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Oscar Whiting Obituary

Oscar Juan Whiting 1922 ~ 2008 Oscar Juan Whiting, son of Oscar and Mary Sullivan Whiting, died at home of leukemia Dec. 11, 2008. He was 86 years old, born on March 13, 1922, in Mapleton, Utah, where he has been a life-long resident. Juan enjoyed growing up on the farm with four sisters and two brothers, where he learned the value of hard work. He attended elementary school in Mapleton, and later served as captain of the Springville High basketball team. After graduation, the U of U recruited Juan to play basketball. Following his freshman year, Juan enlisted in the Navy air-corps where he served his country in World War II as a torpedo bomber pilot stationed on the air-craft carrier Intrepid. At age 25, Elder Whiting sailed to the land of his childhood dreams, South Africa, where he served in the Cape Town mission of the LDS Church for two 1/2 years. Juan returned home to Alma Snow, who had waited for her sweetheart. On September 6, 1949, Apostle John A. Widstoe performed their marriage in the Salt Lake Temple. Juan was a family man and happily raised seven beautiful children. His oldest son David was stricken with cancer and became a paraplegic at age 16. Juan lovingly helped meet his needs for two years until his death. The fatherly compassion he displayed was a great blessing for his family. Juan received a teaching degree from BYU and became the "favorite teacher" of hundreds of elementary school students in Springville. His motto was "If you show the students that you love them, they will listen and learn." He always had time for children. Juan was active in the community, serving on the city planning commission for four years, 14 years as a little league baseball coach, and one year as a PTA president. In 2005 he and his wife were thrilled to serve as Grand Marshals of the 24th of July Celebration in Mapleton. He lived the gospel of Jesus Christ with a heart full of tender feelings for the Lord. He willingly served in the church in many teaching capacities: Boy Scout and Varsity Scout leader, stake Seventies Quorum president, counselor in two bishoprics, member of the High Council, stake missionary, and an ordinance worker in the Provo Temple. The culmination of his church service occurred when he his wife Alma returned to Africa to fulfill two memorable missions, first to Zimbabwe, and then to Cape Town, South Africa. Juan lived to fulfill Stanley Livingston's prophecy, "Once you taste the waters of Africa, you live to return again." Juan is survived by his wife of 59 years, Alma; two sisters: Joyce (Heber) Olson, Tempe, Arizona, and Marilyn (Don) Alston, Las Vegas, Nevada; two sisters-in-law: Lora (Ray) Whiting, Mapleton, and Beryl (Gary) Whiting, Whittier, California; and a brother-in-law, Don (Thora) Allan, Mapleton. Six of his seven children survive and bless his name: Shelie (Dee) Doman, Woodburn, Oregon, Mark Snow (Judy) Whiting, Mapleton, Mary (Robert) Judd, St. George, Kaye (Benjamin) Romney, Rexburg, Idaho, Paul Snow (Sherri) Whiting, Mapleton, Brent Anthony (Laurie) Whiting, Mapleton. He leaves a great legacy of 60 living grandchildren, five who are currently serving missions, and 33 great-grandchildren. Juan was preceded in death by his parents, Oscar and Mary; his son, David Juan; three grandchildren: Christopher Mark, Julia, and Lynzy Whiting; his sisters: Thora Allan and Virginia Whiting; and his brothers: Ray and Gary Whiting. Funeral Services will be held Friday, Dec. 19, at 11 a.m. at the Mapleton White Church, 31 W. Maple St. Friends may call at Wheeler Mortuary 211 East 200 South in Springville from 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday evening and at the church an hour before the funeral. Interment will be in the Springville Evergreen Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Missionary Fund. Condolences may be sent at www.wheelermortuary.com

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Dec. 17, 2008.

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SueAnn Beardall (Wallace)

December 20, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I loved "Mr. Whiting". He has always been my favorite teacher and holds a very special place in my heart. He taught me in the fourth grade at Sage Creek Elementary. I am also grateful for the association and friendship of sons Paul and Brent. What a great family! What a great man! May the Lord's choicest blessings be upon you all at this time.

Sincerely,

December 19, 2008

Dear Alma,

The mission office forwarded this information to me. I was hoping to return from South Africa and talk to you both about it. You may be interested that I am seving in George for another 6 months, we think.

Ourhearts have tasted the water here and we love it.

Best wishes to you and all of the family at this time.

Elder Jim and Sister Joyce Whiting

Doug & Janice McAllister

December 18, 2008

Dear Alma and Family: We count it a great blessing in our lives to have known Juan. He always glowed with the spirit. He was so loving, thoughtful, happy, positive, and faithful. We know that the Lord was very mindful of him to the end. The hand of the Lord was very evident in his life, down to the details. Please know of our love for you. We wish we could be there to convey it.

Bruce Stika

December 18, 2008

Our prayers are with the family of one of the greatest men we have the privilege of knowing.Juan and Alma have taught us many great and wonderful things.
With Love, Bruce,Franky,Jake,Jack Stika and Jessica Robinson

Miriam Ruay

December 18, 2008

Dear Sister Whiting, i was deeply saddened to hear about the death of your loved husband. I know how difficult this must be for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I encourage you to draw on your strength and the strength of your family and gospel.
May God bless you and your family during this time and always. Love,

Ruth and Dan Brinkerhoff

December 17, 2008

May we offer our sincere condolences. We look back with very fond memories of our time in Mapleton and the love we shared with your family.
Dan and I are currently serving a mission in Oregon...working in Salem at the time. Please give Shelie our regards and our love.
Ruth and Dan Brinkerhoff

Roy Tomkinson

December 17, 2008

Dear Sister Whiting, We are saddened to learn of Juan's passing but know he is happy where he is. Though we were together in Queenstown only a couple of months we remember that time as though we were together for our whole mission. We love you and pray that you will be comforted and able to bear this burden.
Roy and Gloria Tomkinson

Cathy Crandall Lloyd

December 17, 2008

Mr. Whiting was indeed my most favorite teacher! He taught me in 5th grade at Westside Elementary School in Springville and I loved him dearly. I'm sorry to read that he has passed away. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

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