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for Hector Aleman
Minette Aleman
February 7, 2010
NATURE
As a fond mother, when the day is o'er,
Leads by the hand her little child to bed,
Half willing, half reluctant to be led,
And leave his broken playthings on the floor,
Still gazing at them through the open door,
Nor wholly reassured and comforted
By promises of others in their stead,
Which, though more splendid, may not please him more;
So Nature deals with us, and takes away
Our playthings one by one, and by the hand
Leads us to rest so gently, that we go
Scarce knowing if we wish to go or stay,
Being too full of sleep to understand
How far the unknown transcends the what we know.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
February 7, 2010
All my affection, I Love You, Dad!
Your last one, your #7, your baby bear,Janelle Marie Aleman
LauraPatricia
May 14, 2009
Well, here we are May 14, 2009, last year on this date Suzy & I visited Dad's grave. This year, the year daddy would have turned 80 years old I have chosen to honor his memory with a wonderful story that his dear friend Keith Schaber sent to me back in February.
Ode to Hector
With so many fond memories of Hector-Bally's, dinners in Italian restaurants, birthday parties, etc. I hardly know where to begin, perhaps my most poignant recollection concerns the matter of the four tax returns prepared improperly by H & R Block. By chance, I suspected that from what he told me while relaxing in the whirlpool something terribly wrong had happened with regard to his taxes. After reviewing his copies, I filed amended returns for the two years still within the statute of limitations. Hector was skeptical and kept asking me if I really thought the IRS would send him the refunds. I told him to be patient and to have confidence in me. When he called me up to tell me that the two checks had arrived he sounded as happy as a child on Christmas morning. Later, when Block arrogantly brushed us off, we hired a lawyer and bullied and harrassed them until they finally paid him for the two remaining years. It was possibly one of the most exciting episodes of his entire life. Later on in the pool he gave me a serious look and asked, "Keith, Do you think there's anyone else we might be able to sue?"
Perhaps my happiest moments with Hector were when we attended the Missions games. One day we were enroute to the stadium when I suddenly shouted "What the devil are we doing on I-10?" "HMMM, that's a good question!" He replied. We arrived a bit late and later on got into a very long line to buy the 1 dollar hot dogs, (Hector loved them) when we finally got to the counter they had just sold the last hot dog! We were furious AND we missed the ONLY home rum of the game! Going home Hector somehow made a wrong turn and we were driving along some dark highway. Finally, I said, "Hector, now we're on 1604 and I think we're going in the opposite direction!" We finally arrived safe and sound at my house at 12:30 am...an EXCITING but STRESSFUL evening!
Well, he's gone now and I miss him terribly. Sometimes I think I'll dial his number and he'll answer "Hey, Keith", just like always.
Adios, Hector!
Te extrano mucho.
Que en paz descanses!
Tu amigo, Keith
RIP
p.s.: His last words in the hospital to us were: "It's nice to have such good friends as you and Celia"
I'll never forget them
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY...
you, the good friend, the good father, the good grandfather, the good son, the good brother, the good uncle, the good neighbor, the good employee
for all that is good and wonderful
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!
(and thank you so much Keith for the wonderful stories of a wonderful friendship...)
laura patricia!
Suzy Graham
February 4, 2009
The image that comes to my mind when I think of Hector Aleman is that smile/grin that caused his eyes to become slits. There was always so much impishness in it, I wondered what mischief he had been caught doing. He was always so welcoming, he made me feel a part of the family when I visited with Pat (Laura to me). He used a kind of shuffle step that made it appear he was always dancing to some Latin beat only he could hear.
My favorite memories involve New Year's Eve Parties in the 70's at Minnie's and his home on Loma Park. He made menudo that I had to try before I could leave. Menudo is not on my list of favorite foods, but for him I'd try it. Great taste, if I could just pick out the tripe he had so carefully cut into such tiny pieces. But of course, the big event was to go outside about 11:40 pm to watch all the fireworks being shot. It was just incredible, not to mention a bit dangerous because so many folks were out blowing things up. I couldn't leave until at least 1:00 am because the smoke had to clear to be able to drive out of the neighborhood through the obstacle course in the streets of pyrotechnic debris. Then, there Hector was, on the porch, with that smile and a hug to say a quiet goodbye.
May God Bless!
