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Merrill Oaks Obituary

Merrill C. Oaks

1936 - 2024

North Salt Lake, UT-Merrill Clayton Oaks passed peacefully from this life on December 30, 2024, after a lengthy struggle with a chronic disease related to cancer. He was born in Twin Falls, Idaho, to Lloyd E. Oaks M. D. and Stella Harris Oaks on January 12, 1936. At age four, his father died, leaving his mother to raise their three young children, Dallin, Merrill, and Evelyn. After living in Vernal, Utah, the family moved to Provo in 1948, where Merrill graduated from BY High School in 1954. He served a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to Ontario, Canada 1956-1958. While attending Brigham Young University he met and married Josephine Ann (Jo) Christensen from Payson, Utah, thereafter graduating from BYU with High Honors. Merrill received his M.D. degree from the University of Rochester in Rochester, New York. He served an internship at the University of Kentucky before specializing in Ophthalmology (diseases and surgery of the eye) at Washington University of St. Louis, The Barnes Hospital. Near the end of his training, accompanied by his wife and three small children, he drove to San Salvador, El Salvador, where he performed eye surgery in the city's main charity hospital for three months.

In 1967, Dr. Oaks returned to Provo to join the practice of his uncle, Dr. L. Weston Oaks and practiced for 29 years. He served a term as president of the medical staff at Utah Valley Hospital and later was President of the Utah Ophthalmology Society. He and Robert Hales, M.D., together did the first cataract surgeries in Utah that included implanting an artificial lens, which is now standard practice.

Merrill and Josephine were active in community service as well as in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Merrill's church service included many teaching and administrative callings, including serving twice as a bishop, counselor in a stake presidency, and stake president. He retired from his practice in 1996 to serve as President of the Washington Seattle Mission. In 1998, he was called to be a General Authority, as a member of the Seventy. He served as a counselor in the U.S. Southwest and the Utah North area presidencies and as a counselor and Area President in the Philippines. He and Josephine later served as president and matron of the Winter Quarters, Nebraska Temple.

His family, patients, employees, and those he led in the church appreciated Merrill's kindness and understanding.

In his final years, he devoted time and resources to the Stella H. Oaks Foundation, a public charity named after his mother, devoted to raising funds to help single mothers complete additional educational training to improve their earning ability.

Merrill loved church history and the biographies of earlier and current church leaders. In the final several years of his life, he completed his personal history for his family, where he recorded his testimony of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and many spiritual reassurances he had experienced.

He is survived by his wife, Josephine Ann Christensen, and nine children, Kathleen (James G. McLaren), Julianna (Howard B. Gee), Amy Jo (Lance N. Long), Gregory Merrill (Susan McDougal), Marlo McKay (Elaine Judd), Tarali (David Rail), Leticia (David M. Strong), Dana Christensen (Anna Morgan) Sterling Clayton (Amanda Ridge), 42 grandchildren and a growing number of great-grandchildren, and his brother Dallin H. Oaks (Kristen McMain) and sister Evelyn (Lyman Moody).

The family gives special thanks to Brandelee Breckenridge and other care providers with Home Instead.

Merrill's funeral will be held at the Foxhill Ward, 200 S. Eagle Ridge Dr., North Salt Lake, Utah on Saturday, January 4, 2025 at 11 a.m. Viewings will be held at the same location on Friday, January 3, 2025 from 7 to 9 p.m. and Saturday, January 4, 2025 from 9-10:30 a.m. Interment will be in the Provo Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to the Stella H. Oaks Foundation (Stellahoaks.org).

Funeral Directors: Russon Bountiful Mortuary www.russonmortuary.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune, The Salt Lake Tribune from Dec. 30, 2024 to Jan. 2, 2025.

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Albert Chubak

February 7, 2025

Was incredibly grateful for his expertise when I burned my eyes with a heat lamp in 1986. Had a great sense of humor and very kind. Told me his brother Dallin was a black sheep in the family as he pursued law and all the others siblings were in medicine. Thank you Merrill.

Grace Henderson

January 25, 2025

Josephine, I am so sorry to read about your dear husband. I don´t know if you will remember me working in the Bountiful Temple.
This is Gracie Henderson. I
Remember how diligent you and your husband were. Even Merrill was
Dealing with his health problems.
I have missed you. You set examples to everyone around you. May the Lord Bless You. You serve him so well. You will be in my prayers.

Rick Casady

January 19, 2025

Merrill Oaks was my Bishop while I attended the Pleasant View 7th Ward in Provo. I remember his kind and thoughtful counsel. When I noticed my eyesight deteriorating a little, he told me that eye muscles naturally weaken over time, and not just from poor lighting. I'm sorry to see him go. My best wishes to his family. Hard to believe that was 40 years ago.

