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Thomas Milton Benson Jr.

1927 - 2018

Thomas Milton Benson Jr. obituary, 1927-2018, New Orleans, LA

Thomas Benson Obituary

1927 - 2018
Thomas Milton Benson, Jr. was born July 12, 1927 In New Orleans, LA. And lived 90 years. He died March 15th, 2018 in New Orleans, LA, after being in ICU at Oshners Medical Center for about a month. We loved him dearly! And he will be forever missed!
His public life has been shared many times over the years:
Navy during WWII
Bookkeeper in New Orleans at Chevrolet dealership Automobile dealer, of many franchises (57 at peak), mostly in San Antonio, TX and New Orleans, LA. Also in Kerrville, Del Rio, and Corpus Christi, TX. Banking in San Antonio, TX. Sports in New Orleans, LA: Saints, VooDoo, and Pelicans.

His private life was a grand adventure, with lots of love and laughter. He truly loved his family, especially all the children! Warmer weekends were for family gatherings by the pool, where he barbecued.
Summers spent on the family ranch were fun for all the visiting family and friends.
Road trips to meetings held much exploring of our national parks and monuments.
In his middle years he enjoyed traveling along the east coast in his yacht, with family and friends joining him. Weekends, holidays, and sports games, always included Catholic mass. He loved hunting, fishing, and playing cards. He was loyal to his family, friends, and employees (as they were to him). However he made sure we each contributed, and carried our own weight. He was proud of each and every one of our accomplishments! He wished for everyone to work hard, and be successful in whatever they chose to do.

Tom Benson was a generous man to many charities, individuals, and especially to his immediate family. All of us are extremely grateful to him, and his foresight.

He could be harsh when he felt crossed or betrayed. Now he knows the truth, how very much we truly loved him!
He was predeceased by:
Father, Thomas Milton Benson, Sr. (1903-1990) Mother, Carmen Pintado Benson (1906-1996) Brother, Jerome Joseph Benson, Sr. (1929-2003) Brother, Agustin Charles Benson, Sr. (1930-1983) Sister-in-law, Carole Nelson Benson (1933-2006) Brother, Larry John Benson, Sr. (1945-1913) First wife, Shirley Landry Benson (1927-1980, married 35 years) Son, Robert "Bob" Carter Benson (1948-1986) Son-in-law, Russell Anthony LeBlanc (1950-2016) Daughter, Jeanne Marie "Tootsie" Benson (1959-1991) Mother-in-law, Jeanne LeBlanc Landry (1902-1989) Sister-in-law, Rosabell Harris (1924-1994) Nephew, Leonard Thomas Benson (1942-2016) Sister-in-law, Annabell Currie (1922-2012) Nephew, Thomas James Currie (1956-1994) Second wife, Grace Trudeau Walker Benson (1927-2003, married 21 years) And many other much loved extended family and friends

He is survived by:
Daughter, Renee Benson Benham, and husband, John Benham. Granddaughter, Rita LeBlanc. Grandson, Ryan LeBlanc, and wife, Tracy LeBlanc. Great granddaughter, Addisyn LeBlanc. Great grandson, Gunner LeBlanc. Granddaughter, Dawn Benson Jones, and husband, Christopher Jones. Great grandson, Seth Jones. Great grandson, Sawyer Jones. Great granddaughter, Sierra Jones. Sister-in-law, Charmaigne Benson. Brother-in-law, E. J. Landry. Step-daughter, Mimi Walker Peake, and husband Martin Peake. Step-daughter, Susan Walker. Step-son Rick Walker. Step-son, Don Walker. Third wife, Gayle LaJaunie Bird Benson (1947-, married 13 years) And many other much loved extended family and friends

Services in San Antonio
Monday, March 26th, 2018
10 am. Memorial Mass
Chapel of the Immaculate Conception. Oblate School of theology 285 Oblate Dr.
Reception immediately following mass Oblate School of Theology, Whitley Center

Everyone who knew him is welcome to come help us celebrate his life! Thank you all for being a part of his life and ours!

Favorite charities:
Oblates of Mary Immaculate
OMI partnership
Catholic Charities

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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Mar. 25, 2018.

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April 19, 2018

I was very happy to read this "real" obituary of the man Tom Benson truly was. (Not one of just another famous person!) Loving father, grandfather, friend and true Christian.

May happy memories rest in your hearts. You, the family, are blessed to have known the real Tom Benson. For many many years!

S G

March 28, 2018

I am so very sorry for your loss. May you all be comforted by dear loving supportive friends along with many good memories and knowing Our Heavenly Father truly cares for your family. 1Pet 5:6,7

True American

March 26, 2018

KAY MARTIN

March 26, 2018

TO THE BENSON FAMILY- PLEASE ACCEPT OUR SINCERE CONDOLENSENCES AND DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR LOSS---THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL FATHER-AND GRANDFATHER WITH ALL OF US IN NEW ORLEANS- WE WILL KEEP HIM AND YOU ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS sincerely KAY MARTIN and THE GREENBAUM FAMILY- life long supporters of the SAINTS and PELICANS

Julie Humphreys Cavalier

March 26, 2018

He certainly loved his family dearly as is enriched in the minds of all of us in NOLA. Reminiscing of days gone by it was evident how proud he was of all Rita's accomplishments with the sports teams. When he talked about Rene and Ryan and the other family members that weee busy with the dealerships he beamed with pride. GOD BLESS you all. He is at peace now and doesn't have to stress over unnecessary things. May GOD grant you all the peace knowing how much he loved and adored all of you. I can still see that grin when he talked about his children. We will never be the same without him and you all. There is a piece of NOLA that left with him and a piece of NOLA that yearns for the Benson family. We will continue to keep you all in our prayers

Sandy and Deborah Anderson

March 25, 2018

Rest in Peace Mr. Benson.

Walter and Nancy Williams

March 25, 2018

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Susan Ehlinger Burrier

March 25, 2018

May He rest in peace! May our prayers bring to all of the family peace of God's love.

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