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Ralph Edward Hayles Jr.

1949 - 2025

Ralph Edward Hayles Jr. obituary, 1949-2025, San Antonio, TX

BORN

1949

DIED

2025

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209 North Main Street

Concord, New Hampshire

Ralph Hayles Obituary

Ralph Edward Hayles, Jr.
May 3, 1949 - February 13, 2025
Ralph Edward Hayles, Jr passed away on February 13, 2025 at his home in Dunbarton, New Hampshire. He was born May 3, 1949 in Harlingen, Texas to Ralph Edward Hayles, Sr. and Marion Frances Hayles (nee Simms). Ralph grew up in Corpus Christi, Texas and graduated from Mary Carroll High School and Trinity University (Class of '71), where he played scholarship baseball. He was married to Diana Callaway Hayles and was father to two sons; Clay Hayles of Dunbarton, and Trace Hayles and wife Leah of San Antonio, Texas. He served 20 years in the United States Army, achieving the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. He flew Apache helicopters and commanded tanks and saw active service in the Gulf War. After his military career, he and his family settled in San Antonio Texas, where he was involved in development of telecommunications technology, initially inspired by a deeply-rooted desire to address the issue of friendly fire in combat. In 2021, Ralph and Diana moved to Dunbarton, New Hampshire. He dearly loved golfing, fishing, baseball, his two sons, his wife, his dogs, and most especially his savior Jesus Christ. In addition to his immediate family, he is survived by countless friends and family spread nationwide who remember him as a larger-than-life man of great moral character and conviction. His family is especially grateful for the prayers and support of all their many friends from their time in Texas. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, March 15 at First Presbyterian Church in San Antonio at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to First Presbyterian Church, San Antonio, Texas.

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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Feb. 23, 2025.

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Lynnelle and Johnny Boyd

February 15, 2025

Johnny and I are heartbroken for your loss, Diana. Keeping you, Clay and Trace in our prayers. Lynnelle Boyd

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February 15, 2025

Lieutenant Colonel Hayles, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

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