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Jane Keller

1933 - 2014

Jane Keller obituary, 1933-2014, La Jolla, CA

BORN

1933

DIED

2014

FUNERAL HOME

Porter Loring Mortuary McCullough

1101 McCullough Ave.

San Antonio, Texas

Jane Keller Obituary

January 19, 1933 - November 28, 2014
Artist and teacher, Jane Keller brought humor, exuberance and her sense of connectedness to every encounter. In her disarming way she charmed others through her creativity, communication, and feeling of kinship with all kinds of people; bringing others together in unexpected ways. Her touch lightened the world with laughter and joy and her irrepressible courage to be an individual.

Born in 1933 in San Antonio, Texas to Adalee McNeel and Jess McNeel, the middle of three daughters and a member of the Maverick family, her template was a land of cousins. When her grandmother was running a soup-kitchen/boarding house during the Great Depression, a man entered the house threatening with a gun. Recognizing his hunger Jane's granny disarmed him with a hot meal - while Jane and her sister watched cowering from the pantry, learning a formative lesson in compassion.

In 1952 Jane Maverick McNeel and Carl Albert Keller, a veterinary medical student, were married, followed by a three-month honeymoon on Martin Mountain lookout tower in the Rockies, watching for forest fires for the US Forest Service. "There was no doctor, no supermarket, nobody to complain to," she said. She credited this unusual honeymoon at 19 and her childhood experiences in the war, with helping her understand the power to turn the difficulties life throws our way, into "compost" for what can be life's garden.

She was later to formalize this attitude as a casual student of Eastern philosophy and as a sponsor of many speakers she convinced to come to San Antonio, among whom were Dr. Victor Frankel and Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche. She was also guide and host to National Geographic photographer David Hiser for the 1976 issue featuring San Antonio.

After a divorce in 1960, she had returned to San Antonio, where she began to find and adopt "cousins" during the '70s and to extend her concept of family to the human family. She embodied an ecumenical spirit as a well-loved member of the congregation at University Presbyterian Church, San Antonio.

Throughout her adult life she taught art and art therapy and got her degree in Art/Philosophy at the University of Incarnate Word and graduate studies in counseling and guidance at St. Mary's University in San Antonio. She received awards for her work with special needs children.

As a young mother she had recruited family and friends to make comedic audiotapes she sent to American soldiers in Korea, which were so appreciated that they were transmitted over the loudspeaker in the mess halls. Her habit of communicating with soldiers continued through all American engagements since, and expanded to letters to prisoners on death row in more recent years.

Jane said she really started living when she was able to follow her own heart's desire, working as an art therapist and later when she retired and was able to travel. Traveling opened her eyes to the world and to people she met around the globe.

In the 1980s Jane began sharing her time between Texas and California. She painted the California life with wry social comment, made photo collages, and produced an enormous mural for a local San Diego school and collages for local churches in California, all while continuing to teach art to elementary and junior school children.

In California she was an enthusiastic long time member of the La Jolla Play Readers Group. Although she loved California and was actively involved in local social life and church at Torrey Pines Christian Church in California, she spoke of her wish to return to Texas roots eventually. Her dramatically failing health prevented travel and any such return, however.

She was involved in many philanthropic efforts among which in San Antonio were The University Presbyterian Church's SOL Center, where she was a founder, and Sunshine Cottage. She was an admirer and angel to the Pacific Coast Harmony men's choir in San Diego who in her later years were a great joy to her. She supported charities for the blind including the Helen Keller National Center, whose local chapter asked her to teach art when she became blind.

Jane struggled with despair when she started to go blind in 2008, and lived in complete darkness from 2011 until her death in 2014. Her life's training in making compost of hardships led her to the realization that her blindness was actually her enlightenment. She shared this extraordinary insight with her family and closest friends and truly lived as a sage in recent years. Her quickness to show humor, love, compassion and forgiveness even in the grip of a terrible cancer continues to be an inspiration. In the last year of her life she often said, "I am the luckiest woman in the world."

