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BK Kirkpatrick
May 10, 2019

Father John Birthday with Bruce Hathaway
BK Kirkpatrick
May 10, 2019
BK Kirkpatrick...Always a joyous occasion to celebrate Father John's birthday May 27th with a dinner at my home in San Antonio. Earlier birthday's were celebrated with 40 or so of John's friends from Big John Hamilton days and as years went by the party got smaller and John said he liked the small dinners so he could visit with everyone. His kindness and prayers were important to all who knew him and his energy was boundless. He will be missed on this earth and we will have a great reunion in Heaven with him.
Maria Aurora Cuellar
April 13, 2019
Dearest Father Wagner, I give thanks to God for the many years with
You in our lives. I met you through Charles when you were chaplain of
The Newman Club at San Antonio College. We had many blessed and
Happy times when you and Charles were with the Bishop's committee and you sent Charles to D.C. As the years quickly went by, and we went in different directions, we never lost sight of you or you of us. We were grateful you assisted at our 50th Wedding Anniversary and Charles' funeral five years ago. I will cherish your letter to me when you moved to your last home. I always looked forward to your letters every Christmas. I trust you and Charles are enjoying your eternal homes. I love you always.
Maria Aurora Cuellar
Widow of Charles S. Cuellar
February 21, 2019
Father Wagner was our parish priest. He married my husband and I. Baptized our first child and helped my mother and my family through a difficult time when my father passed away suddenly. He was a very compasinate man. He served many well. Rest In Peace.
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Joel Allen
February 12, 2019
Lidia and I started to know Father Wagner when he officiated our
marriage at St. Joseph's (downtown San Antonio) in 1977. I was not Catholic but Father Wagner made me and my family feel very welcome and the marriage mass started a relationship that lasted ever since. he was a kind and humble man; did not talk about his past accomplishments (which were many) but concentrated on the present and who he could help going forward. He spent his life dedicated to the service of the needy and less fortunate and I know of no better example of a Christian life well lived. Rest in peace Father John; you will be missed.
Joel Allen
February 12, 2019
Father Wagner was the Hernández family priest for 50 years and
when I married Lidia Hernández in 1977 he officiated. I was not a Catholic but he made me and my family feel welcome and held a joyous marriage mass ceremony that touched my family, Lidia and myself in a very profound way. Thus Lidia and I have stayed friends with Father John and have kept in touch with him ever since. He was a kind and humble man, did not talk much about his past accomplishments (which were many) but concentrated on moving forward and on who he could help in the present. He lived his very full life that way and dedicated it to the service of those who needed help the most. I can't think of a better example of a Christian life well lived; may you rest in peace Father John; you touched many lives and will be missed by many people.
Isabel Hernandez
February 12, 2019
You are safely Home in the land of Jesus. You will be greatly missed!
Anna Hernandez
February 11, 2019
In memory of Msgr. John A Wagner. May your spirit shine brightly each day in the lives of all the individuals that have known you.
WILLIAM LAWLOR
February 5, 2019
THE STATE OF TEXAS HAS LOST A GREAT MAN
thomas dalton
February 4, 2019
A man of great character and compassion that never lost faith in the vows he took as an ordained Roman Catholic priest. He lived his life like a man walking in the steps of Christ himself, and it made no difference whether a person shared his Roman Catholic faith or not. He often listened more than he spoke, and he never tended to judge anybody according to his standards. But he had a spiritually about him that I can't explain, but I know others felt it too. I'm so sorry he had to leave us, and he will be missed by many that were fortunate enough to have known him. As a friend once mentioned, "He was probably the most loved priest he ever knew." I agree with my friend 100%.
Francisco Gonima
February 4, 2019
Wow, so sad to hear of the passing of Msgr. John Wagner. He always embodied the Catholic faith at its best and in a very relatable and human way. When I married the first time, he officiated. When that marriage ended, he was my spiritual director through putting my heart and my faith back together. The man who baptized both of my kids, the Christ that he shared with me and all of us who were blessed to know his ministry was one of love, kindness, joy and forgiveness. The profound faith journey that I live now in my middle years exists for me in no small part thanks to Father Wagner's influence in my life. Even his stories of police chaplaincy have been an inspiration to me as I think of my executive coaching work as a form of vocational chaplaincy. I have pondered the question, what would Father Wagner say?' more times than I can count. John Wagner was a living saint, a bodhisattva, an enlightened master walking among us. His presence was a balm, his scratchy laugh and hmm sounds a beloved accompaniment to the sage wisdom he dispensed freely.As we reflect on his lifelong example of Grace in action and give thanks for the love he shared with us, I count my blessings that Maureen Strauss Gonima, Erin Strauss and the whole Strauss tribe brought Fr. Wagner into our lives. I will forever remember him as one of the most important spiritual teachers I was ever blessed to learn from. At the moment I thought myself furthest from God's Grace, Fr. John showed me that I had never been closer. Que Dios te Bendiga y que en paz descanses.
GUTIERREZ EDWARD
February 3, 2019
He was the football coach for the 8th grade team at St. Anthony DePauda in 1959 .
February 3, 2019
I was honored to know, love and respect Msgr. Wagner most of my life. I got to know him as one of his Altar Boys in 1969 or 1970 when he moved from Nixon to Holy Family. I helped him move his furniture to San Antonio and he would often take me to his farm in Nixon for BBQ's and gatherings with his old friends from there. He was a humble man that set an example for us on how to live and live in the way of the Lord. I had no idea about his work with Civil Rights and the Bracero program, although that was life changing work for millions of people, he never discussed it. My Mom would bake Christmas cookies for him and she delivered to him at outlying parishes until she stopped baking later in her life. When she passed, we looked him up at Casa de Padres and he graciously agreed to Celebrate her funeral Mass. Thank you Father Wagner, well done, Faithful and humble Servant of God.
Oscar Rodriguez
San Antonio, Texas
David Archer
February 3, 2019
One of the great ones! A man and priest of great simplicity and simple holiness! In the few times I was at Mass with him his joy for the faith was very noticeable. Thanks be for this great priest! Rest in the Lord's Peace and Glory!
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