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HELEN KLEBERG GROVES

1927 - 2022

HELEN KLEBERG GROVES obituary, 1927-2022, San Antonio, TX

BORN

1927

DIED

2022

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Porter Loring Mortuary McCullough

1101 McCullough Ave.

San Antonio, Texas

HELEN GROVES Obituary

Helen Kleberg Groves passed away peacefully at home in San Antonio, Texas on Friday, May 6, 2022. She was born 94 years prior in the same city on October 20, 1927, the only child of Robert Justus Kleberg, Jr. and Helen Campbell Kleberg.

Raised on the King Ranch, "Helenita" went on to graduate from Foxcroft School in Middleburg, Virginia and attended Vassar College. From there she began her long, fascinating, and varied life. She had many passions in life, but ranching, fine horses, and family were central. Her abiding love of the Ranch, its land, livestock, and the people who worked there, formed the foundation for all she did. She was a crack shot with her Colt pistol, often bettering the men around her and continued to be a keen and accurate dove and quail hunter into her nineties.

Helenita ranched her entire life, from overseeing King Ranch's Buck and Doe Run Valley Farms in Chester County, Pennsylvania, to her own Silverbrook Farms in Staunton, Virginia, to Silverbrook Ranches in Texas, she focused on raising the best Santa Gertrudis cattle and Quarter Horses in the country. She campaigned many champion cutting horses including Miss Peppy Also and Pay 21. She was a skilled rider and loved competing across the country, winning many championship buckles and collecting limitless friends along the way. Known as the "First Lady of Cutting," she was inducted into the Cowgirl Hall of Fame in 1998.

Thoroughbreds were also a lifelong passion for Helenita. She led King Ranch's Assault into the winners circle after his 1946 Triple Crown victory, and went on to breed, own, and race numerous horses in her rust and lavender silks throughout her long life. She co-bred and owned the champion filly Althea, who won the Arkansas Derby, as well as numerous other Grade I winners such as Serape, Free Drop Billy, and Hawkbill, among others. Later in life, she could be found in Saratoga Springs, New York in August, enjoying the races and regaling all around her with her tales from decades past. She loved horses and the people she encountered around them.

A lifelong learner, interested in numerous subjects including history, politics, the arts, and the sciences, Helenita was a voracious reader with a steely memory. She thoroughly enjoyed lunching with many of the prominent scientists from the institutions she supported, continuously expanding her broad intellect. She also was devoted to her strong corps of "Monday Night Ladies," who are known to be the catalysts for much of the important charitable and political work done in San Antonio.

Helenita was an extraordinary philanthropist, who took her service very seriously. She served as President of the Robert J. and Helen C. Kleberg Foundation until 2020 and continued on the board until her death. Additionally, she has served on the boards of educational institutions as well as the National Sporting Library and Museum, in Middleburg, Virginia.

Her knowledge and acumen as a rancher, horsewoman, and cattle raiser made her an indispensable member and leader on many boards including the Texas and Southwestern Cattle Raisers Association, the National Cutting Horse Association, the US Equestrian Team, and, of course, her beloved King Ranch, where she served as a Director from 1956-1988, and where her influence was felt for the remainder of her life.

Helenita's contributions were recognized by more institutions and organizations than can be printed succinctly here. She left a mark wherever she went. Full of curiosity, she always put her fullest effort into every day of her life and engaged many fine friends along the way.

Predeceased by her ex-husband, Dr. John Deaver Alexander, and her second husband, Lloyd L. Groves, Helenita is survived by her six children, all of whom gave her great pride: Helen C. Alexander, Emory A. Hamilton (Fred), John D. Alexander (Claire), Caroline A. Forgason, Henrietta K. Alexander, and Dorothy A. Matz (Michael). She is also survived by her grandchildren, Deaver, Cadell, and Robert "Berto" Alexander, Helen H. Cottingham (Charlie), James Forgason, Laird George, and Alex, Lucy, Robert, and Arthur Matz.

A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, May 17, 2022 at 11AM at First Presbyterian Church, 404 North Alamo Street, San Antonio, Texas, with the Rev. Dr. Bob Fuller officiating. The interment will be private.

Honorary pallbearers will be Deaver, Cadell, and Berto Alexander, Helen Cottingham, James Forgason, Laird George, Alex, Lucy, Robert and Arthur Matz.

The family would also like to recognize the extraordinary care her caregivers provided late in her life, especially Araceli Sutherland, Flor Smith, Dominique Palomo, Julieta Chavez, Ana Cardoza, Stephanie Sutherland, Jessie Gutierrez, and Karel Hoffman. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The King High Historical Foundation, The National Sporting Library and Museum, or any of the numerous charities Helenita supported throughout her life.

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Published by Express-News on May 10, 2022.

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Gae Lyn Jacobs Anderson

December 8, 2024

Sorry for your loss. My mother worked for her in the 1950s. Mrs Groves, Alexander then, treated us all with great respect and kindness while my mother was in her employment. The family was lovely, kind, and very down-to-earth. I was just a "youngster" then, but we loved going to the King Ranch every chance we had. My sincere condolences to the family.
Kindest regards
Gae Lyn Jacobs Anderson

Sarah French, Texas Public Policy Foundation

May 20, 2022

Helen was an incredible woman who touched countless lives. Her grit and indomitable spirit were inspiring. I was fortunate to get to know her - she will be missed!

Julieta Chavez

May 17, 2022

Sorry for your loss, you have my deepest condolences. Your Mother was a very strong woman. Mrs Helen you will be si missed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart that I was one if your caregiver.

Susan Combs

May 16, 2022

Helenita was a true Texas woman...full of wit, fire, humor, and tenacity. She challenged all who knew her to just try to keep up! She will be sorely missed.

Texas A&M University-Kingsville

May 16, 2022

Our condolences, from the Office of the President and Texas A&M-Kingsville Foundation

Betty Wills

May 16, 2022

Betty Wills

May 16, 2022

Betty Wills

May 16, 2022

To all of Helen's family and beloved friends, my deepest sympathies. Helen was my friend and mentor dating back to the 1970s.

Betty Wills

May 16, 2022

The memories I've made with Helen are eternal. There are so many of them, beginning in the late 70s forward. We hauled together, worked-out together at the YMCA, and we did whatever we could to help each other. She bought 8k acres at the end of Road End Ranch, just a few miles South of the ranch (Wills Ranch, formerly Circle W Ranch) my late husband (Connie Wills) and I built on Hwy 377 S, and raised our 2 daughters and their children. Helen was my mentor, my friend, and someone whose memory I will cherish forever. My sincerest condolences to her family and the many beloved friends she made over the years. Rest in peace, my dear friend. You will be greatly missed.

Carla & Mac Northington

May 11, 2022

We send our deepest sympathy to you. What an amazing life and woman! We are blessed to have known Helen all these years. May God comfort you with His promises and presence in these days. Love, Carla & Mac Northington

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