Jane died peacefully at home on November 28, 2014, with her two children at her side. She is preceded in death by her parents; her sisters, Noel McNeel Gordon, and Rowena McNeel Dillon; her nephews, Jess Gordon and Nicholas Gordon. Jane is survived by her daughter, Katie; son, Jim; grandson, Sean; step grandson, Theodore Watson; step granddaughter, Beatie Wolfe; nieces, Laura Georgakakos and Rena Cruz; nephews, Reilly Dillon and Toby Gordon; and a world full of "cousins" whose lives she touched. She is sorely missed.

She will lie in state on Sunday, December 14, 2014 from 8:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. with family receiving friends from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Porter Loring on McCullough Ave.

MEMORIAL CEREMONY
MONDAY
DECEMBER 15, 2014
10:30 A.M.
UNIVERSITY PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH
300 BUSHNELL AVENUE
SAN ANTONIO, TX 78212

FOLLOWED BY A PROCESSION
TO SAN JOSE BURIAL PARK FOR:

GRAVESIDE SERVICE
MONDAY
DECEMBER 15, 2014
12:15 P.M.
SAN JOSE BURIAL PARK
8235 MISSION ROAD
SAN ANTONIO, TX 78214

SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA SERVICES:

MEMORIAL SERVICE
SUNDAY
DECEMBER 21, 2014
2:00 P.M.
TORREY PINES CHRISTIAN CHURCH
8320 LA JOLLA SCENIC DR. N
LA JOLLA, CA 92037

Flowers are welcome, donations are welcome or memorial contributions may be made to Helen Keller National Center or The Sunshine Cottage in San Antonio.

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The guestbook at
www.porterloring.com
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Published by San Antonio Express-News from Dec. 7 to Dec. 12, 2014.

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Susan Shmalo

December 22, 2014

Jane was our sweet ,caring neighbor.Jane made our world a happier ,better place. The memorial service was inspiring and beautiful,and we were deeply moved by the music and touching program. It was an honor to have known Jane. May Jane's good name forever be a blessing . To Jane's beloved son Jim,and daughter Katie,grandson Sean,and all her other loving relatives,and friends ,and devoted care givers ,I extend my sincere condolences.

Gene Carswell

December 22, 2014

What an incredible lady. I am overwhelmed by the selflessness that she possessed . She gave to everyone and epitomized the ability to coalesce moments and bring clarity, comfort and meaning to other peoples lives, young and old alike... God we need more people like her in this world. When her suffering was the greatest her spirit seemed to grow, waiting for another moment of life to appreciate all that it gave. She will be missed! " Attitude is a little thing that means a lot"

Joyce Hendler

December 20, 2014

I called her our very own bodhisattva. There are very few people in this world who can cast such a joyous glow on life. Jane's paintings always made me happy, and because many portrayed La Jolla, I could see my town through the brilliance of her colors. And her books ..her ranblings through the psyche...always right on...always personal...and fun. How much dimmer our world now is without Jane McNeel Keller here.

December 14, 2014

I had the privilege of helping Jane find the comfort shoes she loved(including Birkenstocks).Her "Moses Wore Birkies" hung on the front wall for many years giving a chuckle and a smile to all who came in. Jane kindly and generously gave the store(was located in La Jolla)cards with prints of her "La Jolla Maiden" gouache and "California Eden". In the 20 years I sold shoes at the store I loved rewarding certain customers with a print when I thought they might appreciate her humor and talent. I always thought she was a special human being. I am sorry about her illness and send my condolences. I am grateful I still have several cards and was given the "Moses" picture by the last owner of the store because she knew it meant a lot to me. I enjoyed learning about her lfe from the wonderful obituary. Sincerely Jane Cohen.

annie horne

December 14, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

December 12, 2014

A beautiful write-up on your mom, Katie. She sounds like a splendid woman and a life well-lived. I wish I had known her.

Blessings,
Linda Shirer

December 7, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort during this time.

Terry Gay Puckett

December 7, 2014

Jane was a extra special person. her bright spirit will be missed.

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6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Porter Loring Mortuary McCullough

1101 McCullough Ave., San Antonio, TX 78212

Dec

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Lying in State

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1101 McCullough Ave., San Antonio, TX 78212

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Memorial service

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Torrey Pines Christian Church

8320 La Jolla Scenic Dr. N., La Jolla, CA

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