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Marion Primomo Obituary

PRIMOMO
Marion Pohlen Primomo, M.D.
May 15, 1920-
March 1, 2014

Surrounded by each of her four children, one of the great women pioneers in the field of medicine and the Mother of Hospice in Texas, died at the age of 93 on March 1, 2014. Born in Stolberg, Germany, Dr. Primomo came to the United States in 1926 with her parents to live in Wisconsin with her uncle, the Rev. John J. Pohlen, O.M.I., a major influence in her life. She and her parents moved to Texas in 1930 where she graduated from Our Lady of the Lake High School at the age of 16 and Our Lady of the Lake University, summa cum laude, at the age of 20. Despite her exceptional grades, a bias towards male applicants hindered her entrance into medical school. With the help of her uncle, Dr. Primomo entered the Loyola School of Medicine in Chicago in January 1944. She was one of five women to earn an M.D. degree in 1947 from Loyola. Following graduation, she married a classmate, Dr. John S. Primomo, and together they completed post-graduate training in Chicago. In 1948, the Primomos began the practice of medicine in San Antonio, "Dr. John" in surgery, and "Dr. Marion" in family practice. An urgent need for physicians took them to Pearsall, Texas in 1949 and the following year to Dilley where the community financed and built a 13-bed hospital for their new doctors. Because of the support and respect of the Dilley community, the hospital grew to 64 beds and was accredited by the Joint Commission on Hospital Accreditation. "Dr. John" and "Dr. Marion" spent many happy years in the Dilley-Pearsall-Cotulla community with their four children Janine, Adele, Johnny and Michelle. They often journeyed to Vienna, Austria for post-graduate work in surgery and psychiatry. In 1978, Dr. Primomo, together with the sisters of St. Benedict's Hospital headed by Sr. Mary Sapp of San Antonio, established the first Hospice in Texas. After her years as Medical Director at St. Benedict's, Dr. Primomo served as Medical Director for Hospice San Antonio, Santa Rosa Hospice, Family Hospice, and Hospice Homecare. She taught as a clinical professor in the Department of Family and Community Medicine at the University of Texas Health Science Center and as such became the first teacher of Palliative Medicine in 2000. Her love for Medicine, Hospice, and Palliative Medicine was her passion well into her retirement years. Through Hospice and Palliative Medicine, Dr. Primomo's care and compassion for the terminally ill made their final weeks and days more peaceful and comfortable. She managed their pain while allowing them to remain mentally alert and able to communicate with their families about their fears, guilt and anxieties. Dr. Primomo encouraged honesty that fostered individual and family spiritual growth which often only became possible as death approached. Accolades from the families she served have been numerous and profound. The highest compliments have come from those who knew and worked with her. Dr. Primomo was a member of the American Medical Association, the Texas Medical Association, and the Bexar County Medical Society. She was a Founding Member of the Academy of Hospice Physicians, later known as the Academy of Hospice and Palliative Medicine and the International Association of Hospice and Palliative Medicine. She was a recipient of many honors in her lifetime and was awarded an Americanism Medal by the Daughters of the American Revolution. In 2006, she was recognized as an "Outstanding American By Choice" by Dr. Emilio Gonzalez, Director of the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services. Her selection for these honors as an immigrant to the United States was a source of great pride for Dr. Primomo and her family. She loved her patients and her students and always felt grateful for having lived a long and fulfilled life. Most of all, Dr. Primomo deeply loved her family. She is predeceased by her parents, William and Katharine Pohlen, her brother, John Vianney Pohlen, and Dr. John S. Primomo. She is survived by her children Janine Primomo, Adele Barnett, Judge John W. Primomo and wife Marilyn, and Michelle Damvar and husband Khalil; grandchildren Angela Gifford and husband James, Dr. John A. Primomo and wife Brooke, Gina Kothe-Gibson and husband Robert, Jason Barnett, Meredith Primomo, Lena Damvar, Miriam Damvar, Mallory Baird and husband Michael, and Brittany Damvar; and six great grandchildren.

MEMORIAL SERVICE
MONDAY, MARCH 10, 2014
1:00 P.M.
MOTHERHOUSE CHAPEL OF THE INCARNATE WORD
UNIVERSITY OF THE INCARNATE WORD CAMPUS
A reception will follow the service at the nearby CHRISTUS Heritage Room.

In lieu of flowers, gifts to support palliative care efforts may be made online at http://makelivesbetter.uthscsa.edu/primomo or by mail to UTHSCSA, In Memory of Dr. Marion Primomo, 7703 Floyd Curl-Mail Code 7835, San Antonio, TX 78229-3900.

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Published by San Antonio Express-News from Mar. 6 to Mar. 7, 2014.