Cyndy Simmons

January 9, 2025

Dear Jo, Cal and I are sad to see that Merrill has left this earth, but grateful to know you will be watched over by your amazing family. Dad and Mom and Carol Simmons are probably greeting him as we speak. Thanks for being wonderful neighbors to us all. Cal and Cyndy Simmons (Service Volunteers in Kuwait)

Spencer Wertz

January 4, 2025

Was a great leader for my mission in Seattle

Spencer Wertz

January 4, 2025

My mission president

Lawrence S. and Noma Bowman

January 3, 2025

Our association with Merrill and Jo Oaks goes back a long time. We were neighbors and friends when our children were young, and the Oaks family lives across the fence from our family. We have enjoyed many memorable moments with the Oaks family, and we treasure the memories of being in the presence of Merrill and Jo. Their dedication to serving the Lord is admirable. We love them and all their family. Thanks to Merrill and Jo for their example of Christlike service.

Ruth Magleby

January 2, 2025

Greg, Susie, Peter, Megan, Truman, Ainsley and Natalie.
My heart is with all of you at this time.
May you all gather together and the love and closeness which your wonderful family displays carry all of you in the coming days.
May your Grandfather's name be a blessing to all of you.

I send my love over to your house and to the home of your sweet Grandma.
Greg. Special prayers for you at this time.

With Sympathy,
Ruth Magleby

Gary Herdsman

January 1, 2025

Condolences and God's blessings be upon Sister Oaks and all their family. Many happy memories and gratitude for an inspiring and caring mission president. With love.

David Woffinden

December 31, 2024

President Oaks: I love you, President Oaks I'll miss you, President Oaks you're a great example to me.

December 31, 2024

In memory of President Merrill C. Oaks, with our deepest respect, love, and appreciation. Your leadership, example, and testimony have guided and blessed us far beyond our full-time missions.

Heartfelt Condolences Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Your WA-Seattle Missionaries

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Tiffany Jenkins Anderson

December 31, 2024

Dearest President Oaks,
You will be dearly missed. You were such a caring, loving, devoted mission president and I will never forget you or your strong testimony of the Gospel. My prayers are with your family for peace and comfort at your passing.
Until we meet again.
-Sister Tiffany Jenkins Anderson

Joshua Campbell

December 31, 2024

To the Oaks Family,

I will forever be a different man thanks to the true example, and servant leadership, of President Oaks. He emulated the care, concern, and view of our Savior Jesus Christ with every interaction I had with him. May God bless his family during this moment of transition as we all reflect on how his life impacted ours.

Sincerely,
Joshua Campbell
-Washington Seattle Mission

Taunya Benns

December 31, 2024

Dear Jo,

The loss of Merrill is felt deeply by all of us, but we don´t see it as a final farewell. Instead, we believe it´s a sacred shift-a transition that paves a way for those of us left behind to follow. Merrill´s spirit, his boundless love, and the profound impact he had on everyone especially his family will continue to guide us. His legacy will inspire and support you, as you learn to move forward without his physical presence.

May you feel the peace and love of our Heavenly Father surrounding you, and may His Spirit comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers; we are here for you whenever you need support.

With deepest sympathy and love,

Your Home Instead Family

Helen Walton

December 31, 2024

Elder Oaks was my bishop when I was a student at BYU. I was in his home many times. He was also the first doctor who prescribed contact lens for me. When I was a young student nurse, I was given the privilege of observing a cataract surgery that he did. I was amazed--and I went on to become a CRNA who has helped with cataract surgery. It is amazing how much that surgery has changed.
Elder Oaks is one great man that I will never forget.

Michael Meldrum

December 30, 2024

Aunt Jo,

Valerie, Colton, Paul and I received word this morning from Evelyn about Uncle Merrill´s passing. We are saddened to know that our earthly association has come to an end. We rejoice in the eternal and all encompassing atonement of our Savior that gives us the sure knowledge that we will be able to resume our familial ties on the other side of the veil of mortality. We are grateful to know that Uncle Merrill is no longer experiencing the pains associated with his afflictions in his mortal body. We will miss our associations with him, especially being able to go and participate in sealings for our progenitors with him officiating. We loved serving in the Temple with both of you and other family members. Those are special and sacred memories that we cherish. We will continue to include you and your family in our prayers in the coming days during this tender time.

With much love, Michael, Valerie, Colton, and Paul Meldrum

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