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Stephen Terry Obituary
Dr. Stephen Robert Terry, beloved son, husband, father, grandfather, physician, pilot and friend-to-all, passed away suddenly while biking through the beautiful tulips of Holland with the love of his life, Valerie, on April 23, 2018.
Born August 7, 1950, in Washington, D.C. to Robert Henry and Barbara Burgener Terry, Steve was the oldest of 4 children and seemed to hit the ground running! He was born with a brilliant mind and love for life and adventure. At an early age Steve developed a love for aviation by flying remote control airplanes with his dad. He continued by obtaining his pilot's license on his 17th birthday and later owned his own airplane. Steve enjoyed this hobby which allowed for family visits and adventures and helped transport those in need of medical care by volunteering with Angel Flight. Whether he was in control of an airplane, a boat, or in labor and delivery, everyone felt safe when Steve was at the helm.
After moving to Utah and graduating from Ogden High School in 1968, Steve found himself on the campus of CSU in Cedar City, UT. It was there in front of Old Main that Valerie and Steve's eyes first met, and it was love at first sight. With a Valentine's Day proposal followed by marriage on September 10, 1970, their love and devotion for each other has become an example to emulate. Steve and Valerie welcomed four living children and one stillborn son into their family. All of these milestones happened while Steve graduated Magna Cum Laude and completed his M.D. and his residency training at the University of Utah.
Upon completing his residency, Steve and Dr. Richard Irion started Cottonwood OB/GYN in July 1981. Over 17,000 babies later, Steve has lovingly cared for, cried with, and cheered on mothers of these special spirits as they entered the world fresh from the arms of our Heavenly Father. While providing the highest quality of care, Steve left a lasting impression on those in his charge. Toward the end of his career, he cared for and delivered countless grandchildren of many of his original patients. He received the Excellence in Medicine and Patient Care and Highest Patient Review award of any physician at Intermountain Medical Center. Dr. T was loved by all. He sat on many boards, but no responsibility was as important to him as being the patriarch of the Terry Family.
As an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Steve served faithfully in many church callings. He especially enjoyed being Bishop of the Holladay Singles Ward and had a real love for the youth of the church. In this capacity, Steve would often teach life's lessons flying at 15,000 feet or while pulling water skiers behind his boat at a local lake. Steve was passionate about life's adventures, which he navigated with Valerie as his loving and equal co-pilot.
Through the years, Steve and Val have welcomed 14 beautiful grandchildren into their hearts and family. As busy as he was in his profession, he always made time for his grandkids at life's most important times. Steve was a teacher in all things. His grandchildren will be forever grateful for the life lessons he taught while sharing his many hobbies. He cherished his family time and was anxious to retire and spend more time with Val, his children and grandchildren. His legacy will live on through them.
We will cherish the nicknames he gave us, his many jokes, and his big, booming, take-charge voice and fun demeanor. He used his gift of love and caring for people along with using his priesthood when necessary. He was the calm to life's challenging storms. He was not one who required much sleep. Steve seemed to know that he needed to enjoy every waking moment and to maximize his time on earth. He truly was a joyful person and his presence will be sorely missed. We take faith and comfort in our knowledge that we will be together again one day and that he will stay busy getting things in order to prepare for that coming day. We know that neither he nor the Lord will leave us comfortless.
We thank you for the outpouring of love and support. You've shared beautiful personal stories describing how Steve has affected and influenced your lives. These stories will be compiled into a memoir for his posterity. Steve Terry, you have left your mark on this world and in our hearts. We are endeared to you for eternity!
Steve is survived by his wife and eternal co-pilot, Valerie; children, Brett (Sylvia), Bremerton, WA; Greg (Holly), Draper, UT; Brandon (Kellie), Murray, UT; Stephanie Strasser (Paul), Holladay, UT, and Grandchildren; Ryan, Mathew, Benjamin, Zachary; Gavin, Scarlett, Bode, Avery; Allison, Cole, Blake; Adrienne, Emily, and Brooke.
Funeral services will be held Saturday, May 5th at 11am with a viewing prior from 9:00 - 10:30am at the Holladay Stake Center 4568 S Holladay Blvd. A viewing will also be held Friday May, 4th from 6:00-8:00pm at the same location.
Interment will be held at Larkin Sunset Gardens 1950 E Dimple Dell Road 10600 S
We send our love and appreciation to the legion of angels around the world that cared for Steve and helped to get him home. You are a part of our hearts forever.
In lieu of flowers please send donations in memory of Steve Terry to The Heart Center at Primary Children's Hospital. "In Memory of Dr. Steve Terry" Primary Children's Hospital P.O. Box 58249 SLC, UT, 84158 or by visiting give.intermountainfoundation.org/primary-childrens-hospital
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Memories and Condolences
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Ann Wilson
August 7, 2022
So very sad to see Dr. Terry has passed on, was so young!!!! He delivered my 3 children...the first time I met him I told him I expected him to be the doctor to deliver my children and not other doctors and he promised me he would! He was skiing when I went into labor to have my first and I told the nurses that I want Dr. Terry and that he promised me. Dr. Terry showed up and I was very happy to see him. His kindness, professionalism and compassion for his patients will never be forgotten, May God Bless his wife & family, Dr. Terry will always be remembered, rest in peace and may we see each other again, Ann Wilson and family
Natalie Ferguson
February 14, 2022
I'm am saddened to hear Dr. Terry passed. I didn't know until today. My sincerest condolences to his wife, Valerie, children and grandchildren. Dr. Terry assisted Dr. Labrum on 2 of my children and Dr. Terry delivered my last baby (1999). What an amazing man with an amazing soul who lived an amazing life. God Bless you Dr. Terry and may you rest in peace.
