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Paul Jay Stevens Will be Missed  Paul was born Nov. 24 1959 in Niskayuna, NY to William and Jane Stevens. Died April 25th, 2004 in Salt Lake City, UT. Married Andrea Lambourne Dec. 3, 1984. Survived by his children, Cole (17), Amber (15), Jacob (12) and Joshua (8). Also surviving are his sisters, Lissa (Frank) Terpening, Beth (Charles) Gibson, Edith Vesci, and brother Peter (Andrea) Stevens, aunts, cousins, nieces, nephews and many friends, including his ex-wife Andrea and her family.  Memorial service for family and friends to be held May 8, 2004, 11:00 a.m., at Thorneberry Atrium (201 W. Thorneberry Way, Pleasant Grove, Utah). 801-785-8384.  Paul had a great sense of humor and loved his family. He will be missed very much. We are comforted knowing he is finally at peace.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on May 5, 2004.

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Peggy & Ryan Egerdahl

May 13, 2004

Many years have passed since we worshipped together in Auburn. We remember how happy and proud Paul was when his children were born. We're praying that the "peace that passes all understanding" comforts you all.

Andrea Stevens

May 11, 2004

Dear Family and Friends:

I cannot express how thankful and grateful I am that all of you were so wonderful for the kids. As you can imagine, this has been hard for them, and knowing that so many people love and support them is very comforting.

I'll always remember Paul for his sense of humor, love of life and the way he loved his kids. He was an incredible, unique person. Whoever met him never forgot him.

Paul, may you rest in peace. I am sorry.

Christienne Gibson-Barraza

May 8, 2004

My Dear Family:

Although I didn't have the privledge of knowing my Uncle Paul when I was older, I know that he was a wonderful memory from my childhood. The very last time that I saw him was when Grandpa died, and my mom had gone to pick him up from the airport. Well those two turkeys decided to play a trick on me and tell me that he missed his flight and didn't make it. The best analogy to descirbe my disappointment was like someone had suddenly switched off the sun. I was always that excited to see him because of the laughter that he brought into my life. Well, after I expressed how sad I was, that turkey peeked his head around the corner with his big, sneaky grin and in that instant, the sunshine was back on. I was so happy and filled with light and joy, because that's what Uncle Paul was to me. And although life was hard for him, and his light dimmed as he grew older, I know that he loved his family and friends more than words could ever express. The most comforting thing about this whole experience is that I know that although he isn't with us in a physical form anymore, his light has dispersed and smaller pieces of him are now with everyone, but especially with his children because of his immenese love for them. And everytime that we think of him and smile or cry about his presence in our lives, it really is his light that is shining through us. I love you and please know that my heart is with you guys today and always. Love, Chris

Tyler Riggins

May 7, 2004

Paul. You have been one of my very- best friends for so many years. I will miss you and your laughter so much. Love your friend TYLER.

Jill ( Terpening) Moss

May 7, 2004

Andrea and kids,



I haven't been able to think of much else since mom called me. Our love goes out to you now. I wish that we had had a chance to meet while Uncle Paul was alive. After reading the words written, it lightens my heart to know how much Paul was loved outside of the family. I have great memories of growing up with Paul. I pray that you all remember him with as much love in your hearts that I know he had for you.



Love your niece and cousin,



Jill

Melissa Fischer

May 6, 2004

Dear Andrea,Cole,Amber,Jacob & Josh,



My thoughts are, and have been with you since I heard the sad news. I know that time heals all and it will for you too. You hold onto each other and to Steve. Talk about the happy times you shared and talk to each other or a friend about how you are feeling. It will help you greatly.



My thoughts are with you

Michelle Murdock

May 6, 2004

Your family will be in my prayers.



Paul,

You influenced more people than you realized.I'm going to miss you.

Dave Shields

May 6, 2004

Andrea,

Your strength inspires me.

Dave

Jason Lambourne

May 6, 2004

Cole, Amber, Jacob and Josh,



I am saddened with your loss. Always remember that your dad was a giving and caring man. He helped me when I was in need. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Jade Keating ( Whitman )

May 6, 2004

Memories that your father gave you are your most precious gift from him and will keep him alive within you forever. How wonderful that he was a part of your life ~ I hope you will be able to smile with the knowledge of his love for you

Your cousin, Jade

Sue Starr

May 6, 2004

To Paul's Family,

I didn't get to know Paul very well as an adult. I was able to spend time with him as a baby, adolescent

and youn man. He was adorable as a baby and a lot of fun in his youth.

Paul's death makes me deeply sad for all his family and sad that I did not get to know him as an adult.

Love to all,

Sue Starr (cousin)

Amy & Bruce Babcock

May 6, 2004

Andi, Cole, Amber, Jacob, & Joshua we are sorry to hear about your loss. At times like this it is hard to make sense of what happened. Remember that we are thinking of you. We hope that love and happiness will fill this hole in your lives. Kind Regards, Amy & Bruce Babcock

Germain Costa

May 6, 2004

My heart and prayers go out to the Stevens family.

