel tremendous loss and sadness, I don't think you can kill his spirit. Brett's spirit lives on. Unknowingly, he has been a huge part of my inspiration to try and excel since I met him in the seventh grade. Never met a person who was more comfortable in the air than on the ground. The only uncoordinated thing I ever saw him do was dribble a basketball in junior high. I'm sure I felt his spirit with me the other day while on the mountain. I know it was him cause he made me smile even though I was so sad. Brett's caught the ultimate air and you know he's flying around up there watching us, so we should all plan on trying to rip it up whenever we can because I know he still is....

May peace come to you all soon,
Love, Bob

Kevin & Cathy Mullowney

January 28, 2007

Shawna,

I am speechless. It was no less than a week ago that you, Brett, and I committed to having dinner when Cathy and I returned from our travels. As new neighbors, it became evedent that we were going to have great fun together. Brett was just a dynamite guy and Cathy and I will be there for you and your family upon our return.

God bless you all...

Kevin and Cathy Mullowney

Chuck Lambert

January 28, 2007

Shawna;
Even though I never came close to the excellence you and Brett always demonstrated, I loved to see the two of you at the old Cedar Valley DZ. You were constants of perfection, always pushing others to work harder by your challenging example. Even though I left the sport long ago, before you started what sounds to be a beautiful family, I remember the fun, excitement and dedication you two always exuded.
God Bless and Blue Skies.

Russ/Minde & the boys Mower

January 28, 2007

Even at the end. so begins anew.Godspeed Brett you will be missed

Kellie Bosarge

January 28, 2007

Shawna-

I was in your ward for such a short time, however during that time you were a great inspiration to me. I was a new single mom, mourning the loss of my husband as well. If there is any words or guidance that I can give to you during this time is that he is always near. He will be near you when you need him. He will be watching over you and your family. It is difficult to know why he was called to heaven, however feel rest assured that he will be proud of you and how you will handle things. I know that you are a strong lady, but let others help you, especially in the next couple of months. Let others help you, like you helped me.

Take care

Kellie Myers Bosarge

Diane and Duane Beins

January 28, 2007

Dear Shawna and Girls,
We truly consider it a privilege to have known you for the short year we were in the 8th Ward.
We loved having you in the Family History class, and rejoiced as Brett told us of family temple work he accomplished after the class was completed.
May the Lord's sweetest blessings of peace be with you. Know that he is engaged in the Lord's work on the other side and don't be surprised as you do family history and receive special promptings that may well have been given by him.
He will always watch over and care for you and your beautiful daughters.

Our love to you.

David Gibson

January 28, 2007

Friends and neighbors,

As the first one in the hang gliding community to move into a then-new hill house on the Point Of The Mountain, it has been and will continue to be interesting to experience our small, esoteric but tight hill house flying community growing and evolving. To most of us, all of the folks living and visiting here are, in a way, part of the hill and part of each other's houses and lives.

I feel like the hill houses have just been changed drastically and permanently.

Brett and Shawna and their family were always some of the most positively open minded people I've met in my travels, grateful for every day, never taking the quality of a day in their lives or ours for granted. Their pervasive influence was heavily appreciated. That influence has just taken a severe loss, but is still needed will eventually continue to grow.

Brett was one of most eclectically accomplished characters I've ever known. During some of our long conversations in their back porch swing, we would hare sappy happy pontifications such as "All the finer things in life are basically forms of flying..."

Brett and Shawna, thanks for being one of the finest ever parts of my life and the great hill house backyard times.

Smiles,

3D

Byron and Connie Smith

January 28, 2007

I knew Brett on the snowy race hill. Brett always had a smile and a kind word to everyone he met. His spirit will be missed by all who knew him. God speed.

Michele Bachman

January 27, 2007

Brett changed my life all those many years ago when we skipped a high school dance and went to skydive. There is some comfort in knowing that he died doing what he loved, but it still much too soon. my heart goes out to his girls, they will miss him most. It has been years, but still I feel the loss.
Aloha

Candy and Dave Hunter

January 27, 2007

Dear Shawna,
I cried for you the day I heard the news about Brett. Dave and
I are so sorry and pray that our Heavenly Father will bless you and
your daughters through this difficult time in your lives. What great times we've had together at the paraski meets and skydiving
every weekend. Robert was the little kid at the drop zone and is now
almost 30. We have a saying on our fridge that is Brett all the way. "Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in
a well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn
out, shouting ...holy crap...what a ride!" Blue skies Shawna

Rick Conely

January 27, 2007

BRETT HAS BEEN A SHINING EXAMPLE IN MY LIFE THROUGH THE YEARS IN MANY WAYS. THIS WORLD HAS LOST A TRULY ACCEPTIONAL MAN! AND HE WILL BE SORELY MISSED. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYRS ARE WITH YOU.