Much Love~
Natalie Ferguson
Jana McMichael
October 15, 2019
With sadness I found out today that Dr. Terry had passed away. He was such a wonderful, knowledgeable, caring doctor. He was our doctor for three of our children. He delivered our son and later two daughters (twins). When our daughter grew up, he delivered our grandson. Heaven has gained a wonderful man. We will miss him and are indebted to him for his care. Thank you Dr. Terry!
MaryAnn Ferrin
April 29, 2019
Dear Valerie, I think of you and pray you are doing okay. I loved our time together as young couples. I remember you and Steve fondly. Much love, MaryAnn Ferrin
Christy Ramos
April 11, 2019
I did not know till now Dr. Terry had passed. He delivered two of my children and will forever be in our hearts . R.I.P
Debbie Bender
May 22, 2018
Dear Terry Family, I'm not sure I can say anything you haven't already been blessed with hearing. I've always had a place in my heart reserved for Dr. Terry. Truly, anyone who met him was instantly his friend. As a doctor and especially as an OB/GYN, he was the epitome of kindness and compassion. Thank you for sharing this beloved man with families around the state. God bless you.
my kids when they were little
Carla Herrera
May 21, 2018
So sorry to hear of Dr. Terry's passing..in fact when I heard it I couldn't believe it...I had just heard about his retirement not long before that...Dr. Terry was amazing and always made me feel comfortable when I came to see him. He delivered my 3 children and all of my deliveries went well. I was very blessed and I feel blessed to have known him. Prayers for peace and comfort for your family. May you also get comfort from your loving memories. Thank you Dr. Terry! You will be missed.
May 18, 2018
Dr. Terry has blessed by life with four beautful children. He was such a rare gift as a physician and he'll deeply be missed. Thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and family. May you feel him in every moment of need. Daphne Quist
May 16, 2018
Dr. Terry was a part of our family. A trusted, kind friend and doctor. He delivered 4 of my children and then some of my grandchildren. I was blessed to know him. Deanne Wilde
Lisa
May 13, 2018
Dr Terry was the sweetest, most kind and caring man ever. I never felt unimportant to him. He always took as much time with me when I was in his office. Answering every silly, stupid question I had. Dr Terry has a piece of my heart and always will. Dr Terry delivered 3 of my 4 children and 5 of my 7 grandchildren. The world definitely lost a mighty man on April 23. Thank you Dr Terry for all you did. I love you.
Debbie Hafer
May 13, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Terry was an amazing doctor and my youngest son is here today because of Dr. Terry. After 2 miscarriages I switched to Dr. Terry. My next pregnancy ended up in another miscarriage of twins losing one at 12 weeks and the other at 20. When I went on my 20 week visit, Dr. Terry didn't hear the heart beat and with great sensitivity he did an ultrasound that showed I had lost that one too. He was so kind and loving and understanding as I needed to deliver. He knew how it felt only worse has I was only 20 weeks. I became pregnant again, with twins. At 13 weeks I was showing the same signs and Dr. Terri said, "this is happening dayjavue" and started me with heparin shots 2 x a day and sent me to high risk at LDS. I saw Dr. Terry every other week and LDS hospital every other. Dr. Terry was cautious throughout my whole pregnancy. Towards the end I was receiving non-stress tests 3 times a week. On one appointment he said we need to get this baby out. You've come to far and I can deliver at 37 weeks, which was a Sunday. I told him he could wait until Monday and he said, I don't want to loose this baby and we can't wait. He started me on potassium to begin labor, warning me I showed no signs and would most likely end up with a c-section. The nurse said, "He's giving you every chance to have this on your own." A few hours later I delivered a healthy, little boy, without a c-section and cried so hard that he was hear on my stomach. Dr. Terry understood my emotions. Five year later I saw Dr. Terry at Macy's and he said, "how's my miracle baby?" Dr. Terry had remembered. I'm just one patient but he knew me and remembered.
Dr. Terry became my oldest son's bishop of the singles ward. He then became daughter-in-laws doctor. When it came time to deliver, Dr. Terry knew my son was leaving for medical school in about 2 weeks and he had my son asist in the delivery. My son, Jason, said, "he's slippery". Dr. Terry said, "I'm right here, you won't drop him". It was a highlight for my son to deliver his first-born.
Dr. Terry had great compassion. He was so sensitive and understanding and caring. You truly felt like his most important patient. Always so cheerful and happy. Because of Dr. Terry and the Lord, I have my last son, a miracle baby who is now 15. I only wish Dr. Terry had been my doctor for all 6 of my children. He will be greatly missed. My sympathy to you and your family. I'm grateful we believe in eternal families and that one glorious day when you will all be reunited as a family.
