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Ronald Owsley Obituary

Ronald Carey Owsley 1974 ~ 2006 Our beloved husband, father, son, brother and friend passed from this world on Saturday, Nov. 11, 2006. Ronald Carey Owsley was born on May 15, 1974 in Salt Lake City, Utah. He was a gentle loving child from the start. He sprinkled joy, laughter, and unconditional love wherever he went. Carey graduated from Cottonwood High School in Salt Lake City in 1992. While attending high school he played the drums and the trombone and was active in the Jazz Band. Growing up he attended Cottonwood Presbyterian Church; he was active in the Boy Scouts and church Youth Group. He graduated from the University of Utah with a Bachelor's of Science in Middle East Studies and Philosophy. While attending the University of Utah Carey studied abroad at Hebrew University in Jerusalem. After completing university, Carey joined the U.S. Peace Corps and served two-plus years in the Republic of Armenia. Through his service in the Peace Corps Carey worked as a teacher of English as well as working on small enterprise opportunities for the local community of Martuni, Armenia. Carey has innumerable friends in Armenia. While serving in Armenia Carey met the love of his life. Lisa. They enjoyed traveling to many parts of the world and enjoyed pondering the meaning of the moon. Upon returning from the Peace Corps, Carey and Lisa made a home in Gallup, New Mexico where Carey taught at Kennedy Middle School teaching 6th grade students math, science, and social studies. During this time Carey completed a Masters Degree in Education from the University of New Mexico. On December 12, 2003 Carey rejoiced at the birth of his son Elliott Douglas. Carey is survived by his wife Lisa, his son Elliott, his mother Connie, his father Ronald, his brother and wife Ryan and Heather Owsley along with their children Abby and Jessica, his brother Tyler and a mountain of incredible special relatives and friends. Services will be held 11 a.m. at Cottonwood Presbyterian Church, 1580 E. Vine St. Murray, UT Sat., Nov. 25th 2006. In lieu of flowers a trust fund has been set up for Carey's son, Elliot Owsley, at any branch of Wells Fargo Bank. "For what is it to die, but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek GOD unencumbered?"

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Nov. 22 to Nov. 24, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Ronald Owsley

28 Entries

Lorraine and Larry Renzetti

January 13, 2024

Dear Connie we were so saddened to hear of Ron´s passing. We know it´s been years since our connection with Cottonwood Presbyterian, but we remember how you and Ron were so welcoming to us. We also remember conferring with you about the Youth group,knowing and valuing your experience with the Youth group.
We pray for peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Larry and Lorraine Renzetti

Heather McCormick-Gibbs

December 17, 2006

I have been to this guest book several times in the last few weeks, but I haven't been able to write anything. I don't have words to describe how sorry I am and how sad I've been about this. Aside from a brief phone call,I haven't spoken to Carey in a few years. I got married, he got married, we had kids and grew up and drifted apart as friends often do, but some of the best times I ever had were with Carey Owsley and I will hold those memories in my heart as long as I live. They say you can tell everything about a man by the way he treats his mother. Those who have known him know how much he loved his mom, Connie, and wasn't shy about expressing it, even in High School. He was the same way with everyone he cared about, as I'm sure he was with his wife and little boy.
Carey got me thinking about spirituality, introduced me to one or two long term boyfriends, and drove me to the DMV to get my driver's licence, singing along with Primus all the way. He was such a big part of my life back then, and I am so lucky to have known him.
I will miss you, Ronnie.
Heather

Connie Owsley

December 13, 2006

My son Carey was such a special child and grown man. He touched my life so deeply and taught me the importance of giving yourself unselfishly to others. I will forever miss his smile, his jokes, his hugs, his deep sense of spirituality, his wonderful cooking, and just watching him be the most awesome Dad to his son.
Carey, your light went out from this world to soon and there will always be something missing in our lives. No one can ever take your place. I will not let Elliott forget you, and he will know how much you loved him and his mom. We love and miss you more than words could ever say. Love, Mom

Lisa Owsley

December 12, 2006

Today is Elliott's 3rd birthday. We love you Carey.

Robyn Bass

December 6, 2006

Connie and Ron:
I want you to know how inspired I was by Carey's life. I was a very proud Aunt and I bragged about Carey many times. He was an inspiration to me and I marveled in the unselfish way he lived his life. His accomplishemnet were many in his short life. He truely was an angel here on earth and I know he will be greatly missed by his family, friends and students. I will forever miss the way he messed my hair and his wonderful sense of humor. Love Aunt Robyn

Dedi Larsen

November 30, 2006

Connie, I was so sorry tohear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you as well as my prayers. Please feel free to call me anythime.
God be with you.

Mathew Robins

November 29, 2006

I'm the other Jr. High and High school trombone seat next to Brandon and Cameron - all of us good friends with minds full of memories. Carey was always kind, always pleasant. More than one laugh was shared as we struggled to learn music and what would become manhood. Carey will be missed.