RRRon Van Sleeuwen

January 27, 2007

Brett, We will miss you at utah power!!! I was lucky to know you. May God be with you and your wonderful family.

Paul Tripp

January 27, 2007

Brett was truly a great friend and a wonderful person to work with. Never did I hear him say a bad thing about anybody, always happy and fun to be around,and took a true interest in the lives of the people he worked with. THANK YOU BRETT FOR BEING MY FRIEND.

Drew Purdy

January 27, 2007

Brett we'll miss you. Although you havent done Tri's for a while weve lost one of the old school gang. I loved to race you because you were always in the thick of things. You'll live on in my memories of the good old days. I'd like express my deepest condolences to your wife and kids.

Bob Bills

January 27, 2007

Shawna,

It is hard to comprehend that someone like Brett is gone from our lives, at least physically. He will never truly be gone. I, like others must too, have those "Brett" moments that pop back into my head at the strangest times. Like Gelande jumping as kids, skiing the Bird, teaching both of you to hang glide in return for an accelarted free fall jump. How could I ever forget him ripping my death grip off that wing strut and me girlie screaming as that plane got smaller!

Anytime Brett crossed my path, I became a better person. His love for life, his joy over the simple things and his push to be the best is carried on through so many of us. He lived a life most of us only dream of. He is my Peter Pan. He will live forever.

Bruce Campbell

January 27, 2007

Shawna, I will never forget the evening I spent at your home talking to you and Brett about sacred things. That was one of many talks Bret and I had. It was an honor and a privilege to have known Him over the years. Always remember he will never be far from you and your girls.

Maryalice Marx

January 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. If there is anything I can ever do to help you let me know.

Brad and Stacey Smith

January 27, 2007

Shawna and family,
Our prayers are with you and your family. Brett was truly an amazing person. Everyone that has met him always comments on his cheerful personality, smile, and his genuine interest in the people he meets. When a person like this leaves us its like "a cloud passing in front of the sun", you immediately feel the difference. We hope we can be a little more like Brett. We feel so sad he is gone. He will be very missed.

Elsa Elizondo

January 27, 2007

Shawna and Family, I am so very sorry to hear that Brett has passed on. My family was honored to have known Brett. Last that I saw Brett he was out jogging when lived in Ctwd Heights, he was kind enough to stop and hear the lastest of myself and my two brothers Marko and Lee. Tomorrow my brothers and I are meeting for breakfast with our family, we will pray for your healing. I know that Brett lives on ever so close to you and that his hevenly presence continues to give you guidence and love.

In peace,

Penny Schilling

January 27, 2007

Dear Shawna,
I am so sorry. You know that you and Brett have a special place in my heart. My love and prayers are with you.

Nelson Clayton

January 27, 2007

I knew and admired Brett as a skydiver and pilot at Cedar Valley in the 1980s, but I've always been amazed at how many people I've run into over the years who've known him in other capacities (skiing, hang gliding, base-jumping, power company, church, etc.). We'd always end up swapping fun anecdotes about Brett and his numerous and widely varied adventures. Everyone seemed to agree that Brett was always brimming with enthusiasm and good humor. I envied Brett's ability to work hard and pursue extreme adventure while at the same time remaining so completely devoted to his family. His constant smile, easy-going personality, and frequent wisecracks will be missed.

Steven Sargent

January 27, 2007

Shawna,

Although many years have passed since I saw you and Brett be assured that you and he were never far from my thoughts. Although they were taken over 30 years ago I still proudly display the photos of Brett and I in freefall from 1974. I'm so glad I had that time with him so long ago. This sad event has brought back so many great memories of those days as a teenage skydiver. I think half of my first 100 jumps were with Brett. His smile and his boyish charm could make a friend of anyone. Most people need 80 or 90 years to accomplish as much as Brett did in 49. He made a better person out of all of us. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your lovely daughters.

Steve

Paul Te Prieto

January 27, 2007

Shawna, Sadie & Britnie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I've been involved in USSA races for years and I always enjoyed hanging out with my friends at the Masters. I will miss his presence on the hill. God bless you & your family.