Sincerely,
Debbie Hafer
Cheryl Evans
May 9, 2018
I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful doctor who was so supportive to our family and helped us through loss and joy. I will forever be grateful for him and for Cyndee who worked with him so closely for years to help bring our family three of the greatest gifts. I felt blessed for the interactions I had with him and his way of sharing his own messages of life to help me through difficult times. He helped many. As I have read the great tributes to and about him, he truly embodied so much to so many people. May his family find comfort and peace in their memories and from the impact he has had on so many.
What a wonderful doctor!
Laurine Mefford
May 9, 2018
Suzanne Wills
May 7, 2018
Dear Valerie and family,
I am so sad to hear the news of Bro. Terry moving on and "graduating" so soon. My heart breaks for you as I know you looked forward to retirement years together. Valerie, you have always been an example to me over the years. You shared your pool with kids in the neighborhood to learn to swim. You shared your home with all for Primary and YW gatherings. And you shared a great husband with many newborns as an accomplished OB/GYN.
I hope that as we attempt in our simple, meager way to share our love and respect for you and Stephen, you will feel the most sublime comfort of Heaven, from where those beautiful newborns came.
Annette B
May 7, 2018
Dear Terry Family,
I just cant quit thinking about you. I cant imagine how heart broken you must all be at the sudden loss of such a great man. My heart aches as well, Dr. Terry was the greatest and most Christlike man I have ever met!
I began going to see Dr. T. in 1982 when I was 18 years old. He has delivered all 5 of my babies and always made sure he was there for those deliveries. Like many who have posted, I always felt like I was his most important patient. What an amazing gift he had with his patients.
After 38 years I am so grateful for his tender loving care, and for being there to bring my babies into this world, which was the five very most sacred events in my life.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing him with all of us! I pray for you all and hope that Heaven holds you tight during this time without him. Thank you for your sacrifice! All my love to you!
Joep Boom
May 7, 2018
We have never met in person, but I feel a kinship as I spoke with some of your children recently. They love you so very much. Your passion for life and service to others, and your love of airplanes and flying certainly stuck a chord with me too. May the vibrant colors of the Tulips of my country forever remind your family and friends of your love, devotion, example, and Christ-like attributes. I testify that, like a Tulip, you will one day come forth from the earth, and bloom in the flower fields of eternity. I pray that all those you love, and that love you, will find comfort and strength in this.
Cynthia Murray
May 7, 2018
I dearly loved Dr. Terry for his kindness, compassion, and joy as a brilliant doctor and caring friend. I struggled with infertility for several years before I finally became pregnant with my first daughter. The doctor I was originally seeing was so uncaring and doubtful of my pregnancy going well that I feared seeing him. Luckily, my insurance changed and I went to Dr. Terry. He was so personal and optimistic. Though he'd heard a baby's heartbeat thousands of times, he still was so excited to listen to my little daughter, closing his eyes and saying that it sounded beautiful. Through the worries and woes of pregnancy, he was always reassuring, and I knew we were in good hands even up to the minute when I had an emergency c-section. I loved Dr. Terry's insights, his experience, his obvious care, his enthusiasm, and especially his humor. He will forever be remembered in my family as the loving man who brought my daughter from God's arms, to his, to ours. Thank you, Dr. Terry for the amazing life and legacy you leave behind.
Tracey Condie
May 6, 2018
My heart aches at this news. He was an amazing doctor, delivering 3 out of 4 of my babies. He even helped give me the idea to name one of my twin girls Hailey. Heaven truly gained an amazing man!!❤
Sue Whitney
May 6, 2018
Steve, You became such a good friend to Bill and I. For the delivery of my son and all the years of care and concern for my health, I can only say thank you and farewell good friend. The world just won't be the same. Speaking of nicknames, Dr. Terry always called me "Sues". I'll miss that.
Shannon Maynard
May 5, 2018
Dr. Terry was an amazing man. I'm so glad I was able to know him for 11 years. He was always one of my biggest supporters through good times and bad. He helped me so much through my infertility issues over the years. He was so happy and excited for me when I got pregnant, and grieved with me when I miscarried on one pregnancy. More recently he was a huge support during a very difficult separation/divorce throughout my last pregnancy in 2017. He would listen and feel my pain and then he'd always make me smile or laugh before leaving my appointments. He included my older daughter in all my pregnancy checkups and had her measure and check the heartbeat with him every time. He made sure that she was very involved and made her feel excited and happy while we were struggling with our new life situation. That was really fun and special for a 7.5 years old to do with her unborn sister! I will forever be grateful to him for taking care of me and both my girls. He also made sure he could be there to deliver both of them. He helped me cut my youngest daughters cord and made sure that I had important time alone with just me and both my girls after my delivery since we were now a new family of 3. He was an awesome doctor, but more importantly he was a friend that I loved and will greatly miss. P.S. On a funnier note, something that he did during my last pregnancy was that when I'd come in for checkups during very stressful weeks throughout my separation/divorce he actually made up funny nicknames for my ex and the other woman so that if they were involved with my high stress levels that week that I didn't have to say their names when telling him what specifically was contributing to my higher stress levels. Well, one of those nicknames stuck when I told my family and close friends and it is still used to this day!! It was a silly little thing he did, but I don't know if he realized that it helped a lot for me to find humor in those funny nicknames during a very difficult situation. I still smile when hearing them and will always be forever grateful for his genuine care, kindness, and friendship.