Debbie Linse

May 6, 2004

Dear Andrea and kids,

Please know that though you moved away, doesn't mean that you are not still in our hearts. You left an imprint on my heart and we are always family because of Christ. My heart goes out to all of you at this time. May the Son that never sets illumine your sorrow with joyous memories of Paul and strength from Christ to get you through this difficult time. You are all loved. Blessings, Debbie and family

Andrea DeLeon

May 6, 2004

Andrea,Cole,Amber,Jacob, & Joshua,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure your father was a great man. Remember your dad is thinking of you all, and is with you at all times. Keep your spirits up and your hope alive.

Sincerely,

Andrea DeLeon

Triton Inv.

Bill and Scarlett Kehoe

May 6, 2004

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.



Bill and Scarlett Kehoe

Katrina (Stevens) Kehoe

May 6, 2004

Uncle Paul gave our family so many laughs and good memories, and it is so important to remember all of them right now. Andrea and kids...my heart goes out to you through this difficult time and please know that we all love you.

love,

katrina

Don & Carol Teodoro

May 6, 2004

We were sorry to hear of Paul's death. He was a warm and funny man. We still remember with smiles the night he made us a delicious dinner and used every pot in the kitchen! We pray God will give you peace as you grieve his passing.

Jayne Vesci

May 5, 2004

Dear Cole Amber Jacob and Joshua, I cant imagine how you all must be feeling but what I can say is how truly sorry I am, and this saddens me not only because I know how much your dad loves you all but because the memories I have of him as my Uncle are loving and lighthearted. Though we dont know eachother well I just want you all to know that Im praying for you and Uncle Paul,just keep him in your hearts and know that just because hes no longer here, that doeant mean the love is gone. I know he`ll be watching over you from Heaven. Love, your cousin Jayne

Eric Hutto & Rene Corona

May 5, 2004

Sorry to hear about you loss. God Bless you and your family. You are all in our prayers. Eric, Rene, Stephen and Christopher.

Tracy Repsher (Whitman)

May 5, 2004

Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends of Paul. May time quickly ease your sorrow and bring you peace and memories of love.

Tracy Whitman Repsher (cousin)

Carolyn Berggren

May 5, 2004

Andrea & Kids,



Words cannot tell you how sorry I am about Paul's passing. Keep the memories that you have close to your heart and trust Jesus to bring you through this most difficult time.

Love, Carolyn

(Jeanie's sister)

Tina Berggren

May 5, 2004

Our thoughts are with you Cole, Amber, Jacob, and Joshua. We love and are thinking of you!

Jeanie Berggren

May 5, 2004

Dear Andrea, Cole, Amber, Jacob & Josh.

Our most sincere love to all of you during this trying time in your lives. May you know that your dad loved you all very much. We love you. Walt and Jeanie

Michelle Saxey

May 5, 2004

Dear, Andi, Cole, Amber, and Jacob and Josh I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I am thinking of you and if there is anything I can do for you don't hesitate to call. You are in my prayers.



Sincerely,

Jody Morris

May 5, 2004

Paul,

I have shed many tears since I first learned of your death. You are a good friend to me -more than I knew while you were with us. You may not feel that you gave much to those you loved most. And perhaps you failed in many ways. We all struggle together. But you gave something very important to me -you gave me life. What greater thing can anyone share with another man than peace with God, through our Lord Jesus Christ. With much patience and sincere conviction you gave me the hope of the gospel. I still remember you reciting to me again and again, "by grace you are saved" ... "by grace you are saved". What a glorious gift you have given me in the gospel. I recall those long conversations over the Bible, when you broke down the confidence I placed in myself before God. As I consider what you have given to me, I rejoice because the demonstration of your faith in Christ alone was the best thing anyone could have given me. Thank you, Jody

Joyce Orchard

May 5, 2004

I am sorry for your loss. I do remember Paul fondly as a very funny guy and great cook. I'll always remember visiting your family when I was traveling for APM. I got the privilage of playing with you kids while visiting with your mom while your dad cooked us dinner. Just feel relief that your dad is at peace.



My sincere condolences,

Joyce

Sharon Hayes

May 5, 2004

Dear,

Cole, Amber, Jacob, Joshua



I just wanted to express my sorrow for the loss of your father. I know with time the hurt will subside. Remember and hold on to the happy memories you have of your father. Stay close to your mother she is a very wonderful and special lady, and I know she loves you very much.



Sincerely,

Sharon Hayes

Triton Investments

Beth Gibson

May 5, 2004

Dear Andrea, Cole, Amber, Jacob and Joshua,



We are so sorry for your loss. We loved Paul very much.



Love, Aunt Beth and Uncle Charles

Matt Morris

May 5, 2004

We are thinking about you. We are sorry for your loss. We love you.

Matt, Melissa and kids.

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