Joel Johnson

January 27, 2007

hey brett!
i still consider you my brother in law and remember back to those early years! when we all went skiing, we would barely catch up to you at the bottom of regulator, and off you would go again, while we tried to catch our breaths! your enthusiasm was contagious, and i appreciate all your insparation in the air, rather it was on skiis or under a chute. plus, you helped me meet your sister in that tramline back in spring of '74. i hear the powder is even better in heaven than in utah, and it's never all skied out!
shawna,
you know i love you and i wish i could take away your pain away and suffer for you. your an incredible woman.
girls,
you were just little and i still have to remind you who i am since we only meet at weddings and funerals. i wish you all the best and can only tell you that your dad was a special man.
all my love,
joel

Burke Staker

January 27, 2007

I met Brett on the ski hill. I would try to follow right in his tracks and copy every move he made, hoping I could become a great skier like him. After getting to know Brett, I grew to admire the way he lived his life. He was passionate and demonstrated a sincere interest in those around him. Brett’s relationship with Shawna and his daughters is an example of how I want to be a husband and father. He was a great man and I will miss him.

Teresa Bird

January 27, 2007

Shawna, Sadie, & Britnie:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. You were very lucky to find each other. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I have a listening ear when you need one.

ken smith

January 27, 2007

Shawna, Sadie and Britnie,
Your husband and dad was a great friend and positive example to all whose lives he touched. His legacy will last forever in each of you. - God bless -

Steve Ronniger

January 27, 2007

Having known Brett and Shawna for many years and spending more time in the air than on the ground sure does make it hard to forget anyone let alone an individual such as Brett. My thoughts and prayers to Shawna and the girls. Your entire family made an impact on my life and Brett will be deeply missed.

Chris and Joanie Petersen

January 27, 2007

Brett was a true sportsman and competitor with an infectious positive attitude.He will truly be missed.

Brynlee, Taylor, Alyssa, Ashlee, and Josh Smith

January 27, 2007

Britnie and Sadie,

We were so sorry to hear of this loss, our family is thinking of you at this time. Your father left his mark here by raising two incredible daughters. Let us know if we can help in any way.

Kimberly & Todd Miller

January 27, 2007

Shawna, Sadie & Britnie,
We are so grateful to have known Brett. His smile lives on in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the Lord give you the comfort you need at this time. We love you.

John and Valinda Mitchell

January 27, 2007

We were crushed to hear of Bret's passing. He lived his life the way we all wish we could, with a beautiful, loving family and a life that was passionate and full. Always one of the best at anything, his attitude was always humble, and he mentored many people in many sports. I was one of them. More than anything, we'll miss his ready laugh and his easy smile. He spread happiness where ever he went.

January 27, 2007

Shawna,
Brett was and always will be an inspiration to us all. His enthusiasm and exuberance were contagious. He was a success at everything he did and most of all he was a success at life.
When your grief has lessened you will find great joy in your many extraordinary memories.
May the love and comfort of our Lord be with you and your family. Dave Nelson

Simply the finest human being I've known.

January 27, 2007

Darol Wagstaff

January 27, 2007

Dear Shawna, Sadie, Britnie, Maury, Chris, and Jane:

I am so sorry for the loss of Brett. I've known him since he was 12 years-old. He has lived in this world but has also been spiritually connected to another world. He was always so considerate and kind and nice to everyone. He was an Angel on earth. His presence of mind flying through the air off of monsterous ski jumps, and out of airplanes portrayed a tranquility and peace indicating that Heaven is his natural habitat.

Now, as hard as it is to not have him physically with you, know that he will always have access to you, and you will always have access to him. Your connection to him is only a thought away. He is your Angel watching over you and he is building your home in Heaven.

I pray that his gifts of peace, tranquility, confidence, and faith will remain with you forever.

With love always,

tk

January 27, 2007

Shawna and family, our condolences and prayers are with you.
There are no words I can think of to describe what a wonderful person Brett was. He brought many chuckles (and gasps) as he shared your many adventures thru his stories. What a tremoundous life you lived. He will be sorely missed at Utah Power by all who have come to know him over the last 28 years.

Natalie Osborn Stamm

January 27, 2007

Shawna, all my love and prayers.