Suzanne
May 5, 2018
Dr. Terry delivered three of my five children, back in the nineties. My second, had complications early on and he immediately ordered the appropriate tests and handled the situation before he had even met me as a patient. His booming, but so kind demeanor was so encouraging, and he went on to deliver two more. My insurance changed before I had my last, or I would have stayed with him. I have no doubt the complications of that delivery and aftermath would have gone much smoother if he had been at the helm. Cyndi was so kind and considerate also! They made a fantastic team! To his family, thank you so much for sharing him. His impact on several generations of Utahns cannot be overstated.
Lindsey Hatch
May 5, 2018
Dr Terry had a big impact at a very pivotal time of my life. My husband, Chris, and I lost our first child, a still-born at 20 weeks. Dr Terry was gone when we received the news but Dr Irion handled the situation perfectly. I was admitted to the hospital 2 days later to give birth. They induced me and I knew it would take a while. That night about 10pm Dr Terry walked in to my hospital room straight from the plane with a Hawaiian shirt on and scootched me over to sit by me on my bed. He grabbed my hand and said Oh, Linds, I'm so sorry. He went on to tell me about what the next few days would entail and then he shared his sweet story about his still-born baby. We were both in tears as I asked about if this baby would be sealed to me and be mine forever. He shared doctrine about the topic and then his testimony that things would end up the way they are supposed to. I am so grateful for that experience and the peace it gave me over the next aweful weeks. Dr Terry's advice to me was to try again for a baby right away and I did. Within 3 months I was pregnant again. I didn't understand that advice until during that preganacy when I was terrified the whole time that I was lose this baby too. He was so patient with me and let me come in every week to check for a heartbeat. When our daughter was 37 weeks, Dr Terry said She's made it this far. She's healthy. Let's get her out. and induced me 18 days early. Since then he delivered 3 more heathy babies for me! My husband and I are so greatful to have had Dr Terry in our lives and to have known such a great man.
MaryAnn Ferrin
May 5, 2018
Dear Valerie,I am sorry Steve had to leave you so soon. I will always remember our young days at married student housing. I will cherish those memories. May you be blessed with the comfort of your loved ones. I consider myself one. Much love,MaryAnn Morley Ferrin
Thomas Boud, MD
May 4, 2018
Steve was a wonderful example, teacher, and dear friend. He has cared for my wife and 4 daughters for many years. 20 years ago he was managing my wife's pregnancy when complications developed and we nearly lost the child. We were sure if the baby lived he would be severely compromised. He asked me to assist in that unexpected C/S of my youngest son and I was there as he saved his life. That son is now fluent in Chinese and serving his mission in Singapore. Steve has touched so many lives and his service will continue to be felt for many years to come. We all miss him dearly. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Susan Nelson
May 4, 2018
Val and Family,
I want to thank you for sharing some of your time with your husband and father with me. I was very fortunate to work with him as a nurse in L&D at CWH. Dr Terry always made a difficult day easier. He was a very caring doctor that cared about the staff he worked with but more importantly he loved his patients. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. ❤❤❤
Gary and Barb Reynolds
May 4, 2018
To Val and the wonderful Terry family. We send our love and deepest sympathies to all of you at this difficult time of your amazing husband, Dad and grandfathers passing. We love you and we feel blessed to have had the privilege of being a small part of the fun and adventure that only happens when you travel and boat with the Terry family. We loved your Dad. He was always an example of loving life and his family.
Our love and deepest Sympathies ,
Gary and Barb Reynolds
Laura Horrocks
May 4, 2018
Jolene Wightman
May 4, 2018
If I could say one thing to Dr. Terry, it would be Thank You for treating each of us moms like we were your only patient. Love, prayers and respect to the Terry family, and to his perfect assistant, Cyndee.
Jessica Anderson
May 4, 2018
My mother in law, Donna Anderson insisted that I go to Dr Terry as my OB over 10 years ago. She adored him and knew that I would be just as happy with him. Donna passed away unexpectedly 5 months ago at the same age of 67. I know that she would have undoubtedly gone to the services and been so sad at the passing of Dr Terry.I love Dr Terry. He delivered all three of my children, as well as helped me through a miscarriage. He was so caring, and I was always so impressed with how much he remembered about me and my family. He always acted like he had all the time in the world to attend to my every need. I loved his positive nature and his ability to remain calm even during the sometimes stressful situations of childbirth. I always felt like he truly listened to me and cared about my opinion. He was such a special guy, and he made the world a better place! I want to express my deepest condolences to the family as they begin the grieving process and try to move on without him. I hope that you will be able to find peace and comfort in the coming days, weeks, and months.Sincerely,Jessica Anderson
May 4, 2018
I was a patient of Dr Irion's for many years and also worked in that office in the early 90's. Dr Terry delivered my first child "Brooke" when Dr Irion wasn't available. He was wonderful. Dr Terry was always so kind and was so fun to work with. Everyone I knew was a patient of his or Cottonwood Ob/Gyn. I Loved his nurse Cyndee and still see her at times. That office has seen sadness through the years but this is a very very hard one. Thoughts and prayers to ALL of Dr Terry's family and the staff of Cottonwood OB
Jan Giauque
May 4, 2018
Dr. Terry will forever have a special place in my heart. He was my doctor as well as my 6 daughters and 2 daughter-in-laws. It was always a pleasure to see his big smile and hear his booming voice. His darling nurse, Cyndee, made the experience even more bearable when you had to get on those darn scales each time. Who in the world loves to go see your ob-gyn??? ALL of Dr. Terry's patients.