Trista Noble

November 29, 2006

It has been years since I have interacted with Carey and feel a great sense of gratitude knowing of this delicate transition... and to be reminded of what amazing lives some of us live... also to have him in my heart and in my thoughts, to honor him, his life and his family and to share in the gratitude of having known him....

My interactions with Carey often included his partaking of large quantities of TUMS... ahh.. well.... I didn't ask.... while I enjoyed being in his company -- he would also use salt and pepper shakers and other misc. table props to tell stories and give a better image of what it was he was trying to teach or display..... ahhhhh..... a true teacher in his essence.

I did not know Carey too deeply, but I have this great sense of elation thinking of him now and knowing that our love and relationships do not cease as our bodies do....... I have this sense of knowing that Carey must have a great role to play in our lives from a spiritual place and sometimes.... it can be a very powerful and loving place to be...

Perhaps there can be a certain amount of comfort in knowing that once we feel and acknowledge our earthly, physical and emotional pain in losing our loved ones.... which is so very important..... that somehow the loss and sadness can be amazing as it tranforms into strength and compassion.... and in our seeking to understand... sometimes we may learn to accept that which we don't understand.

Somehow I have a gratitude and pray for all loved ones to feel that gratitude for such a special time.... of what passing has to offer us...

Perhaps he may also evolve with us in acknowledge our loss and sadness and those deeply stirring emotions increasing our capacity of courage in our spirits... as we have faith in where he is now.... perhaps we may learn from his example.... and reach to him for guidance.

My sister said to me once that courage is not the absence of fear, but the knowing that something else is MORE IMPORTANT :)

Thank you Carey Owsley, for being you, for crossing my path, for the goodness you passed and the light and the teacher you may still be..... Thank you for somehow contacting me to know of your life and your passing!

Brandon Eccles

November 27, 2006

I met Carey in 7th grade band. We played trombone together and forged a strong friendship. We dreamed of starting a punk band, but never quite got it together. In the years to come, our paths diverged, but I always knew of Carey's goodness. He was truly a bright light in this dark world. Carey, your family is in our prayers and you will be deeply missed.

Carl Dulin

November 26, 2006

I just met Carey once; yet I feel blessed to have known him. the occasion of our meeting was my daughters funeral. I am girl Carrie's Dad. Our Carrie and your Carey spent two years together in Armenia. When Carey stayed at my home he was doing his best to support me and my wife. He was doing his best to try and comfort a relative stranger. I guess that says a lot about his heart.

His wife, Lisa, is one of the most giving persons I have ever met. I feel honored to have had both of them in my life. Both Carrie and CArey are gone but not forgotten.

Everyone on the planet must eventually meet their end. All I can say is that when Carey was here he touched my heart.

I wish Carey's Mom and Dad all my sympathys. I know what you must be going through....The pain will never leave, but it does become easier to live with.

To Lisa, I love you, and I know when you kick in the strength resting way down deep in your heart, you will make it. You must make it ...Elliot is now the priority. Peace and love. You only hurt now because the love you had was so wonderful. Praise God for the love.
Peace, in Christ Rev. Carl Dulin

Chana

November 25, 2006

Lisa jan,
Every word of the obituary is as beautiful and full of love as I know you and Carey's family and friends felt for him. It is a really beautiful tribute. You will have that love forever, it will always be with you.

Candace Britton

November 25, 2006

My brother (Chris Taft) was good friends with Carey and he was at our house often. The thing I mostly remember about Carey is he was always making us laugh. He was quite the character and a great guy. He will be missed.
May your family feel God's comfort through this sad time.

Chuck and Sharri McClure

November 25, 2006

We were greatly saddened to read of Carey's passing. The many wonderful scouting adventures came flooding back into our memories. Our relationship with him and your family will always be treasured. Our entire family sends our sympathy and will keep you in our prayers.

Matt Keener

November 25, 2006

I met Carey in first year Hebrew class -- although everyone initially called him Ronald, or Ronaldo. Later I came to know him as Carey, although I often called him Ronaldo. I was also fortunate to become familiar with his great sense of humor, his many voices, and his immensely sensitive and loving heart. We discussed ancient Middle Eastern languages and history, philosophy, religion, and life. We pointed our fingers at the moon, sharing mystical glimmers of the inexpressible nature of G~d with one another. He shared many special moments with me and other friends that I will always remember. He surely touched the lives of many others in his journeys through the world.

I am very grateful that Ronaldo made the journey back to Utah and visited me several months ago; and I was able to meet his beloved wife Lisa (and he had made it clear to me in prior conversations how deeply he loved Lisa, and his son Elliott), and I had another special moment that I will always remember. I do wish that I could have spoken with him before he passed on. My heart goes out to all of his family; and Lisa, if you ever need an extra ear during a very difficult time, PLEASE consider me a friend.