Ryan Stevens

January 27, 2007

HE WAS ONE OF THE MOST NICE FUN TO BE WITH PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MEET IN MY LIFE HE WAS A GREAT EXAMPLE ON HOW TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST & AT THE SAME TIME, LIVE LIFE REALLY ON THE EAGE, YOU COULDS ALL WAS LEARN SOME THING FROM HIM EVEN IF YOU DID NOT SEE IT COME YOU ALL WAS DID & HE WILL BE VERY SHORLY MISS THAT IS FOR SHORE WITH OUT A DOUGHTY

Mark & Raedell Elizondo

January 27, 2007

Shawna:
Our condolences to you and the girls as well as all the family members. My brother Lee who works at Rcky Mtn Pwr informed me about Brett the night it happened.
Brett will be missed by them as well as the Skiing and SkyDiving Communities.

Dennis Gray

January 27, 2007

Brett's passion for skiing along with his friendly attitude was a motivating force with his fellow volunteer safety patrollers at Park City Mountain Resort. He enjoyed helping others and by his example helped charge-up everyone's enthusiasm. We will miss Brett and we all gained something from the experience of working with him.
Condolenses,

Jeff Martin

January 27, 2007

Shawna,

It has been our pleasure to know you and Brett and count you as friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls.
Love,
Jeff and Wendy Martin

Aunt and Cousins. Barbara,Curt. Stacy, Jennifer, Erik Butters

January 27, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

John Cone

January 27, 2007

My condolences go out to Shawna and the girls. It seems just like yesterday that I was standing on your doorstep knocking on your door. Brett is an amazing man. He was always kind, engaging, and geniune when speaking to him and you could always see that drive to excel in whatever he did. He was a great example to me and he was like that older brother I never had. "Elder" Cone and his family will miss you Brett! But knowing Brett, he is finding out what needs to be done up there and doing it.

Dave Barnes

January 27, 2007

Brett was an incredible athlete, but an even better person. We competed head to head in many triathlons, and yet he only had encouraging words and his big smile for me after the races no matter the outcome.

I learned many things from Brett and will truely miss him.

Thanks!

Jenni (Baker) Hopewell

January 27, 2007

Dear Shawna, Sadie, Britnie and Dolly,

When somebody like Brett, a soul larger than life, leaves this Earth, we all feel the loss in an insurmountable way. He epitomized what it means to live life to the fullest and was an amazing example to us all. I feel truly blessed to have known Brett and truly believe that I am a better person for it. My heart is full of sadness right now, but the memories of all the fantastic times we shared will stay with me for a lifetime. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and my prayers today and always.

Steve Harding

January 27, 2007

Brett was a great example: play hard, fun with excellence, go for it! For this he won a special place in our hearts. I'll miss his laugh.

Peter Levy

January 27, 2007

So long good buddy, thanks for all of the great times we shared. I'll miss you. I'm certainly glad that you and Shawna found one another. Your passions are unequaled.

My friend Brett

January 27, 2007

Brian Hill

January 27, 2007

When I saw the news that Brett was gone my jaw dropped...I knew him in the early years, since he was only 14 at the time. He used to hike up the hill outside the house he grew up and ski the powder that had just fallen. He would tell me to check out his tracks on the way up the mountain. He will be dearly missed. My only wish is that I would have been able to spend some time with him and the family in the adult years. Keep on turning those skiis. Heaven does not know who just got there. Watch out you heavenly beings, Brett will keep you busy. I know that you will be forever in the sky getting the best high there is.

Janine Bate

January 27, 2007

Brett was an example of life worth living. His positive attitude was contagious, even from across a crowded room. He was blessed to have a wife who loved to do much, if not all, of what he loved the most. They have an amazing union that will bring their eternity much joy. Their beautiful daughters are an extension of who those two are...fun, smart, witty, unafraid, compassionate, and always shining examples of goodness in everything and to everyone. We love you all and will miss your man!

Larry Williams

January 27, 2007

Brett is like my brother my eternal friend, I will miss him very much.

Mark Wagstaff

January 27, 2007

Shawna, Sadie, and Britnie

Brett was the greatest friend and co-worker you could ask for. Brett was the by far the best skier I have ever skied with, I don’t think he ever got tired. I will miss hearing him say O Wow! Brett has so much PMA; you liked being around him, because he lifted you up and made you laugh, and feel good about yourself. My prayers are with you at this time. Brett loved his family so much; he would always update me on his girls.

wes keeley

January 27, 2007

Shawna
Our thoughs go out to you and the Girls Brett left a great example to us all
Love Wes, Mary, Meghan, Ben and Madison Keeley

Kenny Yeh

January 26, 2007

I learned a lot from Brett. Athletes share a common thread on pushing the limits and challenging one's self. Brett was truly physically gifted, but an even better person. I was always impressed with how he put a busy schedule together and always made time for his family and supported their activities. We will miss him!

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