Dr. Terry delivered most of my 26 grandchildren. Our experience as a family with Angie's "twins" will always stand out as one with absolute gratitude. Just before Dr. Terry delivered her babies I asked him if he wouldn't mind having a prayer with the doctors he had asked to assist him. His comment was "I have been praying all night!" Dr. Terry was so darling with Jessica and her fertility situation.
All of my girls truly loved this great man. Thank you for sharing him with our family and he will always be in our hearts as one of God's greatest servants.
We hope all of the wonderful messages you receive will give you the greatest of comfort. His legacy will forever live on.
Wendy Cochran
May 4, 2018
I am so saddened for your loss. Dr. Terry was a great man. He delivered my son Nicholas in 1992. He was so positive and heart warming. He will be greatly missed by many. Hold tight to your memories for comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Courtney Reynolds
May 4, 2018
Dr. Terry was a longtime family friend of my in-laws, and made a HUGE impact on me and my husbands life. He fought with us through our infertility battles and made it possible for our baby girl to come to us. After hearing the devastating news that our IUI procedure had little chance of success for conceiving our baby, Dr. Terry gave us the procedure for free... and much to our surprise, it worked. Miracles always surrounded him, and his kindness will never be forgotten!
I am due with our first child in one month, and I will miss Dr. T at my delivery... but I know he will be in the room watching over us and helping our baby through the veil! We love you so much, we feel your support, and we send our love and comfort to your family at this time.
Tiffany Giles
May 3, 2018
Dr. Terry is going to be missed by all who knew him. He delivered all three of my babies and walked me through two miscarriages. When I was in Labor with my first child I had to have an emergency C-section. Before my operation he gave me a blessing. That Blessing saved my life! My heart goes out to the Terry Family he adored his wife and spoke of his family often. My prayers are with you during your difficult time. I pray that heavenly Father will bring you comfort and peace. He was an amazing man and I am so blessed to have had the opportunity to know him.
We love you and send our thoughts and prayers to your family.
Annice Osmond
May 3, 2018
Thank you for being there for the most important moments in my life and for the love you gave me and my family! We will always remember you!
Annice Osmond
May 3, 2018
May 3, 2018
Steve was a friend to be remembered. He helped me take over the Young Single Adult Ward as Bishop. Always positive and fun to visit with. A man that I honor and appreciate his example.
Might heart felt Condolences to Valerie and the rest of the Terry family. Emery Smith
Sharon Adams
May 3, 2018
His love, compassion, non judgemental way will forever remain in my heart. I was a hot mess not making good decisions when I became an unwed mother, Dr Terry loved me right through and helped me face the journey I was about to face and to return to full activity in the church. Thank you Dr Terry, you will never be forgotten
Stacie Purser
May 3, 2018
To the Terry Family: Thank you for sharing your dad with us! I remember going in for my mission physical. When I gave him my paper work for him to sign and fill out he said, "This is for a mission? No charge." He also said if I needed anything while on my mission don't hesitate to get a hold of him. He then went on to deliver my boy, girl twins, now 22. My 19 year old daughter and my 12 year old son! I felt like I was his favorite patient but I can read that this is the case with everyone! One word to describe Dr. Terry. Compassionate. You are missed and loved by many!
Jolynn Page
May 3, 2018
Dr. Terry had a way of making you feel like you were the most important person. Every person I talk with feels the same way as I do, that he genuinely cared, spent time talking with you, and knew your name. I remember going to appointments with my mom when she was pregnant with my younger siblings and "helping" measure or listen to heartbeats, and my own children have the same memories. He never rushed us! When we found out my mom was having my third brother, and the whole office saw me upset and crying he was there to tell me how special it would be to be the only girl. At times I didn't have insurance that covered IMC and he heavily discounted his rates for us, as well as giving us free appointments at other times. He said, "we go way back, I will be there to deliver your babies!" I guess that is very true since he delivered me, and he came in on two of his days off to deliver two of my babies. He had a way of heavily influencing which name we picked... we always picked his favorite, haha... and he would joke with us when we told him we'd name our baby Prudence, remembering from appointment to appointment to measure "baby Prudence." He remembered details like no one I've ever seen, even making sure I'd had a chocolate shake when he checked on me after my first baby was born because I'd had gestational diabetes and it was our running joke that he'd bring me a shake in the delivery room. I'll never forget him holding my hand when I had a miscarriage and taking the time to make sure I was ok. I could go on and on, as many could, which tells you what an amazing doctor and person he was. I am grateful he was a part of my life and he will be dearly missed.
May 3, 2018
We are so sorry about the passing of Dr. Terry. He was a wonderful physician and colleague. He will be greatly missed.