Carey, Ronaldo, or the heartfelt man with the many, funny voices ... you will be remembered with love, and deeply missed.

~Matti

Mikelle Welch-Winrow

November 25, 2006

I didn't know Carey very well but what I did know was that he was a very exceptional individual who left a very good impression on me. What a kind, intelligent, caring person he was.
I just want Ryan and his family to know that I am very sorry for their loss, and please know that my heart and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Art Elizondo

November 25, 2006

Ron and Connie,
I am so sad to hear about your son, Carey. I know how proud you were of him. I did not know him well, but in your Christmas letters he was always setting high goals for himself. I know he was a good person because he had good parents as role models. My prayers are with you and your family at this time. I hope to see you soon. Jo sends her sincere condolences also.

Your friend always,
Art

Cameron Dayton

November 24, 2006

6:30 in the morning, every schoolday, from Jr. High to High School, Carey sat next to me in Jazz Band -- 2nd and 3rd trombones. A smile every morning, a joke about Mr. Frohm, and a dependable tone and tempo on my right side. Carey was a constant goodness.

The world has lost some light. I will miss him.

Natalie & John Minnick

November 24, 2006

We loved Carey and will always keep him close to our heart. He was a great friend, and always knew how to make other smile. We are so lucky to have been a part of his life, and are better for knowing him. Thank you Carey for all the happiness and great memories you've provided us. We pray for comfort and peace to your family during this time of loss. You will be missed immensely.

Chris Taft

November 24, 2006

There is a portion of my life that He played a major role in; I have few memories of those days that do not include my old friend Carey.
I will always remember you Carey as the life of the party, the sincere seeker who never shied away from the tuff subject, the listener who was willing sit through my rants. I remember your high pitched singing, your funny dancing . . . the lip. We all experienced quite a lot by knowing you and being a part of your life. It's been years now since I last saw or talked to you and now suddenly I am missing you terribly. I know how much you must have loved those around you; you had a heart was as big as you lived your life. They broke the mold when they made you, you were one of a kind and it's hard to imagine a world where you aren't out there in it. May God grant your loved ones the strength to make it through this very sad time.

Mark Garff

November 23, 2006

Carey, you will be dearly missed. I've been thinking back to all of the fun times we shared - out in the desert or out on the town, even just carpooling to the U every day and getting into intense conversations about life and everything else while we waited for a parking spot! I wish I could be there for the memorial to say goodbye.

Bryson Thomas

November 23, 2006

Carey,
I will never forget your ability to make others laugh. It was truely your gift. You will be missed. My prayers are with your family.
Bryson Thomas

sinndi nelson

November 23, 2006

when i heard the news of careys passing i pulled out my photo albums and looked at all the fun times we all had shared: sitting on the ledge of a beautiful canyon before we all hit the daily in moab the next morning, karioke (he so enthusiastically took control of every song he sang), the halloween and christmas parties or "just because" get togethers...he was a huge part of alot of peoples lives and he will be so missed. much love to the family and friends in this time, and let us all keep in our hearts the wonderful memories.

Robyn Bliss

November 22, 2006

I am beyond saddened to hear of Carey's passing. I went to school with Carey and we were friends after high school. Many of my fondest memories of high school were with Carey. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to the Owsley family.

Jenni Attermann

November 22, 2006

We were so shocked to hear of Carey's passing. We have so many fond memories of him. Camping, road trips, being silly, lots of fun times. Carey was a special kind of person and had a very sincere way about him. He was always a good listener and always offered some great words of wisdom, and it was always fun to listen to his philosophy. He was a good friend and we will miss him deeply.
We are so sorry for your family's loss. Our love and prayers are with you all.

Jenni and Chad Attermann
and family

Betty Sollis

November 22, 2006

Hello Connie and Ron...it's been a long time since we have been neighbors....back when Carey was a little boy. I want you to know I am saddened by his passing. It looks like he accomplished alot in his life. My deepest sympathy to you, along with his wife and children.

melisa mcneil

November 22, 2006

My first memory of Carey is 7th grade with his long bangs, skateboard and a million safety pins in his pants hemming them tight to his leg. His sense of humor, his music, the funny things he used to say I will always keep close to my heart. We had so many good times- all of us- camping, at school, after school, in college, holidays, between travels. I wish I could be there for the memorial...Godspeed to you all. I miss Carey and my deepest sympathy for his family.

Layne Eyre

November 22, 2006

Carey we will miss your smile and wonderful personality! We will remember you and the impact you have had on so many lives forever. Thanks for letting us be a part of your mortal journey here on earth. Love always your Uncle Layne

Patti Monson

November 22, 2006

Carey, a breath of fresh air, a laugh and a smile!!! What a beautiful young man. What a loss to a beautiful family and loyal and loving friends. Jon and I send our love and hugs of comfort. "Til we meet again."

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