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Marsha Allee

March 17, 2014

As the years go by, I realize more and more what a blessing the whole Primomo family was to the community of Dilley. Dr. Marion and Dr. John ran a wonderful medical facility where we all knew we could get the best of care. Your Mother was so enlightened, so professional, and so caring of all of us. Taking care of all of Dilley, I am sure took your parents away much of the time from you as you were growing up. But, I remember you four as happy, fun, intelligent kids--so talented. You are your Mom's greatest accomplishment, and that says alot becauase she accomplished so much in the medical field, in civic, humanitarian, and church endeavors--so dedicated to improving the human condition wherever God planted her.
God bless you Janine, Adele, Johnny, and Michelle and all of your wonderful family members. Your Mom will always be with you. Sincerely, Marsha Vine Allee

Sheila Pakebusch

March 15, 2014

Dr. Primomo was an inspiration to me as a small child in Dilly to an adult dealing with hospice family members. Her legacy in this world will always be remembered and the love she gave everyone. She was a straight shooting Angel here and always doing God's work. It was a blessing to have known her. My prayers & thoughts to her family and friends at this difficult time. With Deepest Sympathy
Sheila Pakebusch

Toni Cantu

March 10, 2014

My sisters, Elizabeth Newman Martinez, Laura Newman Garcia, and Andrea Newman-Caro all had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Marion at a reunion in Dilley. Dr. Marion was my mother, Betty Newman's, doctor and brought three of the four of us girls into the world. Our family always had a lot of love and respect for both Dr. Marion and Dr. John. God bless all.

Toni Newman Cantu

George Newman

March 10, 2014

We remember Dr. Marion and Dr. John very well. Dr. Marion delivered three of our four daughters in Dilley.

George and Betty Newman

Mary Gonzales Quiroz

March 10, 2014

The children of Roman and Lupe Gonzales from Dilley express their deepest sympathy on your mom's death. Both our parents worked for Drs. Marion and John and always thought the world of them. Dr Marion was such a great lady and humanitarian. She will be missed. God has another angel in heaven! God bless each and everyone of the children.

March 10, 2014

Dear Primomo family,
Thinking of all of you on this difficult day. I feel so blessed to have met her. She was an extraordinary woman who's accomplishments will be long remembered.
Fran and Mary Rera
Bflo. NY

Janet Realini

March 10, 2014

Condolences to the family of an amazing woman and physician. Marion was a true blessing in my life and career--and an example of excellence in family medicine. I am grateful for her kindness, her generosity, and her devotion to the people she cared for.

March 9, 2014

my condolences to Janice,Adel,John and michelle. I remember her from Dilley. Always at mass on Sundays.

Frank Diaz

March 8, 2014

My condolences and prayers to her family. The residents of Dilley will always remember Dr. Primomo as someone very special. Father Luis when back visiting, never failed to ask How are the Primomos doing.

Christine Primomo

March 7, 2014

Dear Texas Cousins,
What an amazing life and remarkable legacy. Our thoughts are with all of you and we are sorry we cannot attend Aunt Marion's Memorial Service. I know it will be a celebration of an incredible woman, physician and mother. I will always remember her remarks at my Mother's funeral service. She quoted Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis - “If you bungle raising your children, I don't think whatever else you do matters very much.” She said my mother had not bungled it.. and neither did Marion Primomo.
Love to all Christine Primomo

Pam Loring Rohlfs

March 7, 2014

What a special lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Eileen Neukranz

March 6, 2014

Because of Dr. Primomo, I became a Hospice nurse, the best job in the world. Thank you, Dr. Primomo. R.I.P.

March 6, 2014

To the Family of Primomo,
my greatest and sympathy Dra. Primomo is the greatest women. She will be dearly Missed. My condolences and prayers to her family,

Chris Powao -San Antonio, Texas

Kate Carpentier

March 6, 2014

Dr Primomo was the most giving compassionate person one could know. Her ability to teach without making you feel less than was incredible. Our world is better- and the Hospice care in San Antonio IS because of her efforts and unrelenting work. She lit my hospice heart many years ago and I am forever grateful. Loving sympathy to her family.

Leonila Gonzalez

March 6, 2014

To the Primomo Family: My deepest and heartfelt condolences to all of you. I worked with Dr. Marion (and Dr. John) in the Wintergarten Medical Center in Dilley back in the late 60's. They were such wonderful doctors who were always concerned about their patients' health. God bless.

Dr. Denise Miner-Williams

March 6, 2014

What an absolutely wonderful person she was. I am sure she is making God and the angels as happy as she did people here! She was so kind to me - and such a pleasure. My condolences to her family.

mote baird

March 6, 2014

Dr. Primomo did much to develop Hospice Care, one the most compassionate programs in medicine. Thank you Dr. Primomo for your pioneering efforts to bring great comfort to so many families.

March 6, 2014

Hello Primomo Family, so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She lived a long and fruitful life. She certainly took care of family and I many times. Our love and Blessing. Lynda Carroll Sanders

March 6, 2014

It was my dearest memory and honor to be mentored by this incredible woman. She will be greatly missed but her legacy will go on forever. My deepest sympathy to her family. You are all in my prayers.
Christina McClean, RN, MSN

Rosalinda Morales

March 6, 2014

My deepest sympathy to your family on the passing of your mother. I had the honor to work with Dr. Primomo at UTHSC and then again at the University Clinic. She taught me lessons on how to live; to accept responsibility for my part in the good and bad in my life, to be grateful for each day, to live with dignity. How fortunate I was to to have met her! Never will I forget her. And, now I pray that her next journey is joyful.

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