-The MFM MDs at IMC
Kristine Yorgason
May 3, 2018
It has been a privilege and a blessing to know this great man! I haven't talked to him in 30 years but I still remember vividly his caring, concern, friendly manner and professional talents. The only Dr. I know of that would come to a patients home to make sure I was ok after difficult complications.
I will be forever grateful for this dear man.
Blessings and peace to your beautiful family!
Melissa Christensen
May 3, 2018
So sorry to hear of Dr Terry's passing. He was such a great doctor and person to work for! My deepest sympathies to Val and family!
Anna White
May 3, 2018
Mrs Terry and family , I was saddened to hear of Dr Terry's passing and have kept you all in my Prayers. I worked with him at Cottonwood in the 70's and in L&D, when he started his practice. I am sad that we have lost a Dr with such compassion and caring for all that he took care of and worked with over the years. Am unable to come to his Celebration but know that you all will be in my Thoughts and Prayers in the coming days. May God Bless you and keep you all in His Loving arms.
Kristin Nelson
May 3, 2018
Words can't begin to express my sadness due to the passing of Dr. Terry. He was such an incredible man!! He was a kind, patient, loving and insightful man. I so appreciated the time he took with me every time I would come to see him at his office. I knew I could come with my list of questions regarding my pregnancies and he would patiently and kindly answer every single one. He delivered all 3 of my children and only one of the 3 he was actually the on call doctor. He made the effort to come in to the hospital in the middle of the night to deliver my babies even when he wasn't on call. His attention to detail and overwhelming love for his patients can not be repeated by anyone. I will greatly miss Dr. Terry!! My thoughts are with his family at this difficult time and I will continue to keep them in my prayers.
Monique Shelby
May 3, 2018
The first time I met Dr. Terry for my first doctors appointment, I think him and my husband talked more about RC airplanes than anything else :) Dr. Terry was the sweetest man and will be greatly missed. We love you Dr. Terry <3
Clegg
May 3, 2018
I'm so saddened to hear of Dr. Terry's passing. He delivered 2 of my children. He is definitely a one of a kind doctor he made every visit so relaxed and whenever there was a problem and Dr. Terry said don't worry it will be fine I knew then it was truly going to be fine. He also made my daughter feel special and told her what a great big sister she would be ,and even let her help him to check on our baby which made her feel important. He always had a smile on his face and you could tell he loved his family so much as he would always tell stories of his grandchildren. You will be missed Dr. Terry ,thoughts and prayers to your family.
Kelley Kehl
May 3, 2018
I was so saddened by the loss of such a wonderful man. Dr. Terry had an amazing gift to make you feel like his one and only patient. He genuinely cared and was such an amazing listening ear when things didn't go as planned. He helped me through 3 miscarriages and the unexpected surprise of my son born with Down Syndrome. He was not only a wonderful and trusted doctor, but a dear friend. He will be sorely missed. Much love to his darling wife Valerie and to the rest of his family. Heaven gained a true angel.
Karen Manning
May 3, 2018
Valerie,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. May you feel the comfort and love of Steve. You are being watched over and loved by so many. Heavenly Father is aware and there for you at all times. I hope you find that peace and acceptance that comes, slowly, but it does come. Love you.
Gina Adduci
May 3, 2018
Dear Val,
What a beautifully and lovingly written obituary and tribute. I think of you (and Greg and Brandon and Steve) every day since that day we met in Holland. I can tell by all of the amazing comments here what a special, unique and extraordinary man Steve is. I wish you continued strength and to be surrounded by the uplifting love of your friends and family. Sending big hugs in your direction. Gina
Our McMullin boys
May 2, 2018
We have two beautiful little boys we watch grow each day into wonderful young men because of Dr Terry bringing them into this world via emergency C-section. He is appreciated and loved beyond measure. We pray God heals your broken hearts and comforts you in this sad hour. All our love. Brock and Jen McMullin
Madelynne Olson
May 2, 2018
I first met Dr Terry working at Cottonwood Hospital and then when he helped delivered both of my children with Dr Irion. He was a very special person who cared very much for those around him. Thank you Dr Terry.
Andrew Deifel
May 2, 2018
There will never be another Stephen Terry. Dr Terry had the amazing gift of making you feel like you were always the most important person in the room. He was gentle, kind, funny, patient and a great teacher. You just wanted to be in his presence. Getting to know him through Greg was a tremendous blessing personally and for my family as he delivered all of my girls. But I also knew him outside of his work and as great as he was at his profession, he was an even better human being. He lifted us all up and helped me personally through some tough times. We always wanted to hang out with Steve and Val. They are two of the most caring people I have ever met and you can't think of one without thinking of the other. We love you, Val. My heart is with you and Greg and all of your family members. I know Steve is busy on the other side starting a new adventure. Steve, I love you and miss you. You raised an amazing family. Thank you for your wonderful example. Until we meet again.
Jennifer Treglown
May 2, 2018
Dr. Terry was a great person to calm fears and never laugh at the many questions I had. He helped with the pregnancy of our first child and then during the delivery he was with his mother-in-law who was passing on from this life. The morning after the birth of my son, Dr. Terry came to our room and we had a special conversation about the purpose of life and how one life can end and another begin. He told us how thin the veil is and how close we are with the spirit world. He was planning on helping us with our second labor and delivery who is going to be born in June. The veil is thin and the Lord definitely has a purpose for him as He does for each of us.