Mary Helen Mansbach
February 2, 2009
I met Hector at St Mary's Church, we were ashers. I also knew him as a neighbor and friend, we would run into each other when we walked in the neighborhood. In his fatherly ways he was concern for my safety when I walked at night and wiping out graffiti. He would say why are you out so late?, and I would say why are you out late?, and he would reply with a laugh. I will always remember his smile. We would have conversations about being Christians and our families, he would always smile when he talked about his children--God Bless!
Rose Gonzales
February 1, 2009
Dear Aleman Family,
Your father will always be very dear to me. I remember him as a kind, soft spoken man. He was witty and his love for his family was evident! When our families got together we always had the best times!
Rose Gonzales
Hector L. Aleman Jr.
January 6, 2009
Today is the first anniversary of Dad's Death: Janet and I have been noticing the return of loss and grief within us. Last night Janet fell down the stairs along with our vacuum cleaner. She was not hurt in the fall however this event stayed with us until we both recollected the fall she had at the airport the morning of Dad's death. We stopped doing our chores and felt the loss that day a year ago. Mimi texted us that She, Suzy and Eisen had visited Dad's gravesite today. With that last note I want to express my sadness and loss for my father. I also am feeling very close to my family, brothers and sisters.
I will always love you, Dad.
Your Son,
Hector Jr.
Minette Aleman
December 12, 2008
Hello to All that knew my Dad,
Boy, the fond memories are still so fresh for us all, especially at this time of year. Its hard --But we can
be comforted and given Peace in
knowing that we cherish those precious moments we remember.
And that's the good times...
Dad often would find some very, very wisely written words and he
would tell me to share this wisdom with my sisters Pat and 'Shushie' and whoever else would
read the info... So here is one of
those favorites of his:
Title: The Man in the Glass!! Author Unknown
"When you get what you want in
your struggle for self...
And the world makes you king for a day, Just go to a mirror and look at yourself, And see what THAT man has to say.
For it isn't your father or mother or wife, whose judgment upon you must pass, The fellow whose verdict counts most your life,
Is the one staring back from the glass. Some people might think you're a straight-shootin chum.
And call you a wonderful guy.
But the man in glass says you're only a bum...If you can't look
him straight in the eye. He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest, For he's with you clear to the end, And you've passed your
most dangerous test...If the guy
in the glass is your friend.
You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years...
And get pats on the back as you pass. But your final reward will
be heartache and tears...
IF you've cheated the man in the glass!!!"
Dad had cut this out more than a
year ago.
luv,
Mimi
Hector Aleman Jr
May 15, 2008
Dad yesterday we your children celebrated your Birthday in a multitude of ways. Some visited your grave site, others shared memories of many birthdays celebrated together. Deep emotions arose of wonderful times shared together. Dad we miss you and love you.
Your Son Hector Jr.
Janelle Aleman
May 15, 2008
Lord be near the rest of the days of my life.
The baby of the family,
Your daughter,
Janelle Aleman
Happy Birthday Dad, love your kids (photo May 14 2007 age 78)
May 14, 2008
Minette Aleman
April 6, 2008
Today is the 3rd Anniversary of our father's passing. Its even a Sunday. I feel the following MESSAGE is appropriate for all of us to know. While on a trip to Oregon to clean up some loose ends; I was in a friends basement cleaning up papers in my boxes etc. I came across a photo 5 X 7 of Dad, the one with stars and planets in background. Well, anyway, out from a box a 3 X 5 index card falls and gets caught right on top of Dad's photo. It was lodged there as if it had a MESSAGE to share. Like a book falling from a shelf and hitting me on the head. I remembered the index card I had written on. It was from a spiritual workshop I had taken. Here is the message: "IF THERE IS ANYONE OR ANYTHING THAT HAS HURT ME IN THE PAST, KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY I FORGIVE AND RELEASE IT...IF I HAVE HURT ANYONE OR ANYTHING IN THE PAST KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY I FORGIVE AND RELEASE IT ASKING FOR THE HIGHEST GOOD OF OTHERS AND MYSELF."
I believe strongly this is in line with my Dad's values and that he would agree with this message. Luv, Minette aka mimi
Marcy Casas
February 23, 2008
Hello, my name is Marcy Casas. I used to live on the corner of Cedar and Claudia St. (237). My grandmother knew cila and hector for a long time.
I am so sorry to hear this news. I really wish I could of gone to the services. I hope that everyone is okay. How is cila doing? please let me know. I wish for peace and tranquility for all his family.
We have lost a very special person, but we have gained one more Angel to watch over us all. Hector is now in peace in God's Home, happy and sure to the end. And when it is our time to go, he will welcome us with arm's wide open and a smile. May God Bless you all!!!
