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Clem Spalding Obituary
Clem Hill Spalding, Sr., beloved husband of Emma R. Spalding and cherished father of his eight children, went to join his Savior, Jesus Christ, on June 17, 2012. He was born on February 24, 1924, in Lebanon, Kentucky, to Wallace Hugh and Nell Hill Spalding, descendants of the founding Catholic families of Marion County, KY. Dad was a proud graduate of St. Xavier High School in Louisville, Class of '42. He was truly of the greatest generation, joining the U.S. Army during World War II. He fought in Europe and was on a troop ship bound for the Pacific front when the war ended. He came to San Antonio in 1946 and graduated magna cum laude from St. Mary's University in 1948. He met the love of his life, Emma Rivas, in San Antonio and they married in October 1948. Dad was an insurance adjuster in KY and, in 1954, he moved his young family to San Antonio, where he became an insurance underwriter, retiring from USAA in 1986 as Vice-President of Regulatory Affairs. He was active in many professional organizations, serving as Chair of the National Industry Committee on Auto Insurance Plans. He received the Raymond Mauk Leadership Award from the Insurance Council of Texas. Dearest to his heart was service to the Church. He was a founding member of Blessed Sacrament Parish in 1957, and active in the following societies: Legion of Mary, Holy Name, Nocturnal Adoration, Knights of the Altar, St. Rita's Family Guild, St. Vincent de Paul, and Knights of Columbus. Dad was a Scoutmaster and served as president of the Blessed Sacrament PTC, the School Board, and the Parish Council. He was the building chairman for the parish's Family Center, a Eucharistic Minister, and an Oblate Associate. In addition to his beloved wife of 64 years, he is survived by his children Kitty Spalding (Tom Spieczny), Ann Towns (René), Mary Spalding, Judy Spalding, Theresa Spalding-Hoffman (John), Clem Spalding, Jr., Bill Spalding (Katy), and Nell Hernandez (Ernest). He is also survived by seventeen grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. Dad was preceded in death by his infant son Joseph, his sister Nell Newton, and brothers Wally, Pick, and Jack. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to the Oblate School of Theology for seminary tuition, 285 Oblate Drive, San Antonio 78216, or the Alzheimer's Association of San Antonio for research, 7400 Louis Pasteur, Suite 200, 78229. Visitation at 6 p.m., Rosary at 7 p.m., Wednesday, June 20, at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church, 600 Oblate. Mass at 10 a.m., Thursday, June 21, at Blessed Sacrament. Internment at San Fernando Cemetery II.
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June 21, 2012
Dear Emma and Family, My prayers and heartfelt sympathy to you at this time of loss. Clem was truly a man of God who lived for family and for others - always there to assist anyone. I was truly grateful for his wisdom and assistance during my years at Blessed Sacrament during the 1970's. All of you, especially you, dear Emma,are in my prayer.
With loving sympathy,
Sr. Stephana Marbach, Victoria, TX
Michelle Lamourex-Gonyer
June 20, 2012
My dearest Emma and family, May God wrap His arms around you and give you His strength. As we fill our hearts with memories, love,family, courage, sadness,faith, and hope for life we will move forward. Clem was a wonderful, family oriented, loving man. To raise him up to the Lord with great honor and respect! Thank you Clem and Emma for being my God parents, I will always keep my memories close to my heart!
Mitzi Patino Eastman
June 20, 2012
Dear Spaldings one and all, you are in our hearts and in our prayers now and always. What a beautiful legacy Mr. Spalding left us in his family - you are and remain his pride and his joy. As he was, you are each a gift to those who know you. We wish you comfort and heart's ease.
Buz Lamoureux
June 20, 2012
Dear Emma and Family,
Clem was a great man of integrity representing a special generation. I'm sure he is up there in heaven with Bernie and Loretta smiling down on us.
God Bless
Dcn. Frank & Yvonne Martinez
June 20, 2012
Emma, Yvonne and I extend our deepest condolences to you and your family. We have truly lost One of the Greatest from the “Greatest Generation”. Blessed Sacrament has lost a tremendous Icon. Our prayers for you and your family are that the blessings and the words of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you and sustain you in your time of sorrow. Clem will always live in hearts.
Carla Loredo-Casanova
June 20, 2012
May all be comforted by
the wonderful hope:
“And he will wipe away every
tear from their eyes and death
will be no more. Neither
mourning nor outcry nor pain
be anymore. The former things
have passed away”
Laurie Loureux
June 19, 2012
Blessings to the entire Spalding Family, my heart was saddened to hear of the loss of your dear father Clem. The many memories that we have from our younger years are Gods precious seeds that were sown for a time such as this: to cherish and hold in our minds and most importantly in our hearts. Thank you Clem for your loving kindness and being such a beloved true friend to my parents. May God continue to bless your beautiful family. In His Holy Name Laurie A Lamoureux
Vyonne Barloco
June 19, 2012
Our prayers are with you all dear cousins. The childhood memories we shared we keep close in our hearts of family and friendship. May our Lord bless you all.
Larry Lamoureux
June 19, 2012
in memory of Clem, whose friendship of The Lamoureux's is cherished for all time!
Richard Dorsch
June 19, 2012
I first met Clem when he represented USAA at one of the insurance committes I chaired at Insurance Serevices Office. At first I thought he was bit quiet & unassuming. That he was but he knew his insurance & always contributed. Very soon all of us came to respect his views. Not just USAA but the entire industry benefited from his knowledge.
As time went on Clem & I and our spouses became good friends & enjoyed traveling to industry meetings all over the country. Especially in San Antonio. Unfortunately, my wife passed away 9 years ago so our contact drifted apart.
I will never forget his kindness & concern for everyone he meet.
Sincerely,
Richard B. Dorsch
PS: He was very fortunate to have Emma as his spouse.
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