I send my love and prayers to the family and entire work family at Cottonwood OBGYN, especially Cyndee.
tami condron
May 2, 2018
Absolutely Loved Dr.Terry...he delivered both of my 2 children when we lived there in Murray and was wonderful to me....please know that I will keep his family in my prayers and thought ..he will be missed and very very much remembered by me !!!!!
Paulina Gudgell
May 2, 2018
Dr. Terry delivered all of our children (3 boys and 1 girl). We had such a special bond over the past 15 years; he's held my hand through many heartbreaking events in my obstetrical life. He's one of the kindest, genuine and truly caring human beings I've ever met. He's always made me feel at ease no matter the circumstances. He told me last month that he was going to retire in July and I was very happy that he would get to spend more time with his loved ones. He had so many kind words to say about my family that he made me cry then. Now, I can't even describe how heartbroken I feel. Dr Terry, you will never be forgotten! May your loved ones find love and peace during the difficult times, while surrounded by loving family and friends. You are forever in our hearts.
Love,
Paulina and Dave Gudgell and our 4 little miracles (thanks to you!)
Paulina Gudgell
May 2, 2018
Dr. Terry delivered all of our children (3 boys and 1 girl). I credit him for having our girl and I'm forever grateful. We were "done" after having 3 boys but after one conversation with him, he told me that if we wanted to try again, he was convinced it would be a girl (and it was!). It must have been some kind of divine intervention, but I always knew I could trust him. We had such a special bond over the past 15 years; he's held my hand through many heartbreaking events in my obstetrical life. He's one of the kindest, genuine and truly caring human beings I've ever met. He's always made me feel at ease no matter the circumstances. He told me last month that he was going to retire in July and I was so happy that he was about to enjoy even more time with his loved ones. He had so many kind words to say about my family that he made me cry then. Now, I can't even describe how heartbroken I feel. Dr Terry, you will never be forgotten! And may your family find love and peace through the difficult times, being surrounded by such amazing loved one.
Love,
Paulina and Dave Gudgell and all 4 of our little miracles.
Delivered By Dr Terry
Angelique Chantale Davis Farnes
May 2, 2018
Dr Terry was the greatest man I have even know. I want to be more like him. I will forever be grateful for him safely delivering my Maverick Trenton Farnes on 4.22.17. I miss Dr Terry so much. The world needs more people like Steve Terry.
Patrice Barlow
May 2, 2018
Words just can't express how saddened I was and am at hearing of Dr. Terry's passing! I am so heartbroken for his family! Love and prayers go out to you! I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye so soon! Dr. Terry delivered all 4 of my living babies and helped us through a late term miscarriage. He comforted us through that very difficult time. He saved my life after an infection with my last baby. His quick reaction and skill as a doctor allowed me to continue here on earth. Something that will always stick with me was his genuine concern for me as a person, not just a patient. After each exam, he would sit back, cross his legs, and ask me if I had any questions. Like I was the only patient he had. He listened and I never felt rushed. He was truly a great man that was given an amazing ability and skill to bless lives. A true gift from God! He will be sorely missed by all who were touched by him! I want to say a big, huge THANK YOU to his family, especially his wife, for your sacrifice so he could bless all those he worked with and helped throughout his career! Love and Prayers! Till we meet again...
Angelique Chantale Davis Farnes
May 2, 2018
Maverick Trenton Farnes by The Dr Terry
Angelique Chantale Davis Farnes
May 2, 2018
Guy Wadsworth
May 2, 2018
I am saddened by the news of Steve's passing. He not only delivered all my children, but all my grandchildren and when do you find doctors these days who have cared for your family for 35 years? Genuinely a good, actually GREAT guy that thousands will miss. Congratulations on a life well lived.
All my best to Valarie and your family in this time of loss.
Kristi Parker
May 2, 2018
This news makes me so sad! He was my doctor for all three of my kids. Helped me get pregnant after 5 long years with My son. I was one of his didelphys patients. (He was the one that found out my issues. I had been to several doctors and my first visit toHim, he knew immediately what I had.) We had to do insemination and would come up on Sunday and any other day we needed to go in. After 33 weeks of being pregnant my body decided it was done. (I had HELP syndrome, which basically means all your organs start shutting down) they had to take me by ambulance to LDS hospital because cottonwood at the time didn't have a NICU, he followed us up there and delivered my son by C-section. Even came up after to Check up on me. My daughter was born after my water broke on Christmas Eve. He was at family parties and stopped what he was doing to come deliver my sweet daughter. My third was an easy scheduled C-section. But he was always there, always so sweet and kind. We ran into him several times around town and he always knew us by name and made us feel like we were long time friends. He was the BEST doctor and man! He will be greatly missed. Heaven has gained a truly amazing man! I know he answered many of my prayers and I'm thankful for his love and dedication to the church.
Kym Bigler
May 2, 2018
Dear Terry family,
I was heartbroken to hear of Dr. Terry's passing. I have enjoyed getting to work alongside and associate with him while working as a postpartum nurse at IMC. All those many lives he touched for good is truely a testimony of his kindness, love and compassion for others that now lives on in his posterity. May God and his choicest angels watch over you during this difficult time ahead.