Hector L. Aleman Jr.
February 6, 2008
I write this note one month after my Father's death.
To all those who have expressed condolences to our family, Thank you for your love and concern. It brings us warmth and comfort to hear from you during this difficult time of loss.
This website will remain open for one year in memory of Hector L. Aleman Sr. Family, relatives, and friends are welcome to express their thoughts, feelings, and recollections as they wish.
"Dad we miss you and love you," from Hector Jr., Janet,Naomi and Cy Aleman.
Jonathan Linneman
January 16, 2008
To my dearest fried Mimi and all of her family and loved ones.
I knew Hector as a man who was well liked and respected. I liked him a lot even though I didn't really know him. We only met a few times, but for those time I admired and respected him and I know now that he is in a good place with those who loved him and is not suffering anymore. He is at peace. There is no death at all. I am sure that he is in a heavenly place and is witnessing his perfection with the almighty. Send him into the light and know that he has gone home into the light and to his true source of being with God.
Love always Jonathan
Naomi Aleman
January 14, 2008
First of all I know that grandpa is in a very beautiful, loving, and peaceful place now, admiring all of the wonderful people who loved him so dearly. I burst into tears after seeing that gorgeous photo of him and I at Crater Lake. Crater lake is so surreal it almost looks fake. It reminds me of Hawaii. Then there is our two cute faces and I can just hear grandpa say after squeezing my cheeks. Oh my (magosha) spelling is I'm sure wrong and I'm not sure what it really means but I know it was loving and always made me feel good. Thank you for honoring me with such a touching and loving photo and of course beautiful memory. The hardest part about living in Hawaii is being so far away from family and missing all of you so much. Photos are like gold to me. I love you all so much and wish that I could be a part of your lives more. Until then much love, hugs, kisses and ALOHA!!!!! Naomi
anna lopez
January 11, 2008
Sorry For your lost Suzy.
Dana and Duane Anderson
January 10, 2008
Hello, dear family. We are sending our thoughts and prayers to you all. We know how much you will miss Hector, Sr. May your fond and happy memories of him help sustain you and give you peace. Our love to you all.
Gloria Elizondo
January 9, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Elizabeth Hebert
January 9, 2008
I am very sorry for the loss of your father. He was a very good man. I have many fond memories of him. He could always make me laugh. I will pray for your family.
Liz Prince
January 9, 2008
Aleman Family,
Please know that we are praying for you and your family during this time, in the loss of your father.
"Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever." Psalm 23:6
Deepest Sympathy,
Brooks Development Authority
Phil Fernandez
January 9, 2008
Rest in Peace
Really enjoyed working with you at Kelly A.F.B.
Mary Helen & Joe Mansbach
January 9, 2008
Heavenly Father, We praise, worship, honor, and love you.
Lord, as you accept Hector Aleman and wrap your loving arms around him and welcome him to your kingdom, comfort the Aleman Family in their time of need. Give them strength, understanding, love, hope, and faith. Fill their hearts and minds with wonderful loving memories of their Dad, Grandfather, Brother. As Hector is dancing and singing in Heaven, let them know that he is watching over them. Let his loved ones know how much he loves them and that he will be waiting for them when the time comes.
I thank you Lord, for placing Hector in my life. Keep Hector forever in our hearts Lord.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Minette Aleman
January 9, 2008
Thank You for remembering our father Hector Lizandro Aleman. He was a very warm,loving and kind person. He had a tremendous sense of humor, towards the end of his life his favorite word was 'rascal', and at times, it described him. He is a tremendous loss for us, but we wish only to celebrate his great life.
Hector with very dear and oldest grandchild Naomi in Oregon
January 9, 2008
Sister Janette Hernandez
January 9, 2008
Laura,
My sincere condolences at the death of your dad; I know that God will give you the strength that you will need to grieve him though it will not be easy. Count on my prayers and carino,
your amiga,
Sr. Janette Hernandez,MCDP
Laura Salinas
January 9, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Rosario Solis
January 9, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Suzy Salazar
January 9, 2008
I Love You, Daddy.
I will always remember how brave you were these last five months
and how much you endured through this illness. I'll always miss you.
You gave me and my family so much love and so many happy memories.
Joey LeBlanc
January 9, 2008
MAY HE REST IN PEACE.WERE SO HONORED TO TAKE CARE OF MR. ALEMAN WHILE HE WAS WITH US AT LIFECARE,HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL. LIFECARE LAB DEPT.
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