Kristy Huber
May 2, 2018
Dear Terry Family,
As a doula of 23 years I had numerous opportunities to work with Dr. T. He always cared for my clients and his patients in a way that made them feel heard and valued. He was professional in every way and kind to me as a doula and team member of the birth. He will be missed but oh how I know the Lord already has him busy!
May you all be surrounded by angels both seen and unseen that will lift you and carry you when times get rough.
Know you are being prayed for at this tender time. God Bless each of you!
Warmly,
Kristy Huber
Corinne Perrine
May 2, 2018
Thank you for being there for me for my three babies. I felt safe and supported with you. You will be sorely missed by all.
Winn & Bill Stay
May 2, 2018
Valerie,
We want to express our sincere condolences to you and your family, We will always be thankful for our brief acquaintance as neighbors.
Winn & Bill Stay
Washington, Utah
Pamela Clark RN
May 2, 2018
Dr Terry, Cyndee and our first live birth!
Tawnya Brimhall
May 2, 2018
Terry Family,
Thank you, thank you for any sacrifice of time you gave so that this amazing, gentle giant could be with people like me in our most trying, most beautiful and most miraculous moments!! Valerie, thank you also for the beautiful bibs that you made for our stillborn angel, Anthony and our 3 miracle children we now have here with us!
To Dr Terry, I'm just going to copy and paste what I wrote when I heard the news......
This man!! Dr Terry. What can I say? How do you honor someone who never gave up hope and made you feel so important? Through all our infertility trials, the endometriosis, PCOS, cancer, 4 miscarriages, our little still born angel, and our 3 amazing littles that he delivered into this world, this man held our hands, prayed with us, cried with us and helped us feel strong and positive through it all! Such kindness and gentleness. I am so heartbroken that he is no longer in this world. So sad for his amazing family (at home and the office) that has to continue this journey without him. But so grateful that they (and we) will be able to see him again. Thank you Dr Terry. I hope you know how many lives you made better just by being you. I love you and am going to miss you!
I will always be so grateful for your genuine care & concern for me and my four babies you helped bring into this world. You have touched so many live
Erin Rupp
May 2, 2018
Kristy Rhoades
May 2, 2018
Dr. Terry meant the world to our family. My dad worked with Dr. Terry as an OR Tech at Cottonwood Hospital. My mom worked as an OB Nurse with him. But He delivered numerous babies in our family, including Myself, 2 of my siblings, several of my nieces and nephews, cousins and their babies, friends and their babies. He was at every delivery and told my cute Sister in law who is due May 30th that he would not retire until she delivered. He always made each delivery special and spent lots of time with us making us feel like the only patients he had. He reminisced with my dad at each grandchild's delivery.
He helped me through some rough years with infertility and my husband and I went there for artificial insemination, he came in on a Saturday to do it for us. He let us go in the back with him and taught us about the process. He was very caring and I will forever be thankful to him.
He was the OB for all of the Women in our family and we will all miss him.
Kara
May 2, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss Val + family. There was no better man. Wonderfully written obituary. Thank you for sharing a great man with so many people!! I love dr. Terry
Parker Bosserman
May 2, 2018
Just 3 short weeks ago you delivered my sweet baby Noel by emergency C-section saving her life with your quick actions. I will be forever grateful for you. You never laughed at the millions of questions I had and you held my hand when I cried to you countless times during a complicated twin pregnancy 2 years ago. You always made me feel safe. I can't thank you enough for your and your families sacrifices in helping you become the best OBGYN there was. You will be extremely missed.
Carol Gandy
May 2, 2018
I so enjoyed knowing Dr Terry clear back from when he was a resident back in the late 70's- knew him as a coworker, my own doctor and friend. Met a lot of his sweet family and I share in your tremendous sorrow and pain. I so wish he could have enjoyed his well deserved rest and retirement. I loved working with him and his always positive spirit He was one of a kind and will be sorely missed I wish for peace and comfort for all
Paul and Deanna Young
May 2, 2018
For a person to be thought of, in any facet of life, as highly as Dr. Terry was in all ways is something unique and wonderful.
We consider ourselves blessed to have known him and feel grateful that our children were welcomed into mortality by his loving hands.
Godspeed and many thanks to Stephen Terry
Cindy Mcqueen
May 2, 2018
Dr. Terry did an emergency delivery for me 37 years ago. I am very grateful he was the one on call. He saved my life and my sons. A truly remarkable Doctor. My prayers and sympathy to your family.
Morris Matthews
May 2, 2018
Val,
Patsy and I were stunned when we got the news. We are in Guatemala on a medical mission and won't be able to come to the funeral. I went to med school with him and Rich and worked with them my whole career. I'm glad Mike Farley was there to start CPR, so you don't have to wonder "what if someone had found him sooner, or could have given him better care". He was clearly being called to another assignment. Still, it's hard to suddenly be alone, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Linsey Jackson
May 1, 2018
Dr Terry. You will be sorely missed! Just a short 5 weeks ago you cared for me and my newborn daughter at the end of our stay. You held her and told her she was beautiful and strong. Thank you for your kind words, your encouragement that I can handle it and your contagious happy, smiling face! You brought joy to a lot of people that is very clear. Be near your family always!
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